A girl I met on Eskimi asked me that stupid question but I discharge her immediately.

XshegzzyeeiX:
Good morning. Romancelanders.
Welcome to midweek.

So I'm of the opinion that in a relationship, a man and a woman ought to care for one another. But some women feel so entitled that they only expect a man to take care of them without reciprocating the gestures.

It's very wrong for a woman to bring that statement of "can you take care of me?" when I ask her out. I brandish her a red card immediately she makes such statement.

I detest selfish women, and I believe so many others do.

Only simps welcome such waywardness.

PS: I've braced up for your criticisms, insults and cuss words.

Feminists, waddaya have to say.
Alpha males, what's your take on this matter.
White Knights, let's hear you out.

Is it right or totally wrong for a woman to pop that question "can you take care of me" when you ask her out?

Don't make me laugh
Before a guy asks a Lady out,he should be able to decipher her characters, morales and qualities before tabling the asking out question down, a serious no jokes,straight to the point Lady can ask that question without it meaning she'd be a burden.
We tend to think things always fall in either black or white,when there are actually Grey's
You're never correct in this cause people's values can be different while still using the same phrase.
Most ladies do that with selfish Intention's, doesn't leave out the good ones using that with good intentions.If you don't keep calm to reason the Grey's, you'll end up loosing a potential good partner.Kwantinue
Please don't bother coming at me,if I have your time,you'll get tired

Dalil8:
Guys once she asks that question, reply her with;

Can't you take care of yourself?
Who has been taking care of you ever since?

[s] Your parents, kids and siblings are the only ones that needs your care and love cuz they are your blood and will always be. Every other person is a stranger.

They are the only ones who would remember and miss you decades after you're gone, [/s] your so called lovely wife would find a new love and you'll be forgotten.

But your parents, kids and siblings? You can never be replaced in their hearts.

I disagree. It has been 100% support from wife my since I married her 9 years ago, no family member could match her support and love. Blood alone is not enough reason. Remember, that wife you excluded gave you the same children you included

Taking care of doesn't really mean being a financial support or pillar. If you read or understand it in that light, then you are utterly wrong.
Instead of you jumping into conclusion that she meant can you afford being her ATM, it's better you ask to clarify what she meant.
Some ladies "can you take care of me" actually means can you provide them with emotional support; the love, care and attention.

XshegzzyeeiX:
Good morning. Romancelanders.
Welcome to midweek.

So I'm of the opinion that in a relationship, a man and a woman ought to care for one another. But some women feel so entitled that they only expect a man to take care of them without reciprocating the gestures.

It's very wrong for a woman to bring that statement of "can you take care of me?" when I ask her out. I brandish her a red card immediately she makes such statement.

I detest selfish women, and I believe so many others do.

Only simps welcome such waywardness.

PS: I've braced up for your criticisms, insults and cuss words.

Feminists, waddaya have to say.
Alpha males, what's your take on this matter.
White Knights, let's hear you out.

Is it right or totally wrong for a woman to pop that question "can you take care of me" when you ask her out?

Players will agree to anything until they enter... 'can u take care of me?' why not. If i enter finish and you are not what i want, i discard. So she learn her lessons the hard way and stop asking stupid questions

XshegzzyeeiX:
Good morning. Romancelanders.
Welcome to midweek.

So I'm of the opinion that in a relationship, a man and a woman ought to care for one another. But some women feel so entitled that they only expect a man to take care of them without reciprocating the gestures.

It's very wrong for a woman to bring that statement of "can you take care of me?" when I ask her out. I brandish her a red card immediately she makes such statement.

I detest selfish women, and I believe so many others do.

Only simps welcome such waywardness.

PS: I've braced up for your criticisms, insults and cuss words.

Feminists, waddaya have to say.
Alpha males, what's your take on this matter.
White Knights, let's hear you out.

Is it right or totally wrong for a woman to pop that question "can you take care of me" when you ask her out?

you get sense. Unlike some of the disgraceful simps I mostly see online

You are right. I'm a lady, but I don't subscribe when a lady is asking a man such question. It's totally wrong.

that is if "take care " refers to money alone ..

sure you need to take care of her even if she has all the money in the world ...you have narrowed the statement to finance alone

XshegzzyeeiX:
Good morning. Romancelanders.
Welcome to midweek.

So I'm of the opinion that in a relationship, a man and a woman ought to care for one another. But some women feel so entitled that they only expect a man to take care of them without reciprocating the gestures.

It's very wrong for a woman to bring that statement of "can you take care of me?" when I ask her out. I brandish her a red card immediately she makes such statement.

I detest selfish women, and I believe so many others do.

Only simps welcome such waywardness.

PS: I've braced up for your criticisms, insults and cuss words.

Feminists, waddaya have to say.
Alpha males, what's your take on this matter.
White Knights, let's hear you out.

Is it right or totally wrong for a woman to pop that question "can you take care of me" when you ask her out?

bro, sadly, until we get rid of the men (like Toks2008) who believe that A) a man should take care of a woman he date, B) if he aint generous to that babe it means he doesnt love her and/or C) if he is stingy he wont be a good man to marry bla bla bla, then the problem will never be solved!

there are too many donkeys out there who have nothing to offer, nothing of value, therefore they HAVE to pay for women to be with them. thus these women know that and now will tell you:" fukc LOVE, can you take care of my needs"... and men like Toks2008 will scream: "yes yes!!!!!"

XshegzzyeeiX:
Good morning. Romancelanders.
Welcome to midweek.

So I'm of the opinion that in a relationship, a man and a woman ought to care for one another. But some women feel so entitled that they only expect a man to take care of them without reciprocating the gestures.

It's very wrong for a woman to bring that statement of "can you take care of me?" when I ask her out. I brandish her a red card immediately she makes such statement.

I detest selfish women, and I believe so many others do.

Only simps welcome such waywardness.

PS: I've braced up for your criticisms, insults and cuss words.

Feminists, waddaya have to say.
Alpha males, what's your take on this matter.
White Knights, let's hear you out.

Is it right or totally wrong for a woman to pop that question "can you take care of me" when you ask her out?

Over generalization. When I was going out with my then girlfriend, she asked me this question and I gave an honest answer. Today that girlfriend is my very hardworking beautiful wife.

Am i ya papa

illicit:


It's a waste of valuable time.

Just let her go
Nothing special in her pussy

I must mark my own register

SweetCunt97:
You crybabies should go listen to Bill Withers song "Lean On Me" and be wise. Generation on mature responsible men is fast eroding unfortunately.

Pls explain d relationship between "Lean on me" by Bill withers and "take care of me" by a Nigerian lady like u

babtoundey:
Taking care of doesn't really mean being a financial support or pillar. If you read or understand it in that light, then you are utterly wrong.
Instead of you jumping into conclusion that she meant can you afford being her ATM, it's better you ask to clarify what she meant.
Some ladies "can you take care of me" actually means can you provide them with emotional support; the love, care and attention.

Thank you jare
It's only an immature man that would jump into conclusion without thinking of the morales of the lady in question first to decipher her reasons

Should a lady ask such question, the answer is very simple. Just reply her with the below question as well:

Do you plan to be a liability to me?

This message should send a signal to her, that is if she is not a dumbass.

XshegzzyeeiX:
Good morning. Romancelanders.
Welcome to midweek.

So I'm of the opinion that in a relationship, a man and a woman ought to care for one another. But some women feel so entitled that they only expect a man to take care of them without reciprocating the gestures.

It's very wrong for a woman to bring that statement of "can you take care of me?" when I ask her out. I brandish her a red card immediately she makes such statement.

I detest selfish women, and I believe so many others do.

Only simps welcome such waywardness.

PS: I've braced up for your criticisms, insults and cuss words.

Feminists, waddaya have to say.
Alpha males, what's your take on this matter.
White Knights, let's hear you out.

Is it right or totally wrong for a woman to pop that question "can you take care of me" when you ask her out?

jawalis:
I’ll say Yes. Fvck the b!tch after a while and dispose her. Mission accomplished

This loong grammar tire me

IN FELA'S VOICE

NA WETIN YOU DEY FINNNNND ?

NA PIOIROTO YOU DEY FIND

THUNDAR:
Seriously guys! things are not Really what they seems on the first date, just because she asked "can you take care of me" on the first date does not mean Jack, there are smart and intelligent ladies Who would purposely say annoying things on first date to see How you react, and may turn up to be independent women. just the way you keep checklists and tick Which she fails and passes so some of them do too. But some of them (a lot actually) na Akamu they say it as they feel!

i disagree. Relati0nship is about respect. And a lady asking that questi0n 0n a first date, shows she doesn't respect you.

lograr:
Can you take care of me?
No . I cannot, I should not, I will not, I must not.. .

Hahahahaaaa!!! easy my brother.

jawalis:
I’ll say Yes. Fvck the b!tch after a while and dispose her. Mission accomplished

Mah nigga!

THUNDAR:
Seriously guys! things are not Really what they seems on the first date, just because she asked "can you take care of me" on the first date does not mean Jack, there are smart and intelligent ladies Who would purposely say annoying things on first date to see How you react, and may turn up to be independent women. just the way you keep checklists and tick Which she fails and passes so some of them do too. But some of them (a lot actually) na Akamu they say it as they feel!

very annoying, people that always come with different opinion

XshegzzyeeiX:
Good morning. Romancelanders.
Welcome to midweek.

So I'm of the opinion that in a relationship, a man and a woman ought to care for one another. But some women feel so entitled that they only expect a man to take care of them without reciprocating the gestures.

It's very wrong for a woman to bring that statement of "can you take care of me?" when I ask her out. I brandish her a red card immediately she makes such statement.

I detest selfish women, and I believe so many others do.

Only simps welcome such waywardness.

PS: I've braced up for your criticisms, insults and cuss words.

Feminists, waddaya have to say.
Alpha males, what's your take on this matter.
White Knights, let's hear you out.

Is it right or totally wrong for a woman to pop that question "can you take care of me" when you ask her out?

100% correct
only selfcenterd biacht who have nothing to offer aside sex asks such. its not about the guy being broke or rich.

Wendymary:
You are right. I'm a lady, but I don't subscribe when a lady is asking a man such question. It's totally wrong.

Stop being funny
A local Plumber should go and meet DJ Cuppy asking her out.
No need for long talk's, a simple "Can you take care of me" from her will give his brain factory reset,this thing is double standard's
Patapata ask her the same question also.
Koletoyen

babtoundey:
Taking care of doesn't really mean being a financial support or pillar. If you read or understand it in that light, then you are utterly wrong.
Instead of you jumping into conclusion that she meant can you afford being her ATM, it's better you ask to clarify what she meant.
Some ladies "can you take care of me" actually means can you provide them with emotional support; the love, care and attention.

Pls explain how "can u take care of me" means "providing emotional support, the love, care and attention"?

Frequently asked questions by runs babes, or better still, can u afford my cream and soap...but that's the kinda girls u efulefus like na, bad girls, adventurous ladies, slay queens...op u Neva see anything, you'll keep getting that kinda question until u have sense in dis life...rubbish
When they meet a homely well trained lady they'll tag her boring or good girl, take advantage of her and run...efulefus

You see girls in this Lagos ehn? Na investment relationship many dey do here... and most of them especially jesus babes dem be coded olosho and they feel entitled about you have to provide for me slang. I have stopped dating them because dating self na energy draining wahala. I no do relationship again na sexationship we dey do. Rubbish!!

ayosam4real:
Should a lady ask such question, the answer is very simple. Just reply her with the below question as well:

Do you plan to be a liability to me?

This message should send a signal to her, that is if she is not a dumbass.

Abi na
The guy can also be straight and blunt with his response but still keeping it reasonable

blinkz4real:
"Can u take care of me" is not always what ur small mind is telling u she is thinking. She could mean can u be my support system, can I really share my thots n feelings 2 u n u won't tk me 4granted or tk advantage of me, can I confide in u, can u be a person who can advise her on d right path 2 success. How abt that?

Don't always think its ur money she is after bros, have respect 4 women pls n if others do it don't assume all of dem re like that.

Moreover u re the man are u not suppose 2 take care of ur woman? Anyway sha its for matured n responsible men 2 undstnd but pls try 2 reason things positively n u ll c women respect n adore u.

To slap you dey hungry me.

Lovelyn451:
Frequently asked questions by runs babes, or better still, can u afford my cream and soap...but that's the kinda girls u efulefus like na, bad girls, adventurous ladies, slay queens...op u Neva see anything, you'll keep getting that kinda question until u have sense in dis life...rubbish
When they meet a homely well trained lady they'll tag her boring or good girl, take advantage of her and run...efulefus

lexy2014:


Pls explain how "can u take care of me" means "providing emotional support, the love, care and attention"?

...I don laff tire...that one na Yankee boy, he no sabi anything

SweetCunt97:
You crybabies should go listen to Bill Withers song "Lean On Me" and be wise. Generation on mature responsible men is fast eroding unfortunately.

Too many immature menfolks nowadays.
I really pity genuine ladies.

Speakung as a man myself, the question in itself is contextual.
It depends on d angle d lady is looking at it from.

What a #mature man shd do is to dig in and ask her 4 clarifications, not come to assumptions!

Just keep bleeping those b****s they don't deserve love
If any woman needs your love they should prove it by being caring and understanding and also sacrificial
If you're not in those categories
Just suck my cock and bleep off
If you carry belle you are OYO
Wetin concern me concern love

Lucrativress:

Thank you jare
It's only an immature man that would jump into conclusion without thinking of the morales of the lady in question first to decipher her reasons

What do u mean by "morales of the lady in question"? What is there to be deciphered in "can you take care of me"?