yvelchstores:
should she be on top oga?

theForth:
no, she should be beneath her husband.

Zzor:
mtchew she will regret this later,nonsense

Temitopemo6e6:
Love is blind, and a deaf- mute too.

searchng4love:
On your knees!!

buchilino:


UR OBVIOUSLY STILL SINGLE

rollandben:


What evidence do you need again!! seen is believing na, dont tell you are bittered about his step forward!!

Peacefullove:


Ladies can always do this... But the problem with men, which people like Zzor is hammering on is, most men are not matured, They have loose mouth. Na everybody go know say woman toast them. Until guys correct this nonsense, women will keep holding back.

SmartHanif:


You're absolutely right!
But kindly withdraw your statement that "most men are not matured". Thanks!

Peacefullove:

The immatures always out number the mature ones , so what's there to withdraw?
I didn't say ALL MEn

cooooooks:
Because everything has to be about me me me with you.

Why rain on her parade.

Mtchew.

7victor:
I will definitely say yes.

I am even waiting for her to propose to me.

I have come to discover that I love ladies who approach me first more than the ones I approach first.

I tend to show more commitment to such ladies and it is always very hard for me to forget such ladies even when we separate due to change of locality,marriage etc.

If I approach a lady first,I can easily terminate the relationship but if the lady approach me first,I will not be able to let her go.Even if she leaves

me,I would not be able to remove her from my mind

I find women that approach me first very attractive.

I do not know why and I have talked to some men about it and they try to discourage me saying I must only be the one that initiate a relationship.

But they do not expect everyone to be the same.

They only love ladies whom they approach first

but i am very attracted to ladies who approach me first.

That is our difference.Of course everyone is different in taste.

So to ensure I give my all to a lady in marriage,I want her to first ask for my hand in marriage.

That is just the truth

Zzor:
mtchew she will regret this later,nonsense

Chii59:

Unfortunately it is hard to tell a guy who's mature enough not to be intimidated by a woman who propositions him first.
I've done that and got my fingers burnt.

7victor:
I believe there is nothing as sweet as a woman asking for your hand in marriage.

I read a story about how a woman approached the late president Yar'Adua for marriage.

It was during that time that he first contested for governorship in katsina.

Alhaji Yar'Adua accepted her proposal and married her as one of his wives.

But shortly after he lost the governorship election,the woman packed out of his house.

When Yar'Adua contested the second time and won,

the woman returned to his house,but Turai Yar'Adua refused to allow her in.

Turai knew that the woman only wanted marriage to Yar'Adua because of fame.

Of course if you are successful,women will approach you directly for marriage.

Ask successful young men and they will tell you.

So to be approached by a woman is a priviledge.

agnes7:
Na wao.
Any where you are right.
Someone said that when you are not successful,that is when women will tell you that they cannot approach you first because her honour will be at stake.
That is when women will tell you that it is against her pride and honour to approach you first.
Also most women do not approach men because they fear rejection.
But such honour,pride and fear has no place when you are very successful in life.
They are like even if he rejects me that is not the end of life.I will just move on.
If he accepts me,I am the one that will gain.
Most times,the men that are following a lady are all these jobless/low income street men.
The lady will have no option but to hunt for successful men.
So there is nothing to lose in terms of honour or pride if you approach a very successful man.
The fear is in terms of being rejected which does not even matter.

7victor:


Well I am of the belief that it was the wrong guy you approached.

I mean a guy who believes that he must be the first to approach a lady,

But I know so many men who are only attracted to women who first approach them(the males).

Most of such men are achievers like managers and CEO of companies.

I have observed the trend.

Most men who are less successful only want the women whom they approched first.

But most successful/handsome men believe they have what it takes for women to approach them first for marriage.

Most men who believe that they are successful or that they are potential success are honoured if women consider them good enough to be approached for marriage.



In fact I know one tall handsome taekwondo black belter who is very successful in life.

He refused to approach any lady for marriage.

He was waiting for a lady to approach him first.

Since no lady approached him first,

he decided to approach a lady.

But he later stepped back and wanted the lady to start pursuing/desiring him.

The lady thought the man was not interested.

But the man actually wanted her to ask him to marry her.

The girl did not say anything to the man.

One day,another lady just went to the man who was sitting on a chair with table.

The lady bent over the table and began smiling at the man.

She said she wanted to discus something with the man later in the day.

The man said the lady should just say what she wanted to say there and then.

The lady asked the man if she could marry him.

The man did not even ask for a time to think about the proposal.

He said 'YES'

And now they are happily married.

Zzor:
mtchew she will regret this later,nonsense

RioCarputo:

Although some men are really scums, but not to assume all men are.

The fact that it was the lady who proposed to him doesn't mean that she won't dump him later on, and vise versa.

robosky02:
Where is option

optional1:


I'm here daddy

robosky02:

optional1:

Still remains the best dad

Zzor:
mtchew she will regret this later,nonsense

robosky02: