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Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by Michealky: 1:05pm On Jul 21, 2020
Martinez39s:
I am so happy that I am a redpill guy; I am so happy that I am not a fool. As I have always said, it pays to take the redpill.

Imagine making over ₦1.8M as a student only to squander it with a cruel leech of a lady all in the name of love/relationship. Despite her attitude towards you, you still helped her when you made an additional ₦800k. You aren't just a blue pill simp, you are immensely and abjectly foolish thanks to your heavy blue pill conditioning. undecided

You need the redpill.
Lol. Too much wisdom
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by philsbaba: 1:06pm On Jul 21, 2020
Olamila:
Let me not bore you guys with my relationship history but this girl is my first love, i met her while i was in school 300l. Ever since then i have always been there for her despite even having a low budget as student because I'm not from a wealthy home, even her parents has times10 more than my family. But despite that i try all i could to maintain my role in the relationship because i don't fancy myself asking anything from my girlfriend.

Before anything else i need to tell little about my girlfriend, she is beautiful and nice. Almost every guy wants to woo her and all of that. Aside of that my girlfriend is very stingy to me, she can never allow her anything be in my possession, she doesn't have this idea that we could end up one day though she will always say something close to it only during fun time. But when she is at her leisures she will say how she fancy how husband to be and all of that which i no I'm not the person she could had been referring to. That not even my major issue.

She always been cruel when she asks me for anything and i refuse to give her maybe i don't have or just don't see needs to do so.
I also discovered that most of our fun times comes immediately money enters my hand. Because i remember when i was in school my first 800k i made was finished and squandered with her, i haven't dated anyother or even have another girl since i met her. Because i try to make her feel comfortable because i no how many guys wish her to be with her. So secondly i made another 1m i squandered it with her too. But when this money just finish guyz i always see hell in her. This was the ups an downs i was experiencing till i finished my school with her. It was a shame for me upon the money i made in school i graduated with zero account looking for money for my law school. I wasn't fortunate to get any help so i sat back to Hustle. Then i was begging looking for helper to assist me when i saw one big opportunity that i need to take but it the opportunity required money as my account was bleeding zero. I begged everyone including my girlfriend but she told me she doesn't have even if she happened to get money for me i will pay her interest. This words alone made me cry, did you no instead of helping me out she told me I'm not the only one that needs help she also need to invest on her self which she was right i believe her. She later invested her money in one fraudulent sheme which she lost the money.

FastTrack to what is happening now, i later got help from someone who offered me 50k and my mum 20k making it 70k i picked myself up and started my Hustle again. Within three months i made 800k again. All this times i was giving her update about my business and earnings. Could you imagine she had the gut to ask for money despite her behaviors. Because of my nature i don't believe someone's bad nature should change my own nature so i still sent her some money because i also no she is broke.

Since then i just forgot about what she did and all of those stuffs because my money kept coming and i don't keep grudges i keep taking care of her. Now i had issue with my business i want to fix something up i was also telling her. this girl went ahead to start asking me to send her money. I was really disappointed i protested because i noticed when i have money i become very careless. It seems money covers so many things.
I just need advice because i think it is time to let her go coz with her nature and type of girl it might end in tears for me. All she do is stay on social media, snap and post and look for who will send her money. No skills, i have begged her several times to look for something to be doing she refused and tells me how her dad won't allow her. She doesn't listen to me, always feel like boss when little money enter her hand. Guys i really love her but i think it is time to seek help because i will regret if this continues.
guy your mumu disgusts me. Do you really want us to advice youhuh OK. Please go ahead and marry her. She is the best woman for you. Please don't stop giving her money. Give her 60 percent of your earnings to show her that you love her. This is a fight for love bro. Don't give up. Idiot
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by Pat081: 1:10pm On Jul 21, 2020
U knw the answer still u are looking for answer let her go her way and look for good gal like ur mummy who is with u wen u have promble
Olamila:
Let me not bore you guys with my relationship history but this girl is my first love, i met her while i was in school 300l. Ever since then i have always been there for her despite even having a low budget as student because I'm not from a wealthy home, even her parents has times10 more than my family. But despite that i try all i could to maintain my role in the relationship because i don't fancy myself asking anything from my girlfriend.

Before anything else i need to tell little about my girlfriend, she is beautiful and nice. Almost every guy wants to woo her and all of that. Aside of that my girlfriend is very stingy to me, she can never allow her anything be in my possession, she doesn't have this idea that we could end up one day though she will always say something close to it only during fun time. But when she is at her leisures she will say how she fancy how husband to be and all of that which i no I'm not the person she could had been referring to. That not even my major issue.

She always been cruel when she asks me for anything and i refuse to give her maybe i don't have or just don't see needs to do so.
I also discovered that most of our fun times comes immediately money enters my hand. Because i remember when i was in school my first 800k i made was finished and squandered with her, i haven't dated anyother or even have another girl since i met her. Because i try to make her feel comfortable because i no how many guys wish her to be with her. So secondly i made another 1m i squandered it with her too. But when this money just finish guyz i always see hell in her. This was the ups an downs i was experiencing till i finished my school with her. It was a shame for me upon the money i made in school i graduated with zero account looking for money for my law school. I wasn't fortunate to get any help so i sat back to Hustle. Then i was begging looking for helper to assist me when i saw one big opportunity that i need to take but it the opportunity required money as my account was bleeding zero. I begged everyone including my girlfriend but she told me she doesn't have even if she happened to get money for me i will pay her interest. This words alone made me cry, did you no instead of helping me out she told me I'm not the only one that needs help she also need to invest on her self which she was right i believe her. She later invested her money in one fraudulent sheme which she lost the money.

FastTrack to what is happening now, i later got help from someone who offered me 50k and my mum 20k making it 70k i picked myself up and started my Hustle again. Within three months i made 800k again. All this times i was giving her update about my business and earnings. Could you imagine she had the gut to ask for money despite her behaviors. Because of my nature i don't believe someone's bad nature should change my own nature so i still sent her some money because i also no she is broke.

Since then i just forgot about what she did and all of those stuffs because my money kept coming and i don't keep grudges i keep taking care of her. Now i had issue with my business i want to fix something up i was also telling her. this girl went ahead to start asking me to send her money. I was really disappointed i protested because i noticed when i have money i become very careless. It seems money covers so many things.
I just need advice because i think it is time to let her go coz with her nature and type of girl it might end in tears for me. All she do is stay on social media, snap and post and look for who will send her money. No skills, i have begged her several times to look for something to be doing she refused and tells me how her dad won't allow her. She doesn't listen to me, always feel like boss when little money enter her hand. Guys i really love her but i think it is time to seek help because i will regret if this continues.
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by akmath: 1:10pm On Jul 21, 2020
poshestmina:
ATM machine? undecided
ATM
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by SeanBeezy(m): 1:11pm On Jul 21, 2020
The more I read this stuff, the more angrier I become. You know deep down in your heart that your relationship is leading or will lead no where, you still rebuffed that mentality.
You're from a poor background but obviously you're always lucky when it comes to making money. Now my main annoyance is why didn't you invest on yourself first using your background as motivation?
There are tonnes of businesses that you can start up with 500k upwards, but you and your girlfriend squandered 800k! My God!
It'd have been more perfect to even partner with your parents with half of your initial 800k and you'd still see your results and even interests...
With all boldness, I'm telling you that girl doesn't love you!. I mean what is love when isn't reciprocated? What is love when it is one sided?
Lemme tell you bro, people that are this extravagant tend to have limited grace towards making money of which if you don't save up during the rainy days, you're definitely gonna starve during periods of harvest, and when it comes such person is doomed!

At this point in your life, you ought to have known what you want and the type of person you wanna be with!
Bro change your life, retrace your steps, ask God for forgiveness because you've erred!



I still can't imagine you squandered over 1m with someone who doesn't give a damn about you!
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by autonomous22: 1:11pm On Jul 21, 2020
That girl is very lucky.. Plz keep sending momoney to her...
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by Lawsaite: 1:13pm On Jul 21, 2020
Olamila:
Let me not bore you guys with my relationship history but this girl is my first love, i met her while i was in school 300l. Ever since then i have always been there for her despite even having a low budget as student because I'm not from a wealthy home, even her parents has times10 more than my family. But despite that i try all i could to maintain my role in the relationship because i don't fancy myself asking anything from my girlfriend.

Before anything else i need to tell little about my girlfriend, she is beautiful and nice. Almost every guy wants to woo her and all of that. Aside of that my girlfriend is very stingy to me, she can never allow her anything be in my possession, she doesn't have this idea that we could end up one day though she will always say something close to it only during fun time. But when she is at her leisures she will say how she fancy how husband to be and all of that which i no I'm not the person she could had been referring to. That not even my major issue.

She always been cruel when she asks me for anything and i refuse to give her maybe i don't have or just don't see needs to do so.
I also discovered that most of our fun times comes immediately money enters my hand. Because i remember when i was in school my first 800k i made was finished and squandered with her, i haven't dated anyother or even have another girl since i met her. Because i try to make her feel comfortable because i no how many guys wish her to be with her. So secondly i made another 1m i squandered it with her too. But when this money just finish guyz i always see hell in her. This was the ups an downs i was experiencing till i finished my school with her. It was a shame for me upon the money i made in school i graduated with zero account looking for money for my law school. I wasn't fortunate to get any help so i sat back to Hustle. Then i was begging looking for helper to assist me when i saw one big opportunity that i need to take but it the opportunity required money as my account was bleeding zero. I begged everyone including my girlfriend but she told me she doesn't have even if she happened to get money for me i will pay her interest. This words alone made me cry, did you no instead of helping me out she told me I'm not the only one that needs help she also need to invest on her self which she was right i believe her. She later invested her money in one fraudulent sheme which she lost the money.

FastTrack to what is happening now, i later got help from someone who offered me 50k and my mum 20k making it 70k i picked myself up and started my Hustle again. Within three months i made 800k again. All this times i was giving her update about my business and earnings. Could you imagine she had the gut to ask for money despite her behaviors. Because of my nature i don't believe someone's bad nature should change my own nature so i still sent her some money because i also no she is broke.

Since then i just forgot about what she did and all of those stuffs because my money kept coming and i don't keep grudges i keep taking care of her. Now i had issue with my business i want to fix something up i was also telling her. this girl went ahead to start asking me to send her money. I was really disappointed i protested because i noticed when i have money i become very careless. It seems money covers so many things.
I just need advice because i think it is time to let her go coz with her nature and type of girl it might end in tears for me. All she do is stay on social media, snap and post and look for who will send her money. No skills, i have begged her several times to look for something to be doing she refused and tells me how her dad won't allow her. She doesn't listen to me, always feel like boss when little money enter her hand. Guys i really love her but i think it is time to seek help because i will regret if this continues.
Op please what do you do as a law student to raise such amounts of money? Please tell me. Can I mail you?
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by sulaimon22: 1:13pm On Jul 21, 2020
I no get concern with your GF. abeg which hustle give u 800k in 3 month
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by Thane(m): 1:14pm On Jul 21, 2020
Olamila:
This is totally out of it because i never ask her anything i told they are richer doesn't mean they're wealthy be mindful of the words u use after all over 5 yrs i have never taken 5k from her im not poor i tried to be contented
which hustle is that bros, please I'm interested
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by poshestmina(f): 1:16pm On Jul 21, 2020
akmath:
ATM
Modified.Thanks.
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by SeanBeezy(m): 1:16pm On Jul 21, 2020
allen113:
op, you said you're from a poor home and she still agree to date you even when other guys are wooing her, when you were single you never made 800k, immediately you started dating her you've made over 2m, bros Abeg marry her, she get luck way dey follow her, as long as she is not cheating on you, forgive her stingy nature.
which kind luck?
Didn't you hear him say she only comes around when there's money?
Sometimes I'm baffled at the thinking level of most guys!
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by cupidhero(m): 1:17pm On Jul 21, 2020
Olamila!!!!!!!

That girl dey la you like Omila.

If you really love her like you said then talk to her. If she really loves you i don't see any reason why you can't sit her down and talk to her about things you have noticed about her. Just let her know how you feel. If she does not change then move on with your life.
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by Michealky: 1:17pm On Jul 21, 2020
Wish I knew this op guy, I need to instill common sense in him. Typing won't do it. You are what we call effeminate simp. A man who is soft, compassionate and values women more than anything..
Normally when a guy sees Money like this, em go do shakara small and even snub the girl for sometime. You don't need an old man to tell you what to do, you have initiative, use them.
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by bigcee(m): 1:17pm On Jul 21, 2020
Olamila:
.
You're too empathetic. People like you dont know how to say "no" to some request, people like you lack boundaries. You always put others first before yourself which is so wrong. Oga, She dont love you, na maga she just dey use you play. Baba, wise up and end the nonsense you call a relationship. You're displaying a sign of weakness and is an advantage for her to control and manipulate you. She is nothing but a leech(they take and dont give back, even if they do give back, conditions will be attached to it)
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by Olamila(op): 1:18pm On Jul 21, 2020
I no i messed up cry, but I'm a fraudster. God forbid for a lawyer to be, it was just a kind of lucky business. They're millions of legal businesses online giving cool cash.
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by pmoye(m): 1:18pm On Jul 21, 2020
Guy, you are a Yahoo-yahoo boy. With the way you dey squander money on top woman. Hard-earned money is never squandered like that. You and your yahoo-yahoo girl should eat each other raw if una like. Nonsense tomatoes!

Olamila:
Let me not bore you guys with my relationship history but this girl is my first love, i met her while i was in school 300l. Ever since then i have always been there for her despite even having a low budget as student because I'm not from a wealthy home, even her parents has times10 more than my family. But despite that i try all i could to maintain my role in the relationship because i don't fancy myself asking anything from my girlfriend.

Before anything else i need to tell little about my girlfriend, she is beautiful and nice. Almost every guy wants to woo her and all of that. Aside of that my girlfriend is very stingy to me, she can never allow her anything be in my possession, she doesn't have this idea that we could end up one day though she will always say something close to it only during fun time. But when she is at her leisures she will say how she fancy how husband to be and all of that which i no I'm not the person she could had been referring to. That not even my major issue.

She always been cruel when she asks me for anything and i refuse to give her maybe i don't have or just don't see needs to do so.
I also discovered that most of our fun times comes immediately money enters my hand. Because i remember when i was in school my first 800k i made was finished and squandered with her, i haven't dated anyother or even have another girl since i met her. Because i try to make her feel comfortable because i no how many guys wish her to be with her. So secondly i made another 1m i squandered it with her too. But when this money just finish guyz i always see hell in her. This was the ups an downs i was experiencing till i finished my school with her. It was a shame for me upon the money i made in school i graduated with zero account looking for money for my law school. I wasn't fortunate to get any help so i sat back to Hustle. Then i was begging looking for helper to assist me when i saw one big opportunity that i need to take but it the opportunity required money as my account was bleeding zero. I begged everyone including my girlfriend but she told me she doesn't have even if she happened to get money for me i will pay her interest. This words alone made me cry, did you no instead of helping me out she told me I'm not the only one that needs help she also need to invest on her self which she was right i believe her. She later invested her money in one fraudulent sheme which she lost the money.

FastTrack to what is happening now, i later got help from someone who offered me 50k and my mum 20k making it 70k i picked myself up and started my Hustle again. Within three months i made 800k again. All this times i was giving her update about my business and earnings. Could you imagine she had the gut to ask for money despite her behaviors. Because of my nature i don't believe someone's bad nature should change my own nature so i still sent her some money because i also no she is broke.

Since then i just forgot about what she did and all of those stuffs because my money kept coming and i don't keep grudges i keep taking care of her. Now i had issue with my business i want to fix something up i was also telling her. this girl went ahead to start asking me to send her money. I was really disappointed i protested because i noticed when i have money i become very careless. It seems money covers so many things.
I just need advice because i think it is time to let her go coz with her nature and type of girl it might end in tears for me. All she do is stay on social media, snap and post and look for who will send her money. No skills, i have begged her several times to look for something to be doing she refused and tells me how her dad won't allow her. She doesn't listen to me, always feel like boss when little money enter her hand. Guys i really love her but i think it is time to seek help because i will regret if this continues.
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by Backupaccount: 1:20pm On Jul 21, 2020
But op, how you dey make this money in short time. No business mentioned, no work.

And how you dey take spend self?
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by Greenbirth: 1:21pm On Jul 21, 2020
God will punish you paaaaa. The money you are supposed to use take care of your mother and your siblings that you are lavishing on such girl.

Guy poverty will keep knocking at your door until you change. Rule no 1. Don't take care of a girl when you have not married her. Dick head, BAME and HILLBILLYS like you always make guys commit suicide.

Don't try quote me ooo because I carry major bomb to throw on your head.
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by Youngzedd(m): 1:21pm On Jul 21, 2020
Olamila:
Let me not bore you guys with my relationship history but this girl is my first love, i met her while i was in school 300l. Ever since then i have always been there for her despite even having a low budget as student because I'm not from a wealthy home, even her parents has times10 more than my family. But despite that i try all i could to maintain my role in the relationship because i don't fancy myself asking anything from my girlfriend.

Before anything else i need to tell little about my girlfriend, she is beautiful and nice. Almost every guy wants to woo her and all of that. Aside of that my girlfriend is very stingy to me, she can never allow her anything be in my possession, she doesn't have this idea that we could end up one day though she will always say something close to it only during fun time. But when she is at her leisures she will say how she fancy how husband to be and all of that which i no I'm not the person she could had been referring to. That not even my major issue.

She always been cruel when she asks me for anything and i refuse to give her maybe i don't have or just don't see needs to do so.
I also discovered that most of our fun times comes immediately money enters my hand. Because i remember when i was in school my first 800k i made was finished and squandered with her, i haven't dated anyother or even have another girl since i met her. Because i try to make her feel comfortable because i no how many guys wish her to be with her. So secondly i made another 1m i squandered it with her too. But when this money just finish guyz i always see hell in her. This was the ups an downs i was experiencing till i finished my school with her. It was a shame for me upon the money i made in school i graduated with zero account looking for money for my law school. I wasn't fortunate to get any help so i sat back to Hustle. Then i was begging looking for helper to assist me when i saw one big opportunity that i need to take but it the opportunity required money as my account was bleeding zero. I begged everyone including my girlfriend but she told me she doesn't have even if she happened to get money for me i will pay her interest. This words alone made me cry, did you no instead of helping me out she told me I'm not the only one that needs help she also need to invest on her self which she was right i believe her. She later invested her money in one fraudulent sheme which she lost the money.

FastTrack to what is happening now, i later got help from someone who offered me 50k and my mum 20k making it 70k i picked myself up and started my Hustle again. Within three months i made 800k again. All this times i was giving her update about my business and earnings. Could you imagine she had the gut to ask for money despite her behaviors. Because of my nature i don't believe someone's bad nature should change my own nature so i still sent her some money because i also no she is broke.

Since then i just forgot about what she did and all of those stuffs because my money kept coming and i don't keep grudges i keep taking care of her. Now i had issue with my business i want to fix something up i was also telling her. this girl went ahead to start asking me to send her money. I was really disappointed i protested because i noticed when i have money i become very careless. It seems money covers so many things.
I just need advice because i think it is time to let her go coz with her nature and type of girl it might end in tears for me. All she do is stay on social media, snap and post and look for who will send her money. No skills, i have begged her several times to look for something to be doing she refused and tells me how her dad won't allow her. She doesn't listen to me, always feel like boss when little money enter her hand. Guys i really love her but i think it is time to seek help because i will regret if this continues.
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Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by Nobody: 1:23pm On Jul 21, 2020
silverbirdng:
It must not be fraud always
U are the one that called it fraud ooo... I ddnt...
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by Olamila(op): 1:24pm On Jul 21, 2020
Guy if i start promoting my business people will still say I'm using it to promote my business
Backupaccount:
But op, how you dey make this money in short time. No business mentioned, no work.

And how you dey take spend self?
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by Alexaonfleek: 1:24pm On Jul 21, 2020
Olamila:
Let me not bore you guys with my relationship history but this girl is my first love, i met her while i was in school 300l. Ever since then i have always been there for her despite even having a low budget as student because I'm not from a wealthy home, even her parents has times10 more than my family. But despite that i try all i could to maintain my role in the relationship because i don't fancy myself asking anything from my girlfriend.

Before anything else i need to tell little about my girlfriend, she is beautiful and nice. Almost every guy wants to woo her and all of that. Aside of that my girlfriend is very stingy to me, she can never allow her anything be in my possession, she doesn't have this idea that we could end up one day though she will always say something close to it only during fun time. But when she is at her leisures she will say how she fancy how husband to be and all of that which i no I'm not the person she could had been referring to. That not even my major issue.

She always been cruel when she asks me for anything and i refuse to give her maybe i don't have or just don't see needs to do so.
I also discovered that most of our fun times comes immediately money enters my hand. Because i remember when i was in school my first 800k i made was finished and squandered with her, i haven't dated anyother or even have another girl since i met her. Because i try to make her feel comfortable because i no how many guys wish her to be with her. So secondly i made another 1m i squandered it with her too. But when this money just finish guyz i always see hell in her. This was the ups an downs i was experiencing till i finished my school with her. It was a shame for me upon the money i made in school i graduated with zero account looking for money for my law school. I wasn't fortunate to get any help so i sat back to Hustle. Then i was begging looking for helper to assist me when i saw one big opportunity that i need to take but it the opportunity required money as my account was bleeding zero. I begged everyone including my girlfriend but she told me she doesn't have even if she happened to get money for me i will pay her interest. This words alone made me cry, did you no instead of helping me out she told me I'm not the only one that needs help she also need to invest on her self which she was right i believe her. She later invested her money in one fraudulent sheme which she lost the money.

FastTrack to what is happening now, i later got help from someone who offered me 50k and my mum 20k making it 70k i picked myself up and started my Hustle again. Within three months i made 800k again. All this times i was giving her update about my business and earnings. Could you imagine she had the gut to ask for money despite her behaviors. Because of my nature i don't believe someone's bad nature should change my own nature so i still sent her some money because i also no she is broke.

Since then i just forgot about what she did and all of those stuffs because my money kept coming and i don't keep grudges i keep taking care of her. Now i had issue with my business i want to fix something up i was also telling her. this girl went ahead to start asking me to send her money. I was really disappointed i protested because i noticed when i have money i become very careless. It seems money covers so many things.
I just need advice because i think it is time to let her go coz with her nature and type of girl it might end in tears for me. All she do is stay on social media, snap and post and look for who will send her money. No skills, i have begged her several times to look for something to be doing she refused and tells me how her dad won't allow her. She doesn't listen to me, always feel like boss when little money enter her hand. Guys i really love her but i think it is time to seek help because i will regret if this continues.
I just hope this story is fake.
And I also hope that I don't know you in person, because if I did,I will send boys to beat sense into you undecided
Where are you guys even getting all these type of girls from?
How can a human being, irrespective of gender have zero management skills with money in this next level?
Doh op
You try
Next time she ask you for money,sell your right testicle and give her the money.
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by Nobody: 1:25pm On Jul 21, 2020
Stop been a SIMPLETON...where is iLegend? Knock some sense into this boy!
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by cedricksly: 1:25pm On Jul 21, 2020
You just played yourself.... U lavish 1.8m future expenses money with this girl and u fell and needed help she couldn't help... Are u blind to the fact that she is using you or u are foolishhuh Ask urself that sincere question.. That girl will reduce you to nothing and hop on the next available guy who has to spend on her.. Dey there dey form love to a girl who is even a Liability to herself
Olamila:
Let me not bore you guys with my relationship history but this girl is my first love, i met her while i was in school 300l. Ever since then i have always been there for her despite even having a low budget as student because I'm not from a wealthy home, even her parents has times10 more than my family. But despite that i try all i could to maintain my role in the relationship because i don't fancy myself asking anything from my girlfriend.

Before anything else i need to tell little about my girlfriend, she is beautiful and nice. Almost every guy wants to woo her and all of that. Aside of that my girlfriend is very stingy to me, she can never allow her anything be in my possession, she doesn't have this idea that we could end up one day though she will always say something close to it only during fun time. But when she is at her leisures she will say how she fancy how husband to be and all of that which i no I'm not the person she could had been referring to. That not even my major issue.

She always been cruel when she asks me for anything and i refuse to give her maybe i don't have or just don't see needs to do so.
I also discovered that most of our fun times comes immediately money enters my hand. Because i remember when i was in school my first 800k i made was finished and squandered with her, i haven't dated anyother or even have another girl since i met her. Because i try to make her feel comfortable because i no how many guys wish her to be with her. So secondly i made another 1m i squandered it with her too. But when this money just finish guyz i always see hell in her. This was the ups an downs i was experiencing till i finished my school with her. It was a shame for me upon the money i made in school i graduated with zero account looking for money for my law school. I wasn't fortunate to get any help so i sat back to Hustle. Then i was begging looking for helper to assist me when i saw one big opportunity that i need to take but it the opportunity required money as my account was bleeding zero. I begged everyone including my girlfriend but she told me she doesn't have even if she happened to get money for me i will pay her interest. This words alone made me cry, did you no instead of helping me out she told me I'm not the only one that needs help she also need to invest on her self which she was right i believe her. She later invested her money in one fraudulent sheme which she lost the money.

FastTrack to what is happening now, i later got help from someone who offered me 50k and my mum 20k making it 70k i picked myself up and started my Hustle again. Within three months i made 800k again. All this times i was giving her update about my business and earnings. Could you imagine she had the gut to ask for money despite her behaviors. Because of my nature i don't believe someone's bad nature should change my own nature so i still sent her some money because i also no she is broke.

Since then i just forgot about what she did and all of those stuffs because my money kept coming and i don't keep grudges i keep taking care of her. Now i had issue with my business i want to fix something up i was also telling her. this girl went ahead to start asking me to send her money. I was really disappointed i protested because i noticed when i have money i become very careless. It seems money covers so many things.
I just need advice because i think it is time to let her go coz with her nature and type of girl it might end in tears for me. All she do is stay on social media, snap and post and look for who will send her money. No skills, i have begged her several times to look for something to be doing she refused and tells me how her dad won't allow her. She doesn't listen to me, always feel like boss when little money enter her hand. Guys i really love her but i think it is time to seek help because i will regret if this continues.
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by Nobody: 1:26pm On Jul 21, 2020
sorry bro......are you sure it is advice that you need or a brain resetting slap?....you already wasted 1.8 million with a girl who obviously from ur write-up doesn't have any future plans with you,from experience, such girls will always return you to square one even if u end up getting married to her,what happens to dumping the liability of a girl and focus on building yourself for your mum and unborn kids.
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by SPOLO(m): 1:26pm On Jul 21, 2020
Idiotmod:
I think op is a developer/website designer or a yahoo guy cos I don't know how I will make over 2million and spend on a girl
walahi i am pained by his mumu act
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by Clinghton: 1:27pm On Jul 21, 2020
Sometimes our goal in life becomes overshadowed with flimsy circumstance, imagine him say he cried when his bae refused to give him money and even threatened to include interest.

Someone you can easily ditch and achieve your aims in life.
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by Nitah1: 1:28pm On Jul 21, 2020
Kyngfarabale1:
everybody shout O. D. E.......oya everybody shout O.P.O.N.U.....oya everybody shout I NO GET SENSE....... Chai people dey dis life oooo....... someone is cheating and taking u for a fool but rather for u to discharge her... u jejely came online to gv us long epistle of rubbish..... use ur head...... Hahahahhahahha
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Hahahahhahahha.
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Na Kombi the keep the guy i swear....maybe the babe have this fat kombi/kpekus.
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by RillJ(m): 1:32pm On Jul 21, 2020
We will talk when you are ready to wake up
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by Wolexyrey: 1:33pm On Jul 21, 2020
Why are you doing like a gullible guy. The hand writing is well written in the wall that she's only after your money. If u dont want to leave her, then be ready to pay her bill. Pls, try and invest your money on what will make u to be a better person not on pussy. Thank yu
Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by Nobody:
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Re: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by linearity: 1:36pm On Jul 21, 2020
Some people ha!

Dem go see rain dey fall dey beat dem and dem dey under rain all wet, soak, shaking and shivering....and they will still come to Nairaland to open a thread.

”Please Help, should I remain under this Rain, Am all Soak and wet and it is Demoralizing Me?”

If pesin talk one kain to dem now, they will start feeling bad and abusing the pesin upandan.
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