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To me its seems people don't want to end up in divorce or on any other problems and issues related with marriage any longer.
All that is usually seen are single guys still remaining single for along time.

Or am I dreaming or something

What do you think?

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To me its seems people don't want to end up in divorce or on any other problems and issues related with marriage any longer.
All that is usually seen are single guys still remaining single for along time.

Or am I dreaming or something

What do you think?

If you want to marry you are free to do so. Most guys have found out it's not what it's cut to be. Most times in all ramifications the man loses.

Madam no vex na condition make crayfish bend. I swear I go don marry by now

I think for many are not financially buoyant while guess want to finish their education before they marry

Eye don tear, nobody wants to be committed to anything as they feel it's slavery.

Pride this is the major reason for failed marriages this days people can't just put their pride oneside and work on their relationship.

Entitlement for Nigerian girls,they want the whole world but can't bring anything to the table.

Not to even talk about the amount of brideprice these days, plus the girl demanding an expensive wedding after giving her all that she start nagging 2years into the marriage

The rate of cheating this days is too much, someone knows someone that knows someone,that has bleeped your girlfriend or boyfriend.

Omo to marry for naija na suffer as a man it should be in your top 5 prayer points to leave this shit hole,get a life and a better wife so you can enjoy your future.

To me, everyone is crazy.
no money, too much demands, seeing how the whites are living there's happily without being married but a lot of kids. All this makes one think marriage isn't necessary again...


I was even expecting to see a lot of low key marriages due covid-19, but I haven't seen a lot actually

The institution marriage in our generation is not realistic.. The main purpose of people getting married is to stay and live a monogamy life with your partner which is hard to practice, because both sexes now a polygamous in nature, with the invent of social media and technology both sexes have the ability to meet with a lot of people and are been distracted.... So what is the purpose of marriage when the vow you make deep down you know its likely you break it. And secondly how does marriage benefit a guy.... Pls give me 3 reason and don't tell children and cooking I can achieve that without getting married..

Baloranking:


Eye don tear, nobody wants to be committed to anything as they feel it's slavery.

Entitlement for Nigerian girls,they want the whole world but can't bring anything to the table.

The rate of cheating this days is too much, someone knows someone that knows someone,that has bleeped your girlfriend or boyfriend.

Omo to marry for naija na suffer as a man it should be in your top 5 prayer points to leave this shit hole.

baba right now sef I don't know which one to chosen again whether Naija babe or white babe.

Everyone just mad

MaziIgwe007:
baba right now sef I don't know which one to chosen again whether Naija babe or white babe.

Everyone just mad

You're right everybody is mad, but you go risk am?

Make small money land first. God no go shame us

Na like this bride price suppose be, but most father-inlaws wan use suitors buy land

Blackmoran:
The institution marriage in our generation is not realistic.. The main purpose of people getting married is to stay and live a monogamy life with your partner which is hard to practice, because both sexes now a polygamous in nature, with the invent of social media and technology both sexes have the ability to meet with a lot of people and are been distracted.... So what is the purpose of marriage when the vow you make deep down you know its likely you break it. And secondly how does marriage benefit a guy.... Pls give me 3 reason and don't tell children and cooking I can achieve that without getting married..

honestly I can say companionship but that could also be easily achieved by not getting married,social media has given women the freedom they needed for thousands of years to advertise themselves and meet various exotic men,i am now married for 20 years now but this days of social media has made me not to look too deeply into most things ,you just have to develop an open mind when staying with women of nowadays.

profilemessages:
To me its seems people don't want to end up in divorce or on any other problems and issues related with marriage any longer.
All that is usually seen are single guys still remaining single for along time.

Or am I dreaming or something

What do you think?

Na for where you go see wife sef? Na gf full everywhere.

okoroemeka:
honestly I can say companionship but could also be achieved by not getting married,social media has given women the freedom they needed for thousands of years to advertise themselves and meet various exotic men,i am now married for 20 years now but this days of social media has made me not to look too deeply into most things ,you just have to develop an open mind when staying with women of nowadays.

married for 20 years? You na ancestors o. Elder gods

Marriage has long outlive its usefulness

What women have turned to be since 1960s is quite frustrating.

It makes marriage look like a battle ground for gender war in which each one is fighting for power and control, no respect at all.

Even those who are married most of them are not happy with their marriage, they cling their endurance to the outcomes of marriage like children and properties if they are lucky.

Lots of men already in graves much earlier due to direct or indirect issues of marriage and it scares those who are still alive

commitment phobia

Carchoice:
married for 20 years? You na ancestors o. Elder gods

No be small elder .....

This oga be brother to the gods




Sometimes I lose the feeling of getting married.....

I don't necessarily see any worth in it, and the way things are

Baloranking:
You're right everybody is mad, but you go risk am?

Make we dey Watch next 2yrs

With unemployment, underemployed and poverty in the land who wan marry. In these days wey ladies don dey copy guys in sleeping around. Who go wan marry ehn

I am scared of marriage. With what I see everyday. Even in the office there is a married woman that's being disturbing my life, I warned her to stay off or I report to HR. Married couples don't hide it anymore.

It's like the western system of open marriages is now accepted here, where each partner sleeps around with whomever they want to. No trust anymore.

Nah I'm not even thinking of marriage anytime soon

Stay single and flirt with any one you like..





Best advice ever !!!

things too hard and hustling guyz dis days fear commitment pass sarz..

Edyice:
Stay single and flirt with any one you like..





Best advice ever !!!

With flirting you'll still end up falling in love with one

profilemessages:
To me its seems people don't want to end up in divorce or on any other problems and issues related with marriage any longer.
All that is usually seen are single guys still remaining single for along time.

Or am I dreaming or something

What do you think?

Why buy the cow when the milk is free?
Why marry the girl when sex before marriage is available?

Xeeex:
Why buy the cow when the milk is free?
Why marry the girl when sex before marriage is available?

True. Though sex shouldn't be used to coerce marriage in the first place because once that hunger is quenched or unfulfilled both partners will lose.

Blackmoran:
The institution marriage in our generation is not realistic.. The main purpose of people getting married is to stay and live a monogamy life with your partner which is hard to practice, because both sexes now a polygamous in nature, with the invent of social media and technology both sexes have the ability to meet with a lot of people and are been distracted.... So what is the purpose of marriage when the vow you make deep down you know its likely you break it. And secondly how does marriage benefit a guy.... Pls give me 3 reason and don't tell children and cooking I can achieve that without getting married..

Like my cousin will always say apart from giving birth no need getting married...Thank God many girls just want to be baby mama

Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright
Most niggarrrs are now real niggarrrz
Them don realize say marriage na scam


Make God give us the kind money way we dey find
Na baby Mama sure pass anyday anytime twice on Monday
Marriage na overrated dog shiitt
We don realize say Couples are enduring and pretending. The sexual excitement after marriage is gone! They don't love themselves anymore.
Na when i tell one girl make she spend one week with me i take know. After three days my dickk nor dey get excited again and i was no longer comfortable with her being around
Unionism and marriage na scam

when the ladies were saying they don't do broke guys, and that you must have six digit in ur account before they put u into consideration you'd think silent guys ain't taking note of these. No one talks about Love. Only money.

op, that's awareness, and it feels good not risking your destiny to a liability.

We should be happy that men are realizing that marriage is a scam especially with a broke and self entitled woman..

The moment you get married to a lady that is broke, self entitled, has only pussy to offer, that moment you are finished on earth...

U r dead man... Bcox not only her will be dependent on you, even her family will suck you dry.... Her family will ur responsibility... She may even try to let u ignore your own family..


Guys, you can marry but if you must marry, avoid broke ladies, avoid ladies with fish brain, ladies with no offer than pussy..ladies that sit at home doing notin and only expect herself to cook and open pussy for man. Avoid them.


But if u get a lady that is different from this, u can consider her as a baby mama first.. If she doesn't misbehave, Wife her sharpally


Ladies to avoid: Onyi millenniumlad and Amata. rasha (My sweet singu momma ) etc