DaddyOpe:
I got married to my wife 5 years ago. Before we got married, she dated a guy. We all stayed in the same area. I live here because it is close to my place of work. Her ex lives in the area. He does building contractor. While they were dating, I met my wife. I was able to convince her to date me. And since the guy was always travelling, I was able to get close to her. I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain. She later left the guy. I proposed, she accepted and we got married.

I will say, at that time I got married to my wife, her ex and I were on the same level financially. But, recently, the guy has turned to something else. He does building for people overseas. People said the guy's work is good and he is always getting contracts. My wife said he had a 2.1 in Civil Engineering. He started selling cement. He is now a dangote cement distributor. He built a duplex at the junction of my street. He has 3 cars in the compound (he recently bought 1 car during this lockdown that people are saying no money oo). I and my wife do not have any car. I am still a tenant. We have to pass front of his house every day.

During this lockdown, my office has being delaying salaries. It has not being easy. I have had quarrels with my wife in the past but yesterday was the worst. During the quarrel, she said she regrets marrying me. That if she had ignored me and married her ex, she would have being living comfortably. I almost beat her up. Then she told me that this her ex paid her school fees in 300 and 400 level when she almost pulled out of school for lack of finance. She regrets paying him back by leaving him to marry me.

Since then, I have not being myself. I just created this account to express myself.

This is what happens when you snatch a woman from a better man...have fun!!

You both deserve each other.

Simply put, this is how hot pants ruin women

Punish her well well for cheating on her ex

Its quite unfortunate u married a baby.. And u caused all these for yourself... Your marriage foundation is quite shallow and something is missing in your marriage.. This is Jesus..

maybe she married you because you were able to satisfy her in the oza room....now you know you should not marry because of sexual gratification

apokan200:
haha so you don’t believe in super natural power ?

That's not in question.

But blaming your inability to succeed on another man's child is a waste of your parents school fees and shows a lack of accountability and responsibility

My brother ,ignore her ,don't mind your wife ,the other guy too never wanted to marry her also,..
You know women can say a lot when they are angry ,don't beat her ,just ignore her ,..but l will still advice you move out of that environment for many reasons ,...

NOETHNICITY:
Simply put, this is how hot pants ruin women

Punish well well for cheating on her ex

success id truly the best revenge

DaddyOpe:
I got married to my wife 5 years ago. Before we got married, she dated a guy. We all stayed in the same area. I live here because it is close to my place of work. Her ex lives in the area. He does building contractor. While they were dating, I met my wife. I was able to convince her to date me. And since the guy was always travelling, I was able to get close to her. I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain. She later left the guy. I proposed, she accepted and we got married.

I will say, at that time I got married to my wife, her ex and I were on the same level financially. But, recently, the guy has turned to something else. He does building for people overseas. People said the guy's work is good and he is always getting contracts. My wife said he had a 2.1 in Civil Engineering. He started selling cement. He is now a dangote cement distributor. He built a duplex at the junction of my street. He has 3 cars in the compound (he recently bought 1 car during this lockdown that people are saying no money oo). I and my wife do not have any car. I am still a tenant. We have to pass front of his house every day.

During this lockdown, my office has being delaying salaries. It has not being easy. I have had quarrels with my wife in the past but yesterday was the worst. During the quarrel, she said she regrets marrying me. That if she had ignored me and married her ex, she would have being living comfortably. I almost beat her up. Then she told me that this her ex paid her school fees in 300 and 400 level when she almost pulled out of school for lack of finance. She regrets paying him back by leaving him to marry me.

Since then, I have not being myself. I just created this account to express myself.

This is what happens when you chase and chase a lady that is in a relationship or not interested and convinced her that you are the best person for her

DaddyOpe

What both fo you did was wrong: you using sex to steal her and she dumping him. I hope you know you converted what was not yours. If they had a good and strong relationship, you had no right to destroy it.

Well, that is in the past now. Both of you must, however, seek forgiveness for what you did. I would feel awful if I did same to someone, really awful. Talk to your wife about it.

Next, you and your wife discuss how to move forward.

What have you gleaned from how he made his wealth? First, he is focused on the skill he read in the uni. Do you have any skills you can monetize?

Next, he is good at the skill. Do you have a skill you're very good at?

And lastly, he is honest. Can people trust you with cash or you will do a shoddy job or just run away with the money? He is getting lots of referral work from happy and satisfied clients. Long term relationship is where the money is and not when you tarnish your image with fraudulent behavior from the start. No more repeat business or referrals.

If you have a skill you're good at, you need to get clients. You need to market yourself. Getting a very high quality business card will help for instance.

Op never mind, when she was enjoying she didn’t complain and forgot the rainy days... how wish she knew things will be like this today, she won’t have accept your proposal[color=#000099][/color]

funmisticqueen2:
success id truly the best revenge

true

I was luckily to be my fiance first love, dating a lady they've disflower is just kind of irritating to me



some men have got no taste really

Bro u snatched her away from him because u were selfish and this is the repercussion

kay7:
Mr. Brain Scatterer,
Have your skills expired?

When you place high priority on s*x, you reap the results.

poverty trumps bedmantics everytime

Who would have known? Chai

Op, your story makes me laugh.
Even though I have pity for you.

Just as people have suggested, find one excuse and park out of that vicinity.

If your rival is a player, he will knack your wife again and again.

Also, keep using that weapon you used to catch her, to keep her busy. At least for some time before you relocate.

Alaganature:


No be lie bro...you really hit the nail by the head bro

Lol, tanks bro...but that is d reality.

Wen karma want to work on someone, even her brother that is immigration commander wil b sacked just for the person not to secure work

hybrid11:
she said it out of anger , step up your game, women hate to see the man(ex) left doing well more than their husband.
mind how you talk to her

Bros, that's life..... you can't be doing well than everyone you come across. the lady who broke your heart might get married to a guy far richer than you.its just life.

SultanOfAbia:
Op, this is how money ritual starts ooo
Before you know it you will be on frontpage
With headline " Man kills neighbor for money ritual because Wife called him poor"

Here is the only solution..
Did your wife study Ashawology at UNN back in the 90's?
If She did then it's time for her to use her certificate and apply for Ashawo job
Cuz as this economy dey right now...
Either you pimping her out to her Ex and both of you make money as she sell pussy to pay for her sins.
That's the only solution right now!!!
But i doubt an EX will accept such lady after this kind of betrayal..
In First Book of Chris Brown Chapter 4:2
It says & i quote "This Hoes Ain't Loyal"

Guy u mad finish

You are completely finished!

MelaninSkinGirl:


Lets see how MGTOW plays out when you are retired and 85 and your kids from your different baby mamas hate you for abandoning their mothers. What next? A young girl of 25 to use your viagra on?

Why not say something on the main post instead of taking on someone for his opinion?

Davash222:
I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain.



This is where your problems started. You don't win a woman, she's not trophy. You're the trophy not her.
I have nothing to tell you. You ruined yourself.

Just so you know, if your beloved wife gets the opportunity to fucck that ex for free now, she will not hesitate.

Q.E.D!

Sex before marriage is always very dangerous. Many people don't know this. Ecclesiastes 10:8
[8]He who digs a pit [for others] will fall into it, and whoever breaks through a fence or a [stone] wall, a serpent will bite him. [Ps. 57:6.]
But things can still turn around for you. Please open the door of your heart for Jesus. Let Him do what no man can't do. You may maybe poor today but 2mrw things can change for you.
Don't envy your wife ex guy. Follow Jesus to the end you will see what he can do.

BabbanBura:


Why not say something on the main post instead of taking on someone for his opinion?

I already did bro, I even showed sympathy and empathy!!!

DaddyOpe:
I got married to my wife 5 years ago. Before we got married, she dated a guy. We all stayed in the same area. I live here because it is close to my place of work. Her ex lives in the area. He does building contractor. While they were dating, I met my wife. I was able to convince her to date me. And since the guy was always travelling, I was able to get close to her. I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain. She later left the guy. I proposed, she accepted and we got married.

I will say, at that time I got married to my wife, her ex and I were on the same level financially. But, recently, the guy has turned to something else. He does building for people overseas. People said the guy's work is good and he is always getting contracts. My wife said he had a 2.1 in Civil Engineering. He started selling cement. He is now a dangote cement distributor. He built a duplex at the junction of my street. He has 3 cars in the compound (he recently bought 1 car during this lockdown that people are saying no money oo). I and my wife do not have any car. I am still a tenant. We have to pass front of his house every day.

During this lockdown, my office has being delaying salaries. It has not being easy. I have had quarrels with my wife in the past but yesterday was the worst. During the quarrel, she said she regrets marrying me. That if she had ignored me and married her ex, she would have being living comfortably. I almost beat her up. Then she told me that this her ex paid her school fees in 300 and 400 level when she almost pulled out of school for lack of finance. She regrets paying him back by leaving him to marry me.

Since then, I have not being myself. I just created this account to express myself.

Do unto others as you wish it was done to you..You knew the truth but..well how can it set you free..
Take this from me and take it parmenently, the only way to unveil the mysteries of yourself life is live in the face if truth.

Acrimony

Bro, you no try at all. You should have relocated before or immediately you guys got married. Did you decide to remain in that same neighbourhood simply because you wanted to taunt the ex that you collected his chick? if not for anything, you should even be scared of the ex-factor shit. Truth is, there's no guarantee that guy would have married her.

Oga, your case is just like Covid-19, its cure is difficult to formulate. Meanwhile maintain social distancing with your wife from that guy's house, hopefully karma doesn't descend on you with full momentum.

Don't mind her, all will be well, don't envy anyone, we are all destined to succeed but not at the same time, she's not contended with the little she has and that's not a quality of a good wife.

When you ask a girl out and she told you that she is in a relationship, please respect her and move on, stop insisting and intimidating her with marriage because if you succeed that marriage will not last, one day, just one day she will leave you for her ex or she will be sleeping with her ex.