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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by millionboi2: 9:53pm On Nov 06, 2020
virginprincess:
All this broke men creating nonsense tread self undecided, haven't you people see real men that get married then ask their wives to sit at home, that is becoming full time housewives, those men do they have two heads? are they not the one taking the whole responsiblity? mtcheeeeew.
is your father broke?

How do you know then

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by virginprincess(f): 9:56pm On Nov 06, 2020
ZIINI:

I'm sorry what you said pissed me off
What you typed up there use to happen 2000 years ago not this 21 century
We already have independent girls now
I'm sure you come across them when you go out don't you envy them too.?
Just this morning I saw a girl driving a Benz E class
And here you are, aspiring to be a full house wife
That shit sucks like a motherfucker angry
No it still happen till now, especially with a particular tribe in nigeria, i am not aspiring to be a full time housewife, Godforbid, if i am then why am i wasting my parent money going to school, i just said that because it still happening in this era.

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Kranediggy(m): 10:00pm On Nov 06, 2020
Unik3030:
just imagine,many unintelligent girls have turned themselves to commodities n that's y they are easily replaced since they have no value but only serve as liability.

just imagine buying a car n u are spending on it,no time u feel like getting another one n u replace it,that's what these brain dead girls are turning themselves too but they don't want to b replaced.imagine someone will to b a full time housewife in this present day Nigeria,even Aisha buhari self dey hustle
As in eeh...am touched by this. Even Folorunsho Alakija dey hustle too o!

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by virginprincess(f): 10:03pm On Nov 06, 2020
millionboi2:
is your father broke?

How do you know then
Maybe you should read my comment before typing TRASH.

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 10:03pm On Nov 06, 2020
virginprincess:
No it still happen till now, especially with a particular tribe in nigeria, i am not aspiring to be a full time housewife, Godforbid, if i am then why am i wasting my parent money going to school, i just said that because it still happening in this era.
Only illiterate will want to be full house shit
Maybe those that didn't go to school
And some of them are learning trade now.
I hate girls with entitlement mentality when I spot them I can shoot them a grand 100 k9 pistol FÛCK
Dem MF got two legs and arm let them work their pussy upangry

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by virginprincess(f): 10:11pm On Nov 06, 2020
ZIINI:

Only illiterate will want to be full house shit
Maybe those that didn't go to school
And some of them are learning trade now.
I hate girls with entitlement mentality when I spot them I can shoot them a grand 100 k9 pistol FÛCK
Dem MF got two legs and arm let them work their pussy upangry
Zini take take it eazy na, a good wife is always a good wife, whether school or no school.

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Kranediggy(m): 10:16pm On Nov 06, 2020
400billionman:
The funny thing with the ladies is immediately you want to strike a conversation with them, they will frown their faces. Once you drop a story and mention million in it, they start smiling at you.

This thing about sleeping with women after giving them food is true.

I was chatting up this young fed govt employee, she was just giving me negative responses. Saying stupid things that were degrading. I struck a date with her and fed her after work one day. For the first time in her life, she initiated a call to me.

I went home like a gentle man after the date. Next thing, she is in my house trying to sleep with me. Her girlfriend even texted her asking her if we have started the action. We were using her phone when the msg dropped. Meaning she informed her friend that she was going to sleep with a new guy.

Ladies.

Most girls dont have good priorities. The crave for comfort is what drives women. Stop blaming men for not getting married.
Thumbs up man!

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Liposure: 11:17pm On Nov 06, 2020
I blame the traditional upbringing of the female child where the man is seen as breadwinner and provider while the woman is seen as caregiver. We need to change that mentality and start reorientating these girls

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by DaInferno(m): 11:22pm On Nov 06, 2020
virginprincess:
I said what i said because you guys are taking it like it a must that women must part of the family responsibility, it not suppose to be a must but choice, a woman money is not suppose to be shared.
maybe in this part of the world; dude from Canada would boast of ladies splitting the bills. Sounds kinda strange to him to hear what happens on this side

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by zanshi: 1:04am On Nov 07, 2020
We love being single dont entrap us with problem.

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by MrTAnonymous(m): 1:23am On Nov 07, 2020
Kranediggy:
Its simply because, majority of ladies are broke and depend on their future spouse, to continue from where their parents stopped in breeding them. There's no way only the man's income will be enough to run the family. Women should be earning too, in marriages to balance the financial weight, you should be able to earn even before marriage...




I strongly believe that if women save up for marriage as men do, then couples can settle down for love easily and all these few years contract-marriages will end. The most annoying part of this is that most ladies think men need just a housekeeper, cook or a nanny; but they really need a partner who should be a real woman; which is a true help of her man, that's what woman means. Common the two people became one under marriage, there's nothing like the woman's money & there's also nothing like the man's; both are meant to share everything together. Many ladies love a man's material things not him nowadays, that's why marriages hardly last today...


You've said it all. Most ladies nowadays don't value true love, most of them are too materialistic and "emotionally and mentally" childish. Nothing bad in been materialistic but extremes of everything is bad you know.


No man wants a liability, it is better to remain single than marry a lady who isn't emotionally and mentally ready for marriage.



Incase you don't know na me talk

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Kranediggy(m): 2:47am On Nov 07, 2020
MrTAnonymous:


You've said it all. Most ladies nowadays don't value true love, most of them are too materialistic and "emotionally and mentally" childish. Nothing bad in been materialistic but extremes of everything is bad you know.


No man wants a liability, it is better to remain single than marry a lady who isn't emotionally and mentally ready for marriage.



Incase you don't know na me talk
Correct!

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Kranediggy(m): 2:49am On Nov 07, 2020
zanshi:
We love being single dont entrap us with problem.
You sound like a future single mom dear...I can perceive it.

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 2:49am On Nov 07, 2020
ZIINI:

I'm sorry
But what you said pissed me off
What you typed up there use to happen 2000 years ago not this 21 century
We already have independent girls now
I'm sure you come across them when you go out don't you envy them too.?
Just this morning I saw a girl driving a Benz E class
And here you are, aspiring to be a full house wife
When you husband money is gone you as a wife you're expected to support him now tell me how do you want to support him when you sit your ass at home all day
Doing nothing all in the name of house wife.
After sometimes without him dropping anything at home you will later frustrate his life
And from there problem will set in ...
Girls of nowadays I don't know maybe you think with your pusssy.no offence..
Ever childish ZIINI.
When will you grow and have sense?

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Kranediggy(m): 2:51am On Nov 07, 2020
Liposure:
I blame the traditinal upbringing of the female child where the man is seen as breadwinner and provider while the woman is seen as caregiver. We need to change that mentality and start reorientating these girls
cheesy ASAP change o!

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 2:52am On Nov 07, 2020
Liposure:
I blame the traditinal upbringing of the female child where the man is seen as breadwinner and provider while the woman is seen as caregiver. We need to change that mentality and start reorientating these girls
A lot of women are taking up such roles as breadwinners, even women who have husbands.

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Kranediggy(m): 3:03am On Nov 07, 2020
Chii59:

A lot of women are taking up such roles as breadwinners, even women who have husbands.
No doubt they exist. The problem is that, most of such women see that breadwinner role they assume; as doing their men a favour, while they're assumed one, in the union of marriage. Common! Women, anything you do is for the own good of the family. Although I frown at a man purposely leaving the burden for his wife, as real men don't engage in that. In fact most women, in such scenerio make life unbearable for their men, even though its not the man's fault to be broke. An average natural man has his pride, most men who end up being fed by their wife didn't plan for that; but women of this contemporary age believe that a man be the one to take the full responsibility. This is wrong. This follow for why widows plenty for Nigeria...

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Kranediggy(m): 3:28am On Nov 07, 2020
MiaB:
LOL
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Kranediggy(m): 3:36am On Nov 07, 2020
The truth is, without love marriages won't last; no matter how rich the man or woman is...

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 4:27am On Nov 07, 2020
Kranediggy:
No doubt they exist. The problem is that, most of such women see that breadwinner role they assume; as doing their men a favour, while they're assumed one, in the union of marriage. Common! Women, anything you do is for the own good of the family. Although I frown at a man purposely leaving the burden for his wife, as real men don't engage in that. In fact most women, in such scenerio make life unbearable for their men, even though its not the man's fault to be broke. An average natural man has his pride, most men who end up being fed by their wife didn't plan for that; but women of this contemporary age believe that a man be the one to take the full responsibility. This is wrong. This follow for why widows plenty for Nigeria...
To be honest, it is a favour for a woman to add being a breadwinner to her traditional roles as wife and mother. A big favour.
How many men who are breadwinners are very active in being a father to their kids? Changing diapers, taking them to/fro school, doing homework, making sure they bath, eat and are ready for school on time, each day? How many breadwinning men are hands-on daddies?
You think it's just to drop school fees and go off to work?
When you see a woman who is a breadwinner, wife and mother and you say she's doing as if it's a favour, it reveals a lack of understanding on your part.

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by celwonder(m): 4:59am On Nov 07, 2020
virginprincess:
I said what i said because you guys are taking it like it a must that women must part of the family responsibility, it not suppose to be a must but choice, a woman money is not suppose to be shared.

This your thought is absolutely archaic. You still don't fully grasp wat marriage is. Most Nigerian men will succumb to this kind of your thought because of their pride.

A reasonably responsible woman won't even be comfortable with the whole "choice" idea. She would want to be involved financially no matter how little she is alloted to bring to the table.

Personally, there's nothing special to being male or female in marriage, the important part is know your role to play and play it effectively while fully ready to drop in to help your partner when they seem not fully equipped to handle any function while performing their functions.

Pls don't see my comment in bad light.

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 6:13am On Nov 07, 2020
Chii59:

Ever childish ZIINI.
When will you grow and have sense?
Chii59 I'll have it when I suck your boobs dry angry

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by CHoccolaTE: 6:29am On Nov 07, 2020
Men these days are the ones who are liabilities in marriage, very lazy and entitled golddiggers.

You want a woman that will be breadwinner and share the bills but you cannot share cooking and cleaning house and taking care of children equally. No, you still expect women to be in charge of the household even while she is stressing herself to provide money.

Marrying men of these days has no benefit whatsoever, it's just losses after losses, fvcking liabilities.

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by CHoccolaTE: 6:33am On Nov 07, 2020
Skepticus:


What are the valuable benefits of marriage to men these days outside raising kids and the deception called companionship?

There is no benefit to marrying them oo, only men benefit from marriage, the children a woman bears answer their fathers name and add to fathers lineage,
Even companionship you spoke of na scam because the idiots will still cheat on their wives or attempt to cheat on her.

The only thing they used to do before which is provide, they cannot do it again and these days many women are the ones carrying the family.

Very useless people.

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 6:38am On Nov 07, 2020
virginprincess:
Don't you ever in your miserable life insult my parent again, i don't joke with them, if your parent didn't teach you manners then look for who will teach you, miserable he-goat.


Shatap ur mouth!!!!

Shey u want marry and with this OGBONI MENTALITY?

I shame 4ur mama and papa because you will spend ALL ur days here on earth in ur papa housegringrin

Lmao, A man should carry ur RESPONSIBILITY

Chaiii, I don't blame that SIMP that u currently have as a bf that provides all ur request on TOP JUST SEXgringrin

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Kranediggy(m): 6:47am On Nov 07, 2020
Chii59:

To be honest, it is a favour for a woman to add being a breadwinner to her traditional roles as wife and mother. A big favour.
How many men who are breadwinners are very active in being a father to their kids? Changing diapers, taking them to/fro school, doing homework, making sure they bath, eat and are ready for school on time, each day? How many breadwinning men are hands-on daddies?
You think it's just to drop school fees and go off to work?
When you see a woman who is a breadwinner, wife and mother and you say she's doing as if it's a favour, it reveals a lack of understanding on your part.
Don't be confused dear. Am talking about women who their husbands even help out in chores & caring for their kids. Read this comment u've quoted well, digest & understand it, before quoting me. Am not even supporting men that leave the whole burden for their wives, Nah! I don't support that dear. Mind u most breadwinning mother's hardly do all u listed here O!

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 6:49am On Nov 07, 2020
virginprincess:
Zini take take it eazy na, a good wife is always a good wife, whether school or no school.


Mark today's DATE,,, this ur ENTITLEMENT MENTALITY will lead you to SINGLE MOTHERHOODgringrin

Are you CRIPPLED? That you can't work for ur own money... Mkpigrin

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Kranediggy(m): 6:50am On Nov 07, 2020
celwonder:


This your thought is absolutely archaic. You still don't fully grasp wat marriage is. Most Nigerian men will succumb to this kind of your thought because of their pride.

A reasonably responsible woman won't even be comfortable with the whole "choice" idea. She would want to be involved financially no matter how little she is alloted to bring to the table.

Personally, there's nothing special to being male or female in marriage, the important part is know your role to play and play it effectively while fully ready to drop in to help your partner when they seem not fully equipped to handle any function while performing their functions.

Pls don't see my comment in bad light.
Well said...
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by dominique(f): 6:54am On Nov 07, 2020
There's hardly a family I know where the wife doesn't cover a considerable amount of family expenses, so I don't know where all this crying and groaning is coming from. So in addition to taking care of kids and unending house chores, there's now pressure on the Nigerian wives to provide for the family. What exactly is the usefulness of the Nigerian husband in the 21st century? If only (working class) women know the type of favour they're doing this men in getting married to them, they won't be so desperate for marriage.

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Kranediggy(m): 7:17am On Nov 07, 2020
dominique:

There's hardly a family I know where the wife doesn't cover a considerable amount of family expenses, so I don't know where all this crying and groaning is coming from. So in addition to taking care of kids and unending house chores, there's now pressure on the Nigerian wives to provide for the family. What exactly is the usefulness of the Nigerian man in the 21st century? If only (working class) women know the type of favour they're doing this men in getting married to them, they won't be so desperate for marriage.
You didn't reason well before saying this dear. How can you say such thing? By marrying a man you're doing him a favour? See O! Don't favour any man, remain single. Make I hear say E no get one dude you're dreaming about and praying God brings him your way. You sef get boyfriend wey you not fit endure if he dumps you mtcheeeew...All these ones forming shit here sef

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Kranediggy(m): 7:21am On Nov 07, 2020
CHoccolaTE:
Men these days are the ones who are liabilities in marriage, very lazy and entitled golddiggers.

You want a woman that will be breadwinner and share the bills but you cannot share cooking and cleaning house and taking care of children equally. No, you still expect women to be in charge of the household even while she is stressing herself to provide money.

Marrying men of these days has no benefit whatsoever, it's just losses after losses, fvcking liabilities.
Judging from this comment you ain't smart baby...

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by CHoccolaTE: 7:21am On Nov 07, 2020
dominique:
There's hardly a family I know where the wife doesn't cover a considerable amount of family expenses, so I don't know where all this crying and groaning is coming from. So in addition to taking care of kids and unending house chores, there's now pressure on the Nigerian wives to provide for the family. What exactly is the usefulness of the Nigerian husband in the 21st century? If only (working class) women know the type of favour they're doing this men in getting married to them, they won't be so desperate for marriage.

They have no usefulness at all, none.

In many cases, once the woman starts earning considerable amount of money, the men abandon breadwinning for them and start spending their money on frivolities like carrying girls up and down.

Only them want to boss women around and expect submission from women but the same women must be earning money to feed them an pay their bills, these same women must throw away their fathers name after marriage and start bearing the name of a man she is feeding and paying his bills.

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