maduxs:
Admin please bring this post to light. I have an albino girlfriend, we have been dating for a while now but the fact remains that the stigmatization is too much. People discriminate against her so much.

Every time I'm walking with her people looks at us as if we came from another planets. All my close relations and friends I told about her discouraged me from getting married to her. Everybody is against me, they told me how can I introduce albinism to my lineage.

I understand that she has a very poor visual acuity, she is prone to skin cancer, she will depend on me to get some certain task done especially under sun.

She is a very good girl, what I'm looking at is what is inside her I mean her personality even though she is obese, she gives me peace of mind.

Finally she is also a petrochemical engineer, and very brilliant person though her albinism has been disadvantageous to her from getting a better job. I just proposed to her against all odds even though I'm all alone.

Should I go on to marry her? Please I need advice from people with mature minds.

No, come and marry my ebony mother. shior

maduxs:
Admin please bring this post to light. I have an albino girlfriend, we have been dating for a while now but the fact remains that the stigmatization is too much. People discriminate against her so much.

Every time I'm walking with her people looks at us as if we came from another planets. All my close relations and friends I told about her discouraged me from getting married to her. Everybody is against me, they told me how can I introduce albinism to my lineage.

I understand that she has a very poor visual acuity, she is prone to skin cancer, she will depend on me to get some certain task done especially under sun.

She is a very good girl, what I'm looking at is what is inside her I mean her personality even though she is obese, she gives me peace of mind.

Finally she is also a petrochemical engineer, and very brilliant person though her albinism has been disadvantageous to her from getting a better job. I just proposed to her against all odds even though I'm all alone.

Should I go on to marry her? Please I need advice from people with mature minds.

maduxs:
I have taken the picture down. Wise counsel

U actually posted jer pictures on Nairaland? U are a dunce and dat girl makes a mistake staying with you. U should b ashamed of ur self

Oluromantic:

Lemme be frank with you bro as man to man. The bolded is your jackpot for life. Never let go of it. To say the truth, looking at her pics alone, she looks really peaceful. I'm a PhD aspirant and a xtain. My fiancee is just a OND holder and a Muslim. Why? Bcus of all the very beautiful girls i have some of which have masters, none is as peaceful as her. Honestly I feel peace of mind like a river around her unlike the other ones and I plan to sponsor her bsc thru direct entry. We've been together for 3 yrs and i didn't propose cus I was looking for someone better. Instead I saw better wahala and future troubles waiting to enter as wives before they explode. So I strongly advice you to choose peace over beauty and appearance.

Ignore those girl-posters above me. All they know as women is Love love love. They talk of love like... If you love her, you will just choose her straight away without considering the future or all those things you're listed above. Many things comes to the mind of a man when finding love and honestly you mentioned some of them. I've been in ur exact shoes too. I'm the only child of my mom and me n my half-siblings are not close. I need a girl who will take my mom as hers and physically take care of her at old age even if I provide the money. I love my mom so much. Not all girls understand that, especially the so called beautiful ones. So choose right bro.

Dear single ladies reading this thread, the portion I put on bold is the number 1 reason reasonable and focused men seek for in a lady before they think of marrying her.


If you cannot give that young man peace of mind such that he feels so at peace and relaxed whenever you are around, forget it, if you like look sexier abi hotter than sun, he will never marry you, and if he mistakenly marries you, that marriage will not last long unless you change and start to give him peace of mind.



Forget beauty, forget academic degrees, forget class, forget nature of job, when a man truly want to marry from his own pocket, number 1 quality he seeks for in a lady to marry is peace of mind!! That peace like a river

I hate the part of me that gets irritated when I come across an albino I'll encourage those who genuinely love them against all odds. Personally I won't but I will not discourage you from following your heart ♥.

:Pn

maduxs:
Admin please bring this post to light. I have an albino girlfriend, we have been dating for a while now but the fact remains that the stigmatization is too much. People discriminate against her so much.

Every time I'm walking with her people looks at us as if we came from another planets. All my close relations and friends I told about her discouraged me from getting married to her. Everybody is against me, they told me how can I introduce albinism to my lineage.

I understand that she has a very poor visual acuity, she is prone to skin cancer, she will depend on me to get some certain task done especially under sun.

She is a very good girl, what I'm looking at is what is inside her I mean her personality even though she is obese, she gives me peace of mind.

Finally she is also a petrochemical engineer, and very brilliant person though her albinism has been disadvantageous to her from getting a better job. I just proposed to her against all odds even though I'm all alone.

Should I go on to marry her? Please I need advice from people with mature minds.

Bro it's all about getting pu5555y..truss me.. ..at least u will bang.
.. marry her mennn!!

maduxs:
Admin please bring this post to light. I have an albino girlfriend, we have been dating for a while now but the fact remains that the stigmatization is too much. People discriminate against her so much.

Every time I'm walking with her people looks at us as if we came from another planets. All my close relations and friends I told about her discouraged me from getting married to her. Everybody is against me, they told me how can I introduce albinism to my lineage.

I understand that she has a very poor visual acuity, she is prone to skin cancer, she will depend on me to get some certain task done especially under sun.

She is a very good girl, what I'm looking at is what is inside her I mean her personality even though she is obese, she gives me peace of mind.

Finally she is also a petrochemical engineer, and very brilliant person though her albinism has been disadvantageous to her from getting a better job. I just proposed to her against all odds even though I'm all alone.

Should I go on to marry her? Please I need advice from people with mature minds.

Marry for yourself ONLY. Will your family and friends aid you when the going get tough or what?

"your peace of mind matters alot"
And since she gives you that,why look further!? Besides if she's on the +side, you can always work on it with her.


Many of y'all loose good women cos "WHAT YOU WANT DOESN'T COME IN A PACKAGE YOU/SOCIETY ACCEPTS"

You can decide not to marry her...

On the condition that you no dey fvk the albino girl.

wisdomkid:


Marry for yourself ONLY. Will your family and friends aid you when the going get tough or what?

Huh??.. bro wot kinda addvise is this sir?...the boy want sexxxx
..let him marry for sexxxx mennn!!

You don't need anyone's opinion or agreement or affirmation to marry her. Look inward and make your decision.

Most times, God gives us responsibility and divine mandate and we may not know it. You are meant to give life and hope to that woman. Pick your call

i remember back then there was this photo studio i went to one day.went to see a friend of mine who was working there and this guy came with his albino girlfriend to snap pix.To be honest the albino girl looked quite attractive with hips and figure correct and her skin was spotless.The thing baffled me how can an albino be able to maintain her skin in a place like nigeria that has a very harsh weather .that was the first attractive female albino i ever saw.

If u cud date her and u love her, I don’t see nothing wrong...

maduxs:
Admin please bring this post to light. I have an albino girlfriend, we have been dating for a while now but the fact remains that the stigmatization is too much. People discriminate against her so much.

Every time I'm walking with her people looks at us as if we came from another planets. All my close relations and friends I told about her discouraged me from getting married to her. Everybody is against me, they told me how can I introduce albinism to my lineage.

I understand that she has a very poor visual acuity, she is prone to skin cancer, she will depend on me to get some certain task done especially under sun.

She is a very good girl, what I'm looking at is what is inside her I mean her personality even though she is obese, she gives me peace of mind.

Finally she is also a petrochemical engineer, and very brilliant person though her albinism has been disadvantageous to her from getting a better job. I just proposed to her against all odds even though I'm all alone.

Should I go on to marry her? Please I need advice from people with mature minds.

I once dated a lady with albinism and I can relate to what you are experiencing right now. Because of the stereotypes and stigma, she started losing her confidence and that affected her psyches. We hardly go out during the day and thereafter, I started losing interest.Evetually, we went our separate ways. You shouldn't marry her out of pity, it should be based on love. Just like you highlighted, it will come with many challenges and you should be prepared for whatever might come your way. With God, all is possible.

If you love her

Please do

pocohantas:
Awww...You look so happy and at peace with with her. No she is not OBESE, that lady I see there isn’t obese. Cutting down the layers around the stomach region is strongly advised though. Asides that, a lot of us look like that and we don’t consider ourselves obese.

Relationships are complicated enough, adding it extra complications is an overkill. Everyone would make compromises in the long run, if yours is marrying an albino- I like to think you are very lucky. Some men (will) have it worse.


Read up with you can about albinism and reach your conclusions yourself.



Humans are always discriminating. Tribe, religion, sub-religion, educational qualifications, height, complexion...man! Just do who gives you peace.

Where's the pix

lightangel65i:


Exactly if you love someone, no stupid biological science can get between you, don't listen to what others say its your life they are not living it for you, i cant promise it will be the best scenario or that you wont have ups and downs, but you get to spend your life with someone you love.

Am so PC right now

you are wrong, love doesn’t mean you will be with person. It mean wanting the best for the person also. This case is an albino case. Let’s leave it.
For blood group case you shouldn’t and should never go ahead. You two many find enough love but children will suffer severely. Don’t be so insensitive you don’t consider some vital things because of your emotions and attachment

If you love her as you claim Marry her.

doh Contact me to help you get the Dress and Shoe from China o.

Op, go ahead and marry her for the peace you want.

I believed that your part crossed because God is involved. I've a friend who married one, but his children are of mixed colour, so beautiful and you will think that they're real white/black couple that gave birth to them, as they didn't took after their mother.
What of people picking dissabled wife/husband and they're happilly married.

God created her and she is wonderfully made by Him. Congratulations.

yes

If you love her as you claim Marry her.

doh Contact me to help you get the Dress and Shoe from China o.

Albino get too much wahala biko.

Proceed with great caution.

Sparro:
You don't need anyone's opinion or agreement or affirmation to marry her. Look inward and make your decision.

Most times, God gives us responsibility and divine mandate and we may not know it. You are meant to give life and hope to that woman. Pick your call

is this a preaching or what?

maduxs:
Admin please bring this post to light. I have an albino girlfriend, we have been dating for a while now but the fact remains that the stigmatization is too much. People discriminate against her so much.

Every time I'm walking with her people looks at us as if we came from another planets. All my close relations and friends I told about her discouraged me from getting married to her. Everybody is against me, they told me how can I introduce albinism to my lineage.

I understand that she has a very poor visual acuity, she is prone to skin cancer, she will depend on me to get some certain task done especially under sun.

She is a very good girl, what I'm looking at is what is inside her I mean her personality even though she is obese, she gives me peace of mind.

Finally she is also a petrochemical engineer, and very brilliant person though her albinism has been disadvantageous to her from getting a better job. I just proposed to her against all odds even though I'm all alone.

Should I go on to marry her? Please I need advice from people with mature minds.

Where her pics? me am not seeing pics o!

by the way, op, marry that girl fa if not you will regret it

maduxs:
Admin please bring this post to light. I have an albino girlfriend, we have been dating for a while now but the fact remains that the stigmatization is too much. People discriminate against her so much.

Every time I'm walking with her people looks at us as if we came from another planets. All my close relations and friends I told about her discouraged me from getting married to her. Everybody is against me, they told me how can I introduce albinism to my lineage.

I understand that she has a very poor visual acuity, she is prone to skin cancer, she will depend on me to get some certain task done especially under sun.

She is a very good girl, what I'm looking at is what is inside her I mean her personality even though she is obese, she gives me peace of mind.

Finally she is also a petrochemical engineer, and very brilliant person though her albinism has been disadvantageous to her from getting a better job. I just proposed to her against all odds even though I'm all alone.

Should I go on to marry her? Please I need advice from people with mature minds.

Marry the girl and relocate to a country suitable for her skin. With her petrochemical degree, she would easily get a migrant visa to Canada or any developed country of her choice or she can even seek for asylum in Canada because she's been discriminated against and doesn't feel safe in her country. Albinos are beautiful and Nigeria is just a backward country to appreciate such beauty. Good luck to you both

Op, where is the location you planning to wed her? I wouldn't mind coming to your wedding day. Am I invited?

I will ensure your discouragers know you have numerous support from us, especially me.. I will gladly honour your invitation.

@maduxs

Can we speak offline?

After you must 've done proposal , then you now approached naive nairalander for advice on what? Get ready to face the consequences of your action ...

lightangel65i:


Exactly.
PC i heard it from a movie it means supporting the minority

It means politically correct.

Of course YES

Don’t tell me you haven’t been eating that albino pu***


Common put a ring on that finger jare you talk too much

Baba if she gives you peace of mind and you love her remain o. Peace of mind is very expensive nowadays.