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Funny enough, I have heard people especially married men say they love their wives but they have side chics. I begin to wonder what power does love has towards infidelity?

Does it mean one can hurt the person he/she loves intentionally and still profess love for that person?

You reading this should ask yourself when you cheated (if you have), were you still in love with your partner?

If yes, then what is this LOVE we are talking about if it involves hurting the one we love?

Does it mean we love verbally and not practically, or Love is not enough to stop one from cheating?

Love is never enough

Most people have what tickle their fantasy so when they eventual see someone that ticks all the boxes

It takes more than love to pass such test especially in this modern age

2dice01:
Love is never enough

Most people have what tickle their fantasy so when they eventual see someone that ticks all the boxes

It takes more than love to pass such test especially in this modern age

Do you think this is possible?

When the sizzle fizzles, cheating tendencies set in. Familiarity is a major problem in marriages. Dying fantasies, tying wrapper around the home, absence of breastfeeder bras during nursing causing heavyweight slam down of the boobs, absence of romantic compliments, etc. The love would be there, but doesn't hinder cleverly concealed cheating.

What we call love most times isn't love, most people are in a relationship because of societal pressure, mutual benefits, religious belief.....etc
Love is enough to stop you from cheating, when you truly love someone you try as much as possible to avoid hurting them.

xynerise:
Funny enough, I have heard people especially married men say they love their wives but they have side chics. I begin to wonder what power does love has towards infidelity?

Does it mean one can hurt the person he/she loves intentionally and still profess love for that person?

You reading this should ask yourself when you cheated (if you have), were you still in love with your partner?

If yes, then what is this LOVE we are talking about if it involves hurting the one we love?

Does it mean we love verbally and not practically, or Love is not enough to stop one from cheating?

Lalasticlala

a person who cheats on his partner certainly doesnt LOVE that person... because if they did they wouldnt knowingly hurt that person, nor their r/ship. duh! sadly, many clueless people out there are quick to talk about love while having NO DAMN CLUE about what it means!

Love and infidelity do not go hand in hand.

Those who cheat on their partners do not truly love them.

MrBrownJay1:
a person who cheats on his partner certainly doesnt LOVE that person... because if they did they wouldnt knowingly hurt that person, nor their r/ship. duh! sadly, many clueless people out there are quick to talk about love while having NO DAMN CLUE about what it means!

I guess Love doesn't exist in many marriages today.

dulux07:
What we call love most times isn't love, most people are in a relationship because of societal pressure, mutual benefits, religious belief.....etc
Love is enough to stop you from cheating, when you truly love someone you try as much as possible to avoid hurting them.

But love is not enough to stop one from erring. As long as the cheating is not consistent

love isn't enough and nothing is enough to stop a cheating being..

Even the one you're cheating on is also cheating and who cares about love

xynerise:
But love is not enough to stop one from erring. As long as the cheating is not consistent

Yes, because you think you are in love, but you are not

xynerise:
Do you think this is possible?

Yes its possible
if not all then most

If you truly love someone then there is no way to cheat. The truth is that the majority are under the spell of lust thinking it is love.


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Money plays a huge role

Something OP should know is Sex and Love are 2 different things. It’s even worse for Men, sex is just for Satisfaction for men

NO
No
NO
ask me why and I will tell you my experience...

It's self discipline that can stop you

MrBrownJay1:
a person who cheats on his partner certainly doesnt LOVE that person... because if they did they wouldnt knowingly hurt that person, nor their r/ship. duh! sadly, many clueless people out there are quick to talk about love while having NO DAMN CLUE about what it means!

That is not true.

Love is never enough. self discipline is key to stop cheating


let's take the smoking scenario for example; they know smoking is bad but they still do, not because they don't love themselves but because they can't discipline themselves appropriately

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Do not be deceived..
Love na scamm..

Love has never been and will never be enough.

MrBrownJay1:
a person who cheats on his partner certainly doesnt LOVE that person... because if they did they wouldnt knowingly hurt that person, nor their r/ship. duh! sadly, many clueless people out there are quick to talk about love while having NO DAMN CLUE about what it means!

Until you have no other option but to cheat.

Not at all.. people cheat for so many reasons. Cheating is a choice one has to make. Love is love. Sex is sex. Ppl face a lot of temptation every day. It's left for u to control yourself to avoid hurting ur partner. Love is not enough

Nope

For men nope...for women most likely... money is actually a strong factor in this case

No

No it isn't.

One can only choose to stop cheating if he decides to be committed

Not all, I actually met an Igbo man in Lagos some years ago. He told me that since he got married to his wife for over 47 years,; he has never cheated on the wife.

Whenever there's misunderstanding, they make sure the children aren't aware. They settle it in their room.

That's true love.


My shock absorber almost burst. 47 years!