Nooil:


Set me free on nairaland? LMAO

YOUR CONSCIENCE

Justbehave:
All lies. Talking trash after dem don bang Una.

NNa he no tire you dem do scatter dem brain with nacking! A married man is well skilled in the other room, because he has practiced enough and knows the act of certifying a woman . mind you i am not in support of dem, but the ladies are to be blamed. There is always a red flag. some know they are dating a married man, but hoping that the married man will chase away his wife for them.

Toks2008:


I agree with you jare. Some of them are even learners, they dont know how to get a concubine after marriage.

If i need any other lady to be with i will just find one young lady and solve her family problem...Fiam, dem don package am for me...case closed.

You don't need another lady, be content with one. Too much exploring na im cause homosexuality today.

Happens a lot of times but I think many girls dont really care these days maybe they are after money, companionship or she hope's you will leave wifey for her.

ifyy07:

They no go tell you that part the different styles they have the married men during sex...you see women ehnn I fear who no fear them....they are willing even suspect but because of the goodies dem dey get dem go fall victim I don't pity them

Thank you. I been think say na only me notice say all of them dey avoid go that side.lol

IJOBA2:
YOUR CONSCIENCE

But my conscience is not on nairaland na

QuinModah:
It was back then in 2013 while I was still in school. I asked this guy if he was married, he said no but my spirit kept telling me he's married.

So one day, I used my lodge mate's phone number to put a call across to him telling him am mama Ada that I want to speak with his wife that her line isn't reachable and I really need to repay the loan she gave me before I squander the money, on hearing that he started screaming ''Mummy mummy bia onwere Onye na akpo gi'' (mummy mummy come someone is calling u). I quietly switched off the phone . I later asked him if it was worth denying your wife and kids because you want what you may never get, and he couldn't answer.

he didn't recognise ur voice?
smart anyway.

Toks2008:


Personally i will never have a side chic, never cos it is clear adultery and i have my salvation to protect. If i want to be with another lady, i pay her bride price and marry her...it makes no sense keeping a side chic. If i want 5 more i will do the same.

One thing a man must pray to always have is good money, If GOD blesses you with wealth you can marry a thousand wives and nothing will happen.

we are saying the same thing brother. If you are talking about salvation, marrying more than 1 wife is equal to keeping mistress aside your wife, that's if you are a Christian


But we are on same page, nobody can stop reggae, ladies use your head, you can be a mistress to a wonderful , caring married man like mwaah, but u must be extremely beautiful and hot

E be like say na married men sabi dis game wella.

Hmmm e be like say I go go marry now o make I begin play this game wella.

Leezah:
Honestly ladies have seen hell, this is what girls must pass through before ending up been Mrs ?? But its well.

You will never notice they're married because there's nothing suspicious even in their home.

First one.... The wife was far from him where she's working, and his home looks so much like bachelor's home and I find out through my friend who saw his pictures on my phone one day. I confronted him,he denied it till date.

Second one, The man even promised to marry me not knowing he's already engaged. I found out through his ex gf whom I suspected he was cheating on me with on Facebook. The good aunty revealed everything to me. The funny part is he never posted his so called wife on social media, nor have her pics on phone. He's also single on social media. The ex told me he married the lady because of her money and only go to visit her once in a while because he's still living in his bachelor's house.

Third one, His brother he introduced to me one day started developing feelings for me ooo. Even went to the extent of revealing his brother's secret of being married to one village girl with a kid so I should leave his brother and come to him. I confronted his brother and he didn't even deny it just and also told me that he wish he meet me before the girl and that he's ready to leave her for me. Mehnnnnn I gave up on men since those experience. It really hurts

All of this three are still looking fresh and young. U will never suspect them being engaged let alone married. May God help we ladies oooo

did you you have intimate relationship wit dem?

Nooil:


You don't need another lady, be content with one. Too much exploring na im cause homosexuality today.

no one woman can satisfy the sexual desires and fantasies of a successful man

Nooil:


But my conscience is not on nairaland na

WHERES YA CONSCIENCE, TWITTER I GUESS.


OYA RUN GO CREATE THREAD FOR TWITTER AS ONE POOR NIGGAR TAKE RAPE YOU BACK THEN.



YOU KNOW WHAT THAT NIGGAR DON BLOW


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bukatyne:


False

The lady committed fornication; yes.
The man committed adultery and deceived the lady that he was single.

Don't mind those women. They hate truth. Lies always appear beautiful and even when their instincts is telling them otherwise, they would be hoping those lies in their faces, magically turn to truth.

Married men pamper them a lot. Facts!

More single ladies tend to try seducing married men too. I find it hard to believe when I see a Nigerian girl forming I belong when it is time to talk down on married men hitting on them. BS!!!

They are all enjoying it.

Justbehave:
And non of you had sex with them? Lies.

Even the title of the thread should be. Ladies, at what point did you realise you were dating a married man.

Of course sex and even abortion must be involved, but it's not like they will say it here.


The truth is that most of them are aware, but they only back out when they get threatened or get scared.

Well our ladies have pass through many mess, I am married man and I have dated a single lady before although she knows am married, but when I noticed she started behaving like I must marry her to be my second wife, Ah wahala be that ooo, but my wife doesn’t notice, God so good it was that month I was transfer from Lagos to Ekiti, I sharply carry my family with me. And I promise my self not to try such thing again

Format

Many years after the damage, this guy still contacted me to tell me he loves me. I told him I don't know him and his name doesn't ring a bell. He sounded very sad

Emaprince:
I think it happens the other way round more often.

Women are more emotional and tend to be attached to their exes more than men. A woman named her son after my elder bro....because of their closeness. I suspected something fishy sef.

My very close lawyer friend saw his ex name her daughter(first child) after him(the name is miracle)

Women tend to immortalize their exes in their husbands home through their sons.


For that reason, I vowed my sons will be named by me..while the woman name the daughters. If not, wahala go dey.

I no trust women at all

I have no interest in who does it more as there is no data to back that up. This thread is about married man and the extent they go to cheat and that is what I commented on.

Your trust issues is your personal problem. Lots of women do not trust men either. I guess that settles you all.

pocohantas:
A married man that has been hitting on me just named his newborn child after me.

I guess he wants me to know how much he “loves” me, but I am very concerned and worried about the number of women calling their daughters the name of their husband’s sidechick.

May God help us in this marriage something.

They keep taking this thing to the next level.

....lol. Don't tell me you will get angry if you foundout your daughter's name is same as your hubby's side chick?

Saintmary:
Ladies, please, don't let them shame you into silence, speak out so that the formats that these liars use can be exposed. Thanks
I see you.

Hahahaha
From the comments so far, most ladies found out through social media.
Me I'm deactivating my Facebook immediately after wedding.

JONNYSPUTE:
....lol. Don't tell me you will get angry if you foundout your daughter's name is same as your hubby's side chick?

No, I won’t. It is just a name, right?

Metronomy:


No naaa, just type their number for Facebook search.... If there's any record, it'll come out.

I mean if you wanna read their FB messages

IyaTola:
Not almost.We met on facebook as usual.We have been speaking for about three months. I usually travel to go shop for my store.You will never see a trace of this man anywhere.

He even said he wanted us to relocate to another country, but I notice he hardly pick his calls late at night .But i will be wondering, he will give me one excuse or the other.

So I went to Lagos we were suppose to meet up.I lodge myself In a hotel,I got into lagos so late.This guy said he was coming,today tomorrow I have not seen him.

So I came on my Facebook,on my message request i saw a lady have been dropping messages to me.She even added me on Facebook .Come and see message,I read the message then went on her page. Oga is married with two kids and another one on the way.The woman started calling my Number. She told me how she is pregnant the guy will not respect her. How he gave her STD. I was so lost ,don't even know how to console her over the phone.She said she got my number from her husband phone.

After that call she said she want to be my friend that I'm a nice person.I just block her so called husband including her.She even added me with another Facebook again.That made me put up a bio on my Facebook. After that rubbish.


Second experience
I almost oo hmmmm, Mr man lied he wasn't married and he was seeking for a serious relationship. Myself i just came in to the states of recent b4 he approached me.
But my ex thought me something on how to check on someone via Facebook with their digits. So, that taught came to my mind and i decided to give it a trial.
Loo and behold Mr was with his so called wife on profile pics.
At first i was like..., why will this man lie for not being married� or is he a divorcee... But he never said so to me.
Next thing i did was to chat a lady who was always tagging him in her Post and this lady looks like the lady he was with on his Profile pix.
I chatted her, we got talking i asked her if she knows the man, shockingly to me she admitted being his wife and the MR man has 4 grown Kids. Iyameeee oo church dismissed that was how i sent him a message telling him to please go and take care of his family oo. Mr man Got shocked and AHAHHHH TOSIN TOSIN.... Till now he still claiming to be single, even after i saw his Facebook account, this guy still claim it was because of travelling he did the wedding, promising Heaven and Earth,he would come to place late hour claiming if he was married how would he be staying out late....... Men Men Men some of them Devil is just learning from them. Chai.

Please teach me how to check someone on Facebook with their digits

QuinModah:
It was back then in 2013 while I was still in school. I asked this guy if he was married, he said no but my spirit kept telling me he's married.

So one day, I used my lodge mate's phone number to put a call across to him telling him am mama Ada that I want to speak with his wife that her line isn't reachable and I really need to repay the loan she gave me before I squander the money, on hearing that he started screaming ''Mummy mummy bia onwere Onye na akpo gi'' (mummy mummy come someone is calling u). I quietly switched off the phone . I later asked him if it was worth denying your wife and kids because you want what you may never get, and he couldn't answer.

This gal should work with the FBI, not the EFCC o. Lol.

pocohantas:


No, I won’t. It is just a name, right?

...It's very normal to get pissed off about it.Just that the way you said it was very funny to me.

Lamanii22:
Those married men eehn... They'd be looking so young and cute... They'd spoil you baje...

Potential husband snatcha

How can you date a guy and never follow him home to see where he lives. At least this will help reveal it a little if married or not. Some can hide this somehow but it does help a great deal.

Toks2008:


Did you just say what can a married man give that a single guy cant give?..Dapada

There is a way a married man takes care of a lady that will make the lady stay glued for life. Most of these single guys are still learners. Ooin

Mad o.

IJOBA2:
WHERES YA CONSCIENCE, TWITTER I GUESS.


OYA RUN GO CREATE THREAD FOR TWITTER AS ONE POOR NIGGAR TAKE RAPE YOU BACK THEN.



YOU KNOW WHAT THAT NIGGAR DON BLOW


CC SLAWORMIR

My conscience is in my heart, not on Twitter and not on nairaland. And like my creator, the secret things are for me. I only choose to reveal what I want. I hope you get this.

And what's with the capslock? It's not even sexy like that of CAPSLOCKED.

Offpoint:
Yeah, when I finally found out that was when the relationship gets sweeter. I started giving styles I never gave him before.

Always off point

Wow, you are sooo well spoken and Obviously intelligent!!

extremelygolden:
We became friends as a result of working in the same area. Nothing serious. We unexpectedly lost contacts for about 3 years when I had a redeployment, and according to him, he resigned and travelled out. I doubt he travelled out sha, because I later found out he was a seasoned liar.

One day he called. Said he just stumbled on my phone number. But all na wash, I am sure of that.

1. He visited me twice and each time I mentioned that I will pay him a visit the next week, he'll form travelling out of Lagos.

2. I usually hear the laughter or cry of a baby in the background whenever he's on the phone with me. When I asked him, he lied that his neighbours children are always around him whenever he's at home.

3. He was always issuing directives to a certain Bimbo. My personal research on him made me discover that Bimbo is actually his wife. He told me she was a friend.

4. My intuition has never failed me. I knew something wasn't right but I couldn't place my finger on it. Then I asked for his Facebook account.

5. He told me he wasn't really into social media, especially Facebook. That was when I knew that he wasn't for real. It was very strange and that actually piqued my interest. I mean, how could a guy who builds inverter, etc say he doesn't do social media?

6. One day, I made up my mind to dig out whatever it was he was hiding, so I started with Facebook. It didn't take me up to 5 minutes to locate his account, filled with numerous wedding pictures of himself and his wife, family pictures of the couple and their two children. He looked very young, so you wouldn't suspect that he was married. He told me so himself that he wasn't married. Can you imagine that?

7. I kept on searching and I found out that he used his wife to open another account where majority of her contacts were white guys. But what shocked me most was that under relationship I saw SINGLE. Whereas that Facebook account was opened recently. A married woman with two children claiming Single!

She also has another FB account with details of her business and contacts.

I wanted to pay them a surprise visit one day with all the information I garnered, but later changed my mind. I mean, it wasn't worth my useful time.

Up till date, he doesn't know why I stopped picking his calls or responding to his messages. I never told him of my findings. I only thank God I never really got committed with him before my discovery. And the guy seems to know ladies from different sections of Lagos State. I mean, he's damned so promiscuous. Always on phone with them.

To me, any man who has the boldness to deny his wife and children for any reason is more than irresponsible! And that's who that guy is!

Listen, only immature punks would lie about marital status to a chick.

Why? Most don’t care and we’re hunted and very well sought after by the ladies.

With our wedding ring intact we’ll move on you like President Trump would

Note to boyfriends, it’s us married folks taking care of and making your girlfriend look radiant.

Edit: on yah all’s wedding date, that mysterious hell of a big gift is from us. That “Uncle” that rented that expensive and unaffordable event center for your wedding? We paid for it. On Valentine’s Day we release her to you. But that pressing appointment the day after valentines? She’s coming to juba for us.

Be guided and don’t be misled.

PS: we have the money, class and exposure that’s every wanton little girls dream. But she needs to pacify society and her parents and have a struggling guy that they’re patching it together with. It’s all good but please stop demonizing us married men. We make the world go around.

Who said we don't have beautiful ladies on Nairaland