MichealKin50:
This is the same girl December last year before proposing to her, I asked her if she has cheated on me before. To get the truth from her, I lied to her that I've cheated on her she also told me she has cheated on me. When I finally told her that I was lying about cheating on her that since we met I've never seen another girl she also told me that she was lying too about cheating on me. When I told her to swear with the Holy Bible she refused to swear. I went ahead and proposed to her on 31st December hoping to marry her before end of this year.

MichealKin50:
Honestly I'm confused. This girl never shows any sign of cheating.

No one shows it until they are caught in the act!

Oboy, ur funny. It seems she's doing U a favour by dating U. My friend repolish and repackage urself.

ollypass:

Seems like she takes you for an MU raised to the power 2..who does this kinda childish swear shit? She probably settling with you not that your her preferable though.

shamsin6300:
But for her not to passworded her phone shows there is nothing to hide. I guess her phone got fault & she formatted it. Give her like 3days & still check back again. If u couldn't find anything you can raise up the issue to her if you really see her as someone you wish to settle with.

She could have left her phone open due to she knows all her chats were deleted confront her and she will bring another excuse why she did that. You might be right to because you can't judge without confirmed evidence.

dotedote:
her phone probably is low on storage space.

baba you Don kee me with laugh o. Hahahhahaha

MichealKin50:
She doesn't hide anything from me.

but she's hiding her social media conversation from!

MichealKin50:
This is the same girl December last year before proposing to her, I asked her if she has cheated on me before. To get the truth from her, I lied to her that I've cheated on her she also told me she has cheated on me. When I finally told her that I was lying about cheating on her that since we met I've never seen another girl she also told me that she was lying too about cheating on me. When I told her to swear with the Holy Bible she refused to swear. I went ahead and proposed to her on 31st December hoping to marry her before end of this year.

The two of you fit each other.
You are a perfect match sir.

shamsin6300:
But for her not to passworded her phone shows there is nothing to hide. I guess her phone got fault & she formatted it. Give her like 3days & still check back again. If u couldn't find anything you can raise up the issue to her if you really see her as someone you wish to settle with.

Her phone develop fault and she formatted it? Really? What has formatted phone got to do with Facebook messenger? Every message on messenger is encrypted and can be retrieved on any device so long as you have access to the Internet.

purples25:
Why must you actively DIG to find what she is doing? You didn't see anything on her phone. You are complaining. Why do you seek to satisfy yourself with evidence that she is cheating, she is evil. I know you will search heaven and earth until you find something to satisfy your claims. I don't know why you want to catch someone else so bad. Maybe you just want to be the victim in the relationship, while you really NEED her to be the bad guy in your life. You WANT and NEED to be the ANGEL in your relationship. Nonsense.

I wish my girl will defend me against Nairalanders like this while I'm smashing other babes religiously. Can we be a couple? Purples25, don't leave me hanging. I sent you a DM. I'd like to know someone from the literature section.

The best way to get all her chat has been given by someone earlier. Get her Facebook account password and open it on your phone, immediately you find her active on messenger open her account on your phone and all her will be revealed to you.

jamace:
It is gross indiscipline to spy on any one else's phone.

It is GROSS INDISCIPLINE to cheat. Pray you don't wife a hoe and discover after 20 years that your children belong to someone else !.

Emaprince:
Jeez!!!

This one pass nosy o. This lady literally took it to another level.

I won't even mind if any one (male or female) go through my phone(cos almost all my male and female friends knows my password which is CHELSEA), but recording my convos and asking some one from my tribe to translate will really hurt me deep. Male or female, I will kill the relationship.

She does it every fcking time. This is how she started. If she sends it and I don’t respond fast, she will call on phone- “check your WhatsApp”. Sometimes she will send a VN asking “What is blablabla?”. I will tell her to explain what context it was used in, because her pronunciations are shitty.

It is so bad that even when she hangs out with him and his friends, she will start recording their conversations. The thing about snooping is, once you start, you will always see a reason to keep going back and peace will elude you!

She has many admirers. You are one of them. No doubt, you're topping her "League of Men table" that's why she's at your place most times. Mind you, the person on the second or third position might depose you of your position after the lockdown (I sense it coming. And I guarantee you). Enjoy your number 1 position for last long as the lockdown period last.


P.S. She didn't password her phone because unlocking phone's password every now and then can be stressful and tiring. She cleverly resorted to deleting conversations so that she would be on a safer side.

On the other side, she may just be using those guys on her social media to pass time and catch fun (maybe you're not engaging her well with lively things and she's bored of you). In order for her to catch real fun she went raw and let loose of herself to them (likewise they) in order for the conversations to be fun-filled. She knows you won't be comfortable with her chats or might be upset that's why she deleted them.

phill1759:
The best way to get all her chat has been given by someone earlier. Get her Facebook account password and open it on your phone, immediately you find her active on messenger open her account on your phone and all her will be revealed to you.

baba I don't get something here sir. If she's active and you're also active on her account Wont it interfere or. She won't know?

Her phone isn't passworded (a positive sign) but deletes chats (a negative sign). Take a few days to investigate. Chat her up, then after some days check her chats again.

My advise for you broe: A girl might love you and still have/keep other guys. There is hardly any girl (particularly below 30) that has just one guy in her life. Have this well crested in your mind.

My candid advice for you is to stop checking her phone, if you are still interested in that relationship.

"A word is enough for the wise"

I've told ppo bfor, if u wanna avoid heartache,no go tru their chats,cos remember, una never marry,so des toasters here n der

MichealKin50:
This is the same girl December last year before proposing to her, I asked her if she has cheated on me before. To get the truth from her, I lied to her that I've cheated on her she also told me she has cheated on me. When I finally told her that I was lying about cheating on her that since we met I've never seen another girl she also told me that she was lying too about cheating on me. When I told her to swear with the Holy Bible she refused to swear. I went ahead and proposed to her on 31st December hoping to marry her before end of this year.

mumu

She's a pro,she knowingly left the phone without password because she deletes everything.

laughitall:
mumu

hahahahah why you dey call my guy mumu na.

SenecaTheYonger:


I wish my girl will defend me against Nairalanders like this while I'm smashing other babes religiously. Can we be a couple?

One thing binding a relationship is trust. If one partner is going round, looking deep for faults, then there is no trust. And no trust, no what?

No trust, no relationship. It just isn't real. I used to check phones too but i will never do it now, as i have learned it is invasion of privacy, it is bad. Even God has secrets.

Discombulator:
She's a pro,she knowingly left the phone without password because she deletes everything.

definitely

The foundation of your marriage/union is already built on LIES

MichealKin50:
This is the same girl December last year before proposing to her, I asked her if she has cheated on me before. To get the truth from her, I lied to her that I've cheated on her she also told me she has cheated on me. When I finally told her that I was lying about cheating on her that since we met I've never seen another girl she also told me that she was lying too about cheating on me. When I told her to swear with the Holy Bible she refused to swear. I went ahead and proposed to her on 31st December hoping to marry her before end of this year.

pocohantas:


She does it every fcking time. This is how she started. If she sends it and I don’t respond fast, she will call on phone- “check your WhatsApp”. Sometimes she will send a VN asking “What is blablabla?”. I will tell her to explain what context it was used in, because her pronunciations are shitty.

It is so bad that even when she hangs out with him and his friends, she will start recording their conversations. The thing about snooping is, once you start, you will always see a reason to keep going back and peace will elude you!

OMG she is killing herself.

Be like say she like this dude so much she wouldn't want to entertain any thought of him being with another woman.

She need to calm down. I'm sure her heart will be pounding greatly when your translation comes in.

Op?


You're the one digging your own grave by yourself. Stop checking when there's nothing. He who bought a fire wood infested with ants should also expect the visit of lizard.

Your babe might be doing that to keep your relationship and for security purposes! Perhaps it may be that she's putting her reputation in check cos of some potential blackmail in the future.

It's possible that if things doesn't work out for you both tomorrow, you can easily refer back to your (dirty) chats. Just to rub it on her face and to prove some lame points.


Better leave her alone and allow the sleeping dog lie since she's not cheating on you. Or since there's not evidence of her cheating on you.

Wereey
Trouble dey sleep yanga wan wake am
Wetin concern u with her phone
She already let her phone without password because she knows the mumu in u will be asking her why she dey password
So she kukuma outsmart your mumu ass by deleting her messages

emmnprince:
She has many admirers. You are one of them. No doubt, you're topping her "League of Men table" that's why she's at your place most times. Mind you, the person on the second or third position might depose you of your position after the lockdown (I sense it coming. And I guarantee you). Enjoy your number 1 position for last long as the lockdown period last.


P.S. She didn't password her phone because unlocking phone's password every now and then can be stressful and tiring. She cleverly resorted to deleting conversations so that she would be on a safer side.

On the other side, she may just be using those guys on her social media to pass time and catch fun (maybe you're not engaging her well with lively things and she's bored of you). In order for her to catch real fun she went raw and let loose of herself to them (likewise they) in order for the conversations to be fun-filled. She knows you won't be comfortable with her chats or might be upset that's why she deleted them.

d guy nor know say na him dey top league,this dating of a tin,if she's yours,she's yours...ntin more

Angelfrost:
It's as well she deletes them all... She probably senses you would be a nosy, distrustful spy (a very childish and petty behavior)!!!

Married or not, everyone has a right to privacy, especially phone privacy... Going through a person's messages without permission is WRONG!!!

I don't even understand you guys.. privacy? my own wife? y'all not serious here...I'm suppose to be her privacy and she mine. nothing like her privacy. even a gf I have done everything for and with can't yap about privacy to me..kapish!

MichealKin50:
This is the same girl December last year before proposing to her, I asked her if she has cheated on me before. To get the truth from her, I lied to her that I've cheated on her she also told me she has cheated on me. When I finally told her that I was lying about cheating on her that since we met I've never seen another girl she also told me that she was lying too about cheating on me. When I told her to swear with the Holy Bible she refused to swear. I went ahead and proposed to her on 31st December hoping to marry her before end of this year.

Guy, you goof big time, you better correct your errors before it's too late