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Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by armadeo(m): 11:41pm On May 14, 2020
I cannot believe what my eyes just read.


Cc ishilove what do you think.
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Yankee101: 11:42pm On May 14, 2020
When folks create a new account to tell a fantastic stories
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by OriOko88(m): 11:43pm On May 14, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:
Seriously, which kain life be this?

Everyday on this forum is stories upon stories of men who spent excessively on their girlfriends and they weren't appreciative, while no one has spent #100 on me even with the huge appreciation gown I wear all the time. Like the Igbos say: breadfruit always falls for those who don't know how to enjoy it. This life sef sad
grin grin. Your mugu is on the way. No lose hope
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by davades(m): 11:44pm On May 14, 2020
She don jazz you
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Ishilove: 11:44pm On May 14, 2020
armadeo:
I cannot believe what my eyes just read.


Cc ishilove what do you think.
My dear brother, he has been pussy whipped. I kuku told him to transfer money to me since he doesn't know what to do with it and has refused to have sense.
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Denko2721987(m): 11:45pm On May 14, 2020
Nna ehn... Na we Nigerian men really spoil women of today.. Na him make we they see all manner of rubbish everywhere.. I bet u had people begging you for just 10k to stay afloat ooo but u no send them butu carry 400k dash babe wey yeyehuh? Me wey if 10k commot my hand for so kind woman matters i go they vex say why i no use that money do other better things.. I believe extremist feminists will be very happy with what many men has become of recent.. 'Pussy wussy sissies'.... Sorry for my tone but i will advise if your own rent is near expiry, u just pack your things to that damn house u paid 400k for so u don't have spend the one that will drive u to critical depression.. U guys can be living together and after the rent is expired just jakpa aka run for your dear life.. What am i even saying sef.. The matter really tire me
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Sixfeetbelle: 11:45pm On May 14, 2020
OriOko88:
grin grin. Your mugu is on the way. No lose hope
Yes sir. I'll hold on tightly to hope. cheesy
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by GodPunishBiafra: 11:46pm On May 14, 2020
ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.

From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......

She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.

The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...

The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........

Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...

Please help!
Give her whatever she wants.

YOU DESTINY AND RESPONSIBILITY IN LIFE IS TO MAKE HER HAPPY.
DO NOT FAIL.
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Finemanas(m): 11:47pm On May 14, 2020
Now that you are save

I'll advise you end that relationship as soon as possible or you will die before your time.

It's so good to fall in love and
I know the feeling one gets when they are in love and I have feel that way too
But believe me, and am sorry to say you are the only one loving you are not loved in return
She loved your money not you
Stop loving her or you die young
If you don't stop you'd start dieing gradually. Emotionally, psychologically, socially morally and finally you would be gone physically
Save your money and feelings for someone who cares
Don't be scared of quiting the relationship
There are a lot of beautiful decent and well mannered girls out there
But until you let her go and move on you'll never see them

I feel ur pain bro
Just let her go
God just saved you
It's better a broken relationship than a divorce
Marriage is for a lifetime and I can't advise you to keep trouble under ur roof in the name of a wife latter in life

I drop my pen ✒
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Rok01: 11:47pm On May 14, 2020
you are after her beauty and she is after your money. this type of relationship cannot go far. you better quit now before she wrecks you finish. A word is enough for the wise.
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by NigeriaB(m): 11:48pm On May 14, 2020
Purpletee:
May we not be unfortunate in life!!!

bros, first of all,don't break up with her yet,you need to teach her a lesson the hard way.If you want to.

second,make new friends,socialize and try to do away with your feelings for her, but wait o,don't you have male friends who can advice you, well....

thirdly, make her believe you're broke,you have to really fake it,I'm a lady,I know when a guy is broke and when he's pretending to be broke.That way the billing stops.


OR

you can just erase her from your life completely and count your losses.Good luck,you're gonna need it.
Thank you sweet heart for your sincerity. I'm happy you didn't defend because she also a girl like you.
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Babisha10(m): 11:48pm On May 14, 2020
ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.

From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......

She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.

The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...

The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........

Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...

Please help!
I pray she doesn't end ur life.....
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by WaffenSS(m): 11:50pm On May 14, 2020
Another day, another sad loser
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Nobody: 11:50pm On May 14, 2020
You are a strong sweet guy don’t allow any girl turn you to a devil. You are much appreciated. Do what you can and leave.
ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.

From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......

She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.

The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...

The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........

Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...

Please help!
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by OriOko88(m): 11:51pm On May 14, 2020
TheEnlightenedO:
Reminds me of one Ochanya babe I was piping cuz she had wanted an iPhone 11. Got her the phone, her fiance whom she lived with asked her to return it, that he'd buy her another one, Auntie refused and kept spending nights at my house cuz they were always fighting cuz of the phone. One day Auntie comes and says she wanted her own apartment cuz she was having second thoughts about her fiance and she needed her own space and asked for a loan of 1m, after plenty tears, I formed playing maga, I asked for a small collateral, she legit stole her boyfriends land docs to come drop as collateral, I had given her the money but I kept wondering if her story of him giving her permission to drop the docs were legit, I couldn't call homeboy cuz I didnt know how to reach him, so I asked Auntie to refund the bar and come get the docs, that I'd refer her to someone else for the loan... Babe refused oh, said a bunch and apologized later, I found out she still had around 970k of the funds in her acct and asked her to come over, we shagged and shagged, finally told Auntie that she should borrow me 900k till the weekend that I'd give her back with interest... Babe negotiated interest oh with my own money, sent me 900k and left back to her fiance's house, this is after she told me she had gotten her own apartment with the loan. I sha sent the land docs back to the boyfriend at the address I had for his office, he must have confronted her, never followed up since I got most of my funds back...

Women are scum bro, turns out this her fiance was paying her bills the whole time and helping her financially, she just wanted more
Interesting. Did she marry the fiancee of what?
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Taribizy(m): 11:51pm On May 14, 2020
All the money you have spent on this relationship has nothing to do with the girl. You're thinking you can buy her loyalty which is wrong. Reverse the roles, do you think she will give you 400k to save your life?
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Greenbullet(m): 11:51pm On May 14, 2020
I repeat , NEVER DATE A GIRL FROM A DSYFUNCTIONAL FAMILY UNLESS SHE IS MEEK . ANYTHING APART FROM MEEK NA PROBLEM. This girl don use your head and e dey pain me for you , this girl you no suppose give am pass 10k and after better knacking , na guys like una girls take dey shine , it can never be me , I no dey give woman that chance , she even cheated and your forgave !!! Chaiii . guyyy you dulll ooooooooo .
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by giftylyn(f): 11:51pm On May 14, 2020
Bro
This isn't a time to call you names or any of sort
Uv spent a lot already and by now u should realize that she is sort of having issues mentally or she must have had an underlying depression which relapses from time to time..or better still she is struggling with serious hormonal imbalances that wants to make her frustrated,if she isn't frustrated already...all you need do is to back off...maybe u don't know her family lineage too well to know what's actually her problem.Just back off to save ur self from a whole lot of emotional trauma.
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by NigeriaB(m): 11:52pm On May 14, 2020
Cindy222:
When you guys see chics with good character, but not too fine you will say noooo na slay mama i want,i like flashy girls with big big things everywhere,now you have gotten it. Hehehe enjoy it while it lasts. But on a serious note,i am so sorry bro,just let her go but stylishly,this kinda girl can stab you so please be careful. Bad girls keep getting gentle guys that are soft hmmm....It is well.
Such is life.
But I'm really glad dat no girl in this thread is defending the girl ( his girlfriend)
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Prymestrr(m): 11:52pm On May 14, 2020
horlarwereleh:
You are still asking questions.
Seems you never understand what's going on.
Better break up with that Delilah and move on before you lose your life.
She is from the streets and she is definitely going back to the streets.

One last question, Did you rent the place in her name or yours?
He didn't even rent the place. He wired money undecided
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by NigeriaB(m): 11:54pm On May 14, 2020
Yuneehk:
Put yourself in their shoes. Would you go for a guy with good character but doesn't slay and do bling bling? Let him enjoy his trophy pretty babe.

He's even asking if to buy the rest of what she's demanding. I don't believe love can make anyone be this stvpid.
Girls are so sincere and fired up in this thread. Nice one gals
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by UDOKABESTLUV(m): 11:55pm On May 14, 2020
ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.

From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......

She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.

The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...

The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........

Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...

Please help!
You are the cause of your own problem bro, if I beg you for 1k now, u will tell me that u are Broke but u are giving a lady 400k
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by willy2000(m): 11:55pm On May 14, 2020
ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.

From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......

She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.

The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...

The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........

Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...

Please help!
Fake story sad
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by humilitypays(m): 11:55pm On May 14, 2020
This is why it is not good to pay a black man who is your employee too much money because when you do, he will start to keep multiple concubines, babymamas and mistresses and spend less time on your job, and with time he graduates to looting from your company or his employer to meet the outrageous demands of his numerous girlfriends angry

This is why we are where we are today in Nigeria; President, governors, senators, ministers, permanent secretaries, directors and all looting to satisfy their uncountable girlfriends and mistresses scattered all over Nigeria and the world cry
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Spman: 11:56pm On May 14, 2020
ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.

From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......

She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.

The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...

The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........

Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...

Please help!
She had use Jazz on you
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by OriOko88(m): 11:57pm On May 14, 2020
Cindy222:
See question o,i don't need slaying and bling bling o....Good character is everything,once you don't have body odour and you smell nice,i am okay. Wetin i wan use slay and bling bling do. Some people don't slay but they dress well and look good. Infact sometimes some guys are not all that facially but when you get to talk to them or hear them speak,they exude class.
Where do you base pretty wink
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by m140(m): 11:58pm On May 14, 2020
Godsonjolly:
grin not all jazz works on everyone jare. We will all be safe.
Lolzzzz
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Stonewell: 11:58pm On May 14, 2020
ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.

From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......

She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.

The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...

The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........

Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...

Please help!
Maybe you thought you are helping her, you don't even have the money. Somebody here will beg you for 1k here now you will refused.
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by m140(m): 11:59pm On May 14, 2020
Godsonjolly:
grin not all jazz works on everyone jare. We will all be safe.
Lolzzzz , if you strong spiritually jazz go knack you
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by exsodus: 11:59pm On May 14, 2020
Oga please post your picture lemme confirm something. It's either your ugly as fvck or your just plain stupid.
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by OriOko88(m): 11:59pm On May 14, 2020
echibuogwu:
Lol I won’t blame u for that... msgs don’t carry emotions but will u b kind enof to reply my PM
Guy abeg, how do I send pm on nairaland?
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by humilitypays(m): 12:01am On May 15, 2020
Greenbullet:
I repeat , NEVER DATE A GIRL FROM A DSYFUNCTIONAL FAMILY UNLESS SHE IS MEEK . ANYTHING APART FROM MEEK NA PROBLEM. This girl don use your head and e dey pain me for you , this girl you no suppose give am pass 10k and after better knacking , na guys like una girls take dey shine , it can never be me , I no dey give woman that chance , she even cheated and your forgave !!! Chaiii . guyyy you dulll ooooooooo .
na Americana na, he forgave a cheating girlfriend, what else won't he accept, he is definitely a dunce and the type runs girls pray for every morning during their deadly morning devotion grin
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