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Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by MATURELION: 12:42pm On Jul 16, 2020
Men in this 21st century should open thier eyes and regect this fvckers called hoes, remember if will Smith can get cheated on any man can get cheated on as well no matter how cute and wealthy you are, there are plenty of hoes on the street you can pick up for a night and go your way or if you are the avoidant type FVCKING subscribe to porn hub and satisfy your sexual instinct. all these women that are claiming feminism go hear am if only men and some pvssy niggas open thier eyes

And also I don't get why a man who is suffering to make ends meet will want to add extra burden on himself by dating a girl who's only offer on the table is stinking pvssy cos even girls that earn money still chop from thier boyfriend pocket, be a king and manage your goddamm life women are meant to be helpers and not recivers of help....get sense

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Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Donedeal1(m): 12:42pm On Jul 16, 2020
So she can not ask for what is right again? questions are meant for your enlightement so because of a simple question ok oh.What If she meant that period of time things looking somehow for you.
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by MartinsD12(m): 12:42pm On Jul 16, 2020
XshegzzyeeiX:
Good morning. Romancelanders.
Welcome to midweek.

So I'm of the opinion that in a relationship, a man and a woman ought to care for one another. But some women feel so entitled that they only expect a man to take care of them without reciprocating the gestures.

It's very wrong for a woman to bring that statement of "can you take care of me?" when I ask her out. I brandish her a red card immediately she makes such statement.

I detest selfish women, and I believe so many others do.

Only simps welcome such waywardness.

PS: I've braced up for your criticisms, insults and cuss words.

Feminists, waddaya have to say.
Alpha males, what's your take on this matter.
White Knights, let's hear you out.

Is it right or totally wrong for a woman to pop that question "can you take care of me" when you ask her out?
You are very correct and on point, a woman telling you if you can take care of her when asking her out is a gold digger looking for the highest bidder, such a parasitic relationship will leave a man chasing shadows

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Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by trutht828: 12:43pm On Jul 16, 2020
THUNDAR:
Seriously guys! things are not Really what they seems on the first date, just because she asked "can you take care of me" on the first date does not mean Jack, there are smart and intelligent ladies Who would purposely say annoying things on first date to see How you react, and may turn up to be independent women. just the way you keep checklists and tick Which she fails and passes so some of them do too. But some of them (a lot actually) na Akamu they say it as they feel!

Your reasoning is wash

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Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by greypencils: 12:43pm On Jul 16, 2020
XshegzzyeeiX:
Good morning. Romancelanders.
Welcome to midweek.

So I'm of the opinion that in a relationship, a man and a woman ought to care for one another. But some women feel so entitled that they only expect a man to take care of them without reciprocating the gestures.

It's very wrong for a woman to bring that statement of "can you take care of me?" when I ask her out. I brandish her a red card immediately she makes such statement.

I detest selfish women, and I believe so many others do.

Only simps welcome such waywardness.

PS: I've braced up for your criticisms, insults and cuss words.

Feminists, waddaya have to say.
Alpha males, what's your take on this matter.
White Knights, let's hear you out.

Is it right or totally wrong for a woman to pop that question "can you take care of me" when you ask her out?
Those are not relationships, Those are business transactions. A good relationship is mutually beneficial. You both exchange body fluids, you both exchange cash and gifts. Anything else is unbalanced and kolewerk.

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Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Nobody: 12:43pm On Jul 16, 2020
Sounds like a runs girl , this girls have lost their pride.

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Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Whiteways: 12:44pm On Jul 16, 2020
jawalis:
I’ll say Yes. Fvck the b!tch after a while and dispose her. Mission accomplished

You're my brother.
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Legacyy(m): 12:45pm On Jul 16, 2020
Bye bye to selfish interest
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by tunary(m): 12:45pm On Jul 16, 2020
good for them
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by KossyKiss97(f): 12:46pm On Jul 16, 2020
SweetCunt97:
You crybabies should go listen to Bill Withers song "Lean On Me" and be wise. Generation on mature responsible men is fast eroding unfortunately.

I seriously differ from your line of thought.

I personally don't think a lady should mention it to a guy. First of all, I advise ladies to be ambitious and self sufficient, never let a guy see you as a liability (very grave mistake).
If in the course of the relationship, you notice the guy is tight fisted or is not as selfless as you would want(cos i don't indulge stingy men either), then you can end the relationship or dump his stingy self!

Shikena!

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Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by adewumiopeyemi(m): 12:46pm On Jul 16, 2020
Everything is all about money
Why that can you take care of money


She is directly tell you that
You have to pump money in to her
When dating

Woman and money just like 5 and 6

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Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Germi9: 12:46pm On Jul 16, 2020
1957 question..cant she read the signs of time?

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Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Rossonero: 12:46pm On Jul 16, 2020
XshegzzyeeiX:
Good morning. Romancelanders.
Welcome to midweek.

So I'm of the opinion that in a relationship, a man and a woman ought to care for one another. But some women feel so entitled that they only expect a man to take care of them without reciprocating the gestures.

It's very wrong for a woman to bring that statement of "can you take care of me?" when I ask her out. I brandish her a red card immediately she makes such statement.

I detest selfish women, and I believe so many others do.

Only simps welcome such waywardness.

PS: I've braced up for your criticisms, insults and cuss words.

Feminists, waddaya have to say.
Alpha males, what's your take on this matter.
White Knights, let's hear you out.

Is it right or totally wrong for a woman to pop that question "can you take care of me" when you ask her out?
Some of them nah copy and paste spoken word them sabi. I guess they only understand that statement as it reads but don't understand the depth of the context.
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by OdenKelechi(m): 12:47pm On Jul 16, 2020
I'll first ask her if i'm her father before leaving her
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Whiteways: 12:48pm On Jul 16, 2020
No go put wunshi for my business! Lazy type!

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Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by tafat: 12:48pm On Jul 16, 2020
The comments on this thread are legendary grin grin grin

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Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Blizzb007: 12:49pm On Jul 16, 2020
chat up the number to join group

Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by TalkTalkTwins(m): 12:49pm On Jul 16, 2020
SweetCunt97:
[s]You crybabies should go listen to Bill Withers song "Lean On Me" and be wise. Generation on mature responsible men is fast eroding unfortunately.[/s]

Don't be stupid

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Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by trutht828: 12:50pm On Jul 16, 2020
blinkz4real:
"Can u take care of me" is not always what ur small mind is telling u she is thinking. She could mean can u be my support system, can I really share my thots n feelings 2 u n u won't tk me 4granted or tk advantage of me, can I confide in u, can u be a person who can advise her on d right path 2 success. How abt that?

Don't always think its ur money she is after bros, have respect 4 women pls n if others do it don't assume all of dem re like that.

Moreover u re the man are u not suppose 2 take care of ur woman? Anyway sha its for matured n responsible men 2 undstnd but pls try 2 reason things positively n u ll c women respect n adore u.

When a hungry Nigerian girl asks that question, the only thing on her shallow mind is "can you spend money on me?"

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Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by mcdokwe(m): 12:50pm On Jul 16, 2020
XshegzzyeeiX:
Good morning. Romancelanders.
Welcome to midweek.

So I'm of the opinion that in a relationship, a man and a woman ought to care for one another. But some women feel so entitled that they only expect a man to take care of them without reciprocating the gestures.

It's very wrong for a woman to bring that statement of "can you take care of me?" when I ask her out. I brandish her a red card immediately she makes such statement.

I detest selfish women, and I believe so many others do.

Only simps welcome such waywardness.

PS: I've braced up for your criticisms, insults and cuss words.

Feminists, waddaya have to say.
Alpha males, what's your take on this matter.
White Knights, let's hear you out.


Is it right or totally wrong for a woman to pop that question "can you take care of me" when you ask her out?


Na so una done share post reach? Where my own abeg?
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by MATURELION: 12:51pm On Jul 16, 2020
Donedeal1:
So she can not ask for what is right again? questions are meant for your enlightement so because of a simple question ok oh.What If she meant that period of time things looking somehow for you.
peope like you are pvssy niggas, woman wrapper... if a girl ever ask that question BLOCK HER SOUL AWAY else your pocket will feel the heat later

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Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by trutht828: 12:51pm On Jul 16, 2020
SweetCunt97:
You crybabies should go listen to Bill Withers song "Lean On Me" and be wise. Generation on mature responsible men is fast eroding unfortunately.

How do responsible men behave? They allow you to turn them to poverty alleviation agents?

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Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by donoso: 12:51pm On Jul 16, 2020
It's a way of asserting the man's capacity and capabilities to take care of her. Taking of her is NOT ONLY FINANCE.

It entails emotional and psychological needs.
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Tonymegabush1(m): 12:51pm On Jul 16, 2020
Back then once meet a lady, I asked her out she told me that she is only want a man that will help her develop, by develop I sense where she is aiming at na so I thrash the thought..... Each time i came to buy from the pharmacy she work she always want me to part with my change the thing even made me to stop going there or else na round number payment....

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Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Psylas2: 12:51pm On Jul 16, 2020
walezy85:
Lack of understanding causes it,if only they realized that God made them to be helpmate not to be solely depend on the Man but to support



Sir, where you there?
Do you believe the creation story?

Nature control all of us and our lives.
Nothing is wrong with it.
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by davien(m): 12:53pm On Jul 16, 2020
The "take care of me" is usually your money, resources, time and sex(which she gets from you as it's a two-way thing). The sex part is only fulfilled when she feels like it regardless of anything you provide.

So what are you as a man gaining for offering all these?

Better wise up and stop taking the burden of such women who can exit the relationship at anytime for a better provider or even someone who can't provide shishi.

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Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by EdiskyHarry: 12:53pm On Jul 16, 2020
Jesus will take care of you, I'm a mere human being Just like you.

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Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by buzorcharles(m): 12:54pm On Jul 16, 2020
THUNDAR:
Seriously guys! things are not Really what they seems on the first date, just because she asked "can you take care of me" on the first date does not mean Jack, there are smart and intelligent ladies Who would purposely say annoying things on first date to see How you react, and may turn up to be independent women. just the way you keep checklists and tick Which she fails and passes so some of them do too. But some of them (a lot actually) na Akamu they say it as they feel!

If she purposely say shit, i will purposely stall the date. Relationship these days is NO MORE a do or die affair. No time for bullshit

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Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Martinez39s(m): 12:55pm On Jul 16, 2020
blinkz4real:
"Can u take care of me" is not always what ur small mind is telling u she is thinking. She could mean can u be my support system, can I really share my thots n feelings 2 u n u won't tk me 4granted or tk advantage of me, can I confide in u, can u be a person who can advise her on d right path 2 success. How abt that?

Don't always think its ur money she is after bros, have respect 4 women pls n if others do it don't assume all of dem re like that.


Moreover u re the man are u not suppose 2 take care of ur woman? Anyway sha its for matured n responsible men 2 undstnd but pls try 2 reason things positively n u ll c women respect n adore u.
undecided See the way you are dribbling yourself and scoring own goal.

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Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Lexusgs430: 12:55pm On Jul 16, 2020
Can you take care of her, does not always denote financial responsibility..............

Taking care of her from your witch & wizard family etc etc

Only if you intend to marry a housewife, then you must take care of her....... Setting up a business etc etc.........
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by wonder233: 12:55pm On Jul 16, 2020
Mostly Ibo ladies... Entitled lot

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