Daddy Ope

Sisijetue:
Daddy ope epele o
Iyanu mashele
Mafoo

DaddyOpe:
I got married to my wife 5 years ago. Before we got married, she dated a guy. We all stayed in the same area. I live here because it is close to my place of work. Her ex lives in the area. He does building contractor. While they were dating, I met my wife. I was able to convince her to date me. And since the guy was always travelling, I was able to get close to her. I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain. She later left the guy. I proposed, she accepted and we got married.

I will say, at that time I got married to my wife, her ex and I were on the same level financially. But, recently, the guy has turned to something else. He does building for people overseas. People said the guy's work is good and he is always getting contracts. My wife said he had a 2.1 in Civil Engineering. He started selling cement. He is now a dangote cement distributor. He built a duplex at the junction of my street. He has 3 cars in the compound (he recently bought 1 car during this lockdown that people are saying no money oo). I and my wife do not have any car. I am still a tenant. We have to pass front of his house every day.

During this lockdown, my office has being delaying salaries. It has not being easy. I have had quarrels with my wife in the past but yesterday was the worst. During the quarrel, she said she regrets marrying me. That if she had ignored me and married her ex, she would have being living comfortably. I almost beat her up. Then she told me that this her ex paid her school fees in 300 and 400 level when she almost pulled out of school for lack of finance. She regrets paying him back by leaving him to marry me.

Since then, I have not being myself. I just created this account to express myself.

Tell her she makes u poor.

SultanOfAbia:
Op, this is how money ritual starts ooo
Before you know it you will be on frontpage
With headline " Man kills neighbor for money ritual because Wife called him poor"
You both are experiencing Karma in action
There is nothing you can do

She sowed betrayal, She is harvesting her betrayal now.
She will suffer it more because if you divorce her now, where will she go??.
I doubt an EX will accept such lady after this kind of betrayal..
In First Book of Chris Brown Chapter 4:2
It says & i quote "This Hoes Ain't Loyal"

I think what you're saying is total horse shiiit, they aren't experiencing any betrayal, they're just facing usual financial issue. Like others have suggested he should pack out from the neighborhood to another one and also double his hustle or improve onhis finances at least for himself.

What the his wife did(dumping the other guy) is something ladies do all of the time, like every fuc..kin time, nothing specially.

Every lady in the same situation will regret their actions of dumping the other guy to marry the OP, the only difference is not many will voice it out.

The fact that she voiced it out means she's beginning to feel irritated with respect to him, she doesn't have respect for him or anything again, I don't know how he can solve that issue but that's it.

Nothing like their karma or one other crap, he didn't do anything wrong be getting another girl to fall for him leaving her previous lover. Nothing wrong did he do

I can't blame a man because of this issue but I blame a woman because of covetousness and she reap what she sow, this will be a lesson for all woman to learn how to endure.

extol1:

actually, the op was carried away by the lady speech then that she had a great sex but the wife needs to know that they can surpass her ex wealth if both of them work together

Wat I don't understand,wat is the op doing around a vicinity that your wife ex lives

My advice:

*Don't pack out of that area if not she will be tempted to coming to see her former bf & possibly be having affairs with him

*Engage yourself on true repentance with your God & seek His face daily

*Avoid every occasions of sin & regrets

*Make prayer a habit & pray ceaselessly

*set up a small business even if it's pure water business

*Continue to pray

*Continue to pray

*Continue to pray

*Continue to pray

*Never stop praying

*Whether God answers you or not never stop praying

May God bless you & keep you, may His face shine upon you and be gracious to you in Jesus name! Amen.

THERE IS LIGHT AT THE END OF A TURNNEL

Let's look at this mathematical equation

Most ladies in Nigeria= are not virgins

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. . all ladies have exes so since all if all ladies that are not virgin gets married and see their exes later they would get angry because their exes is doing better than their husbands.

I don't see any reason for the wife to be angry as a human once you make a decision stand by it. As a wife instead of getting angry motivate your husband to do more.

What is see is God punishing the young man. Guy you Bleep up

Davash222:
I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain.



This is where your problems started. You don't win a woman, she's not trophy. You're the trophy not her.
I have nothing to tell you. You ruined yourself.

Just so you know, if your beloved wife gets the opportunity to fucck that ex for free now, she will not hesitate.

Don't be naive, she's already fuccking her ex. Who is even the ex here? I think the husband is the ex. The old boyfriend is the new husband.

Otunla236:
I can't blame a man because of this issue but I blame a woman because of covetousness and she reap what she sow, this will be a lesson for all woman to learn how to endure.

My brother no woman wan endure ,even when they are single or married ,make op just double e hustle ,if things start to work well make he change location

Lol

sorry to say but your marriage is finished

DaddyOpe:
I got married to my wife 5 years ago. Before we got married, she dated a guy. We all stayed in the same area. I live here because it is close to my place of work. Her ex lives in the area. He does building contractor. While they were dating, I met my wife. I was able to convince her to date me. And since the guy was always travelling, I was able to get close to her. I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain. She later left the guy. I proposed, she accepted and we got married.

I will say, at that time I got married to my wife, her ex and I were on the same level financially. But, recently, the guy has turned to something else. He does building for people overseas. People said the guy's work is good and he is always getting contracts. My wife said he had a 2.1 in Civil Engineering. He started selling cement. He is now a dangote cement distributor. He built a duplex at the junction of my street. He has 3 cars in the compound (he recently bought 1 car during this lockdown that people are saying no money oo). I and my wife do not have any car. I am still a tenant. We have to pass front of his house every day.

During this lockdown, my office has being delaying salaries. It has not being easy. I have had quarrels with my wife in the past but yesterday was the worst. During the quarrel, she said she regrets marrying me. That if she had ignored me and married her ex, she would have being living comfortably. I almost beat her up. Then she told me that this her ex paid her school fees in 300 and 400 level when she almost pulled out of school for lack of finance. She regrets paying him back by leaving him to marry me.

Since then, I have not being myself. I just created this account to express myself.

Oluwa abeg shower us with ur blessings oo,make people no use their past tense take mock our present and future tense.

Clap hand ✋ for your self

Let the sex that you used to scatter her brain keep her.

Both of you deserve each other.

I have seen a thread like this but it was the guy that told the lady he regretted of marrying her. People were telling the guy he talks to much why isn't anyone saying the lady talks too much okay I guess it's because it wasn't the lady that created the thread

DaddyOpe:
I got married to my wife 5 years ago. Before we got married, she dated a guy. We all stayed in the same area. I live here because it is close to my place of work. Her ex lives in the area. He does building contractor. While they were dating, I met my wife. I was able to convince her to date me. And since the guy was always travelling, I was able to get close to her. I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain. She later left the guy. I proposed, she accepted and we got married.

I will say, at that time I got married to my wife, her ex and I were on the same level financially. But, recently, the guy has turned to something else. He does building for people overseas. People said the guy's work is good and he is always getting contracts. My wife said he had a 2.1 in Civil Engineering. He started selling cement. He is now a dangote cement distributor. He built a duplex at the junction of my street. He has 3 cars in the compound (he recently bought 1 car during this lockdown that people are saying no money oo). I and my wife do not have any car. I am still a tenant. We have to pass front of his house every day.

During this lockdown, my office has being delaying salaries. It has not being easy. I have had quarrels with my wife in the past but yesterday was the worst. During the quarrel, she said she regrets marrying me. That if she had ignored me and married her ex, she would have being living comfortably. I almost beat her up. Then she told me that this her ex paid her school fees in 300 and 400 level when she almost pulled out of school for lack of finance. She regrets paying him back by leaving him to marry me.

Since then, I have not being myself. I just created this account to express myself.

One mistake most guys make when going into relationship is convincing or begging women to date them. You put yourself in a very bad position when you do that. Also, relationship should be a mutual support institution. Your wife didn't do you any favour by leaving her ex to marry you. It was her decision and she has no right to blame you for her poverty.

If you couldn't uplift her financially, why haven't her uplifted herself and even you financially. Woman should stop blaming men for their lack of ambition and inability to liberate themselves from poverty. You are both meant to up life each other. Beside, na the same head wey you get and hands na im she still get. Na her loss say she left her ex. Also watch her because should she have the opportunity she might start cheating on you with the ex if the ex wants to play a game with her.

Don't get yourself worked up because of her disrespectful comments, go on with your life and keep the hustling fire burning. You marry woman wey marry you to alleviate her poverty; not someone that wants to hustle with you and build with you until you make am. So bear your cross en! ndoo en!

DaddyOpe:
I got married to my wife 5 years ago. Before we got married, she dated a guy. We all stayed in the same area. I live here because it is close to my place of work. Her ex lives in the area. He does building contractor. While they were dating, I met my wife. I was able to convince her to date me. And since the guy was always travelling, I was able to get close to her. I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain. She later left the guy. I proposed, she accepted and we got married.

I will say, at that time I got married to my wife, her ex and I were on the same level financially. But, recently, the guy has turned to something else. He does building for people overseas. People said the guy's work is good and he is always getting contracts. My wife said he had a 2.1 in Civil Engineering. He started selling cement. He is now a dangote cement distributor. He built a duplex at the junction of my street. He has 3 cars in the compound (he recently bought 1 car during this lockdown that people are saying no money oo). I and my wife do not have any car. I am still a tenant. We have to pass front of his house every day.

During this lockdown, my office has being delaying salaries. It has not being easy. I have had quarrels with my wife in the past but yesterday was the worst. During the quarrel, she said she regrets marrying me. That if she had ignored me and married her ex, she would have being living comfortably. I almost beat her up. Then she told me that this her ex paid her school fees in 300 and 400 level when she almost pulled out of school for lack of finance. She regrets paying him back by leaving him to marry me.

Since then, I have not being myself. I just created this account to express myself.

You and your wife,s ex dey run race ,to know who win? Ogbeni go and hussle and feed your wife.And who told you ,that you cant build your own house and buy cars? Stop whining my friend and increase your hussle.

I think its your weak attitude that your wife detests,i can fvck well ,no be achievement.......man up my friend!

Raalsalghul:


Is anything wrong with divorce?

No one should be aiming for divorce. The children suffer even both parties may develop a mental illness from a divorce.

luminouz:
Na today women dey use reverse psychology and words to manipulate men? Its normal na but throwing it in his face was the issue.

N.B: they were not perpetually broke, just going through some trying times and besides, she didn't marry OP for his money, na the sex game,so it makes no sense to me that her ex sudden wealth would trigger her vampire nature IF NOT THE DREADFUL FINANCIAL SITUATION at home. Things must be really tight for her to say such and besides he never told us the fully gist on her, if she is contributing to the family purse or not.

So many unexplained variables here

bro, sadly, the above is just irrelevant IMHO... because your woman should be with you through thick and thin, and if she will easily insult you the minute you guys are having difficulties, then it is a further confirmation that you are with the wrong woman.

this is the time that this woman should support you, comfort you, give you that shoulder that will help your family get through this TOGETHER, and certainly not turn her back on you and look down on you while insulting you. the best way to know the type of partner you have is certainly not when everything is going great, money is flowing and life is great, it is when you guys are down and struggling.... this man was fooling himself believing he was with a great woman, and only today he discovered the real face of the woman he is married to.

Goalnaldo:
I'm looking forward to see the motherly advice of bukatyne, ishilove and pocohantas. Those three ladies are sagacious.

U have only one lady on your list, d rest two are kids!

Goalnaldo:
I have seen a thread like this but it was the guy that told the lady he regretted of marrying her. People were telling the guy he talks to much why isn't anyone saying the lady talks too much okay I guess it's because it wasn't the lady that created the thread

Abeg the guy should man up....some men think to fvck well na achievement!

The guy deliberately built the house there just to torment your family.. Kindly save up some cash and rent a place far from where you will be exposed to all the show off... Better days ahead

arthorjnr:
The said EX had the last laugh. Lol
Karma is a b.itch.
Your wife cheated on him with you and now she regrets it because of how things turned out?


Females are fickle.

Dear Young Man, HUSTLE.

Naija and audio wealth...

The way you guys are mouthing this hustle of word makes it look like there is money to be picked on the streets.

Some people are coming to wealth but doesn't make becoming wealthy a cake walk.

His wife taunts him and fiam! he goes hustling and his account balance starts reading seven figures...

Come back to the world...

Money is the solution

You snatched your fellow guy woman while he was hustling, struggling to be who he is today, while you are working with your penis he was working with his hands, she left a good hardworking man to be with a commoner like you, damage done anyway, if I were you better double up your hustling if not na suicide go end the matter.

Karma

Davash222:
I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain.



This is where your problems started. You don't win a woman, she's not trophy. You're the trophy not her.
I have nothing to tell you. You ruined yourself.

Just so you know, if your beloved wife gets the opportunity to fucck that ex for free now, she will not hesitate.

you typed just like ubunja

I think you should just pack out of that area, the more she sees her ex achievement, the more she regrets leaving him and thats more quarrels for u. just pack out

MelaninSkinGirl:
No one should be aiming for divorce. The children suffer even both parties may develop a mental illness from a divorce.

the children suffer more when they see daddy and mummy hating one another, daddy and mummy acting foul towards one another, daddy and mummy being bitter about life, daddy and mummy insulting each other, daddy and mummy having a miserable life and now treating everyone around them (including kids) in an ill manner.

better two parents that are separated and happy than together and miserable.

Its well my brother; let this be a gear to you and also see it from the positive point of view by trying to get ideas that will help your finance and work towards achieving them.
You are what you do with your life in general.
Cheers

DaddyOpe:
I got married to my wife 5 years ago. Before we got married, she dated a guy. We all stayed in the same area. I live here because it is close to my place of work. Her ex lives in the area. He does building contractor. While they were dating, I met my wife. I was able to convince her to date me. And since the guy was always travelling, I was able to get close to her. I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain. She later left the guy. I proposed, she accepted and we got married.

I will say, at that time I got married to my wife, her ex and I were on the same level financially. But, recently, the guy has turned to something else. He does building for people overseas. People said the guy's work is good and he is always getting contracts. My wife said he had a 2.1 in Civil Engineering. He started selling cement. He is now a dangote cement distributor. He built a duplex at the junction of my street. He has 3 cars in the compound (he recently bought 1 car during this lockdown that people are saying no money oo). I and my wife do not have any car. I am still a tenant. We have to pass front of his house every day.

During this lockdown, my office has being delaying salaries. It has not being easy. I have had quarrels with my wife in the past but yesterday was the worst. During the quarrel, she said she regrets marrying me. That if she had ignored me and married her ex, she would have being living comfortably. I almost beat her up. Then she told me that this her ex paid her school fees in 300 and 400 level when she almost pulled out of school for lack of finance. She regrets paying him back by leaving him to marry me.

Since then, I have not being myself. I just created this account to express myself.