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Have been caught up in a difficult situation. I have been dating this my lovely girlfriend for more than a year now. She is beautiful, humble, kind and a good girl. She is from a good family too. The parents are not too rich just average and doing very well. They are 2 girls and 3 boys and the elder sis is more of a slay queen i.e so beautiful and refuses to marry so the mother is hoping on this my girl to settle down, always encouraging her to settle down.

Now I am 29 years and I really love this girl and she loves me more than i actually love her, always ready to do my biding. She is just 22 and I wish to marry her someday but my finances are low. I have met the father and he said he doesn't need anything from me only things for the kinsmen or whatever but my parents are the opposite. Infact my dad won't even entertain my thought of getting married now because despite am staying alone, i still get small stipends from him monthly so he knows am not financially independent.

To cut the long story short.. My girl is pregnant again after several abortions in the past and she is refusing to take pills. She wants to keep this one and is urging me to come pay her bride price so we can move in together. This was not my dream way of getting married. I don't have a problem with her keeping the child but I just cannot marry now with my monthly salary of 40k which am struggling to feed and pay bills.

Please I need advice.
Pls no insult I knw the abortion act is wrong n never intended for her to take in again but it keeps happening...

Help me please i dont want to lose this lovely princess because she promise to end the relationship if she has to take another pill.

Onuku,it shall end in tearz
If she 1t 2 comot belle n die,beta tears 4 u.
If she no comot belle n die wen bornin, tears 4 u.
If she park join u,.tears upon tears bicos of hungry.
If ur fada dont give u money again,original tear begin.
If she dumped u follow anoda person.ur tears will almost finish 4 ur eyes.because instead 4 u 2 dumped her,she dump u

Anyhw I reasoned it,I sha no it MUST end in tears.

Alaye 4get woman.
Go & huzzle because no be u get dat belle.
Dat belle na format 2 tied u.
1 afonjress almost do am 2 me.I tell her no problems. She parked join me.i com dey blow am 4 free.
Dey chop free yeye pepper stew wen no get test.

1 night,after I hv fed up 4 her toto.I begin recite incantaxn 4 room dey call Alusi Obosi 2 damaged d life of anypersin wey dey beer false accusantion 4 me.
Na so she quiet.
D next day she travel cum tell me say she get miscarrange.
I jst laff her & ha generaxn.
D afonnjjjjaaaaa layabout girl 1t 2 shine on top nwafor.
Tufiakwa.
Las Las, na me chop all d allawee wey FG pay am.

Dis girls go use ya head if u looseguide.
Egungun b careful na express dis ur bowleg dey so

Lemme book space

Must you abort the baby?
Can't she keep the baby and become a baby mama?
Don't allow her rush you into marriage unless you want to rush in and rush out!

mrfranky:
Please Mods help push this to front page i need more advise please...
Have been caught up in a difficult situation. I have been dating this my lovely girlfriend for more than a year now, she is beautiful, humble, kind and a good girl. she is from a good family too, the parents are not too rich just average and doing very well. They are 2 girls and 3 boys and the elder sis is more of a slay queen i.e so beautiful and refuses to marry so the mother is hoping on this my girl to settle down, always encouraging her to settle down.
Now I am 29 years and I really love this girl and she loves me more than i actually love her, always ready to do my biding she is just 22 n I wish to marry her someday but my finances are low I have met the father and he said he doesn't need anything from me only things for the kinsmen or whatever but my parents are the opposite infact my dad wont even entertain my thought of getting married now because despite am staying alone i still get small stipends from him monthly so he knows am not financially dependent.
To cut the long story short.. My girl is pregnant again after several abortions in the past and she is refusing to take pills. she wants to keep this one and is urging me to come pay her bride price so we can move in together. This was not my dream way of getting married. I dont have a problem with her keeping the child but I just cannot marry now with my monthly salary of 40k which am struggling to feed and pay bills.
Please I need advice
Pls no insult I knw the abortion act is wrong n never intended for her to take in again but it keeps happening...
help me please i dont want to lose this lovely princess because she promise to end the relationship if she has to take another pill.

Let your girl keep the pregnancy and let her find a job or biz to argument your salary.Rise up to the challenge of a family man since you already engage in what married couple do.Convince your dad to allow you get married and double your hustle as well.
She is ready to start a Life with your meagre salary.Two heads are better than one.
nb: stop running to your father for monetary help,you have to be your own man.

Will u allow me to insult u before i say my mind?

U brot the challenges to urself...you can convince her to be your baby mama...later in the future when u gather enough, then move ahead to marry her.

You're an irresponsible man.

You don't have the resources or courage to face responsibilities yet you refused to zip it up or make use of contraceptives against pregnancy.

I don't have anything against abortion but I am against stupid people abusing privileges. Now you're a father to ‘several’ dead children. Sicko.

If you don't want to lose her, then marry her.

You both should use your ‘fertile energy’ and get a job that'll take care of the financial challenges.

The society doesn't want a dysfunction family.

i no get you oo, Op, what shld we hlp you on exactly.. is it how you will convince her to take the pill? or how not to loss your princess? or how to increase your pay? or how to get the bless of your father?

When you were diving in raw, you didn't think about your financial situation, now the poor girl is pregnant again and you're considering what to do after putting her in the family way.

For the sake of your destiny, please marry that girl now. Money will definitely come, you're not God to determine your timing. That's why some people are in their 40s and still waiting to make it before getting married.

Be a man and talk to your parents and let them know she is already pregnant, if they are not wicked human beings, they'll advice you to marry her... At least you have sisters too.

Akhigbeblog:
Lemme book space

Akhigbeblog:
Lemme book space

let her give birth still b living ur life
she doesn't have to move in

u young to get married but not too young, shes way young to get married but not too young to give birth





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kizwid:
i no get you oo, Op, what shld we hlp you on exactly.. is it
how you will convince her to take the pill? or
how not to loss your princess? or
how to increase your pay? or
how to get the bless of your father?

wait let me use the life-line

Lol

Story that touch

i cant blame her..she has aborted for u in the past u said
why u no use condom?
cant u afford condom?
anyway if u not ready to marry her then let her go
its not not by force
another man who is ready will marry her

what advise do you want again? ,after she has had several abortions for you and u want her to remove this current one , guy you're wicked .. if u are not ready for marriage ,why playing raw ? married her now and face life with full dose

An irresponsible fellow spotted. Go and do as she requested joor!

reason with her and marry her na but its nt dt u marry her out of pity o...if u really want to marry her and u think you are capable of taking care of her and the baby, u can go ahead my gee

I know av been irresponsible but the deed as been done, how do i solve this

[quote author=paulolee post=90772237]reason with her and marry her na
she is willing to settle down with me
her family likes me very much and have accepted me since
the problem is my family
how do i tell them i wanna get married now with my financial situation

Op, I'm going to have to be very blunt with you. You are an irresponsible man with no vision at all.

You are still receiving stipends from home and instead of you to think & work towards a better future and even a stable present, you are chasing complicated relationships and entangling yourself with series of abortion mess!! I wanted to say leave your gf till I read the abortion part.

Clearly you both have no vision of your future and deserve each other. You either become an unwilling husband or entangled baby daddy but either way, you are in it and you have yourself to blame.

Life will eventually teach you how to be responsible when the baby comes or else life will also teach you to be resentful

mrfranky:
Please Mods help push this to front page i need more advise please...
Have been caught up in a difficult situation. I have been dating this my lovely girlfriend for more than a year now, she is beautiful, humble, kind and a good girl. she is from a good family too, the parents are not too rich just average and doing very well. They are 2 girls and 3 boys and the elder sis is more of a slay queen i.e so beautiful and refuses to marry so the mother is hoping on this my girl to settle down, always encouraging her to settle down.
Now I am 29 years and I really love this girl and she loves me more than i actually love her, always ready to do my biding she is just 22 n I wish to marry her someday but my finances are low I have met the father and he said he doesn't need anything from me only things for the kinsmen or whatever but my parents are the opposite infact my dad wont even entertain my thought of getting married now because despite am staying alone i still get small stipends from him monthly so he knows am not financially dependent.
To cut the long story short.. My girl is pregnant again after several abortions in the past and she is refusing to take pills. she wants to keep this one and is urging me to come pay her bride price so we can move in together. This was not my dream way of getting married. I dont have a problem with her keeping the child but I just cannot marry now with my monthly salary of 40k which am struggling to feed and pay bills.
Please I need advice
Pls no insult I knw the abortion act is wrong n never intended for her to take in again but it keeps happening...
help me please i dont want to lose this lovely princess because she promise to end the relationship if she has to take another pill.

you didnt think of all these when you were freely fornicating with her and committing murder all in the name of abortion and not yet ready.Do her biddings which is the right thing to do or free her forever.Dont be a wicked man in disguise

me personally go swear for you if you no marry that girl asap

ops you are wicked soul...this thing that you did to this girl may they do likewise to ur daughter amen...karma is real....

let me tell you...this ur narrations made me she'd tears.. please pity this gurl,if you don't want to marry her after several abortion for you...who do you want her to marry...you cheated this gurl...she had the right to pressure you for marriage...22yrs ! haba!

wats this please..why are guys this wicked..I feel like giving u some punches to reset ur brain...fool u must marry that girl bro ...u Bleep up big time..

[mrfranky post=90772480][/quote]

The same way you tell them you have been taking someone's daughter to the hospital for series of abortions!!

The same way you tell them you have been taking someone's daughter to the hospital for series of abortions!![/quote]




not been to the hospital, she always took pills at the early stage

Toluwashe778:
Will u allow me to insult u before i say my mind?

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With your condition I don't think you should be thinking of marriage, there other things you should consider as priority.... Any girls that truly loves you won't be given you ultimatum, she is doing that because she is considering various things such as, are clock, pressure from friends, suitors around her... If you end up marrying her that same girl pressurising you now won't think twice to find a better option... You are in love now and It seems you the only one asking the logical question, while she is been emotional, na when you crossover na that time she go come dey logical come realise say she made a bad choice..... But I hope you won't come here on this forum telling us story of heartbreak....

[quote author=mrfranky post=90772480][/quote]
tell dm she gat ur baby n cnt abort and u dnt plan aving a child out of wedlock....they may support u naa

Baleeson:
ops you are wicked soul...this thing that you did to this girl may they do likewise to ur daughter amen...karma is real....

let me tell you...this ur narrations made me she'd tears.. please pity this gurl,if you don't want to marry her after several abortion for you...who do you want her to marry...you cheated this gurl...she had the right to pressure you for marriage...22yrs ! haba!

wats this please..why are guys this wicked..I feel like giving u some punches to reset ur brain...fool u must marry that girl bro ...u Bleep up big time..

watch as your fellow men will come out to support him all in the name of not letting any girl to tie him down with pregnancy

My girl is pregnant again after several abortions in the past and she is refusing to take pills.



Wetin lalasticlala no go see for snake

You need serious counseling.