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Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Nobody: 4:23pm On Oct 12, 2020
ServanTheG:
This is Nairaland. Are you really suprised at what you read on that thread?
I know we have some stupid folks on here but I didn't know it was this bad.
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Powerfly(f): 4:33pm On Oct 12, 2020
The evidence is quite glaring. You can see it by their comments.
I just hope i never get to meet any of them in real life. I really admire the select 'few'
Who take their time
To make comments
and posts devoid of
biase feelings and
conjugated hypocrisy.
those ones are truly
and abundantly
blessed with common
sense and a working
conscience.
The rest are just here
making a mockery of
their shallow-thinking
self. Tueh!

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Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Zabiboy: 4:34pm On Oct 12, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:


MOST NIGERIAN MEN ARE HYPOCRITES INCLUDING YOUR FATHER AND MINE. ACCEPT AND DEAL WITH IT. cheesy

Every single Human on this earth is a Hypocrite..
Both Me, you, the O.P, our parents e.t.c ...
Even our children, grandchildren and generations to come would still be hypocrites...
Denying the above further highlights the hypocrisy in you

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Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 4:36pm On Oct 12, 2020
Hey! Can i ask?

Are you by any means related to Chidera Eggerue? Your username is so familiar

Theslumflower:
I will forever advice women to make their own money and be independent. Let your husband know you can do three times what he does when it comes to money.

From the above comments and ones from the thread, it's all about finances. Kill that financial gap and see how everything changes. They won't try it if they respect you because they know you will 100% thrive on your own and this is 21st century, their are hundreds of learned me who will marry a good, hardworking, pretty divorcee lady. Don't let Nairaland fool you.

As of the one up talking about bride price. Nobody forced you to pay. That one concern you and her kinsmen. Funny enough, how much wey you pay sef grin

Women have so much power. Some just haven't realized it yet, which is sad.

I've seen women that their hubby cheat on their faces and they won't say or do nothing SMH, thereby aiding the act. Definition of giving yourself no singlee value as a lady

Be a financially free woman from your husband and see how things turn around. Like they say, money stops nonsense.
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by baralatie(m): 4:37pm On Oct 12, 2020
Theslumflower:
I will forever advice women to make their own money and be independent. Let your husband know you can do three times what he does when it comes to money.

From the above comments and ones from the thread, it's all about finances. Kill that financial gap and see how everything changes. They won't try it if they respect you because they know you will 100% thrive on your own and this is 21st century, their are hundreds of learned me who will marry a good, hardworking, pretty divorcee lady. Don't let Nairaland fool you.

As of the one up talking about bride price. Nobody forced you to pay. That one concern you and her kinsmen. Funny enough, how much wey you pay sef grin

Women have so much power. Some just haven't realized it yet, which is sad.

I've seen women that their hubby cheat on their faces and they won't say or do nothing SMH, thereby aiding the act. Definition of giving yourself no singlee value as a lady

Be a financially free woman from your husband and see how things turn around. Like they say, money stops nonsense.
that is a big lie!
it will still be the same problem.those that want to cheat will cheat

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Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by baralatie(m): 4:39pm On Oct 12, 2020
Powerfly:
The evidence is quite glaring. You can see it by their comments.
I just hope i never get to meet any of them in real life. I really admire the select 'few'
Who take their time
To make comments
and posts devoid of
biase feelings and
conjugated hypocrisy.
those ones are truly
and abundantly
blessed with common
sense and a working
conscience.
The rest are just here
making a mockery of
their shallow-thinking
self. Tueh!
that is the prayer that anybody that gets engaged should meet the person's who will choose to be faithful,supportive and helpful

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Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Lordfave98: 4:42pm On Oct 12, 2020
DamnnNiggarr:
until you ladies start taking equal part of the expenses in marriage, and taking equal part of the responsibility in every day family life, is when you shall be regarded equal with men.

who's the borden of marriage expenses on?? it's always men.

who worries most in the betterment or moving forward of relationship?? always men.

who tells a woman how he feels about her?? until I see women do that, still always men.

who's ready to sacrifice both financially in relationship?? always men.

you ladies want to be accorded the same respect as men but don't want to reason like men
Oga what you just said isn't accurately correct i have seen several families where the wives have the bulk of the family's responsibilities on their shoulder. we should stop this egocentric rubbish

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Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by GeneralPula: 4:45pm On Oct 12, 2020
Nairaland with Dumb girls

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Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 4:51pm On Oct 12, 2020
God bless you!

Lordfave98:
Oga what you just said isn't accurately correct i have seen several families where the wives have the bulk of the family's responsibilities on their shoulder. we should stop this egocentric rubbish

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Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 4:52pm On Oct 12, 2020
From what i have seen so far, the reverse is the case!

GeneralPula:
Nairaland with Dumb girls

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Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Lordfave98: 4:54pm On Oct 12, 2020
nwaezeemmanuel:
God bless you!
and you too sir.

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Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Nobody: 4:57pm On Oct 12, 2020
No Come Mess.
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Zabiboy: 5:08pm On Oct 12, 2020
Lordfave98:
Oga what you just said isn't accurately correct i have seen several families where the wives have the bulk of the family's responsibilities on their shoulder. we should stop this egocentric rubbish

I initially ignored when the O.P said something similar to this bcz she is a lady and i dont quote most of them here due to their inability to reply without insults...But since you are a guy, i'll just say what i want to say on this stuff...

@bolded, ...i'll K.I.S.S.
Let's not deceive ourselves NO WOMAN WOULD ENTER A MARRIAGE WHERE SHE WOULD BEAR THE WHOLE FINANCIAL BURDENS ( most wont even enter at a 70%(man)-30%(woman) split)..
So ANY woman you see bearing the financial burdens of the house is either bcz the man is going through a tough period or is handicapped..
Ask them how things were when they got married and you'll see that she contributed CLOSE TO nothing at those early stages...

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Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Nobody: 5:10pm On Oct 12, 2020
Lordfave98:
Oga what you just said isn't accurately correct i have seen several families where the wives have the bulk of the family's responsibilities on their shoulder. we should stop this egocentric rubbish
My point exactly.

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Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by BigDick70inch(m): 5:10pm On Oct 12, 2020
MhisTahrah:
It is quite disturbing to see that no male has made any meaningful comment yet.

Lol..
I don't support evil..
If table turned..y'all girls will form sisterhood and stand up for the sister too..

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Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by jericco1(m): 5:24pm On Oct 12, 2020
virginprincess:
Don't mind them, exactly while i said 95% of nairaland men are senseless.

Only your dad is 90%

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Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Nobody: 5:27pm On Oct 12, 2020
BigDick70inch:


Lol..
I don't support evil..
If table turned..y'all girls will form sisterhood and stand up for the sister too..
This is untrue.
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Nobody: 5:36pm On Oct 12, 2020
Fact1:
Hmmmm,,, karamon,,
angry
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by virginprincess(f): 5:37pm On Oct 12, 2020
jericco1:


Only your dad is 90%
My dad is not a nairalander, besides you look very familiar, where are you from?
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Nobody: 5:37pm On Oct 12, 2020
ZIINrI:

angry

Zini my nigga,,,grin

What's the cause of your anger,,,?
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Nobody: 5:37pm On Oct 12, 2020
virginprincess:

95%??
99% of girls on here are senseless.....
Don't mind them, exactly while i said 95% of nairaland men are senseless.
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by virginprincess(f): 5:41pm On Oct 12, 2020
[quote author=ZIINI post=94873751][/quote]Am very sure i'm not part of that 99%.
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Nobody: 5:42pm On Oct 12, 2020
Why is it that 100% of threads on nairaland created by girls is always bullshit,Mr seun please try to do something about this it's becoming more alarming angry

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Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Nobody: 5:43pm On Oct 12, 2020
virginprincess:
i don't even know
Am very sure i'm not part of that 99%.
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Nobody: 5:49pm On Oct 12, 2020
ZIINI:
Why is it that 100% of threads on nairaland created by girls is always bullshit,Mr seun please try to do something about this it's becoming more alarming angry
Read what you typed, does it make sense?
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Nobody: 5:53pm On Oct 12, 2020
MhisTahrah:
Read what you typed, does it make sense?

What is the essence of opening this thread tell me? sad
If your BF or husband is cheating on you then fuccking go to someone else.don't come and disturb us here with horse shit please angry

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Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by jericco1(m): 6:06pm On Oct 12, 2020
virginprincess:
My dad is not a nairalander, besides you look very familiar, where are you from?

You've mistaken me for someone else
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Nobody: 6:08pm On Oct 12, 2020
ZIINI:


What is the essence of opening this thread tell me? sad
If your BF or husband is cheating on you then fuccking go to someone else.don't come and disturb us here with horse shit please angry
Did you read the first post at all?Now read this very carefully, I created this thread because a lot of male nairalanders excuse their fellow males when they're busted for acts of infidelity but take swipes at the entire female gender if it's a female.Isn't that hypocrisy and double standards?
My take is; cheating is bad for both genders, condemn both equally.
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by Nobody: 6:19pm On Oct 12, 2020
MhisTahrah:
Did you read the first post at all?Now read this very carefully, I created this thread because a lot of male nairalanders excuse their fellow males when they're busted for acts of infidelity but take swipes at the entire female gender if it's a female.Isn't that hypocrisy and double standards?
My take is; cheating is bad for both genders, condemn both equally.
Only a stupid man will side his fellow man when he's cheating or doing something wrong
Cheating is bad and wrong for both genders as you've said.
Now you heard recently the case between lil frosh and his girlfriend I remember reading the news on FP every male that read the news accused him of hitting that girl. Not a single male side him or excuse his error look at the drastic step Davido took about the case
So no man in his right sense will side or excuse his fellow man when he's cheating be it in relationship or marriage. We reason too and we're not animals

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Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by DamnnNiggarr: 6:49pm On Oct 12, 2020
Lordfave98:
Oga what you just said isn't accurately correct i have seen several families where the wives have the bulk of the family's responsibilities on their shoulder. we should stop this egocentric rubbish
what about your own family,
who foots the bill, you or your wife??
Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 6:59pm On Oct 12, 2020
Does this matter? undecided

DamnnNiggarr:
what about your own family,
who foots the bill, you or your wife??

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Re: The Hypocrisy Of Nigerian Men by FearlessOG: 7:05pm On Oct 12, 2020
MhisTahrah:
Some Nigerian men are always quick to generalize and bash Nigerian women whenever a lady makes the news for something bad for example, a married woman having extramarital affairs.But one will never see this set of hypocrites judge cheating married men in such manner.They make senseless comments and the really dumb ones go ahead to insult the wife for her husband's inability to remain faithful.

You might want to go through this thread and see for yourself
https://www.nairaland.com/6174273/cheating-some-men-something-else

Lol!!! The same can be said of "some Nigerian women" on this forum. It's imperative to realize that "both genders" are largely biased in favor of their own gender. However, if you sincerely think that your post and the link that you put up there suffices for a cogent argument supporting your assertion, then I'll gladly play the "Devil's Advocate" and let you know the following:

1. I can provide links on Nairaland showing you where the reverse was the case i.e. some Nigerian women being quick to generalize and bash Nigerian men whenever a man makes the news for something bad for example, a married man having extramarital affairs. But one will never see this set of hypocrites judge cheating married women in such manner. They make senseless comments and the really dumb ones go ahead to insult the man for his wife's inability to remain faithful.

2. I can provide links on Nairaland showing threads where a man was at the receiving end of female brutality (either the man was maimed or killed) and there were very few comments from females that condemned the woman's action. But that's not all; I can even go further and provide links on Nairaland showing threads where a man was at the receiving end of female brutality, and there was NO comment from even a single female condemning the woman's action. Not even from the so-called gender equality advocates (feminists). And to make things more interesting, I'm referring to threads that have at least 3 pages of comments or more. Just imagine that.

3. In contrast to point number 2, there is no single thread on Nairaland that I have come across since when I started viewing as a guest in 2014, that reports male-on-female brutality/violence, and has at least 3 pages of comments or more, that I didn't see men condemning the action of the man. Even if it is just a handful of men that condemned the action of the man.

4. I'll make things more interesting though; I can provide links on Nairaland where the thread is about male-on-female brutality/violence, and the only people that commented and condemned the action of the man were men, despite the fact that this is one of the topics were females and Nairaland feminists usually abound. Contrarily, there is no thread on Nairaland that reports female-on-male brutality/violence and the only people that commented and condemned the action of the woman were women. I haven't come across even one of such threads in my 6+ years as a Nairaland guest/viewer.

There is so much more I can say, but it's definitely not necessary. The bottom line is that if one person is trying to prove misogyny and another person is trying to prove misandry, there are more than enough links, even within Nairaland alone to prove either case.

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