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Re: My Girlfriend Threatened To Break Up If I Don't Marry Her Now by Nobody: 5:32pm On Jun 17, 2020

Craggybogg:
Why didn't you put the innocent ring on it, now you gone ~~loose~~ lose your girl!��

Re: My Girlfriend Threatened To Break Up If I Don't Marry Her Now by SweetCunt97(f): 5:32pm On Jun 17, 2020

ecomalchemist:

It's not by force to marry someone you impregnated.

I thought we had passed this phase since 1876BC.

Damn !

But u saw where d Op said he can't lose her.

Re: My Girlfriend Threatened To Break Up If I Don't Marry Her Now by Acidosis(m): 5:32pm On Jun 17, 2020

By not marrying her, what are you trying to achieve? Dump her with her mother and father to pay her bills and that of the baby?

Is marrying her more expensive than child support? By not marrying her, you won't buy baby food and diapers?

A lot of youths like yourself have been fooled into believing it is cheaper to live alone than get married. Simply get your wife to work if you're not capable of feeding two mouths. As per your bills, nothing really would change. Your rent won't increase because you now have a second person. Your electricity bill won't increase. Your water bill won't change. Your bank's transaction fee won't change.

The only thing that will probably change is the perpetual ignorance or greed.

Simply increase your revenue by getting your wife to work. Your landlord won't increase your rent the "broke" you has been paying simply because you're married. The man refilling your cooking gas won't increase your fee.

Better man up and don't allow the greed and the perpetual ignorance of the majority delay your progress. Your 40 tasan naira salary may not meet your needs but, trust me, another 40 tasan naira salary from your wife's hustle will do better.

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Re: My Girlfriend Threatened To Break Up If I Don't Marry Her Now by mrsteel: 5:33pm On Jun 17, 2020

livinbygrace:
Oh boy ,it’s better you marry that girl now else you will regret not doing so later.I was in the same situation twelve years ago and was forming never ready as at then even until now,which comes with lots of regrets and the lady has moved on happily married with children while am still single doing Yuppy guy at over 40yrs old.Even some friends that were not doing very well then,but got married are coand doing well now with their grown up children .
So if the girl really loves you and being an understanding type ,I will advise you go ahead and marry her now.Its hard to find a good woman these days and a man will never be ready for marriage even if you click 50yrs old.
Talking from personal experience .

Cc mrfranky
This man made valid points
In this current economy, there is never a right time for marriage. Funny enough, the money will never come, even your married friends will get it before u.

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Re: My Girlfriend Threatened To Break Up If I Don't Marry Her Now by fecosequence(m): 5:33pm On Jun 17, 2020

Joycekkh:
You don't have the means to marry a woman, yet you keep impregnating her. Very wicked of you.

on a serious note

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Re: My Girlfriend Threatened To Break Up If I Don't Marry Her Now by mrfranky(m): 5:33pm On Jun 17, 2020

You don't have the means to marry a woman, yet you keep impregnating her. Very wicked of you

I know it was very bad of me but my girl always gets her ovulation period wrong and she hate me using condom with her. its not easy to explain these things

Re: My Girlfriend Threatened To Break Up If I Don't Marry Her Now by Nobody: 5:34pm On Jun 17, 2020

You dont want to lose her but you dont want to marry her now. After series of abortion? So what do you want?

When you knew you weren't ready for any commitment, why did you keep having carnal knowledge of her? Just pray she doesn't go with the abortion this time cos then you'll know what you have brought upon yourself because of 5 mins madness. Mehn this generation sucks! All they think, reason, sleep and wake up with is sex sex sex....

I'm outta here biko!

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Re: My Girlfriend Threatened To Break Up If I Don't Marry Her Now by bukatyne(f): 5:35pm On Jun 17, 2020

Aforxzy:
The girl is very stupid having several abortions for u. Infact you are both same same. So you want to keep bleeping her but not ready for marriage. Bros you have chop enough go do the needful..

@bold:

So so funny.

Well, the babe can be pro-choice and see nothing wrong in the abortions.

Re: My Girlfriend Threatened To Break Up If I Don't Marry Her Now by Daroldigits: 5:36pm On Jun 17, 2020

Young man, you don't have any problem bigger than God. there are somethings i want you to look into and also something you need to stop.

First, the elder sis is more of a slay queen i.e so beautiful and refuses to marry have you find out the reason why she refused to marry? you need to be prayerful. secondly, In fact my dad won't even entertain my thought of getting married now because despite am staying alone, i still get small stipends from him monthly so he knows am not financially independent. The time for you stop collecting thing from your dad needs to stop. You can't be a man enough if you can't take some steps and decisions on your own. A real man at 25 should be able to feed himself and not parent feeding him anymore. We knows that Nigeria leaders are not helping but you need to stop that if you want to be able to be a real man. You don't need to be financially stable before you marry anymore. Wedding is a day marriage is a journey. You need to cut your coat according to the available materials. You can do the introduction and go to registry then you close the chapter. Never give yourself unreasonable pressure, you are old enough to be a father.

mrfranky:
Please Mods help push this to front page i need more advise please...

Have been caught up in a difficult situation. I have been dating this my lovely girlfriend for more than a year now. She is beautiful, humble, kind and a good girl. She is from a good family too. The parents are not too rich just average and doing very well. They are 2 girls and 3 boys and the elder sis is more of a slay queen i.e so beautiful and refuses to marry so the mother is hoping on this my girl to settle down, always encouraging her to settle down.

Now I am 29 years and I really love this girl and she loves me more than i actually love her, always ready to do my biding. She is just 22 and I wish to marry her someday but my finances are low. I have met the father and he said he doesn't need anything from me only things for the kinsmen or whatever but my parents are the opposite. Infact my dad won't even entertain my thought of getting married now because despite am staying alone, i still get small stipends from him monthly so he knows am not financially independent.

To cut the long story short.. My girl is pregnant again after several abortions in the past and she is refusing to take pills. She wants to keep this one and is urging me to come pay her bride price so we can move in together. This was not my dream way of getting married. I don't have a problem with her keeping the child but I just cannot marry now with my monthly salary of 40k which am struggling to feed and pay bills.

Please I need advice.
Pls no insult I knw the abortion act is wrong n never intended for her to take in again but it keeps happening...

Help me please i dont want to lose this lovely princess because she promise to end the relationship if she has to take another pill.

Re: My Girlfriend Threatened To Break Up If I Don't Marry Her Now by Abikeade11(f): 5:37pm On Jun 17, 2020

@op, talk to your daddy about this and mind you, don't hide anything from him cuz a Yoruba adage says "corpse don't hide body from who will bath them" so don't hide anything down to ur abortions, I know some cultured parent don't like hearing the word abortion, they rather gather all their resources and support you for the wedding but your ears go nearly burst for insults from ur parent but I believe they can do something and after wedding if na garri una see, make una they soak am with love, e go better one day.

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Re: My Girlfriend Threatened To Break Up If I Don't Marry Her Now by uvie66: 5:38pm On Jun 17, 2020

mrfranky:
Please Mods help push this to front page i need more advise please...

Have been caught up in a difficult situation. I have been dating this my lovely girlfriend for more than a year now. She is beautiful, humble, kind and a good girl. She is from a good family too. The parents are not too rich just average and doing very well. They are 2 girls and 3 boys and the elder sis is more of a slay queen i.e so beautiful and refuses to marry so the mother is hoping on this my girl to settle down, always encouraging her to settle down.

Now I am 29 years and I really love this girl and she loves me more than i actually love her, always ready to do my biding. She is just 22 and I wish to marry her someday but my finances are low. I have met the father and he said he doesn't need anything from me only things for the kinsmen or whatever but my parents are the opposite. Infact my dad won't even entertain my thought of getting married now because despite am staying alone, i still get small stipends from him monthly so he knows am not financially independent.

To cut the long story short.. My girl is pregnant again after several abortions in the past and she is refusing to take pills. She wants to keep this one and is urging me to come pay her bride price so we can move in together. This was not my dream way of getting married. I don't have a problem with her keeping the child but I just cannot marry now with my monthly salary of 40k which am struggling to feed and pay bills.

Please I need advice.
Pls no insult I knw the abortion act is wrong n never intended for her to take in again but it keeps happening...

Help me please i dont want to lose this lovely princess because she promise to end the relationship if she has to take another pill.

You are struggling to feed yourself on 40k, now you have decided to add extra two mouths on your meagre salary... just think how are you going to manage. I don't blame the girl you hurriedly impregnated her now please marry her in a hurry..... the last time I heard, na money dey make love sweet.

Re: My Girlfriend Threatened To Break Up If I Don't Marry Her Now by Heavensent01(m): 5:38pm On Jun 17, 2020

oh what a weird love, she love me bla bla

some ladies no get principles sha, did abortion for a guy and you called that love? you're such a wicked guy to have unprotected sex with her when you're not ready for baby and now you want her to do another abortion so that when her womb got damaged, you will move on and leave her to he fate

a lady that even agree to abort for you must have aborted for many guys she had once dated, what a life

the foundation of your relationship is poor, I'm not saint o but unprotected sex when you're not ready sound dumb and funny

your salary is not even the issue here, the issue is how the said lady can manage, my elder bro married with 35k salary though because of his lady management act.

your daddy still give you money every month how funny, it means you're under obligation. if that lady was my sister, you will be cooling off in jail by now

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Re: My Girlfriend Threatened To Break Up If I Don't Marry Her Now by Softpedal: 5:39pm On Jun 17, 2020

Mr Man.
Go and do the needful and make her your wife.
Why will you have unprotected sex with her several times and make her abort it for you several times. Dont destroy her Future any more. Go and do traditional marriage and let her have your Baby.

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Re: My Girlfriend Threatened To Break Up If I Don't Marry Her Now by kiddkash(m): 5:40pm On Jun 17, 2020

mrfranky:
Please Mods help push this to front page i need more advise please...

Have been caught up in a difficult situation. I have been dating this my lovely girlfriend for more than a year now. She is beautiful, humble, kind and a good girl. She is from a good family too. The parents are not too rich just average and doing very well. They are 2 girls and 3 boys and the elder sis is more of a slay queen i.e so beautiful and refuses to marry so the mother is hoping on this my girl to settle down, always encouraging her to settle down.

Now I am 29 years and I really love this girl and she loves me more than i actually love her, always ready to do my biding. She is just 22 and I wish to marry her someday but my finances are low. I have met the father and he said he doesn't need anything from me only things for the kinsmen or whatever but my parents are the opposite. Infact my dad won't even entertain my thought of getting married now because despite am staying alone, i still get small stipends from him monthly so he knows am not financially independent.

To cut the long story short.. My girl is pregnant again after several abortions in the past and she is refusing to take pills. She wants to keep this one and is urging me to come pay her bride price so we can move in together. This was not my dream way of getting married. I don't have a problem with her keeping the child but I just cannot marry now with my monthly salary of 40k which am struggling to feed and pay bills.

Please I need advice.
Pls no insult I knw the abortion act is wrong n never intended for her to take in again but it keeps happening...

Help me please i dont want to lose this lovely princess because she promise to end the relationship if she has to take another pill.

the way you described the girl and the family, It sounds like my sister and my Family.

I hope that it is not my sister and Family for your sake

Re: My Girlfriend Threatened To Break Up If I Don't Marry Her Now by trutht828: 5:40pm On Jun 17, 2020

OkpaAkuEriEri:
Onuku,it shall end in tearz

If she 1t 2 comot belle n die,beta tears 4 u.
If she no comot belle n die wen bornin, tears 4 u.
If she park join u,.tears upon tears bicos of hungry.
If ur fada dont give u money again,original tear begin.

If she dumped u follow anoda person.ur tears will almost finish 4 ur eyes.because instead 4 u 2 dumped her,she dump u

Anyhw I reasoned it,I sha no it MUST end in tears.

Alaye 4get woman.
Go & huzzle because no be u get dat belle.
Dat belle na format 2 tied u.
1 afonjress almost do am 2 me.I tell her no problems. She parked join me.i com dey blow am 4 free.
Dey chop free pepper stew wen no get test.

1 night,after I hv fed up 4 her toto.I begin recite incantaxn 4 room dey call Alusi Obosi 2 damaged d life of anypersin wey dey beer false accusantion 4 me.
Na so she quiet.
D next day she travel cum tell me say she get miscarrange.

I jst laff her & ha generaxn.
D afonnjjjjaaaaa layabout girl 1t 2 shine on top nwafor.
Tufiakwa.
Dis girls go use ya head if u looseguide.
Egungun b careful na express dis ur bowleg dey so

Lolz. If it were an Igbo girl, she would have scammed you successfully.
You know that 99.9% of Igbo girls, according to Nnamdi Kanu, are professional prostitutes. You remember? grin

Re: My Girlfriend Threatened To Break Up If I Don't Marry Her Now by Sosmart: 5:40pm On Jun 17, 2020

It's not a new thing that premarital sex is bad spiritually.
It's even worse to kill an innocent fellow to cover up ur tracts....besides, u can even do more damage to her if there is a complication during an abortion or worse get her killed.
Aside from all this, that income is low doesn't stop u from getting married to her if she understands and ready to tread the path with you if u both have a vision and ready to work together to achieve one goal. (At least by now u shd understand the kind of woman she is: a goal-getter or a burden)
Just like a business good connection cant keep business as good management will.
Modern generation sees good income at the start as one big criterion for marriage but NO above is understanding, love, oneness, maturity, and patience
Pray for forgiveness and follow God's lead.

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Re: My Girlfriend Threatened To Break Up If I Don't Marry Her Now by ladykolly(f): 5:41pm On Jun 17, 2020

[quote author=mrfranky post=90772480][/quote] i guess she knows your financial status, if so go ahead and tell your parents that she is already pregnant, and that you are ready to settle down, then go ahead with your people to meet her people, do the little you can and let her move in with you. Then have a talk with her, let her get something to do to support the family, and on your side double your hustle. Believe me when i tell you some woman brings open doors for their husband. You won’t be the first to start a family like the way you never plan for, but you can make it be like the one you dream of later. Try not to go back to your daddy for money. I pray you get stable emotionally, financially and be matured to handle a pregnant wife because it isn’t easy. Above all put God first in all you do in your family.

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Re: My Girlfriend Threatened To Break Up If I Don't Marry Her Now by Gr8amechi: 5:41pm On Jun 17, 2020

mrfranky:
Please Mods help push this to front page i need more advise please...

Have been caught up in a difficult situation. I have been dating this my lovely girlfriend for more than a year now. She is beautiful, humble, kind and a good girl. She is from a good family too. The parents are not too rich just average and doing very well. They are 2 girls and 3 boys and the elder sis is more of a slay queen i.e so beautiful and refuses to marry so the mother is hoping on this my girl to settle down, always encouraging her to settle down.

Now I am 29 years and I really love this girl and she loves me more than i actually love her, always ready to do my biding. She is just 22 and I wish to marry her someday but my finances are low. I have met the father and he said he doesn't need anything from me only things for the kinsmen or whatever but my parents are the opposite. Infact my dad won't even entertain my thought of getting married now because despite am staying alone, i still get small stipends from him monthly so he knows am not financially independent.

To cut the long story short.. My girl is pregnant again after several abortions in the past and she is refusing to take pills. She wants to keep this one and is urging me to come pay her bride price so we can move in together. This was not my dream way of getting married. I don't have a problem with her keeping the child but I just cannot marry now with my monthly salary of 40k which am struggling to feed and pay bills.

Please I need advice.
Pls no insult I knw the abortion act is wrong n never intended for her to take in again but it keeps happening...

Help me please i dont want to lose this lovely princess because she promise to end the relationship if she has to take another pill.

First it baffles me how matured adults just get pregnant without planning for it.
Once you have a sure partner you plan to be having steady in protected sex with, it's no big deal walk into any family planning and get the appropriate one for both of, repeated abortions has lots of risk to her and you don't love her that's why it doesn't shake you to run and tell her to abort it.

Now she is not wrong if she is your sister will you let her continue aborting??
Be a Man, sit her down and set a specific plan for your new family,you don't need to have million but you need that billion dollars road map,both of you can sit down and map out what you want and how to get it...
Hustle and make it possible

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Re: My Girlfriend Threatened To Break Up If I Don't Marry Her Now by mrfranky(m): 5:42pm On Jun 17, 2020

...After several abortions...
YOU are A very wicked soul,
If karma didnt catch up with you through your sisters, I hope it does through your unborn daughters .

how low ree buruku[

I dont have a problem marrying her even right away, we love eachother enough just the finance
I know love alone is not enough to start a family
and my family wont support me in this journey nw

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Re: My Girlfriend Threatened To Break Up If I Don't Marry Her Now by Austin1805(m): 5:42pm On Jun 17, 2020

Its quite obvious you dont really cherish this girl cos if you did, you wont be having unprotected sex with her not to talk of asking her to go for abortion.

I will advice you tell your parent you already cross the boundary and also tell your future in-law your financial capabilities and together both family will partake in taking care of your girlfriend and the unborn child while you also must double your hustle

Re: My Girlfriend Threatened To Break Up If I Don't Marry Her Now by uvie66: 5:43pm On Jun 17, 2020

ezugegere:
How can you be earning 40k and you're fucking a girl without condom? How could you be destroying a young girl's life by making her do abortion, not once, not twice? You're not a good person and you no come get sense join. I pity the poor girl

I concur.. imagine 40k.. your life will just revolve around going to work and back. No to flex

Re: My Girlfriend Threatened To Break Up If I Don't Marry Her Now by incogni2o: 5:43pm On Jun 17, 2020

OkpaAkuEriEri:
Onuku,it shall end in tearz
If she 1t 2 comot belle n die,beta tears 4 u.
If she no comot belle n die wen bornin, tears 4 u.
If she park join u,.tears upon tears bicos of hungry.
If ur fada dont give u money again,original tear begin.
If she dumped u follow anoda person.ur tears will almost finish 4 ur eyes.because instead 4 u 2 dumped her,she dump u

Anyhw I reasoned it,I sha no it MUST end in tears.

Alaye 4get woman.
Go & huzzle because no be u get dat belle.
Dat belle na format 2 tied u.
1 afonjress almost do am 2 me.I tell her no problems. She parked join me.i com dey blow am 4 free.
Dey chop free yeye pepper stew wen no get test.

1 night,after I hv fed up 4 her toto.I begin recite incantaxn 4 room dey call Alusi Obosi 2 damaged d life of anypersin wey dey beer false accusantion 4 me.
Na so she quiet.
D next day she travel cum tell me say she get miscarrange.
I jst laff her & ha generaxn.
D afonnjjjjaaaaa layabout girl 1t 2 shine on top nwafor.
Tufiakwa.
Dis girls go use ya head if u looseguide.
Egungun b careful na express dis ur bowleg dey so

I hope your sister tells you this story someday so you know gow it feels.

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Re: My Girlfriend Threatened To Break Up If I Don't Marry Her Now by biyiwyle(m): 5:44pm On Jun 17, 2020

mrfranky:
I know av been irresponsible but the deed as been done, how do i solve this

Bro! MARRY HER. END OF DISCUSSION.

Re: My Girlfriend Threatened To Break Up If I Don't Marry Her Now by ezep(m): 5:45pm On Jun 17, 2020

mrfranky:
Please Mods help push this to front page i need more advise please...

Have been caught up in a difficult situation. I have been dating this my lovely girlfriend for more than a year now. She is beautiful, humble, kind and a good girl. She is from a good family too. The parents are not too rich just average and doing very well. They are 2 girls and 3 boys and the elder sis is more of a slay queen i.e so beautiful and refuses to marry so the mother is hoping on this my girl to settle down, always encouraging her to settle down.

Now I am 29 years and I really love this girl and she loves me more than i actually love her, always ready to do my biding. She is just 22 and I wish to marry her someday but my finances are low. I have met the father and he said he doesn't need anything from me only things for the kinsmen or whatever but my parents are the opposite. Infact my dad won't even entertain my thought of getting married now because despite am staying alone, i still get small stipends from him monthly so he knows am not financially independent.

To cut the long story short.. My girl is pregnant again after several abortions in the past and she is refusing to take pills. She wants to keep this one and is urging me to come pay her bride price so we can move in together. This was not my dream way of getting married. I don't have a problem with her keeping the child but I just cannot marry now with my monthly salary of 40k which am struggling to feed and pay bills.

Please I need advice.
Pls no insult I knw the abortion act is wrong n never intended for her to take in again but it keeps happening...

Help me please i dont want to lose this lovely princess because she promise to end the relationship if she has to take another pill.

Several abortions for who ?! Is it you or someone else ..
if it's you then do the right thing for once.
But if it's not you then ur babe getting babies aborted At 22 ?!
Can u trust someone like that to be with for the rest of your life ?!

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Re: My Girlfriend Threatened To Break Up If I Don't Marry Her Now by harjay1986: 5:46pm On Jun 17, 2020

mrfranky:
Please Mods help push this to front page i need more advise please...

Have been caught up in a difficult situation. I have been dating this my lovely girlfriend for more than a year now. She is beautiful, humble, kind and a good girl. She is from a good family too. The parents are not too rich just average and doing very well. They are 2 girls and 3 boys and the elder sis is more of a slay queen i.e so beautiful and refuses to marry so the mother is hoping on this my girl to settle down, always encouraging her to settle down.

Now I am 29 years and I really love this girl and she loves me more than i actually love her, always ready to do my biding. She is just 22 and I wish to marry her someday but my finances are low. I have met the father and he said he doesn't need anything from me only things for the kinsmen or whatever but my parents are the opposite. Infact my dad won't even entertain my thought of getting married now because despite am staying alone, i still get small stipends from him monthly so he knows am not financially independent.

To cut the long story short.. My girl is pregnant again after several abortions in the past and she is refusing to take pills. She wants to keep this one and is urging me to come pay her bride price so we can move in together. This was not my dream way of getting married. I don't have a problem with her keeping the child but I just cannot marry now with my monthly salary of 40k which am struggling to feed and pay bills.

Please I need advice.
Pls no insult I knw the abortion act is wrong n never intended for her to take in again but it keeps happening...

Help me please i dont want to lose this lovely princess because she promise to end the relationship if she has to take another pill.

guy try to be a man I was once in your shoe, but it turn to open door , for me and my family, am the last born in the family of six, for God so loving it am the bread winner today, you dont need to consult anybody but remember all the ladies we have now in Nigeria are Ogbanje once dey love you and you try to play smart your own don don, but if you play along and sacrifice with them some door you've been opening will be open wide

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Re: My Girlfriend Threatened To Break Up If I Don't Marry Her Now by Frankicent(m): 5:46pm On Jun 17, 2020

What do you call a man that has no sense? It's call Nonsense.

cry

Bro i don't have anything to say. You have my blessing

Re: My Girlfriend Threatened To Break Up If I Don't Marry Her Now by Judolisco(m): 5:46pm On Jun 17, 2020

mrfranky:
Please Mods help push this to front page i need more advise please...

Have been caught up in a difficult situation. I have been dating this my lovely girlfriend for more than a year now. She is beautiful, humble, kind and a good girl. She is from a good family too. The parents are not too rich just average and doing very well. They are 2 girls and 3 boys and the elder sis is more of a slay queen i.e so beautiful and refuses to marry so the mother is hoping on this my girl to settle down, always encouraging her to settle down.

Now I am 29 years and I really love this girl and she loves me more than i actually love her, always ready to do my biding. She is just 22 and I wish to marry her someday but my finances are low. I have met the father and he said he doesn't need anything from me only things for the kinsmen or whatever but my parents are the opposite. Infact my dad won't even entertain my thought of getting married now because despite am staying alone, i still get small stipends from him monthly so he knows am not financially independent.

To cut the long story short.. My girl is pregnant again after several abortions in the past and she is refusing to take pills. She wants to keep this one and is urging me to come pay her bride price so we can move in together. This was not my dream way of getting married. I don't have a problem with her keeping the child but I just cannot marry now with my monthly salary of 40k which am struggling to feed and pay bills.

Please I need advice.
Pls no insult I knw the abortion act is wrong n never intended for her to take in again but it keeps happening...

Help me please i dont want to lose this lovely princess because she promise to end the relationship if she has to take another pill.

u Don Sabi give girl Belle, u Don get mind to tell girl to abort pikin, u come dey fear to marry, something is wrong with you sir, how Wil u feel if your female child has aborted pregnancies for a man @ d age of 22?

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Re: My Girlfriend Threatened To Break Up If I Don't Marry Her Now by fyneboi79(m): 5:46pm On Jun 17, 2020

mrfranky:
Please Mods help push this to front page i need more advise please...

Have been caught up in a difficult situation. I have been dating this my lovely girlfriend for more than a year now. She is beautiful, humble, kind and a good girl. She is from a good family too. The parents are not too rich just average and doing very well. They are 2 girls and 3 boys and the elder sis is more of a slay queen i.e so beautiful and refuses to marry so the mother is hoping on this my girl to settle down, always encouraging her to settle down.

Now I am 29 years and I really love this girl and she loves me more than i actually love her, always ready to do my biding. She is just 22 and I wish to marry her someday but my finances are low. I have met the father and he said he doesn't need anything from me only things for the kinsmen or whatever but my parents are the opposite. Infact my dad won't even entertain my thought of getting married now because despite am staying alone, i still get small stipends from him monthly so he knows am not financially independent.

To cut the long story short.. My girl is pregnant again after several abortions in the past and she is refusing to take pills. She wants to keep this one and is urging me to come pay her bride price so we can move in together. This was not my dream way of getting married. I don't have a problem with her keeping the child but I just cannot marry now with my monthly salary of 40k which am struggling to feed and pay bills.

Please I need advice.
Pls no insult I knw the abortion act is wrong n never intended for her to take in again but it keeps happening...

Help me please i dont want to lose this lovely princess because she promise to end the relationship if she has to take another pill.

I can't blame her. I won't blame you either,but listen to your father.

Re: My Girlfriend Threatened To Break Up If I Don't Marry Her Now by jagaban002(m): 5:47pm On Jun 17, 2020

@29 And never thinking of having a family . That’s bad .
My advice for u is never again try aborting.
If you can’t start a family at 29 so when will you start ask yourself that .
Be a man and stand up to d challenge . Mine happened when am in my final year and we don’t abort and our parent are even above average but we survive and living below average but we work things out and hustle hard .
My gf started paga but hen and I go into busness
So u can do better and don’t abort

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Re: My Girlfriend Threatened To Break Up If I Don't Marry Her Now by OkpaAkuEriEri(m): 5:47pm On Jun 17, 2020

trutht828:

Lolz. If it were an Igbo girl, she would have scammed you successfully.
You know that 99.9% of Igbo girls, according to Nnamdi Kanu, are professional prostitutes. You remember?

Afonjaaa girl no dey use eye c nwafor dat rich.
I must dey blow all of dem dat cum 4 youth servinz.
D gals 2 Cheap n dem dirty 2.

Re: My Girlfriend Threatened To Break Up If I Don't Marry Her Now by Yebs: 5:47pm On Jun 17, 2020

She has been doing your biddings all this while, do hers now for once.

If you love this girl, then make her happy and take away the shame that is staring at her by doing the needful.

Her parents have made things easy for you by telling you that they don't want an elaborate wedding but a simple one.

You have no excuse Op!

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Re: My Girlfriend Threatened To Break Up If I Don't Marry Her Now by SmartchildTutor: 5:47pm On Jun 17, 2020

Then marry her and let us hear word na!
Obaseki is fighting Oshiomhole.
Also Rock occupants are shooting at one another.
EPL has resumed today.
Champions league will be concluded in August.
COVID-19 is ravaging.

Is it your desperate girlfriend threatening to dump your sorry arse and your hyperactive little diccck that we'll come and worry on top?!!!
I dey vex ooo!!!
Someone should not provoke me further oo!!!
I go do something ooo!!!
Wetin na!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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