Raydos:
My take is that, If you ever want to get Married, Please guys don't marry a Social Media freak, A girl who is always online chatting, Who always follow the latest trends and challenges online

This kind of girls don't stay in relationship for long, They always believe their Partner should do everything they see their friend's husband doing for her online, they'll want you to do it for them too!!

Infact, If impossible, Date a girl who doesn't like social media at all, I learnt That Adele left social media recently, I was very proud of that lady!!

Prestonvic:



unfortunately, single men are not allowed to adopt kids.

profilemessages:
To me its seems people don't want to end up in divorce or on any other problems and issues related with marriage any longer.
All that is usually seen are single guys still remaining single for along time.

Or am I dreaming or something

What do you think?

Mass unemployment, underemployment, poverty - how many single guys can afford a comfortable marriage & family life Very few

Cost of getting married has become high today

Married women infidelity of today is discouraging

Fear of losing their single man freedom

Gbogbowa:
marriage started by God and can be sustain by God,the world is becoming godless each day so marriage is becoming difficult to sustain,have been married for 8 years now and I thank God I married it is wonderful experience

michaelpop50:


Catch 100 level girl, then stop her education. She nor need graduate. Of what use is the graduation for women when they graduate and still depend on men? Na university nai babes for dey fuucck pass. Them dey damage their lives there.

She go gain admission as a slim girl, from 200 level, she go come dey thick due to numerous pricks and waka waka. Boy dey lash madness comot for babes head for uni nor be small.

In today's Nigeria, it is not wise to marry graduate. Na why Davido stop chioma from schooling

simplepee:
Irresponsible men everywhere. Tueh!

Fact is, after spilling rubbish on Nl, they still get married every sayurday abi all the suitors we are getting falls from heaven.

michaelpop50:


Catch 100 level girl, then stop her education. She nor need graduate. Of what use is the graduation for women when they graduate and still depend on men? Na university nai babes for dey fuucck pass. Them dey damage their lives there.

She go gain admission as a slim girl, from 200 level, she go come dey thick due to numerous pricks and waka waka. Boy dey lash madness comot for babes head for uni nor be small.

In today's Nigeria, it is not wise to marry graduate. Na why Davido stop chioma from schooling

Oldoinyolengai:
What women have turned to be since 1960s is quite frustrating.

It makes marriage look like a battle ground for gender war in which each one is fighting for power and control, no respect at all.

Even those who are married most of them are not happy with their marriage, they cling their endurance to the outcomes of marriage like children and properties if they are lucky.

Lots of men already in graves much earlier due to direct or indirect issues of marriage and it scares those who are still alive

Emilokoiyawon:

how does your redeployment service work?

stevups:
I have a lady that wanted to marry me but each time I went to her house I met different types of guys. They are all her friends. Sometimes they sleep in her house, so I just gave up

vic17:
If I want marry, I go dey fear okafor's law and if I say make I marry virgin she go fit later tell me say she want explore... which kind life be this, ino blame them.na we guys dey at fault

simplepee:
Irresponsible men everywhere. Tueh!

Fact is, after spilling rubbish on Nl, they still get married every sayurday abi all the suitors we are getting falls from heaven.

humilitypays:
The reasons most single guys are still single and not even thinking of getting married at 35yrs above are:


Mass unemployment, underemployment, poverty

Cost of getting married has become high today

Married women infidelity of today is discouraging

Fear of losing their single man freedom

Fear of commitment to one lady; definitely the sex drive must die when u guys start living together, this is scary! When a guy starts to live with one lady for years, no matter how sexy or pretty she is, she won't be sexually attractive to him again like before, social media and other life of today have made this situation worst cos the guy will be seeing hotter, younger girls daily making him lose interest in the one time hottest chick he died to get!


Single ladies attitude towards guys; to even find or get your kind of girl that will inspire u to marry is like Gulder Ultimate Search!


Hiphop Music Life & Social Media Influence

profilemessages:
To me its seems people don't want to end up in divorce or on any other problems and issues related with marriage any longer.
All that is usually seen are single guys still remaining single for along time.

Or am I dreaming or something

What do you think?

mrkings84:


My dear the hindrances are just too much this time around. If care is not taken, it's gonna get worsened in near future.

Some of these hindrances include:
1, Lack of finance. Like we know, the economy is nothing to write home about today, many persons are out of jobs, imagine at 40, u are still searching for job or still don't have a biz. To make matters worse, parents now see it as an opportunity to achieve so much financially from their daughters by making the bride price so high. Sometimes u hear of millions of naira just to clear what's on the lists. How many can afford such?

2.Faithful to marital vows. We live in an era where married People mess around as if they were never married. There is no day u don't hear that a court had to dissolve a union due to some marital waywardness.

3. Spiritual problems. Few days ago a young lady was trending on social media. She claimed she is goddess from the Marine world. Bro, when guys read things like this they get scared cos they never know who is who.

4. Purpose of marriage. Do u still remember that back then in school, we were usually taught the basic reasons why we should marry? Some which includes companionship, procreation etc...
The question is, with all that technology has brought to us, do u think these purposes are still enough for one to take such a risky adventure called marriage?

faithyguy:


You are right. There are only 1 in 10 young lady that have sense now. How can a man that is planning in growing wealth marry all this women now that are after money or riches. Man are wiser now that marriage is a deal and its favors only the women. Women are forming they have more right than men now. We don't mind to remain single till we get the one whose have a little more sense and brain.

MaziIgwe007:
To me, everyone is crazy.
no money, too much demands, seeing how the whites are living there's happily without being married but a lot of kids. All this makes one think marriage isn't necessary again...


I was even expecting to see a lot of low key marriages due covid-19, but I haven't seen a lot actually

SmartPolician:


Na lie

U are saying this based on that yeye online story

Blackmoran:
The institution marriage in our generation is not realistic.. The main purpose of people getting married is to stay and live a monogamy life with your partner which is hard to practice, because both sexes now a polygamous in nature, with the invent of social media and technology both sexes have the ability to meet with a lot of people and are been distracted.... So what is the purpose of marriage when the vow you make deep down you know its likely you break it. And secondly how does marriage benefit a guy.... Pls give me 3 reason and don't tell children and cooking I can achieve that without getting married..

0KNM:
Is that not enough reason? Abi na until e happen to me?

profilemessages:
To me its seems people don't want to end up in divorce or on any other problems and issues related with marriage any longer.
All that is usually seen are single guys still remaining single for along time.

Or am I dreaming or something

What do you think?

tydi:


Modified ;

The best union is interracial union. Cus their love is genuine and when dey fall out of love which is very rare at atmost 0.001per dey divorce than pretending for their selfish gain.

UdyOgwoUde:
Na like this bride price suppose be, but most father-inlaws wan use suitors buy land

Cj4charles:
a friend of mine with 4 children who just died last 2week Friday due to some illness, his wife drove to my office yesterday why we where discussing she saw my caretaker going out and she was asking me to help link her up with him, i was shocked