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Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Halo22: 11:22pm On May 14, 2020
Since u have already called yourself a fool, there's no gain reminding you how foolishly you fell in with a wayward from a rough background. Now the only advice I will give you is to forfeit all you have spent on the bitch, whether you paid the rent in ur name or her name and shun that devilish relationship, else, u will have worse reasons to regret as time progresses.

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Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by smiliyB(f): 11:23pm On May 14, 2020
ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.

The
Please help!
are you still asking, capital YES! Finish what you started... tongue

I was thinking with the slap and punch you go get sense but it's not yet enough, you need more maybe with iron undecided I guess. That one will enter you body wella. I thank God, you're not my brother...Chukwu ajh cry cry Anyway I trust your fellow guys on nairaland, they'll finish you this night... imagine embarassed500k for person wey no get sense.

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Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by FuckAllTheMODs: 11:23pm On May 14, 2020
ken711:




"That was one smart decision I made, I did it in my name"


Bro, leave that babe for your own good... give me or any other person that apartment, it will yield more positive results/things for you than leaving it for an ingrate whom you don't even know may have a bad plan for you. What if there's financial crisis, that is how she will cheat because you're facing such situation and can't meet up with her needs, BTW it's not portion, instead e go dey plenty, it won't run dry.
P.S- My rent in my present apartment(on the island) will expire out soon...

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Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Sewa90(f): 11:24pm On May 14, 2020
ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.

From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......

She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.

The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...

The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........

Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...

Please help!



LEAVE HER ALONE,WHY SPENDING ON SOMEONE THAT DOESN'T GIVE YOU REST OF MIND,WHAT'S YOUR GAIN?

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Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by m140(m): 11:24pm On May 14, 2020
Godsonjolly:

Hmm, it's like there are certain persons this black magic works on. I don't ever think it will work on me. And most times people that fall victim of it are always desperate to get something. So in their quest to get it they fall for the trap.
Things happening am telling, it's one looking wats not desperately that falls into their trap. But still innocent people dey chop Jazz too. I tell my younger siblings becareful with todays girls ooo, no go dey play smart jazz fit hit you, same with girls too jazz fit hit them
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Joshak33(m): 11:24pm On May 14, 2020
You are not doing well Bro.

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Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Bahamas95(m): 11:24pm On May 14, 2020
ken711:
..bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...

Please help!

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Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Judybash93(m): 11:25pm On May 14, 2020
Why do i suspect that this is some kind of cooked up story?
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by krazychidori(m): 11:25pm On May 14, 2020
Bro forget about that toxic relationship
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Fastlinkpro: 11:25pm On May 14, 2020
This guy is international m...hope you are taking care of mama

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Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by ohem007(m): 11:26pm On May 14, 2020
from what you have written up there say..
I fear for your life o
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by anyicash(m): 11:26pm On May 14, 2020
Give her more money.

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Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by damosade(m): 11:26pm On May 14, 2020
Do you have a mother?
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by silvernice(m): 11:27pm On May 14, 2020
If only OP can see the number of persons reading this pathetic story at this time of the day then maybe he'll believe in village people. Nonetheless the people here are scared that village people might be operating in you 100% after seeing all glaring signs and still you are asking if you should continue or ditch the gold digger of a nuisance.

It pains me so bad I wasn't on first page to talk you back from your pretty girl delusion that has warped ur mind and made you an handkerchief boyfriend. Many maen have dated pretty ladies and quitted when it was going downhill and you won't be the last. Bro forget the face and body and quit your fantasy. You are just wasting your time and your life with that lady. Hope she doesn't hurt you badly wen you cannot meet up with her needs any more.

Next time don't package yourself as a blue chip company man. You only making ladies view you as an atm!!!

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Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by promiseland245(m): 11:27pm On May 14, 2020
Just one word I have for you-----Flee!!!!
ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.

From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......

She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.

The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...

The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........

Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...

Please help!

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Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by rezy15(m): 11:28pm On May 14, 2020
ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.

From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......

She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.

The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...

The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........

Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...

Please help!
Bros na woman you dey find or casket? Cut ur losses and bail
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by tonardo(m): 11:29pm On May 14, 2020
I waste my my precious time reading this trash..
Waste MB too..
Junkie write up...
Well you study abroad has settled it..
Your parents are rich...if not..
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Uchman50(m): 11:31pm On May 14, 2020
Oboy you be toto Wey dey smell angry tongue

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Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by PeacenLove2: 11:31pm On May 14, 2020
Some men are only crazy about women who treat them like trash. Op, looks like you're one and I don't know why you are complaining now.

When you open your korokoro eye dey do woman wrapper upandan. You know say if you buy that bed, na just the beginning for you? Well sha, if it gives you the kicks I suspect you get from being her b word, by all means go ahead. It's your money and your life. Enjoy! cheesy

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Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by odinson1(m): 11:32pm On May 14, 2020
Wonderfool!!!

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Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Nobody: 11:33pm On May 14, 2020
You are a big liar, but if this is true, she's using juju on you

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Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by ArcSEMPECJ(m): 11:33pm On May 14, 2020
400k that will get you pay for a girl's bride price...

400k that will get you a good one plot of land somewhere?

400k that you can use to start off something meaningful.....

OP....bring your head near.......you need a knock that will reverse and restart your Brian.....

Is like your Brian is still carrying the time zone of the abroad you studied...

By the time she is done with you....you will know what the time says in Nigeria

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Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Godsonjolly: 11:34pm On May 14, 2020
m140:

Things happening am telling, it's one looking wats not desperately that falls into their trap. But still innocent people dey chop Jazz too. I tell my younger siblings becareful with todays girls ooo, no go dey play smart jazz fit hit you, same with girls too jazz fit hit them
grin not all jazz works on everyone jare. We will all be safe.
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Deltagate: 11:34pm On May 14, 2020
ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.

From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......

She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.

The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...

The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........

Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...

Please help!
She's a gold digger bro. She belongs to the street. Dump her sorry arse

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Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by James150: 11:35pm On May 14, 2020
You've failed as a man. You're now Bob risky or something. But not a man. See how she dey use your destiny finish

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Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Nobody: 11:35pm On May 14, 2020
Officialgarri:
Yes pay up and do it fast fast...
you're wicked
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by smiliyB(f): 11:36pm On May 14, 2020
This story is not really jaree, someone that just created an account yesterday and you want me to believe this nonsense. Mstchhheewww
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by kizyalex10(m): 11:37pm On May 14, 2020
ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.

From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......

She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.

The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...

The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........

Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...

Please help!
you are an slowpoke brother.infact thunder fire you.u re a mistake of a man.see the trash you re here typing.am sure u re the type ur relative will ask for help nd u will tell him how business or work is dry will u re wasting ur future savings with a prostitute.if u re telling me dis story real life i will beat u up real good.infact thunder fire u once more.be looking at pretty .the beautiful ones re nt yet born.better go nd marry nd discard that mannerless prostitute.if u re sacked from work,do u think the girl will even wait for u to drop ur sack letter bfor she run away?then u will come bck here and start calculating how u spent money on buttocks or go to church nd be disturbing God to give u ur own share when u literarily squandered ur future nd dat of ur kids in a prostitute pussy.one more time brother,u are d biggest fool of the year

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Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Babyforever(f): 11:37pm On May 14, 2020
ken711:




"That was one smart decision I made, I did it in my name"
Just breakup with her and don't bother nursing your heart because i'm here for you i'm beautiful in my own way besides everyone on this forum knows me as an easy going and respectful person can't wait hear from you ken
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by mechanics(m): 11:39pm On May 14, 2020
Hmmmmm, you have the money, since you want to keep spending on her, you can continue, but at your own risk.
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by WhiteJacket: 11:39pm On May 14, 2020
xxxtedyxxx:


Forget about sex, nothing better pass money.

No matter how much he bleeps her, he can never get his money's worth. Even after he breaks up, his head will always be filled up with a thousand things he could have done with the money he wasted on her.
Haha.. This is my current experience. I secretly regret that the most

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Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by akinbode1(m): 11:40pm On May 14, 2020
Theicecode:
You are a mumu man

I strongly and convincely concur with you. ...

His mumu is made in china

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