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Liposure:
so dating is now synonymous 2 banking and finance

If that's how you can interpret the message.

Op, u are not OK

Regards

NaeChris:
This post should be thrown into the waste bin. You are just confusing yourself. You mention HOUSEHOLD, is the guy her husband? You talked about BOYFRIEND providing, are they married? No boyfriend has responsibility over any girlfriend unless they are engaged, even at that, there is a limit. No boyfriend has the right to have sex with his girlfriend unless they are married, otherwise ON MUTUAL CONSENT. Provission here is voluntry as long as they are not married. Na your type go finally come dey cast ladies of how them use you dump you. Seriously, you dey find girlfriend, wish you well in your search.

I hope they don't hurt him badly if/when he reduces the funding to the babes because all this one wey OP type ehn, na becos he Neva receive Lesson o.

Some gals go still teach u Wella, continue forming Money Bank.

Ariza:
The truth is I've learnt bitterly from two experiences that MEN love to spend to spend on their Women. To them it's like a form of fulfilment and relevancy reason why most assume the roles of father immediately they enter a relationship. Forget the redpill and all things guys type here, it's opposite offline and op is really projecting reality.

As one who hardly takes gifts because I feel it kind of subdue someone to some form of indebtedness.I go to relationships with the "He isnt responsible for me" mentality and I don't ask. I will rather call my parents or Sister if I'm pushed to the wall but I learnt the effect this has on guys I'm dating the hard way. One told me, I blocked every form of his existence,and made him feel useless and accuse me of "probably getting my help elsewhere" The other didn't even say anything, only found himself a Barbie doll he can decorate with gifts. While to me, I was only putting them first.

The truth is Men love to be leeched on. It gives them joy when they share their stories. I'd be foolish to think otherwise. I've learnt the hard way. I even came across Ubunja thread on How a man's heart is where his money is.

See ehn, I will ask ooooo. since that's how you all feel important.

No o. Don’t be too quick to change.


Third time’s a charm. There are stolid egalitarians out there. Not every man channels the saviour complex. That’s if you are not scared to find what you’re looking for.

Ariza:
There is a saying "whatever you won't eat, don't sniff". Some live by that rule.

Moreover trying to get a woman's love through buying them gifts annoy some ladies rather than appease them. Don't think everyone is the same.

Someone like me before i listen to you ha money first oooo cause I can't lose at both ends

This OP knows how to trigger Nigerians ,fvcking troll.

Millenniumlady:
Someone like me before i listen to you ha money first oooo cause I can't lose at both ends

You are a clown .

Millenniumlady:
You're very stupid

How come u feel so hurted millenium ashana? U olosho, money and back for ground can't be separated. No sorry for u, na ur work. But repent before its too late ANTY Ashanti.

Women will ask for equality for everything except their upkeep

Ariza:
Yes Sir.... I will try and I will learn to ask too.

Alright. Ask...not demand. Niggas are ready to provide. No go dey ask nigga wey no fit provide oh...na another heartbreak be that.

Ariza:
Don't mind this comment, was only trolling


But I will start asking Sha ..

I suspected, i mean like not in a relationship sorta way

So you have loved a guy how was he like? Did you feel comfortable asking him for money?

Greenbullet:
I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.

Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.

I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.

Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.

PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT

Mumi till then... You should be writing relationship advice for folks in 1917 not even 2017.

Ariza:


You are a clown .

Me i just don't no how to pretend i'm always me my friends will tell you that even if i don't like you I'll first accept the monetary gift then let you fix a day for us to meet where i can tell you why i don't want to date you then I'll standup and go to my father's house

Kweensavvy:
Lolz the way they'll come for this 1 head ehn lolzz

D guy kill my joy...if i b woman i for try follow up this guy to show prove

Millenniumlady:
Someone like me before i listen to you ha money first oooo cause I can't lose at both ends

Na people like you dem dey use do money ritual. Continue in your way mini

YOU ARE THE MOST STUPID HUMAN ON THIS PLANET.

kerry57:
How come u feel so hurted millenium ashana? U olosho, money and back for ground can't be separated. No sorry for u, na ur work. But repent before its too late ANTY Ashanti.

Urs i like money so what

DrayZee:
Alright. Ask...not demand. Niggas are ready to provide. No go dey ask nigga wey no fit provide oh...na another heartbreak be that.

Lol.. at least no one is denying the fact that Guy's love to spend and it's important to them. Nice


Lol @ another heartbreak

dicksonadams:
Na people like you dem dey use do money ritual. Continue in your way mini

Rituals ke i dey find dem self cause nah dem dey sweet to date they spend like their lives depends on it.

Greenbullet:
I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.

Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.

I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.

Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.

PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT

You ARE SURE A LADY Whom have.been chastised and then come on here to WAIL!!!

I LIE

Tatashi:
I dated a guy and didnt ask for a dime and guess what? He never also raised a finger to give' not even recharge cards.it didnt take long till the love died a natural death.Guys,u see that woman who doesnt ask for a pin from you...

That should be the one you should buy the world for .but if u think becos she doesnt ask then you feel u can fold ur arms and ignore her thinking she's cheap? I pity u.them go collect her from your hand.

Collect her?

This is why so many Naija women can't find boyfriends let alone husband in UK.
Awon werey!

Millenniumlady:
Rituals ke i dey find dem self cause nah dem dey sweet to date they spend like their lives depends on it.

Aunty pray about it... Nothing wey God know fit do

Greenbullet:
I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.

Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.

I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.

Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.

PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT

Orí e ti gba ile... Meanining your head Don nack ground.

Dating and relationships should be Deutch. I mean 50-50. Nothing stops a guy from dump a financial LovePeddler. That's why many ladies will forever be single.....

mumu

dicksonadams:
Aunty pray about it... Nothing wey God know fit do

k

Tatashi:
I dated a guy and didnt ask for a dime and guess what? He never also raised a finger to give' not even recharge cards.it didnt take long till the love died a natural death.Guys,u see that woman who doesnt ask for a pin from you...

That should be the one you should buy the world for .but if u think becos she doesnt ask then you feel u can fold ur arms and ignore her thinking she's cheap? I pity u.them go collect her from your hand.

Very very true. I support this.

But I just prefer my lady to ask me for huge sum to start a business than asking me regularly for money to do things.

Millenniumlady:
Me i just don't no how to pretend i'm always me my friends will tell you that even if i don't like you I'll first accept the monetary gift then let you fix a day for us to meet where i can tell you why i don't want to date you then I'll standup and go to my father's house

Ahhhhhhhhh . You see why we are different, I won't even meet the guy I don't like. . Nne the guy go just dey smell to me like shiit that I won't even want to have contact with especially if he's persistent.

I'm kind of straight with feelings and sometimes I can be overly strict. If I like you, I like you . If I don't, nothing will make me like you. Nothing! If you try too hard I will hate you. I'm very weird. But heaven helps when I fall in love . It takes me years to overcome heartbreak oooo

why am I finding it difficult to believe, this thread were created by a guy

Greenbullet:
I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.

Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.

I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.

Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.

PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT

see mumu

NaeChris:
This post should be thrown into the waste bin. You are just confusing yourself. You mention HOUSEHOLD, is the guy her husband? You talked about BOYFRIEND providing, are they married? No boyfriend has responsibility over any girlfriend unless they are engaged, even at that, there is a limit. No boyfriend has the right to have sex with his girlfriend unless they are married, otherwise ON MUTUAL CONSENT. Provission here is voluntry as long as they are not married. Na your type go finally come dey cast ladies of how them use you dump you. Seriously, you dey find girlfriend, wish you well in your search.

What?
As old as you are, you do not know that O.P is a lady hiding behind the curtain of male gender?
Which right thinking MAN would spew those senseless lines she spewed up there?

AfroKnight:
No o. Don’t be too quick to change.


Third time’s a charm. There are stolid egalitarians out there. Not every man channels the saviour complex. That’s if you are not scared to find what you’re looking for.

Ahhhhhhhhh me wey I don board train to change self


Well I believe moderation is the key sha.