nairavsdollars:
Money plays a huge role

na money own worst pass!

Yes Love is enough. But in Africa, it doesn't exist.

NL OG(s) dude it's been a while

Absolutely NO!

I think commitment and self respect and regard for matrimony

Where the married cheaters go nah?

Waste of time

This one is not only a cheat but also a notorious rapist He's still serving a life sentence in Alagbo.

It's like asking if having a bottle of wine you love will stop you from drinking water, you may not want to drink water because of how you love your wine

but the truth is that when you become thirsty you must drink water because the wine alone can't quench your thirst

Understanding and self reserve plays a major role

what brought you into marriage might not keep u. love might bring you into marriage but what keeps you in it is the Fear of God

of course, what most people claimed as love isn't love, it is lust and infactuation, when love lay hold of you, your brain become useless

Only the FEAR of GOD can prevent any spouse from cheating. Nothing more. Not even a Trillion metric tons of love

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Love does not exist anymore.

It is all about interest.

Everyone comes with some expectations.

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Love

OP, clarify what you understand "love" to mean.

Most times, it is a feeling we feel, more of passion but certainly not love. If you want to understand the meaning of love, watch how a chicken defends her chicks at the risk of its life. How many men do you know, who claim to love their wives, would instinctively give their lives for those they claim to love?

How many?

If you genuinely love your partner, you'd respect them and not cheat. Again, the dynamics of a cheat is not so complex to unravel other than plain stupidity and confusion.

PS: Love is not a feeling, love is not passion, love is not fickle, love is not a temptation, love is not greedy. When you truly love someone, that person would become the centerpiece of your existence. You'd put that person first even above yourself and your needs. You'd bother about how your actions may affect that person. You may look stupid, but you'd jump to take the bullet for that person. That love, provided it is genuine, may even push you to heroic deeds. The things I wrote about are impossible with many of us today. Many go into marriages with the intention of getting a partner to share the bills, many go into marriage for free sex, some to have their financial needs covered, even more do because others are getting married. How many people truly marry for genuine love? To further accentuate the meaning of genuine love, look at the Christ, the Love of God, the Word incarnate; despite all the atrocities we commit, the Lord Jesus Christ has never abandoned us. How many of us strive to be Christ-like in love?

How many can beat their chest in this regard and say "I do". To answer your question, genuine love and betrayal (cheating) are eternally parallel lines: they can never cross each other.

All is LOVE.
...isn't LOVE the slave, savouring the whip of despair suffered by the heart?
...one stole to eat, another ate and stole.....
LOVE bears them all.
How enticing the taste of the Devil's adventure, seeking you to be his wiseless advocate, only to find out that you lost all
...yet LOVE bore it all.
..this is beyond the flesh, it is about the soul.
LOVE rewards.

Nope, it isn't, some people just like adventures, it doesn't mean they don't love their husband/wife

Check out this theory.

LOVE is one thing outta hundred things a relationship needs.

But LOVE has been painted in such a way that, we expect LOVE alone to get a 100% passmark even when in reality it cant.

Love doesn't even make up 20% of any $hiit but Money answereth all things.
99.5% of Relationship troubles na money for Solve am.
Give Olosho enough money to seal her pusssy with adhesive 24/7 for you and it's a deal ooo.

Nothing can stop a fornicator from cheating. Such person wouldn't even know what exactly love entails sef. Cos Love in it real essence is definitely enough to stop one from cheating...

Don't think so.

Am not married as such i care less abt any bitch i Bleep who i want at any time. If u catch me cheating if u like forgive me n we continue, but if i catch u cheating it over between us

Na wa o



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How do you say you love someone and still cheat on the person? that isn't love o.

xynerise:
Funny enough, I have heard people especially married men say they love their wives but they have side chics. I begin to wonder what power does love has towards infidelity?

Does it mean one can hurt the person he/she loves intentionally and still profess love for that person?

You reading this should ask yourself when you cheated (if you have), were you still in love with your partner?

If yes, then what is this LOVE we are talking about if it involves hurting the one we love?

Does it mean we love verbally and not practically, or Love is not enough to stop one from cheating?

Love is nothing without faithfulness, commitment and common respect.
And any attempt to oversimplify love so as to accommodate lust should be considered awkward and grossly inappropriate.

If you truly love your partner and care about his/her emotional state, you won't share what solely belongs to him/her with anyone else.

Besides, exercising self control is central to keeping the sacred vows you made to your partner and realising you won't take infidelity from him/her will require you to desist from doing same.

Infidelity is not love and should be condemned and avoided.

NOT YOUR FAULT BUT YOU ARE MYOPIC BASED ON IGNORANCE.
GO AND READ YOUR BIBLE 1 JOHN EXPLAINS IT ALL. "LOVE IS THE GREATEST".
LIKE IT DEFINED LOVE AS,
"THE LAW OF GOD PLANTED IN THE HEARTS OF MEN".

Love has gone extinct a long time ago.

What we have is lust..

I love him because he’s tall or has money or big dicck

I love her because she has big boobs and azz or she’s beautiful or she’s this or that..

Those things are the gum but not a permanent gum..

Nah 1% people dey love he or her for who he or her is..

So in today’s world, cheating is allowed. Don’t get your hopes high that she or he won’t cheat at all..

Sometimes it’s usually necessary to cheat self cuz it’s kinda sweet and humans love doing sweet things regardless...Nah unnecessary cheat no make sense!

Why the use of white couples??.....Abeg this na Nigerian forum abeg.......Use pics of black couples or lovers......

You create a thread in Nigeria and after your write up, you now use pics of white skinned foreigner to illustrate the topic of your thread......Me I no like that thing abeg...

Love is self-control. You can't claim to love when you lack self-control.