Smh... keep deceiving yourself. Your mum is a young woman with blood flowing freely in her veins. Trust me, she has boyfriend keeping her very young and agile.

Mvici:
I Lost Confidence In My Girlfriend The Moment She Asked Me To Marry For My Mother.

I had a girlfriend some few months back before the covid 19 outbreak, that was after we went home from school due to the strike and the pandemic, we both are in the same school which is IBB university lapai, in our final.

So at home this faithful day, I put a call through! We both were talking, laughing on phone, so she ask about my mum, I said she was fine and she now ask abt her loneliness because no one at home, I told her but I'm still here with her, she ask what if school resume and what if we should go for our service next year, she now told me to marry another man for my mum.... lol... telling me who knows" that my mum might like the idea if I should table it with her. Gosh! I actually laughed about it then on phone with her but inside me, it wasn't funny at all.

The next day, what she told me was still bordering me, so many things were just running on my mind...so even if by mistake I wife her in future and the Lord decide to take me when we have a grown up child like me, who is planning on becoming a graduate this year and have even spent 30 years in marriage already....she won't even mourn me for long before accepting another man's proposal or bleeping with another man or probably her one time ex.

I decided to ask my mum with play, mum be sincere to me, you and my dad have been married since far back 1986... U both were in marriage for about 30 yrs before he past away few years ago, may his soul rest in peace..this is 5yrs now are you considering on marrying any one or having any kind of body movement or even can stand the presence of another man in your life?

Guess what her reply was....
Mum said my dad was the only man she know in her life and that's how it going to remain by God grace, period! and I shouldn't ask her such again with cry/smiles on her face because she has me and I will give her groundchil........

Seriously I don't know why I brought this here but pls tell me, any girl that can ask a 52 Year old woman to re_marry even after she has a child, isn't it clear that she can't stay without having sex to anyone as long as her husband is on a peace keeping mission or even travel abroad?

Thanks everyone.

When i saw the headline, I thought i was going to read something serious. OP abeg grow up. Your girlfriend didn't do anything wrong , it's just a matter of care she has for your mum. And with her words, it shows she cares so much about her. She had adviced, but the final decision is left for you mum to take , not you. On the other hand , I feel a sense of selfishness being exhibited by you. You don't want to share your mum with another person. You don't want to withstand the feeling that another man is sleeping with your mum, obviously it doesn't go down well with you(not minding if that brings her happiness). To prove your selfishness, view it from this angle, if your dad were alive and he's 52 years while your mum is late (God forbid) , do you think your dad will remain single forever ? Or if you were at her age and your wife is late, will you agree to remain single forever? Bros abeg grow up, let's us not begin to pick on women unnecessarily. Note that the reason your mum could decide to remain single could be based on so many factors which could not just be only about your dad. When women are in their menopause, their sexual drive reduces . Before you nail yourgirlfrinds , put yourself in your mum's shoe as a man, if you yourself can remain single for life at that age

Kenstufez:
Who's going to marry a 55yrs old woman? A young boy or older men? So you guys are indirectly advising his mom to start dating/sleeping around at 55 with other womens husbands. Stop supporting evil!

Any woman at 55 with grown up kids that remarries is an ashawo from day 1.

Can you stay by yourself for five years without having contact with another human being?

Do you think marriage for people in that age group is about sex? What they need is companionship, someone in their age group they can discuss Fela and Nigerias independence and biafran war and all that history with. Their children won't understand most of these things the way someone in their age group will. Using my mom as an example, she tells us stuff about her childhood but we relate to only half of it. However when she's with my dad or her sisters (who only visit at christmas) she can even forget we exist, just to tell you how connected they feel. My sisters and I used to joke that we can go missing when she's gisting with them and she won't notice, just to tell you how companionship goes a long way.

I'm certain once we leave that house for our individual homes; and peradventure my dad is gone, she'll feel lonely. It happens to everyone eventually. So stop thinking remarring is all about sex.

Romanoff:
My dad has been dead for 11 years now and I need a man for my mum cause she is going to get lonely. She will be 55 next year, we have started getting married and her youngest child will soon leave her for NYSC.

Loneliness kills. Marriage is till death do any of the parties part.

There is nothing wrong with your girl suggesting your mum remarries, she's obviously more mature than you are.

Eya, sorry to hear that dear. I would have offered myself but then things could get a little awkward when we run into each other on NL.

Mvici:
them no go understand Sha, na me been wear the shoe that day hear wetin she talk, maybe na out of ignorance she take talk amm but seriously from my side which I won't mention..... family members will think u were never loyal throughout those long period....haba! over 30 with a son
No be say hungry dey worry u or ur husband family ain't accommodating.... She might not even be the type cause no one knows tomorrow....it all depends on an individual mindset though.
I broke up with her not even because of that.....that one is a personal matter but the issue of my mum getting another man was really confusing so I wanted to hear more, explore and learn more about marriage which is all about sacrifice.

Till death do us part is all the conviction you need to know what to do with her suggestion or not.

Unless your parents didn't marry with that vow.

Asides, forget religious people in this scenario as most of them are hypocrites and that's why they're loosing relevance in the society today.

Mvici:
I Lost Confidence In My Girlfriend The Moment She Asked Me To Marry For My Mother.

I had a girlfriend some few months back before the covid 19 outbreak, that was after we went home from school due to the strike and the pandemic, we both are in the same school which is IBB university lapai, in our final.

So at home this faithful day, I put a call through! We both were talking, laughing on phone, so she ask about my mum, I said she was fine and she now ask abt her loneliness because no one at home, I told her but I'm still here with her, she ask what if school resume and what if we should go for our service next year, she now told me to marry another man for my mum.... lol... telling me who knows" that my mum might like the idea if I should table it with her. Gosh! I actually laughed about it then on phone with her but inside me, it wasn't funny at all.

The next day, what she told me was still bordering me, so many things were just running on my mind...so even if by mistake I wife her in future and the Lord decide to take me when we have a grown up child like me, who is planning on becoming a graduate this year and have even spent 30 years in marriage already....she won't even mourn me for long before accepting another man's proposal or bleeping with another man or probably her one time ex.

I decided to ask my mum with play, mum be sincere to me, you and my dad have been married since far back 1986... U both were in marriage for about 30 yrs before he past away few years ago, may his soul rest in peace..this is 5yrs now are you considering on marrying any one or having any kind of body movement or even can stand the presence of another man in your life?

Guess what her reply was....
Mum said my dad was the only man she know in her life and that's how it going to remain by God grace, period! and I shouldn't ask her such again with cry/smiles on her face because she has me and I will give her groundchil........

Seriously I don't know why I brought this here but pls tell me, any girl that can ask a 52 Year old woman to re_marry even after she has a child, isn't it clear that she can't stay without having sex to anyone as long as her husband is on a peace keeping mission or even travel abroad?

Thanks everyone.

unfortunately you are about to graduate and your reasoning is still below par. Your mother remarrying at that age is so that she doesn't get lonely if she doesn't like the idea then good.

And next time stop linking everything to sex.....life is way deeper than that

And like people will say "you go learn"

Mvici:
I Lost Confidence In My Girlfriend The Moment She Asked Me To Marry For My Mother.

I had a girlfriend some few months back before the covid 19 outbreak, that was after we went home from school due to the strike and the pandemic, we both are in the same school which is IBB university lapai, in our final.

So at home this faithful day, I put a call through! We both were talking, laughing on phone, so she ask about my mum, I said she was fine and she now ask abt her loneliness because no one at home, I told her but I'm still here with her, she ask what if school resume and what if we should go for our service next year, she now told me to marry another man for my mum.... lol... telling me who knows" that my mum might like the idea if I should table it with her. Gosh! I actually laughed about it then on phone with her but inside me, it wasn't funny at all.

The next day, what she told me was still bordering me, so many things were just running on my mind...so even if by mistake I wife her in future and the Lord decide to take me when we have a grown up child like me, who is planning on becoming a graduate this year and have even spent 30 years in marriage already....she won't even mourn me for long before accepting another man's proposal or bleeping with another man or probably her one time ex.

I decided to ask my mum with play, mum be sincere to me, you and my dad have been married since far back 1986... U both were in marriage for about 30 yrs before he past away few years ago, may his soul rest in peace..this is 5yrs now are you considering on marrying any one or having any kind of body movement or even can stand the presence of another man in your life?

Guess what her reply was....
Mum said my dad was the only man she know in her life and that's how it going to remain by God grace, period! and I shouldn't ask her such again with cry/smiles on her face because she has me and I will give her groundchil........

Seriously I don't know why I brought this here but pls tell me, any girl that can ask a 52 Year old woman to re_marry even after she has a child, isn't it clear that she can't stay without having sex to anyone as long as her husband is on a peace keeping mission or even travel abroad?

Thanks everyone.

marriage officially ends when one of the partners dies.
What if it were be your mom that died, would your Dad still be single the mourning her till now?
Your girl friend made a valid point, your mom is still young enough to remarry or would you want her to have a FEB?
If you loss your wife, won't you remarry at 52…?

This one is thinking ahead of his brain. Who told you you'd be the one to die first I'd you marry her. What about you, would you not remarry she does first?

eRex:
If I were not married and I meet your GF... I will marry her....

She reason like a REAL LOGICAL AND MATURED PERSON.

The older someone gets the lonelier they become.

Quick check...
Case 1:
My mum had 4 of us 2 of us were married before she passed on.

My dad remarried after a year... Despite we kids rebuffing and co.

Today we are all happy living.. the guy is living is life so we are.

Case two:
My wife's mum lost her husband over 22years now. And never remarried. With my wife being the first child, she calls my wife DAILY discussing things that don't interest us.... But interest her...
- Ooooh she has been made secretary to the women association in the village.
- how she got a set of new chicks and will rear dem till infinity.
I can go on and on... and this happens Everyday.
Best part is she flashes and we call.. and it goes for hours.
Point is she is obviously lonely as she stays alone in the building built by her husband in the village... All d kids are in Lagos chasing one thing or the other.
We practically have asked her self... Is any man not wooing u in the village.
Loneliness can lead to depression... So much though of.....

In you own stand think it thru....

You MAY underline MAY ... Never be there when she needed some one to talk to when u are married and seriously pursuing your career.

My point... Your GF was never out of place throwing such discussion.. only shows she have had a future in though which most ladies don't have.

I sure hope u too think of the future too.

If I were not married and met you, I would have married you!

this is wat d the bible said.


1 Corinthians 7:39
A wife is bound to her husband as long as he lives. But if her husband dies, she is free to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord


1 Corinthians 7:8-9
To the unmarried and the widows I say that it is good for them to remain single as I am. But if they cannot exercise self-control, they should marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion

Mvici:
I Lost Confidence In My Girlfriend The Moment She Asked Me To Marry For My Mother.

I had a girlfriend some few months back before the covid 19 outbreak, that was after we went home from school due to the strike and the pandemic, we both are in the same school which is IBB university lapai, in our final.

So at home this faithful day, I put a call through! We both were talking, laughing on phone, so she ask about my mum, I said she was fine and she now ask abt her loneliness because no one at home, I told her but I'm still here with her, she ask what if school resume and what if we should go for our service next year, she now told me to marry another man for my mum.... lol... telling me who knows" that my mum might like the idea if I should table it with her. Gosh! I actually laughed about it then on phone with her but inside me, it wasn't funny at all.

The next day, what she told me was still bordering me, so many things were just running on my mind...so even if by mistake I wife her in future and the Lord decide to take me when we have a grown up child like me, who is planning on becoming a graduate this year and have even spent 30 years in marriage already....she won't even mourn me for long before accepting another man's proposal or bleeping with another man or probably her one time ex.

I decided to ask my mum with play, mum be sincere to me, you and my dad have been married since far back 1986... U both were in marriage for about 30 yrs before he past away few years ago, may his soul rest in peace..this is 5yrs now are you considering on marrying any one or having any kind of body movement or even can stand the presence of another man in your life?

Guess what her reply was....
Mum said my dad was the only man she know in her life and that's how it going to remain by God grace, period! and I shouldn't ask her such again with cry/smiles on her face because she has me and I will give her groundchil........

Seriously I don't know why I brought this here but pls tell me, any girl that can ask a 52 Year old woman to re_marry even after she has a child, isn't it clear that she can't stay without having sex to anyone as long as her husband is on a peace keeping mission or even travel abroad?

Thanks everyone.

It's obvious you're still a child.

There is nothing wrong with the suggestion your girlfriend made.

Any marriage contract automatically ends once one of the partner dies.

Authoreety:
God bless your mum bro...
She'll live to see her 4th generation and beyond if she so desires...

As for your girl, she has a lot to learn... Don't wife her.

It’s the girl’s opinion and how she sees the world. I didn’t think that the op should worry too much about that or feel too sensitive about this. That’s why they are dating, he has all the opportunity in the world to know what’s best for him and if both of them could live together as couple.
If he feels offended by what the girl friend suggested or the thoughts that comes out of her, maybe this is a handwriting on the wall signalling him to move on with his life.

I think that the girl was being thoughtful and worrying about the guy’ mum being lonely and all by herself. Could be the way she’s being orientated.
I’d feel slighted too but I wouldn’t feel paranoid about that. It’s being 5 years since the woman lost her husband. In most of our cultures and tradition...depending on what part of the country that you are from, women remarrying is frowned upon and almost a taboo but it’s not the same with women.

The mum’s response might be due her upbringing, beliefs or her enduring love and respect for the man that she has lost. Maybe she wouldn’t feel the same for any other man or even think about it.

As for the op or most of the people criticising the girl, would they say the same thing if it was the other way round? Would the op feel slighted if the girl friend had asked him to advice the dad to remarry if the dad was still alive?

For the op as well, would he think of remarrying and getting a new wife if God forbid it he lost his wife abs stayed alone for 5 years?

Let’s be honest.

are you looking for an excuse to send your girlfriend away??¿?? abet stop assuming nonsense. she's just showing concern in a way she can. nothing more

Your girlfriend has not said anything wrong,it was only an opinion, it is your mum’s choice to remarry or stay alone.
I also think your girlfriend believe your mum loneliness may affect your relationship or marriage in future as your mum may see your home her home which makes most wives disagree with their mother in law. Your mum loneliness may put fear in any lady you may want to have relationship with. it is not now left for you as a wise man to take decision that will not only Favour your mother when you are finally married.

Isobug:

Onye iberibe......Is what that place is talking about? They are telling something different and you're quoting it

You be mumu proper
I'm sure you don't clearly understand the version you're reading.Open your Bible from the beginning of the chapter,Donkey!

I totally understand your sentiment, no one wants to imagine their mum receiving cane, especially male children. What did you expect your mom to say? for all you know, your mum is receiving some nice dick somewhere. At 52 your mom is still young, in fact some women's libido peaks at this age. Your girlfriend is making sense, and if you stop dating her solely because of this inane reason, then she probably dodged a bullet.

Honestly way more matured

Romanoff:
My dad has been dead for 11 years now and I need a man for my mum cause she is going to get lonely. She will be 55 next year, we have started getting married and her youngest child will soon leave her for NYSC.

Loneliness kills. Marriage is till death do any of the parties part.

There is nothing wrong with your girl suggesting your mum remarries, she's obviously more mature than you are.

Well, the OP is very immature. Your gf is such a sweet girl who cares about the companionship of your mother. she only offered a way not. That is a proof that she loves your mum.

It is not a must to remarry. I have seen young and old widows who have swore not to touch any man n they're disciplined about it. that's a typical Eagle like behavior. My Late Cousin (50) years didn't remarry after her late husband died 23 years ago.

Forgive her pls

Mvici:
I am a man and it is written that men are polygamous in nature and can marry as many as they like even in the old testament we see great men that marry more than one....but I tell u with the way I love that girl before, eventually had it been we later marry...and we had a son, we even spent 30yrs which I know by then i would be probably 60somthing.... seriously I won't really think much of another woman

Marriage is more about companionship than sex. At that age, sex would be the last thing on your mind but loneliness knows no age. And we both know what loneliness can lead to and what follows after that.

Grand children can never fill the void of a partner’s companionship.

God bless you. Honestly I am really surprised at some people's comments here. The lady is really a very wise young woman who is dating a complete child

eRex:
If I were not married and I meet your GF... I will marry her....

She reason like a REAL LOGICAL AND MATURED PERSON.

The older someone gets the lonelier they become.

Quick check...
Case 1:
My mum had 4 of us 2 of us were married before she passed on.

My dad remarried after a year... Despite we kids rebuffing and co.

Today we are all happy living.. the guy is living is life so we are.

Case two:
My wife's mum lost her husband over 22years now. And never remarried. With my wife being the first child, she calls my wife DAILY discussing things that don't interest us.... But interest her...
- Ooooh she has been made secretary to the women association in the village.
- how she got a set of new chicks and will rear dem till infinity.
I can go on and on... and this happens Everyday.
Best part is she flashes and we call.. and it goes for hours.
Point is she is obviously lonely as she stays alone in the building built by her husband in the village... All d kids are in Lagos chasing one thing or the other.
We practically have asked her self... Is any man not wooing u in the village.
Loneliness can lead to depression... So much though of.....

In you own stand think it thru....

You MAY underline MAY ... Never be there when she needed some one to talk to when u are married and seriously pursuing your career.

My point... Your GF was never out of place throwing such discussion.. only shows she have had a future in though which most ladies don't have.

I sure hope u too think of the future too.

Ningen:
Sorry to say, but the dead are dead.
And the world moves on.

It's okay for a 52yr old widow to seek for a man.
It's not all about pleasure but companionship.
Social interaction is key to mental health.

You shouldn't lose trust in your girlfriend.
She said nothing wrong.

In her own way, she cares about your mum.

nice thoughts......just to add that it is also ok if the 52 yr old decides to stay on her own.
Life is all about the choice we make.

graciousolo:



"It is written that men are polygamous" this is your justification for choosing to remarry but, denying your spouse and widowed mother the opportunity to. Wherever that came from is evil.




It baffles me that our generation with all the information we are privy to and opportunities to unlearn and relearn still have myopic people even with tertiary degrees.
Don't you think your mom deserves companion and yes, even sex too especially if she wants it?


Don't you care about her happiness?

How does her getting remarried bother you? You still dey suck breast?

If you were a woman would you like to be subjugated just because of your gender?

Honestly, I think that girl is very lucky you are not together. She escaped a big narcissistic baby.

I would congratulate her if I knew her.

That lady definitely dodged a bullet; the guy is more naive than realistic.

Men are polygamous in nature my a$$. What a lazy, dry excuse.

Everyone can't be like your mum

So with this ur gf na bad person! Oh pks, stop all these. If u don't like d babe again just tell her, period! When has remarrying after d demise of a spouse an offense? No matter d age, u re free pls


Women don suffer sha. All forms of excuse

chinchonglee:
U re definitely a child.

Ur GF was only suggesting something, since ur mom told you her opinion let the matter die already... Stop assuming nonsense

God bless you.

Mvici:
I Lost Confidence In My Girlfriend The Moment She Asked Me To Marry For My Mother.

I had a girlfriend some few months back before the covid 19 outbreak, that was after we went home from school due to the strike and the pandemic, we both are in the same school which is IBB university lapai, in our final.

So at home this faithful day, I put a call through! We both were talking, laughing on phone, so she ask about my mum, I said she was fine and she now ask abt her loneliness because no one at home, I told her but I'm still here with her, she ask what if school resume and what if we should go for our service next year, she now told me to marry another man for my mum.... lol... telling me who knows" that my mum might like the idea if I should table it with her. Gosh! I actually laughed about it then on phone with her but inside me, it wasn't funny at all.

The next day, what she told me was still bordering me, so many things were just running on my mind...so even if by mistake I wife her in future and the Lord decide to take me when we have a grown up child like me, who is planning on becoming a graduate this year and have even spent 30 years in marriage already....she won't even mourn me for long before accepting another man's proposal or bleeping with another man or probably her one time ex.

I decided to ask my mum with play, mum be sincere to me, you and my dad have been married since far back 1986... U both were in marriage for about 30 yrs before he past away few years ago, may his soul rest in peace..this is 5yrs now are you considering on marrying any one or having any kind of body movement or even can stand the presence of another man in your life?

Guess what her reply was....
Mum said my dad was the only man she know in her life and that's how it going to remain by God grace, period! and I shouldn't ask her such again with cry/smiles on her face because she has me and I will give her groundchil........

Seriously I don't know why I brought this here but pls tell me, any girl that can ask a 52 Year old woman to re_marry even after she has a child, isn't it clear that she can't stay without having sex to anyone as long as her husband is on a peace keeping mission or even travel abroad?

Thanks everyone.

free the girl please, she's only concerned for the long run .

Mvici:
I Lost Confidence In My Girlfriend The Moment She Asked Me To Marry For My Mother.

I had a girlfriend some few months back before the covid 19 outbreak, that was after we went home from school due to the strike and the pandemic, we both are in the same school which is IBB university lapai, in our final.

So at home this faithful day, I put a call through! We both were talking, laughing on phone, so she ask about my mum, I said she was fine and she now ask abt her loneliness because no one at home, I told her but I'm still here with her, she ask what if school resume and what if we should go for our service next year, she now told me to marry another man for my mum.... lol... telling me who knows" that my mum might like the idea if I should table it with her. Gosh! I actually laughed about it then on phone with her but inside me, it wasn't funny at all.

The next day, what she told me was still bordering me, so many things were just running on my mind...so even if by mistake I wife her in future and the Lord decide to take me when we have a grown up child like me, who is planning on becoming a graduate this year and have even spent 30 years in marriage already....she won't even mourn me for long before accepting another man's proposal or bleeping with another man or probably her one time ex.

I decided to ask my mum with play, mum be sincere to me, you and my dad have been married since far back 1986... U both were in marriage for about 30 yrs before he past away few years ago, may his soul rest in peace..this is 5yrs now are you considering on marrying any one or having any kind of body movement or even can stand the presence of another man in your life?

Guess what her reply was....
Mum said my dad was the only man she know in her life and that's how it going to remain by God grace, period! and I shouldn't ask her such again with cry/smiles on her face because she has me and I will give her groundchil........

Seriously I don't know why I brought this here but pls tell me, any girl that can ask a 52 Year old woman to re_marry even after she has a child, isn't it clear that she can't stay without having sex to anyone as long as her husband is on a peace keeping mission or even travel abroad?

Thanks everyone.

This is a really dumb And sexist post. If it was your dad she said this about. You won’t even mention it. Your girlfriend is a good person for her to be thinking about your moms loneliness.
Besides if she doesn’t try she’ll be all over your household trying to run things and don’t say your mom ain’t like that. 5yrs is enough time to mourn someone anything more than that . You need to get your mentality checked

Misogynistic, myopic

Bro your girlfriend is running from your mama wahala after your marry her

She no want make your mama no come disturb her matrimonial home with casala oooooo
That's why she suggested that your mama remarry At least e go make your mama concentrate on her own house than coming to cause trouble for another Wife house

My bro your girlfriend wise die

She know the implecation of mother's in-law especially if you are one of those mummy's boy toh

Mvici:
I Lost Confidence In My Girlfriend The Moment She Asked Me To Marry For My Mother.

I had a girlfriend some few months back before the covid 19 outbreak, that was after we went home from school due to the strike and the pandemic, we both are in the same school which is IBB university lapai, in our final.

So at home this faithful day, I put a call through! We both were talking, laughing on phone, so she ask about my mum, I said she was fine and she now ask abt her loneliness because no one at home, I told her but I'm still here with her, she ask what if school resume and what if we should go for our service next year, she now told me to marry another man for my mum.... lol... telling me who knows" that my mum might like the idea if I should table it with her. Gosh! I actually laughed about it then on phone with her but inside me, it wasn't funny at all.

The next day, what she told me was still bordering me, so many things were just running on my mind...so even if by mistake I wife her in future and the Lord decide to take me when we have a grown up child like me, who is planning on becoming a graduate this year and have even spent 30 years in marriage already....she won't even mourn me for long before accepting another man's proposal or bleeping with another man or probably her one time ex.

I decided to ask my mum with play, mum be sincere to me, you and my dad have been married since far back 1986... U both were in marriage for about 30 yrs before he past away few years ago, may his soul rest in peace..this is 5yrs now are you considering on marrying any one or having any kind of body movement or even can stand the presence of another man in your life?

Guess what her reply was....
Mum said my dad was the only man she know in her life and that's how it going to remain by God grace, period! and I shouldn't ask her such again with cry/smiles on her face because she has me and I will give her groundchil........

Seriously I don't know why I brought this here but pls tell me, any girl that can ask a 52 Year old woman to re_marry even after she has a child, isn't it clear that she can't stay without having sex to anyone as long as her husband is on a peace keeping mission or even travel abroad?

Thanks everyone.

You think with your anus

[quote author=WaywardSon post=91269558]You should be enraged but not for the useless reason you posted, if ya dead sod off! IDC

but its plain disrespectful to me js. Ima lose my shiiiit if someone says something like that IMO. Idk how close you guys are tho[/quote

Learn to write correctly and politely. What is IDC, Ima, Idk, IMO?