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Re: My Experience Dating A Black American Lady by Todayswind(f): 9:43pm On Aug 22, 2020
JOACHINpedro:
That gurl can give updates for Africa shocked
Op are you sure she doesn't work for mtn customer care service
funny
Re: My Experience Dating A Black American Lady by GreaterFuture(m): 9:50pm On Aug 22, 2020
Xinox has she seen your Picture?
If NO, Chat me Up in My WhatsApp (see Siggy)
If YES, Does she have any other working matured Friends like her that are Single?
PS: I am a very Good looking Guy

To all the European, American, Canadian, Oriental and Scandinavian Women on reading this, This your Chance to get your Very Own AFRICAN PRINCE. A real gorgeous, Nubian, Black Prince in the Flesh. Just chat me up dearie, Don't be Shy smiley

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Re: My Experience Dating A Black American Lady by OscarJaden(m): 9:53pm On Aug 22, 2020
which site wuna dey get all this obodoyibo girls sef cus me wan date one oo

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Re: My Experience Dating A Black American Lady by Nobody: 10:02pm On Aug 22, 2020
TROLL11:
ths is why naija an never go forward. so what is the reason for marrying a naija girl and just punishing her by keeping her in naija only to visit once or twice a year. no wahala we go contnue to dey Bleep una wives
wich punish cheesy
many of those bini ladies wey their husbands dey abroad are flexing.their overseas husby dey send them regular allowance and dem dey use am flex cheesy..though many get boyfriends wey dey service their engine asper as the husband dey over there and dem need someone to warm their pillow grin grin grin grin
so dats where the sugarboy or ex comes in cheesy
Re: My Experience Dating A Black American Lady by Nobody: 10:03pm On Aug 22, 2020
GreaterFuture:
Xinox has she seen your Picture?
If NO, Chat me Up in My WhatsApp (see Siggy)
If YES, Does she have any other working matured Friends like her that are Single?
PS: I am a very Good looking Guy

To all the European, American, Canadian, Oriental and Scandinavian Women on reading this, This your Chance to get your Very Own AFRICAN PRINCE. A real gorgeous, Nubian, Black Prince in the Flesh. Just chat me up dearie, Don't be Shy smiley

Re: My Experience Dating A Black American Lady by TROLL11: 10:33pm On Aug 22, 2020
lefulefu:
wich punish cheesy
many of those bini ladies wey their husbands dey abroad are flexing.their overseas husby dey send them regular allowance and dem dey use am flex cheesy..though many get boyfriends wey dey service their engine asper as the husband dey over there and dem need someone to warm their pillow grin grin grin grin
so dats where the sugarboy or ex comes in cheesy
na rubbish na. why do nigerians guys or nigerians in general feel u cant marry a foreigner and stick to her.

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Re: My Experience Dating A Black American Lady by TROLL11: 10:35pm On Aug 22, 2020
GreaterFuture:
Xinox has she seen your Picture?
If NO, Chat me Up in My WhatsApp (see Siggy)
If YES, Does she have any other working matured Friends like her that are Single?
PS: I am a very Good looking Guy

To all the European, American, Canadian, Oriental and Scandinavian Women on reading this, This your Chance to get your Very Own AFRICAN PRINCE. A real gorgeous, Nubian, Black Prince in the Flesh. Just chat me up dearie, Don't be Shy smiley
post yu pic let me see if yu are my gf sister spec. she is australian
Re: My Experience Dating A Black American Lady by Nobody: 10:48pm On Aug 22, 2020
TROLL11:
na rubbish na. why do nigerians guys or nigerians in general feel u cant marry a foreigner and stick to her.
of course u can stick with a foreign woman and be happy with her
some even go their way to learn nigerian food and dress like nigerian women just to please their nigerian husbands
i guess its the foolish ones amongst the nigerian men whpo always bring the foolish arguement that u cant marry a foregner cos of difference of culture or that foreign women are not submissve and blah blah blah.they then marry the foreign woman for papers then go back to naija to marry a nigerian wife.the nigerian wife they live in naija will cheat on them and have boyfriends that service her or she would go to her ex cheesy.the foolish naija man would think he's secured cos he has told his younger brother in naija to be monitoring his wife and alert him if she"s cheating cheesy.the woman will still be cheating with the younger brother not being the wiser cheesy.All those na rubbish relationships.Marry who makes u happy and stick with her and have ur peace of mind.

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Re: My Experience Dating A Black American Lady by Kvng6464: 11:06pm On Aug 22, 2020
lefulefu:
see u grin
lots of other guys in ur position will jump at the opportunity
forget she is fatter than a whale grin
forget she is older than u by 16 yrs grin
it doesnt matter cheesy
she is a about to be a doctor
she"s a fuking american grin
green card for u grin grin
marry her and become an american citizen cheesy
even though u dont like her u can still tell ur parents to arrange a nigerian wife for u back home in naija wen u are with ur yankee wife
u will be sneaking back during easter and xmas to visit ur naija wife grin
u can tell ur yankee wife that ur naija wife is ur younger sister if she happens to know
na so ur mates dey do am grin
grab the opportunity while its still hot and bcome a yankee citizen grin grin grin
which kind advise be this. why him go marry for 9ja again waytn do the woman ?

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Re: My Experience Dating A Black American Lady by TROLL11: 11:16pm On Aug 22, 2020
lefulefu:
of course u can stick with a foreign woman and be happy with her
some even go their way to learn nigerian food and dress like nigerian women just to please their nigerian husbands
i guess its the foolish ones amongst the nigerian men whpo always bring the foolish arguement that u cant marry a foregner cos of difference of culture or that foreign women are not submissve and blah blah blah.they then marry the foreign woman for papers then go back to naija to marry a nigerian wife.the nigerian wife they live in naija will cheat on them and have boyfriends that service her or she would go to her ex cheesy.the foolish naija man would think he's secured cos he has told his younger brother in naija to be monitoring his wife and alert him if she"s cheating cheesy.the woman will still be cheating with the younger brother not being the wiser cheesy.All those na rubbish relationships.Marry who makes u happy and stick with her and have ur peace of mind.
the thing tire me o. some things dont just make sense. well they should continue. we will keep servicing heir wives for them
Re: My Experience Dating A Black American Lady by Funkyswagzz(m): 11:18pm On Aug 22, 2020
Just look at her communication level... Nigerian girls be like ok, hmmm, fine, no.
Re: My Experience Dating A Black American Lady by Xinox: 11:23pm On Aug 22, 2020
lefulefu:
see u grin
lots of other guys in ur position will jump at the opportunity
forget she is fatter than a whale grin
forget she is older than u by 16 yrs grin
it doesnt matter cheesy
she is a about to be a doctor
she"s a fuking american grin
green card for u grin grin
marry her and become an american citizen cheesy
even though u dont like her u can still tell ur parents to arrange a nigerian wife for u back home in naija wen u are with ur yankee wife
u will be sneaking back during easter and xmas to visit ur naija wife grin
u can tell ur yankee wife that ur naija wife is ur younger sister if she happens to know
na so ur mates dey do am grin
grab the opportunity while its still hot and bcome a yankee citizen grin grin grin
That is Heck! Jelly guy
Re: My Experience Dating A Black American Lady by Xinox: 11:28pm On Aug 22, 2020
grin
Funkyswagzz:
Just look at her communication level... Nigerian girls be like ok, hmmm, fine, no.
Re: My Experience Dating A Black American Lady by Nobody: 11:28pm On Aug 22, 2020
OscarJaden:
which site wuna dey get all this obodoyibo girls sef cus me wan date one oo
You have Instagram don't you ?
Go on Instagram search for snoop dog
You go pick tire grin
Try message the older ones they reply very fast
Good luck grin grin
Re: My Experience Dating A Black American Lady by Nobody: 11:32pm On Aug 22, 2020
Kvng6464:
which kind advise be this. why him go marry for 9ja again waytn do the woman ?
na so many of them dey do am cheesy
Re: My Experience Dating A Black American Lady by Nobody: 11:32pm On Aug 22, 2020
Op you make me remember Tina Parker
Ah FM na God go help me punish you walai
Na that stupid boy say make I go give her Yahoo formatembarassed
Women wey don fur for me
Op grab the opportunity mine is 45yrs
And funniest things is you won't know she's 40+ only if you zoom her picture
the woman just leave me like that she no block me O
But if I give her 20 msg she go read am she no go reply embarassed
No P sha I don dey hunt another one cool

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Re: My Experience Dating A Black American Lady by sacajawea: 12:44am On Aug 23, 2020
ZINIBANKS:

You have Instagram don't you ?
Go on Instagram search for snoop dog
You go pick tire grin
Try message the older ones they reply very fast
Good luck grin grin
Ọmọkọmọ! You are doing well cheesy
Re: My Experience Dating A Black American Lady by Xinox: 4:35am On Aug 23, 2020
I really need good advice on this. This is not a joke. I don't want to enter Ef
cc whala
Re: My Experience Dating A Black American Lady by Xinox: 4:37am On Aug 23, 2020
Lalasticlala!
Re: My Experience Dating A Black American Lady by gangstarmonk(m): 5:30am On Aug 23, 2020
gangstarmonk:
Op! Op!! Op!!!

Do not let them use you at all. They're hard to be with. Tougher than Nigerian girls I must confess.

If you must be used, don't remain in the same condition you are now. They are stubborn, full of themselves and verbally brutal.

I dated Keisha for 2 years, she lived in ATL, already had 2 @ 28 when I met her. She did 3 jobs. She was very smart and as soon as I opened up on my Nationality, she tripled her "wisdom". I was ready for all the drama before we even got started.
I didn't ask her for no favour. She was just patiently waiting for me to act like the Nigerians she's met on social media and those she's heard of. I didn't fall for that. I fell in love with her unconsciously, damn! she use me catch cruise.

They love to play the victim card and make you feel like a liability esp. If...

The matter plenty pass Rotimi and China.

Thank God I came out of it alive and better than I was. I don't fvck with connects. She Enjoyed the relationship more but I didn't lose either. You know. I still do deals with her cousins and friends I met through her.

Pray Too. It helps.

See it as an opportunity you must use well. A blessing you must claim. Feel free with her while being smart. Age doesn't matter. Her plus size is nothing, I promise. Those are even the easiest to love and live with. The bad naija mentality always pulls some naija guys away from their stepping stone. Flex!
Re: My Experience Dating A Black American Lady by Xinox: 7:01am On Aug 23, 2020
gangstarmonk:


See it as an opportunity you must use well. A blessing you must claim. Feel free with her while being smart. Age doesn't matter. Her plus size is nothing, I promise. Those are even the easiest to love and live with. The bad naija mentality always pulls some naija guys away from their stepping stone. Flex!
@ gangstarmonk. You are truly a nice man. You speeck with genuine concern. Thank you again. This was actually what I wanted. A matured voice I could hear. That was y I was begging Lalasticlala to push it to front page but he always denying me. You see, you learn every now and then! If you study our conversations in those chats, you will observe my body language. when she wanted to talk about my country and I blocked her, she still called to apologise and all.

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Re: My Experience Dating A Black American Lady by OscarJaden(m): 7:22am On Aug 23, 2020
ZINIBANKS:
You have Instagram don't you ? Go on Instagram search for snoop dog You go pick tire grin Try message the older ones they reply very fast Good luck grin grin
lol.. gracias
Re: My Experience Dating A Black American Lady by Buzx: 7:42am On Aug 23, 2020
Xinox:
I really need good advice on this. This is not a joke. I don't want to enter Ef
cc whala

The way you chat with the lady is really boring. If don't like her and you don't want her money, there's not much you can do. Just try to tell her your mind. No waste the woman time.

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Re: My Experience Dating A Black American Lady by gangstarmonk(m): 8:03am On Aug 23, 2020
Xinox:
@ gangstarmonk. You are truly a nice man. You speeck with genuine concern. Thank you again. This was actually what I wanted. A matured voice I could hear. That was y I was begging Lalasticlala to push it to front page but he always denying me. You see, you learn every now and then! If you study our conversations in those chats, you will observe my body language. when she wanted to talk about my country and I blocked her, she still called to apologise and all.

All is Well, All is good.
Re: My Experience Dating A Black American Lady by Iceyjayzz(m): 8:11am On Aug 23, 2020
Zzor:
Xinox,and I thought you were a virgin and inexperienced ooo, so you can even carry load bigger than you,never trust all this young men we have around these days lol .Not a good thing to lead someone on,its always heartbreaking,defined your stands and cut your boundaries before its too late.
Shut up! you want a virgin and you are not a virgin yourself, just shut up!
Re: My Experience Dating A Black American Lady by Nobody: 8:16am On Aug 23, 2020
thunderfirebubu:
Who else noticed the OP chats like our Nigerian girls?
because the feeling is not mutual

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Re: My Experience Dating A Black American Lady by Frezhkid10(m): 8:33am On Aug 23, 2020
Masonkaycares:
I wish a Nigerian girl could chat like her
...I swear..Nigerians girls like shakara ehhn..
Re: My Experience Dating A Black American Lady by Frezhkid10(m): 8:34am On Aug 23, 2020
Op...please give me her number ....I love her already.. embarassed
Re: My Experience Dating A Black American Lady by Harry00(m): 8:36am On Aug 23, 2020
Meh grin
Re: My Experience Dating A Black American Lady by intruder15(m): 8:39am On Aug 23, 2020
Xinox:
My experience is such a painful one! 4years ago, I met Tiffany, 36 and started dating. She was honest and open. Unfortunately, we lost contact for a year. In May, 2017 I desperately traced her and cought up with her but guess what? A lot happened within one year - meaning she was already pregnant for a cool headed man in Georgia. It was a sad day for me as she could see tears dropping on my eyes. Don't get me wrong, she was a friend and sister. She now promised me her friend who was by and large at the verge of graduating as amedical doctor from University of Standford. We never met each other physically but we chart often. She is crazy in love but I have my reservations. She older than me by 16 crazy years and very fat! Sometimes I am scared charting her up cos the affection is not there. She even asked me why I have never asked her for money like other guys. I calmly told her my instinct will not allow me... Remember I was broke and jobless. Early this month we had a quarrel when she dare insult my country! I told her Americans are worst than Nigerians and I am proudly a Nigerian so she should excuse me and I blocked her. We made up few weeks ago and this time this lady wants to meet me.... Kindly advise me. Honestly is not money, I don't have feelings for her and I cannot just take her money.
CC: Lalasticlala My44, all moderators


It is very wrong to screenshot your conversation with someone else without the person's permission.

Feelings grow if the heart is willing. Is your heart willing? That's what matters

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Re: My Experience Dating A Black American Lady by IamPlato(m): 8:48am On Aug 23, 2020
Cant You Tell Her You Have No Feelings For Her

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Re: My Experience Dating A Black American Lady by Finnese001: 9:07am On Aug 23, 2020
Okay

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