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Re: Is Love Enough To Stop One From Cheating? by MrSquint: 3:11pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
What's love to you ? Don't you think it's subjective ? For me love is just one of those things you need to stay one place. Others could include self respect and discipline. Love encompasses a range of strong and positive emotional and mental states, from the most sublime virtue or good habit, the deepest interpersonal affection and to the simplest PLEASURE An example of this range is that, the love of a mother differs from the love of a spouse, which differs from the love of food. Most commonly, love refers to a feeling of strong attraction and emotional attachment that hits our sensory organs. This could come from different people. Our sensory organs report to our brains, and our brains interpret the data and send the report to our hearts. So, if we see a loving smile, hear loving words, or feel a loving touch, the brain processes this information and makes conclusions. In short, love is not an abstract thought or feeling, it’s concrete and evidenced. So the big question is "Is it possible to love just one person "spouse" ? Let's bring back King Solomon and ask him these questions.... Did you read thru ? Okbye 1 Like |
Re: Is Love Enough To Stop One From Cheating? by 1miccza: 3:13pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
xynerise: Honestly , to the best of my knowledge the ''i love my wife line'' is just at the lips and nothing else, but again a philanderer is always a philanderer and a cheat always a cheat. I have come to realize that cheating has to do with our mindset and beliefs. 1 Like |
Re: Is Love Enough To Stop One From Cheating? by Nobody: 3:14pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Love and sex are relatives, if you love alot , you are likely to cheat alot because you can love many people at a time. |
Re: Is Love Enough To Stop One From Cheating? by xynerise: 3:17pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
1miccza: If it has to do with the mindset then why do people feel guilty when they cheat, especially when they are caught or something close to that? |
Re: Is Love Enough To Stop One From Cheating? by Averys(f): 3:23pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Here |
Re: Is Love Enough To Stop One From Cheating? by seanwilliam(m): 3:25pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
yourgistpartner:bro I doff my cap for you .. you're very very very intelligent.... Now how do you use ^self discipline ^ knowing fully well you are addicted.. I await your response |
Re: Is Love Enough To Stop One From Cheating? by kumulus(m): 3:27pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
xynerise: Not just marriages, love is seemingly non-existent in the world we live in today. For he who shall love the other, first must have loved himself. How then does he say he loves the other when he hasn't loved himself since he has no grounded knowledge of himself?! "Man, know thyself" - Trismegistus -Lloyd 1 Like |
Re: Is Love Enough To Stop One From Cheating? by LastProphet: 3:28pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
dulux07: Be patient |
Re: Is Love Enough To Stop One From Cheating? by LordReed(m): 3:30pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Love is a good foundation but people don't live in foundations. Anybody who wants to build a strong marriage has to add a slew of other attributes to love to make that marriage strong, durable and beautiful. Those attributes include patience, consideration, thoughtfulness, willingness to compliment, etc. 2 Likes |
Re: Is Love Enough To Stop One From Cheating? by DexterousOne(m): 3:36pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
sylve11: One mentor of mine I really respect is also like this |
Re: Is Love Enough To Stop One From Cheating? by Adeshola2323: 3:39pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
U can't tell me u love someone and u still cheat on that person, that's not true love 1 Like |
Re: Is Love Enough To Stop One From Cheating? by max57: 3:51pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Only what can prevent human from cheating is the fear of God,if you love and fear God, you will not even think about it, when you remember that God's is watching over you and his spirit that is in you will make you hate such acts. |
Re: Is Love Enough To Stop One From Cheating? by Epunch1(m): 3:52pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
WELL I THINK HUMAN DESIRES ARE LIMITLESS.... ITS JUST LIKE A VIDEO GAME IF YOU PASS ONE STAGE YOU'LL WANT TO PASS THE NEXT. IF YOU LIKE MARRY THE FINEST BITCH ON EARTH AFTER ROCKING HER LIKE IROKO YOU LIKE ANOTHER YOU MIGHT NOT GO OR RUN FOR IT BUT ONCE THE OPPORTUNITY PRESENTS ITSELF MY BROTHER NAH VOOM! E DEY INSIDE.... FOR ME I'LL SAY ITS ONLY GOD THAT CAN KEEP A MAN OR A WOMAN TOGETHER FOREVER. AMEN? |
Re: Is Love Enough To Stop One From Cheating? by authority2006(m): 3:54pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Oluromantic: Lol |
Re: Is Love Enough To Stop One From Cheating? by Queenserah26(f): 3:55pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Well said! dulux07: 1 Like |
Re: Is Love Enough To Stop One From Cheating? by authority2006(m): 3:55pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
dulux07: As much as possible? There's potential failure in that phrase. |
Re: Is Love Enough To Stop One From Cheating? by yourgistpartner: 3:58pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
seanwilliam: Self-discipline often means putting off your immediate comfort or wishes in favor of longterm success. Self-discipline, like everything else, is a practice. Not every day will be perfect, but each day -- with its failures and small wins -- is progress, and that’s what self-discipline is all about. it takes work to have a great relationship or overcome addiction |
Re: Is Love Enough To Stop One From Cheating? by Epunch1(m): 3:58pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Epunch1:MY REMEDY FOR ALL Y'AL MAN OUT THERE TO STOP YOUR WIVES FROM CHEATING IS FLOG HER VERY WELL WHEN THE OPPORTUNITY PRESENTS ITSELF MY BROTHER SHE WONT EVEN DARE IT I PROMISE YOU THIS! BUT FOR WOMEN WELL JUST BE FLEXIBLE WHEN ITS TIME TO GET DOWN YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN NAH ABI? |
Re: Is Love Enough To Stop One From Cheating? by authority2006(m): 4:05pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Diligence4life: How can lust after a woman and remains with her for the rest of your life? That's not the definition of lust. Lust quickly disappear the same way it appears |
Re: Is Love Enough To Stop One From Cheating? by authority2006(m): 4:07pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Nn3muka: Feminist approach. Lol. Haven't we seen a wife who cheated and the husband still forgave her? Cheating is not only the men's affairs now, it cuts across 1 Like |
Re: Is Love Enough To Stop One From Cheating? by earnit3: 4:10pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
no |
Re: Is Love Enough To Stop One From Cheating? by authority2006(m): 4:12pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
dulux07: Even if a man marries because of the factors you listed above, he still needs to be with someone he loves. Otherwise, the relationship won't last at all. BTW: are you married or you're just a theorist? |
Re: Is Love Enough To Stop One From Cheating? by earnit3: 4:13pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
no o |
Re: Is Love Enough To Stop One From Cheating? by authority2006(m): 4:17pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1: Leave? Just like that? It doesn't matter to you if two or five kids are already involved? Not that they quarrel or fight or something but a man needs to quit the marriage of many years if he has to cheat. That's funny |
Re: Is Love Enough To Stop One From Cheating? by Victory2222: 4:36pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
politicsng:Y |
Re: Is Love Enough To Stop One From Cheating? by Acidosis(m): 4:49pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
frozen70: Hmmmn |
Re: Is Love Enough To Stop One From Cheating? by frozen70(f): 4:56pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Acidosis: Lol |
Re: Is Love Enough To Stop One From Cheating? by na2016: 4:57pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Chii59:That is to you and I dont know if you are married but for a man, it is not love my sister. |
Re: Is Love Enough To Stop One From Cheating? by Dufil(m): 5:05pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Love is the energy that fuels commitment, You can't commit yourself to what you don't love, except there are benefits and if the benefits disappear, your commitment disappears. Love should be independent but I doubt humans could practice such love, its extreme and deep. |
Re: Is Love Enough To Stop One From Cheating? by Nobody: 5:08pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
na2016:Story. You don't cheat on someone you love. 1 Like |
Re: Is Love Enough To Stop One From Cheating? by BluntTheApostle(m): 5:10pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
dulux07: You are looking at it from the moral aspect of it. But in reality, it can happen. And I have just explained a psychology behind it. You may read about compartmentalization of sex and love. |
Re: Is Love Enough To Stop One From Cheating? by na2016: 5:20pm On Aug 10, 2020 |
Chii59: Story, you dont know what you are saying. |
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