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Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by ahatson(m): 4:14pm On Aug 29, 2020

Well there are still good women despite your ex living she invested in you. And the lady that has not invested a dime is commanding you not to return the favour.

Lesson: your new girlfriend will chase your family members away when U finally marry her.

1. Help your ex family because she has invested in you.
2. Let go of your new girlfriend she is a bad woman.
3. Go get a good house wife material that understand the pain of other people

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Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Thegreatone001(m): 4:15pm On Aug 29, 2020

Truthlord12:
Good evening people please I need your advice regards to this, I got separated from my ex girlfriend last year because she told me her travel plans abroad I was a bit sceptic About the nature of job she’ll do there, she’s the type that’s ready and willing to do anything to help her family.

After everything I told her not to embark on the journey that she should be patient with me, once my business picked up I’ll care for her and her family, she refused and traveled last year, few months before she left she gave me some money to add to my business I wouldn’t want to state the actual amount but a bit huge. Of recent her family really suffering because my ex had issue with the person that took her abroad so she’s passing through difficult time though she’s hiding some info from me since she’s not able to make money, she called me of recent that I should please do anything to help her family.

Now I’ve got a new girlfriend I told my new girlfriend about the issue but she said I shouldn’t give my ex family any money, because we ain’t together anymore that if I do she’ll leave me

Please people help me what should I do? My mind is really disturbing me and I still love my ex I wish I’ve a way to bring her back to Nigeria so we can start a family I don’t care the type of job she went there to do and I don’t mind what she has been through. She did so much for me, she made sacrifice that this my new girl won’t do, I don’t even know if my new girlfriend loves me or because of my money.

Though I love my new girlfriend but part of me is with my ex I don’t know if she’ll will be willing to return though I’ve not discussed it with her. And now my new girlfriend threatening to leave me if I assist or give back the money my ex gave me as support for my business before she travelled to her family I’ve been down for days thinking so much.

Stop behaving like a kid with an adult skin, if you are matured enough; you don't even need to consult anybody before returning that gesture to your ex girlfriend family. Seeing that she sacrificed for your business before leaving.

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Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Portifar: 4:18pm On Aug 29, 2020

Truthlord12:
Good evening people please I need your advice regards to this, I got separated from my ex girlfriend last year because she told me her travel plans abroad I was a bit sceptic About the nature of job she’ll do there, she’s the type that’s ready and willing to do anything to help her family.

After everything I told her not to embark on the journey that she should be patient with me, once my business picked up I’ll care for her and her family, she refused and traveled last year, few months before she left she gave me some money to add to my business I wouldn’t want to state the actual amount but a bit huge. Of recent her family really suffering because my ex had issue with the person that took her abroad so she’s passing through difficult time though she’s hiding some info from me since she’s not able to make money, she called me of recent that I should please do anything to help her family.

Now I’ve got a new girlfriend I told my new girlfriend about the issue but she said I shouldn’t give my ex family any money, because we ain’t together anymore that if I do she’ll leave me

Please people help me what should I do? My mind is really disturbing me and I still love my ex I wish I’ve a way to bring her back to Nigeria so we can start a family I don’t care the type of job she went there to do and I don’t mind what she has been through. She did so much for me, she made sacrifice that this my new girl won’t do, I don’t even know if my new girlfriend loves me or because of my money.

Though I love my new girlfriend but part of me is with my ex I don’t know if she’ll will be willing to return though I’ve not discussed it with her. And now my new girlfriend threatening to leave me if I assist or give back the money my ex gave me as support for my business before she travelled to her family I’ve been down for days thinking so much.

I think you should help them. We help people that we don't even know nor have any relationship with. Besides your ex watered the ground before she travelled. This has exposed your new girlfriend as a heartless person. She is a mean lady. Please I beg you in the name of almighty God, please help them. Thank you.

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Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Asapchris(m): 4:18pm On Aug 29, 2020

Op the only thing for you to do to find more favor from God is to help her family.
1 she is loyal to you but you are inpatient to her.
2 she trust you but you are interested in pleasure
3 she believed her future with you by invested in you.
But you are blind to see it.

If you are a man op we don't need to tell you what to do again....

And to that your new gf. How would she feel if she is the one in that shoe. To me I see that kind of girl as red light, they always ready to go once things is no more favor them.

Op Think like a REAL MAN!!! . Not Simple man

Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Youngzedd(m): 4:18pm On Aug 29, 2020

Truthlord12:
Good evening people please I need your advice regards to this, I got separated from my ex girlfriend last year because she told me her travel plans abroad I was a bit sceptic About the nature of job she’ll do there, she’s the type that’s ready and willing to do anything to help her family.

After everything I told her not to embark on the journey that she should be patient with me, once my business picked up I’ll care for her and her family, she refused and traveled last year, few months before she left she gave me some money to add to my business I wouldn’t want to state the actual amount but a bit huge. Of recent her family really suffering because my ex had issue with the person that took her abroad so she’s passing through difficult time though she’s hiding some info from me since she’s not able to make money, she called me of recent that I should please do anything to help her family.

Now I’ve got a new girlfriend I told my new girlfriend about the issue but she said I shouldn’t give my ex family any money, because we ain’t together anymore that if I do she’ll leave me.

Please people help me what should I do? My mind is really disturbing me and I still love my ex I wish I’ve a way to bring her back to Nigeria so we can start a family I don’t care the type of job she went there to do and I don’t mind what she has been through. She did so much for me, she made sacrifice that this my new girl won’t do, I don’t even know if my new girlfriend loves me or because of my money.

Though I love my new girlfriend but part of me is with my ex I don’t know if she’ll will be willing to return though I’ve not discussed it with her. And now my new girlfriend threatening to leave me if I assist or give back the money my ex gave me as support for my business before she travelled to her family I’ve been down for days thinking so much.

Who raised this full time S1MP?

You can't make a decision without your girlfriend. It's obvious you lacked a fatherly figure while growing up.

Guy see eeh, if you're my brother, I will take you to the barrack where they will romance you with koboko for 7 days.

As for the new girlfriend, dump her. E GET WHY.

Don't ask me why, because if you remain there to find out why, I assure you that it will end in tears. Your current GF got lots of terrible characters that will destroy you now or later.

If you need publick opinion before helping your ex family, then you're a m0r0n.

No apology for the harsh words.

You're s1ck and red pill is the recommended pill for you.

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Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Agbebakun22: 4:18pm On Aug 29, 2020

PROPHETmichael:
If you don't want to help her, at least refund the "huge" money she gave you when you were struggling in your business. Failure to do so, I decree and declare, that your business will scatter and your new fair weather girlfriend will leave you without thinking twice.

Prophet Michael dey para ooo.... Abeg e easy for the guy.. E just be like the guy no fit used e head well

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Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Nobody: 4:19pm On Aug 29, 2020

Truthlord12:
thank you’ll. I’ve done the needful I couldn’t go to my office today just to settle my ex girlfriend family.

I even gave them more than enough Thank you all for your advice. Though my relationship with my current girlfriend just ended Few hours ago, she left because I insisted on helping my ex’s girlfriend’s family.

I just got to know this afternoon my girlfriend had personal issues with my ex girlfriend, I found out they were in same faculty, because we all graduated from same university but I never knew they both know each other and had personal issues. I was surprised today my girlfriend made a vow that if I give the money to my ex family she’ll cut contacts with me and she did because I actually did what’s right for my mind to be at peace.

I don’t like the way some people here been raining insults on me but why? Some people are so quick to judge it’s not even up to four days my ex called me to help her family and I was not planning to hide anything from my current girlfriend I even had intentions of marrying her this year anyway now I’ve lost both.

How could I not help my ex girlfriend family? I’m not wicked, from my writeup you all could see I loved her.

At least my mind is free now thank you’ll for the insults and advice.

let her go.seems she is a selfish self centered individual.lady like that if u marry am she will even attack u for daring to help any of ur brothers wen they are in a financial difficulty or u sent something to ur mom.u just dodged one big bullet.If u can renew ur relationship with ur ex pls do so.she seems like a good lady based on how u decribed her.

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Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Princebizzie: 4:19pm On Aug 29, 2020

Don't come and use the fact that your selfish girlfriend discourage you not to help people that have been part of your success as an excuse, if you really believe in fair treatment, you shouldn't have open this post at all, go and do the needful otherwise God is watching all of us. Cheers

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Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by wickedLion: 4:19pm On Aug 29, 2020

is your new girlfriend holding your check book? or are you guys operating joint accounts?

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Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by horlawells93: 4:20pm On Aug 29, 2020

Guy to be sincere u know what to do . I'll leave you with this with dis: it's not all what your right hand does your left hand must be aware of.

Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by ofiko123(m): 4:22pm On Aug 29, 2020

Help her because she has or had previously helped you..One good turn deserves another..

Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by ofiko123(m): 4:22pm On Aug 29, 2020

wickedLion:
is your new girlfriend holding your check book? or are you guys operating joint accounts?

I wonder o..

Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by hustla(m): 4:23pm On Aug 29, 2020

Truthlord12:
please no need for insult. Should I assist my ex’s family and lose my new girlfriend? What if my ex don’t want to come back to the country I’ll lose two of em. Please give me a reasonable advice not insults

If na your current gf dey help her own ex? You go like am?

If your ex gf succeed for where she go, she for remember you?

If your answer to both questions na No, block her number and move on with your life

Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by WelcomeToBiafra: 4:24pm On Aug 29, 2020

People like you are the ones making things hard for the good guys. So your new woman is now controlling you? Your old girl friend helped you with huge amount of money to start business, now that she needs assistance from you to assist her family on her behalf, you are seeking permission from your idiotic new girl friend? If you don't help the family of that young lady that suffered for you, you will suffer.

If things goes she had expected, I believe she would still be sending money to you.

I wish I have money I would have trace that your ex girlfriend's family and help them very well.

Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by deltateam: 4:26pm On Aug 29, 2020

Truthlord12:
please no need for insult. Should I assist my ex’s family and lose my new girlfriend? What if my ex don’t want to come back to the country I’ll lose two of em. Please give me a reasonable advice not insults

You can give them the money without her knowing.

Besides like someone rightly said, she's not a good person. The sooner she leaves the better.

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Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Nobody: 4:26pm On Aug 29, 2020

U already know what to do

Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Dynahair15: 4:26pm On Aug 29, 2020

Truthlord12:
please no need for insult. Should I assist my ex’s family and lose my new girlfriend? What if my ex don’t want to come back to the country I’ll lose two of em. Please give me a reasonable advice not insults

must your gf know what you wanna do, or will u tell ur gf if u wanna help ur own family member its better your help ur ex's family my advise is your present lady is not a good person at all

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Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by annyberry: 4:28pm On Aug 29, 2020

Who is dat new babe to decide for u who to help,naso e dey start from dere wen it leads to marriage she we tell u not to help ur family......na from clap e dey turn dance.......if ur new babe want to quit pls help her open d door very well.....we women get wahala sha

Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by skyhighweb1: 4:32pm On Aug 29, 2020

texazzpete:
You are right. You don’t need insults. You need a very good beating. You need several slaps to reset your brain, you accursed ingrate.

Someone gave you a lot of money before leaving to help your business, and instead of repaying her kindness by helping her family, you’re here fishing for excuses not to do the decent thing.

And you’re here claiming you still love your ex. You don’t love her, you viper! You’re an ungrateful parasite, and I hope she realizes that someday.

better beating in short see man pickin jeez

Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Sophiemama: 4:35pm On Aug 29, 2020

Truthlord12:
please no need for insult. Should I assist my ex’s family and lose my new girlfriend? What if my ex don’t want to come back to the country I’ll lose two of em. Please give me a reasonable advice not insults

You don't have to tell your girlfriend before helping your ex's family.

Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Gerundphrase: 4:42pm On Aug 29, 2020

yomi007k:
Oga go and drop her money and move on with your life.

You better don't collect 1k to pay 10k....

Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Amorprincesa24: 4:42pm On Aug 29, 2020

You don't need to tell her you want to help your ex family. Just do it behind her back. Besides it is not her money so you can as well do whatever you please with your money.

I don't understand why you have to tell her in the first place.

Truthlord12:
please no need for insult. Should I assist my ex’s family and lose my new girlfriend? What if my ex don’t want to come back to the country I’ll lose two of em. Please give me a reasonable advice not insults

Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Nobody: 4:45pm On Aug 29, 2020

Truthlord12:
Good evening people please I need your advice regards to this, I got separated from my ex girlfriend last year because she told me her travel plans abroad I was a bit sceptic About the nature of job she’ll do there, she’s the type that’s ready and willing to do anything to help her family.

After everything I told her not to embark on the journey that she should be patient with me, once my business picked up I’ll care for her and her family, she refused and traveled last year, few months before she left she gave me some money to add to my business I wouldn’t want to state the actual amount but a bit huge. Of recent her family really suffering because my ex had issue with the person that took her abroad so she’s passing through difficult time though she’s hiding some info from me since she’s not able to make money, she called me of recent that I should please do anything to help her family.

Now I’ve got a new girlfriend I told my new girlfriend about the issue but she said I shouldn’t give my ex family any money, because we ain’t together anymore that if I do she’ll leave me

Please people help me what should I do? My mind is really disturbing me and I still love my ex I wish I’ve a way to bring her back to Nigeria so we can start a family I don’t care the type of job she went there to do and I don’t mind what she has been through. She did so much for me, she made sacrifice that this my new girl won’t do, I don’t even know if my new girlfriend loves me or because of my money.

Though I love my new girlfriend but part of me is with my ex I don’t know if she’ll will be willing to return though I’ve not discussed it with her. And now my new girlfriend threatening to leave me if I assist or give back the money my ex gave me as support for my business before she travelled to her family I’ve been down for days thinking so much.

help those in need, tomorrow might be your turn. Don't listen to the devilish and selfish voice from your girlfriend.

Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by larryking540: 4:46pm On Aug 29, 2020

Hathor5:
Deep down you already know what you should do.

yeah you are right

Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by larryking540: 4:47pm On Aug 29, 2020

HealthOfficer07:
help those in need, tomorrow might be your turn. Don't listen to the devilish and selfish voice from your girlfriend.

na so devil they use some girlfriend o

Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by larryking540: 4:48pm On Aug 29, 2020

Sophiemama:
You don't have to tell your girlfriend before helping your ex's family.

exactly,last last even if op marrys this new gf ,if it's God destiny that he will still marry his ex ,then he will

Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Pearl05(f): 4:50pm On Aug 29, 2020

Even if you don't want to help them, return the money she gave you with 15% simple interest. Pay it all at once.

Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by ceeceeuwa: 4:52pm On Aug 29, 2020

Truthlord12:
please no need for insult. Should I assist my ex’s family and lose my new girlfriend? What if my ex don’t want to come back to the country I’ll lose two of em. Please give me a reasonable advice not insults

Do you have to tell her before you help your ex's family? I wonder if you will also need her permission to help your own mother.

Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by mannasseh(m): 4:54pm On Aug 29, 2020

just update us on what ever decision you took and events unfolded

Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by JustcallmeFavou(f): 4:54pm On Aug 29, 2020

Truthlord12:
Good evening people please I need your advice regards to this, I got separated from my ex girlfriend last year because she told me her travel plans abroad I was a bit sceptic About the nature of job she’ll do there, she’s the type that’s ready and willing to do anything to help her family.

After everything I told her not to embark on the journey that she should be patient with me, once my business picked up I’ll care for her and her family, she refused and traveled last year, few months before she left she gave me some money to add to my business I wouldn’t want to state the actual amount but a bit huge. Of recent her family really suffering because my ex had issue with the person that took her abroad so she’s passing through difficult time though she’s hiding some info from me since she’s not able to make money, she called me of recent that I should please do anything to help her family.

Now I’ve got a new girlfriend I told my new girlfriend about the issue but she said I shouldn’t give my ex family any money, because we ain’t together anymore that if I do she’ll leave me

Please people help me what should I do? My mind is really disturbing me and I still love my ex I wish I’ve a way to bring her back to Nigeria so we can start a family I don’t care the type of job she went there to do and I don’t mind what she has been through. She did so much for me, she made sacrifice that this my new girl won’t do, I don’t even know if my new girlfriend loves me or because of my money.

Though I love my new girlfriend but part of me is with my ex I don’t know if she’ll will be willing to return though I’ve not discussed it with her. And now my new girlfriend threatening to leave me if I assist or give back the money my ex gave me as support for my business before she travelled to her family I’ve been down for days thinking so much.

That your new gf is a toxic person. She's already being manipulative because she knows you love her.
She's the type that won't let you assist or help any friend or family member unless she okays it. Which is wrong!!!

To me I'd say, remember old times. Like what your ex sacrificed for you and all. If your new gf is threatening to leave you, can't you see she's only with you cos of what she's getting?

Deep down your heart is already telling you what to do, so follow your heart. All the best!!! Shalom!!!

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