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Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by OlawaleBammie: 11:17pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
Authoreety:The gurl get brain pass u. I didn't say u no get brain oo 7 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by abbeymighty(m): 11:20pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
Mvici:The truth is that your GF is trying to avoid your mum to stay with you permanently after your marriage. That is she want to engage her with husband that will keep her not to stay permanent in your house. Are u the only child? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by Parisian: 11:24pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
Please keep quiet abeg. So the generation has lost it because women no longer choose to die in depression... Lmao Indaboski007: 7 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by Herbephe1(m): 11:24pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
I'm sorry, your post says it all. you're a child, and not yet matured to venture into a relationship. Good forbid, if you lose your wife at the 60years above, won't you remarry Don't take it personal with your girl, it's just a mere suggestion, if it goes well with you some it, and if it doesn't..... it's just a piece of advice 5 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by oonyeoma50: 11:25pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
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Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by fabienjoe: 11:26pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
Mvici: Stop justifying your silly position. Marital vows end the moment one party in the marriage passes on. Even if the marriage lasted for 50 years, your mum owes nothing to your dead dad. In fact for her own mental and physical wellbeing, he needs another man in her life. She's safer going through her later years with a caring partner next to her. To imagine she's past happiness and companionship at 52? SMH! ...and you expect whoever you get married to to remain single if you happen to die before her? Is there a religion or cult that told you it makes any difference to a dead man how his wife lives after his passing? There are really some otherwise taboo subjects that may need to be discussed before marriage. If anyone calls this a culture or tradition, I don't expect my sister or even friend to be enmeshed in it. Life is for the living, not the dead. By the way, on the evidence of your girlfriend's suggestion, she's an honest, civilized, caring, practical and reasonable woman, perhaps more than you deserve, given your own position on the subject. 5 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by Isobug: 11:27pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
Romanoff:This is nonsense.....A 55 year old woman,a grandma for that matter, getting remarried. What for? In some places,this is absolutely horrendous Quote me and receive no reply. I've said what Nature told me to say. Nature frawns at it 1 Like |
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Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by Parisian: 11:28pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
Is it only old testament you know? What about new testament? Jesus, Apostle Paul, Peter, James, John, John the Baptist, etc were these men not chaste? Y'all can quote only the parts that suites yall. Mvici: 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by Sluvist(m): 11:31pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
To my understanding, what the girl talk is up right, though it sounds offensive to you. She has a sense of good reasoning. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by Isobug: 11:33pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
fabienjoe:Where is your respect for your husband. If it is 40 and below acceted, but 52 guy check am naa, what is she looking for again. Even Nature frawns at it 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by nkwuocha1: 11:34pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
[quote author=Isobug post=91387412] [s]This is nonsense.....A 55 year old woman,a grandma for that matter, getting remarried. What for? In some places,this is absolutely horrendous Quote me and receive no reply. I've said what Nature told me to say. Nature frawns it it[/quote[/s]] Which nature? Oga shut up jare! 1 Timothy 5:9 ESV Let a widow be enrolled if she is not less than sixty years of age, having been the wife of one husband 5 Likes |
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Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by Brightgem(f): 11:35pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
Mvici:She is talking about companionship not sexing around mister man. Besides women are more likely to stay unmarried after a spouse death who they have lived long with they will rather endure the loneliness and they feel it's more honorable for them and the kids will have more stability than having another man in their lives. Too much conflict. Also, address your fears with the person you are in a relationship with. You can get clearer answers from her. |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by Naijaarchive(m): 11:36pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
Actually i don't see a issue... Once she wasn't disrespectful... Besides women remarry at any age all over the world... Your issue is you base marriage on sex which obviously is beyond that.... Since your mom is happy being single then just forget it... That doesn't mean the lady is a sex addict like you put it 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by Parisian: 11:36pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
Even the author of marriage who is our creator - GOD, made it clear that death annuls marriage so who are you to think that it is a bad thing for your mom to remarry? Mvici: 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by Gr8amechi: 11:37pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
Mvici:Indeed you talk like a child, is marriage all about children?? Marriage isn't about sex or children but for companionship. It's nice that your mum doesn't want to remarry but that doesn't make your girlfriend bad, for her to take your mum thought on her makes her a true woman that has you at heart. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by Nobody: 11:37pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
Mvici:The lady meant no harm. She suggested that in the best interest of your mom & yourself. And please do not mind the fools calling you names, they aren't better than you. Everyone has Monopoly over his reasonings. Now you have gained some knowledge from your post. And if this was the cause for your break-up, there's no harm in reaching her & say sorry if need be. We keep learning as we grow. Good luck 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by Earthpride: 11:39pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
Suggesting a widow of her 50's to re-marry it's very wrong. We r africans. She love, respect, cherish her husband b4 his death. She's happy for all she hv now. Guy no marry that girl oh if u won live long. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by Thane(m): 11:40pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
Romanoff: my dad died last yr, my siblings are scattered asides two at home but I'm already bearing the burden of being the man in my mum's life. The woman calls me on the phone pratically daily since last year. I won't mind if she remarries now , make I rest abeg. loneliness kills, I have been staying alone in my flat since my flatmates travelled cos of lockdown and I can say very well that loneliness is not good for mental health 7 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by olajohnson5(m): 11:41pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
Don't be selfish bro, its not all about sex but companionship at her old age.Nothing kills fast like loneliness. She needs a partner to keep her company. Your girl friend's opinion is not that bad,she's telling you the real fact and u will soon understand. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by Mypeople2(m): 11:41pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
Mvici:Guy you broke up with her ? Please can I have her number? I just want to say something light to her 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by Thane(m): 11:42pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
Isobug: but a man is allowed to remarry abi, nature smiles at it 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by Segunbabba(m): 11:43pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
[s] Ezennwa:[/s] 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by Cecero(m): 11:48pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
Your mom gave you the response you want to hear. Your girl is definitely more matured than you are. She knows you're the only one who can 'marry' for your mom. Meaning, though it might be the better option for your mom, she might not want to go into it because she might not want to offend you. But if you're matured enough to encourage your mom to go into it, in the end it'll likely be to her own good. 6 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by Bonnywest: 11:52pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
Mvici: Please it's grand children 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by Isobug: 11:55pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
[quote author=nkwuocha1 post=91387528][/quote] Onye iberibe......Is what that place is talking about? They are telling something different and you're quoting it 1 Like
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Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by WelcomeToBiafra: 11:56pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
Instead of nigga-arians to campaigning for freedom, all they got in their malfunction brains is sex talks. By the time all of you resume fully, nigeria will be chase of Biafran territories. |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by Onyxunlimited(f): 12:00am On Jul 05, 2020 |
Any woman that's still going crazy for sex at 50something is a nympho. At that age, you should be rechanneling your energy to other things of life and preparing yourself to meet your maker anytime the call comes in. [Quote] You are stupid, very stupid. Men and women alike still have libidos in their 50s and that is very normal. And since you are not a nympho, may your libido be none existent in your early 50s. I don't know about you, but you don't wait till you are old until you prepare to meet your maker. Unless you mean this methamophorically, and if that's the way you mean it, may what you wish this middle aged woman be your portion! 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by Bahamas95(m): 12:00am On Jul 05, 2020 |
That girl should be thanking her stars she didn't get married to you. She is a woman so she understands how women feel better than you. The fact that you are a man does not make you do anything you like and assume it's normal. My friend's uncle lost his wife and he got married to another woman 7months after. The surprising thing was that the lady he got married to lives in the same street with his uncle......If na woman do that one now dem go take mouth finish her. WOMEN LIVES MATTER 5 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by Dalby(m): 12:01am On Jul 05, 2020 |
Mvici: Hmmm l am speechless...you spent your life with her and then you are gone. What would please you the most is if she lives a life of agony after you, all in the name of mourning. Bros you don waka, you don waka. If she finds love again, by all means but if she decides otherwise all well and good... 2 Likes |
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