You married a materialistic woman, and there would always be people who do better than you, as your Best even if you were a millionaire is the least of another. Don't beat yourself, just do your own, make more money, you would always remind your so called wife her words later when things get better for you. I wonder the kind of women we have nowadays, when it's not as if someone put gun on your head to say I do. She, meant to give you strength might have sucked the little with her careless words but work smart with plans, better days ahead. Not sure she would even support you in anything, Na only where Rosy she go dey find.

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MrBrownJay1:


the main issue is that: if your wife disrespects you and belittle you because of some ex of hers has a better situation/money than you, then this woman certainly doesnt love you. using money to insult your man is just a confirmation of the type of person you are with...and regardless of how great you can fukc her, she now disregards the sex and focuses on MONEY... thats why she has the audacity to tell her man this nonsense.

Na today women dey use reverse psychology and words to manipulate men? Its normal na but throwing it in his face was the issue.

N.B: they were not perpetually broke, just going through some trying times and besides, she didn't marry OP for his money, na the sex game,so it makes no sense to me that her ex sudden wealth would trigger her vampire nature IF NOT THE DREADFUL FINANCIAL SITUATION at home. Things must be really tight for her to say such and besides he never told us the fully gist on her, if she is contributing to the family purse or not.


So many unexplained variables here

The foundation of that marriage was build on Ignorance and Greed.

Solution:

1) Two of you should sit down and discuss the way forward.

2)Two of you should pray and ask God to forgive every foundational mistake due to greed and ignorance.

3)If need be, two of you should seek the help of a Counselor.

Shalom.

TOYNEX:


Everyone desire a "sincere" spouse, she just expressed her sincere feelings in words, Now you know there's a problem and exactly where the problem is, please Deal with it.
It's better than been deceived by her pretense and uneding quarrels, I bet she can't bottle it in any longer. .
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How should he deal with it if I may ask?

Bria234:
Karma is a bitch. Look u took her from him while she's a Girlfriend and he will take her from u be that she's ur wife . If u not careful abt this

She agreed to after convincing her. He gat no fault at all. She wasn't married to him.

DaddyOpe:
I got married to my wife 5 years ago. Before we got married, she dated a guy. We all stayed in the same area. I live here because it is close to my place of work. Her ex lives in the area. He does building contractor. While they were dating, I met my wife. I was able to convince her to date me. And since the guy was always travelling, I was able to get close to her. I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain. She later left the guy. I proposed, she accepted and we got married.

I will say, at that time I got married to my wife, her ex and I were on the same level financially. But, recently, the guy has turned to something else. He does building for people overseas. People said the guy's work is good and he is always getting contracts. My wife said he had a 2.1 in Civil Engineering. He started selling cement. He is now a dangote cement distributor. He built a duplex at the junction of my street. He has 3 cars in the compound (he recently bought 1 car during this lockdown that people are saying no money oo). I and my wife do not have any car. I am still a tenant. We have to pass front of his house every day.

During this lockdown, my office has being delaying salaries. It has not being easy. I have had quarrels with my wife in the past but yesterday was the worst. During the quarrel, she said she regrets marrying me. That if she had ignored me and married her ex, she would have being living comfortably. I almost beat her up. Then she told me that this her ex paid her school fees in 300 and 400 level when she almost pulled out of school for lack of finance. She regrets paying him back by leaving him to marry me.

Since then, I have not being myself. I just created this account to express myself.

Take heart Bro. Things are hard today doesn't mean they won't get better tomorrow.

1. When your rent expires, kindly move away from that neighborhood so that your wife will not be seeing her ex often cos this will keep making her sad. Women can be like that sometimes.

2. Do not wish the other guy evil... Just ask God to lift you too and wish him well. Don't be bitter towards your wife or her ex, you need to learn to let go and have a good heart.

3. Spend time with your wife talking about the the plans for the future and how your current steps will lead to them. Hopefully, this will reassure her and help her get over her regrets.

4. Don't fight her during this period, she needs to feel like someone is on her side, especially now that even her own thoughts are accusing her of making a bad decision by leaving her ex. Speak kindly to her, help her out in the house, support her dreams, show her that you love her. Stop fighting her, even when she is edgy, be the bigger man and calm her down.

5. Finally, you need to double down on your hustle Bro, don't get complacent. Find new things to do, learn new skill, get a second job, get a side gig, just keep moving.

May God grant you wisdom and success.

Lol.. For some strange reasons, this cracked me up.

Froshloaded:
Ah,
This story is touching...
If I was in your wife's shoes. I am gonna regret the fact that I said yes to you..

The only solution to this is for you to money and move away from where she will still be seeing her ex.


My 1 cent

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You spoke like a fool

psucc:
You snatched somebody's wife "because her ex do travel".

If I tell you that you jettisoned another girl for her, yöu may disagree but true.

Now, the girl (your wife) will live in eternal regrets so long as she continue to see the guy.

To break free, you need to relocate from that area asap.

Relocate ko, bifurcate ni...

You don't know women.

The image has been registered in the wife's consciousness...She will even make an attempt to contact the ex.

That marriage will never be the same again minus divine intervention...

I no sabi toast person girlfriend... I no like am at all. I fit hang around oooo, but I go dy far. Infact I no dy like am. I no dy do anything when go make the relationship scatter make she come meet me because the truth be say, if she cheat on her ex with you, bros she fit leave u for another better person....


Your wife na world cup
She don tell u make u defend your tittle if not, another person go win from you...

Baba scatter
The destroyer
I hail

DaddyOpe:
I got married to my wife 5 years ago. Before we got married, she dated a guy. We all stayed in the same area. I live here because it is close to my place of work. Her ex lives in the area. He does building contractor. While they were dating, I met my wife. I was able to convince her to date me. And since the guy was always travelling, I was able to get close to her. I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain. She later left the guy. I proposed, she accepted and we got married.

I will say, at that time I got married to my wife, her ex and I were on the same level financially. But, recently, the guy has turned to something else. He does building for people overseas. People said the guy's work is good and he is always getting contracts. My wife said he had a 2.1 in Civil Engineering. He started selling cement. He is now a dangote cement distributor. He built a duplex at the junction of my street. He has 3 cars in the compound (he recently bought 1 car during this lockdown that people are saying no money oo). I and my wife do not have any car. I am still a tenant. We have to pass front of his house every day.

During this lockdown, my office has being delaying salaries. It has not being easy. I have had quarrels with my wife in the past but yesterday was the worst. During the quarrel, she said she regrets marrying me. That if she had ignored me and married her ex, she would have being living comfortably. I almost beat her up. Then she told me that this her ex paid her school fees in 300 and 400 level when she almost pulled out of school for lack of finance. She regrets paying him back by leaving him to marry me.

Since then, I have not being myself. I just created this account to express myself.

You have not being yourself? go and join money rituals then.

pansophist:
All of you blaming the man, the woman is also to be blamed here. She left a guy with potential for the poster, perhaps, she is trying to secure the bag, and finally realized that the bag she left was filled with gold, while the present bag was filled with, well, make I no talk

The real question here is, if her ex haven't improved financially, will she have any regrets? If her present husband suddenly becomes richer than her ex, will she still have regrets and wish she was with him? Both of you got served. For you the poster, you dont snatch peoples gf for conversion to your wife, and for your wife, she is greedy, instead of watering her own greens, she believed it's better on the other side with you.

Hypergamy is a womans best friend, but also can be her worse enemy. No fuxks given. As as you lay your bed, you shall lie.

well said

While the guy was working up his ass to achieve his PURPOSE, instead of you to be doing same too, you turned his girlfriend to your own purpose and you're busy capitalizing on it by having sex with her. I'm sure back then, you'd be feeling yourself as alpha that knows how to GAME well with girls. Hehe your eye Don clear now.

The part I love most is the girl reaction. B got served hot hot by karma. Hahaha.

I don learn my lesson from this your miserable experience sha.

My humble advice though.. Work hard. Double your hustle. That's if the wife no later leave you sha.

larryking540:


Don't blame the wife ,the op never knew the type of lady he was marrying ,,,

actually, the op was carried away by the lady speech then that she had a great sex but the wife needs to know that they can surpass her ex wealth if both of them work together

Jeez! Some words kills faster than bullet!
But honestly, you got served what you deserve!...#KARMA

She for stay, her ex for no blow and her 5 year for waste and u know say na woman she be

Let us try to look at this in another angle...what if this was posted by the woman in question, what will be your responses......that woman is just harvesting what she actually sow...you left a guy because he traveled a lot for business,the business that pays her school fee for two years...what a pity life she brought on herself

MrBrownJay1:


whether out of anger or not, the minute she says the above you better watch out as she has completely lost respect for you...

as for you saying this man should step up his game, thats rubbish! this man should be himself and not try to be someone else. if she doesnt like who she is, let her gfto, as any smart man knows that there will always be richer/better/ more comfortable men out there, and if thats the type that your babe is seeking, then let her go and be with them...

as if men knowingly make less money in their lives as a "choice", lol!

well sais

MrBrownJay1:


whether out of anger or not, the minute she says the above you better watch out as she has completely lost respect for you...

as for you saying this man should step up his game, thats rubbish! this man should be himself and not try to be someone else. if she doesnt like who she is, let her gfto, as any smart man knows that there will always be richer/better/ more comfortable men out there, and if thats the type that your babe is seeking, then let her go and be with them...

as if men knowingly make less money in their lives as a "choice", lol!

well said

Humanoid01:
She agreed to date you while she was dating someone else due to impatience and greed, what made you think she would want to continue now that she knows he's now doing better? What exactly did you expect? You approached her when you knew she had a boyfriend and even went ahead to propose marriage to her. SMH!

The both of you are getting served what you ordered, did you expect any less? Don't even put the blame on her for what she said, you're both responsible for this. It'll only take a miracle for that love that was once there to be revived, 'cause her regrets alone (especially when she keeps seeing what he does) will make life miserable for you both.

You married a materialistic woman, and it's shocking to know that you didn't see that before now, or perhaps you did and you decided to ignore it, which is even more shocking.

Ironically, most guys' experiences that have been told here are actually ones where they are the victims. It would be very interesting to see the victim in this case narrate his story here lol.

you just narrated my mind. God bless you for having sense.

on an average, even above average, women are CHEATS, WICKED and STUPID. imagine cheating on your boyfriend who Paid your school fees when u were on d verge of dropping out. just because he's not always around. she got what she deserves more. if she had married her ex I'm 99% certain she would have been having extramarital affairs and would blame it on being sex starved. UNGRATEFUL, UNAPPRECIATIVE DULLARD.

then d stupid guy took advantage of the fact that her boyfriend was not always around it serves him well too.

Get Rich

Nothing strange there...... Na their way be that...... Money!!!

Looool jejely divorce her, unless you want to be doing DNA test for all your kids. Also, let her taste every food she cooks for you...

DaddyOpe:
I got married to my wife 5 years ago. Before we got married, she dated a guy. We all stayed in the same area. I live here because it is close to my place of work. Her ex lives in the area. He does building contractor. While they were dating, I met my wife. I was able to convince her to date me. And since the guy was always travelling, I was able to get close to her. I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain. She later left the guy. I proposed, she accepted and we got married.

I will say, at that time I got married to my wife, her ex and I were on the same level financially. But, recently, the guy has turned to something else. He does building for people overseas. People said the guy's work is good and he is always getting contracts. My wife said he had a 2.1 in Civil Engineering. He started selling cement. He is now a dangote cement distributor. He built a duplex at the junction of my street. He has 3 cars in the compound (he recently bought 1 car during this lockdown that people are saying no money oo). I and my wife do not have any car. I am still a tenant. We have to pass front of his house every day.

During this lockdown, my office has being delaying salaries. It has not being easy. I have had quarrels with my wife in the past but yesterday was the worst. During the quarrel, she said she regrets marrying me. That if she had ignored me and married her ex, she would have being living comfortably. I almost beat her up. Then she told me that this her ex paid her school fees in 300 and 400 level when she almost pulled out of school for lack of finance. She regrets paying him back by leaving him to marry me.

Since then, I have not being myself. I just created this account to express myself.

This wetin guy Man de cause for life.....

sonnie10:
Under 5 years the ex had built a duplex
Under 5 years he is a major dangote cement distributor
Under 5 year he bought 3 cars

See let me tell you, he is into fast lane and it’s working for him.
Your wife should better manage the little you have because there was no guarantee that the ex would have married her.

No be only fast lane.
So 5 years is not enough to change somebody's life. God forbid poverty thinking. Must person suffer suffer before e buy tortoise car. Na wa for u ooooo

It's painful to be in this kind of shit but in short u started it.
U don't start competition with another man over woman because it could be hurtful when u lose out.
My advice to u is' as soon as possible leave that area at least to a place where it ll be difficult for but of them to see, that ll for extend save ur marriage.
Hustle more God ll bless u, just understand that all hands are not equal, with time all this shit ll be over.

I no go lie. This story sweet me die. The best revenge is truly success.

Tellam says to she go meet her ex and leave you alone.
She has indirectly alerted you that she will be cheating on you..so, let her go so that you can leave your remaining miserable life in peace

And you still call the idiot your wife, pray for the guy not to have time for your wife, if he does i tell you, your wife will happily and proudly spray her legs wide open for the guy to dig in. Something tells me that your wife want to continue her relationship with him?

Unapologetically, I don't have any iota of pity for your situation. What goes around comes around nigga...you think your dick got her crazy huh? She has always being loose... she's probably seeing other guys now that you ain't meeting up her desires. I'm not a prophet but the crack on your marital wall is massive ��


I believe all the guys here learn something...it's not all girls that's worth being f*cked...Gracias!

Let her go. Do not assault her. You do not need negative vibes. For her to have said so, it is the end of your relationship. Just give her divorce papers already.

DaddyOpe:
I got married to my wife 5 years ago. Before we got married, she dated a guy. We all stayed in the same area. I live here because it is close to my place of work. Her ex lives in the area. He does building contractor. While they were dating, I met my wife. I was able to convince her to date me. And since the guy was always travelling, I was able to get close to her. I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain. She later left the guy. I proposed, she accepted and we got married.

I will say, at that time I got married to my wife, her ex and I were on the same level financially. But, recently, the guy has turned to something else. He does building for people overseas. People said the guy's work is good and he is always getting contracts. My wife said he had a 2.1 in Civil Engineering. He started selling cement. He is now a dangote cement distributor. He built a duplex at the junction of my street. He has 3 cars in the compound (he recently bought 1 car during this lockdown that people are saying no money oo). I and my wife do not have any car. I am still a tenant. We have to pass front of his house every day.

During this lockdown, my office has being delaying salaries. It has not being easy. I have had quarrels with my wife in the past but yesterday was the worst. During the quarrel, she said she regrets marrying me. That if she had ignored me and married her ex, she would have being living comfortably. I almost beat her up. Then she told me that this her ex paid her school fees in 300 and 400 level when she almost pulled out of school for lack of finance. She regrets paying him back by leaving him to marry me.

Since then, I have not being myself. I just created this account to express myself.