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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Liposure: 1:11am On Jun 23, 2020
xklusivej:
hmmm am just passing tru....
sb is trespassing
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by daewoorazer(m): 1:12am On Jun 23, 2020
MaziIgwe007:


baba right now sef I don't know which one to chosen again whether Naija babe or white babe.

Everyone just mad

Bro, if you’re in the US

1. DONT BRING ANY NAIJA BABE ENTER YANKEE
2. DONT MARRY ANY NAIJA BABE IN YANKEE
3. White babe ain’t bad if she’s brought up well, it’s just that you’ll live a bachelors’ life for long cooking native dishes
4. Other African ladies are pretty good....ladies from Kenya, Uganda etc respect us a lot and don’t snatch at the feminism pandemic that has bleeped naija girls’ brain here in Yankee...

Peace!

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by 9JERIAN: 1:14am On Jun 23, 2020
purplecoco:
This is real life sad. grin Nobody is all into marriage no more, things are really happening.

whats your take on marriage? Where do you stand?

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by purplecoco(f): 1:25am On Jun 23, 2020
daewoorazer:


Bro, if you’re in the US

1. DONT BRING ANY NAIJA BABE ENTER YANKEE
2. DONT MARRY ANY NAIJA BABE IN YANKEE
3. White babe ain’t bad if she’s brought up well, it’s just that you’ll live a bachelors’ life for long cooking native dishes
4. Other African ladies are pretty good....ladies from Kenya, Uganda etc respect us a lot and don’t snatch at the feminism pandemic that has bleeped naija girls’ brain here in Yankee...

Peace!
Same goes to Nigerian babes staying in Yankee. Do not bring any Nigeria guy into Yankee. Don't marry a Nigerian guy in Yankee, if you wanna live a long non-stressful life, before you start getting old before your time

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by cooltola(m): 1:25am On Jun 23, 2020
EVILFOREST:

What are the chances of getting the right person, especially now twerking appears to be a Federal Civil Service JOB...?

You can look at the person's character and see how she behaves. You attract what your spirit is. If you want an angel, you have to be an angel first. If you want a hardworking and a hustling woman, then you must be a diligent and good hustler. What if i told you that some women in naija will rather starve than twerk their dignity away for such federal civil service Job. It is up to you attract such women. What if i told you that there are nongovernment jobs, other legit hustle and honest way of earning a living for a woman without doing ashewo , twerking on the gram, snapchat and so on.

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by purplecoco(f): 1:26am On Jun 23, 2020
9JERIAN:


whats your take on marriage? Where do you stand?
Read my last diary entry, I talked about it a little
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Amotekun777: 1:32am On Jun 23, 2020
UdyOgwoUde:
Na like this bride price suppose be, but most father-inlaws wan use suitors buy land

ONLY Okoro pple dey extort money from their potential inlaws since they sell their daughters for money. grin

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by 9JERIAN: 1:34am On Jun 23, 2020
purplecoco:
Read my last diary entry, I talked about it a little

i just did grin

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by heartrubber(m): 1:36am On Jun 23, 2020
grin
Yankee101:
Why ki yaself?

When you can live longer, stay younger, invest more?

A babe will pretend, marry you and become Dracula
grin cheesy

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by maomidavies(f): 1:38am On Jun 23, 2020
You’ll will just open mouth and be saying rubbish. Because something bad Happened to someone that tried it, doesn’t mean it will end in tears .
daewoorazer:


Bro, if you’re in the US

1. DONT BRING ANY NAIJA BABE ENTER YANKEE
2. DONT MARRY ANY NAIJA BABE IN YANKEE
3. White babe ain’t bad if she’s brought up well, it’s just that you’ll live a bachelors’ life for long cooking native dishes
4. Other African ladies are pretty good....ladies from Kenya, Uganda etc respect us a lot and don’t snatch at the feminism pandemic that has bleeped naija girls’ brain here in Yankee...

Peace!

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by mrkings84(m): 1:39am On Jun 23, 2020
DenreleDave:
We should be happy that men are realizing that marriage is a scam especially with a broke and self entitled woman..

The moment you get married to a lady that is broke, self entitled, has only pussy to offer, that moment you are finished on earth...

U r dead man... Bcox not only her will be dependent on you, even her family will suck you dry.... Her family will ur responsibility... She may even try to let u ignore your own family..


Guys, you can marry but if you must marry, avoid broke ladies, avoid ladies with fish brain, ladies with no offer than pussy..ladies that sit at home doing notin and only expect herself to cook and open pussy for man. Avoid them.


But if u get a lady that is different from this, u can consider her as a baby mama first.. If she doesn't misbehave, Wife her sharpally


Ladies to avoid: Onyi millenniumlad and Amata. rasha (My sweet singu momma gringringringrin) etc

My dear the hindrances are just too much this time around. If care is not taken, it's gonna get worsened in near future.

Some of these hindrances include:
1, Lack of finance. Like we know, the economy is nothing to write home about today, many persons are out of jobs, imagine at 40, u are still searching for job or still don't have a biz. To make matters worse, parents now see it as an opportunity to achieve so much financially from their daughters by making the bride price so high. Sometimes u hear of millions of naira just to clear what's on the lists. How many can afford such?

2.Faithful to marital vows. We live in an era where married People mess around as if they were never married. There is no day u don't hear that a court had to dissolve a union due to some marital waywardness.

3. Spiritual problems. Few days ago a young lady was trending on social media. She claimed she is goddess from the Marine world. Bro, when guys read things like this they get scared cos they never know who is who.

4. Purpose of marriage. Do u still remember that back then in school, we were usually taught the basic reasons why we should marry? Some which includes companionship, procreation etc...
The question is, with all that technology has brought to us, do u think these purposes are still enough for one to take such a risky adventure called marriage?

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by law001(m): 1:41am On Jun 23, 2020
Baloranking:
grin grin grin

Eye don tear, nobody wants to be committed to anything as they feel it's slavery.

Pride this is the major reason for failed marriages this days undecided people can't just put their pride oneside and work on their relationship.

Entitlement for Nigerian girls,they want the whole world but can't bring anything to the table.

Not to even talk about the amount of brideprice these days, plus the girl demanding an expensive wedding after giving her all that she start nagging 2years into the marriage grin

The rate of cheating this days is too much, someone knows someone that knows someone,that has bleeped your girlfriend or boyfriend.grin

Omo to marry for naija na suffer as a man it should be in your top 5 prayer points to leave this shit hole,get a life and a better wife so you can enjoy your future.

And you think abroad girls are any better? TRAVEL AND SEE.

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by meobizy(f): 1:41am On Jun 23, 2020
Once again there’s no proof but OP’s immediate environment to give credence.

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by mechanics(m): 1:45am On Jun 23, 2020
People are marrying, forget that talk, those ones who don't want to marry when is time are on their own.

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by faithyguy: 1:45am On Jun 23, 2020
profilemessages:
To me its seems people don't want to end up in divorce or on any other problems and issues related with marriage any longer.
All that is usually seen are single guys still remaining single for along time.

Or am I dreaming or something

What do you think?

You are right. There are only 1 in 10 young lady that have sense now. How can a man that is planning in growing wealth marry all this women now that are after money or riches. Man are wiser now that marriage is a deal and its favors only the women. Women are forming they have more right than men now. We don't mind to remain single till we get the one whose have a little more sense and brain.

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by CanadaOrBust: 1:49am On Jun 23, 2020
Blackmoran:
The institution marriage in our generation is not realistic.. The main purpose of people getting married is to stay and live a monogamy life with your partner which is hard to practice, because both sexes now a polygamous in nature, with the invent of social media and technology both sexes have the ability to meet with a lot of people and are been distracted.... So what is the purpose of marriage when the vow you make deep down you know its likely you break it. And secondly how does marriage benefit a guy.... Pls give me 3 reason and don't tell children and cooking I can achieve that without getting married..

Well, if a poor guy like u marries Linda Ikeji, how won’t it benefit u??

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by emmanuelpopson(m): 1:50am On Jun 23, 2020
oju wa ti la. our eyes are been open just like Adam and Eve in the Bible.. men are now enlightened because it's always a woman's world..they own that space called marriage.. if only men know that women can't do without men,then we are gonna win...

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Ishilove: 1:50am On Jun 23, 2020
Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright
Most niggarrrs are now real niggarrrz
Them don realize say marriage na scam


Make God give us the kind money way we dey find
Na baby Mama sure pass anyday anytime twice on Monday
Marriage na overrated dog shiitt
We don realize say Couples are enduring and pretending. The sexual excitement after marriage is gone! They don't love themselves anymore.
Is marriage all about sex?

This generation sef. The only thing dem sabi is sex sex sex, which is why the devil is using sex to destroy so many glorious destinies.

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by DoubleEngine007: 1:55am On Jun 23, 2020
Girls are no longer ready to be committed, so why will I waste millions marrying a public property when I can adopt kids if I want? Since kids are to be my only gain. Make marriage dey one side abeg.. Let me make my money and enjoy my life in peace. I hate it when someone that wasn't there when I was hustling(probably hoeing around,when I dey hustle),come telling me what to do and what not to do,because I married her..

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Otiv: 1:56am On Jun 23, 2020
[Sometimes I marvel at how the world has been shaped through so many self taught and self believed ideas passed round the internet these days . Who says the man loses? Why not just say our generation has lost the ability to do the right thing.. we just want everything to always work at all times when we need them. We dont believe God anymore and we have lacked or lost the stamina to endure .. we live fast lives and it reflects in everything we do. Our parents got married, they never told us it was always rosy! They endured and worked to make these marriages work, can we ?

If you want to marry you are free to do so. Most guys have found out it's not what it's cut to be. Most times in all ramifications the man loses.[/quote]

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by CanadaOrBust: 1:57am On Jun 23, 2020
Xeeex:


Why buy the cow when the milk is free?
Why marry the girl when sex before marriage is available?

So u think the reason men get married is sex??!

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by CanadaOrBust: 2:02am On Jun 23, 2020
cooltola:


You can look at the person's character and see how she behaves. You attract what your spirit is. If you want an angel, you have to be an angel first. If you want a hardworking and a hustling woman, then you must be a diligent and good hustler. What if i told you that some women in naija will rather starve than twerk their dignity away for such federal civil service Job. It is up to you attract such women. What if i told you that there are nongovernment jobs, other legit hustle and honest way of earning a living for a woman without doing ashewo , twerking on the gram, snapchat and so on.

What if I told u that angels marry devils all the time

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Timbers(m): 2:05am On Jun 23, 2020
shocked

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Coolmagy: 2:06am On Jun 23, 2020
Guys na money be the Koko I swear no more SURULERE OOOO even the country is not helping matters at all. That's why the rich Baba's can afford to marry 20 wives because only money woman knows(one young actress wey marry billionaire comes to mind) as a matter of fact we wey don marry sef dey look for a way of escape just that it's too late.children don full everywhere

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Timbers(m): 2:08am On Jun 23, 2020
wink
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Timbers(m): 2:09am On Jun 23, 2020
I-)
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Goodman247: 2:09am On Jun 23, 2020
Marriage is over rated in Africa

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Timbers(m): 2:09am On Jun 23, 2020
i-)
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by Timbers(m): 2:09am On Jun 23, 2020
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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by cooltola(m): 2:11am On Jun 23, 2020
CanadaOrBust:


What if I told u that angels marry devils all the time

What if i told u that such marriage do not last long or end in divorce.
Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by ikorodureporta: 2:15am On Jun 23, 2020
Wait make covik relax, u go see them

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Re: Don't People Want To Marry Again? What's Going Wrong In Our Society? by kinzd(m): 2:17am On Jun 23, 2020
if you're you too busy tell me who own.'s d bitches?
GODPUNISHUNA:


If you want to marry you are free to do so. Most guys have found out it's not what it's cut to be. Most times in all ramifications the man loses.

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