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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by litaninja(m): 8:29am On Nov 07, 2020
Lol. Broke as* women are triggered in the replies.

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by simeko(m): 8:29am On Nov 07, 2020
virginprincess:
All this broke men creating nonsense tread self undecided, haven't you people see real men that get married then ask their wives to sit at home, that is becoming full time housewives, those men do they have two heads? are they not the one taking the whole responsiblity? mtcheeeeew.

see one of them, go be full house wife, modren slave and license for ur husband to do runs

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Dididrumz(m): 8:30am On Nov 07, 2020
virginprincess:
a woman money is not suppose to be shared.


Sister is this what your mum taught You?

I think you should change your mindset.

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by tradepunter: 8:30am On Nov 07, 2020
Chii59:

A lot of women are taking up such roles as breadwinners, even women who have husbands.

Taa shut up there.... Empty vessels feeling entitled

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Rugaria: 8:30am On Nov 07, 2020
ZIINI:
Men don wise up
We were forced to... They turned playing us into their favorite sport...

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by edoairways: 8:30am On Nov 07, 2020
OyinO:


That was 50 years ago. Wake up from your sleep.
It still happens till date, nothing has significantly change

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 8:30am On Nov 07, 2020
Men are the broke ones these days, OP. Don't get it twisted.

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by ecclize: 8:30am On Nov 07, 2020
virginprincess:
No it still happen till now, especially with a particular tribe in nigeria, i am not aspiring to be a full time housewife, Godforbid, if i am then why am i wasting my parent money going to school, i just said that because it still happening in this era.
with ur previous comments its obvious...
u have waste alot of money that should have been use to train ur bro

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Emperor4tune(m): 8:31am On Nov 07, 2020
virginprincess:
All this broke men creating nonsense tread self undecided, haven't you people see real men that get married then ask their wives to sit at home, that is becoming full time housewives, those men do they have two heads? are they not the one taking the whole responsiblity? mtcheeeeew.
women of ur kind hardly offer nothing than a boaring stinking pussy..dont go out and hussle like ur mate,keep waiting 4 a ready made husband who will ask u to stay at home and feed him pussy..ur type drains a man dry

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by OyinO: 8:31am On Nov 07, 2020
Kranediggy:
Bitter Truth: Main Reason Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays.

Its simply because, majority of ladies are broke & depend on their future spouse, to continue from where their parents stopped in breeding them. There's no way only the man's income will be enough to run the family. Women should be earning too, in marriages to balance the financial weight, you should be able to earn even before marriage...

I strongly believe that if women save up for marriage as men do, then couples can easily marry for love & all these few years contract-marriages will end. The most annoying part of this is that most ladies think men need just a housekeeper, cook or a nanny; but they really need a partner who should be a real woman; which is a true helper of her man, that's what woman means.

Common! the two people became one under marriage, there's nothing like the woman's money & there's also nothing like the man's; both are meant to share everything together. Many ladies love a man's material things not him nowadays, that's why marriages hardly start or last today...

This is what they do in the USA. The Woman and the Man share the responsibilities of getting married and life after marriage. You're 100% on point, and you're a great Intellectual and analyst.

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by DenreleDave(m): 8:32am On Nov 07, 2020
CHoccolaTE:


There is no benefit to marrying them oo, only men benefit from marriage, the children a woman bears answer their fathers name and add to fathers lineage,
Even companionship you spoke of na scam because the idiots will still cheat on their wives or attempt to cheat on her.

The only thing they used to do before which is provide, they cannot do it again and these days many women are the ones carrying the family.

Very useless people.

Are you okay?

Which one is useless people

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by jimmychang: 8:32am On Nov 07, 2020
CHoccolaTE:
Men these days are the ones who are liabilities in marriage, very lazy and entitled golddiggers.

You want a woman that will be breadwinner and share the bills but you cannot share cooking and cleaning house and taking care of children equally. No, you still expect women to be in charge of the household even while she is stressing herself to provide money.

Marrying men of these days has no benefit whatsoever, it's just losses after losses, fvcking liabilities.
....



This one papa scam her mama grin grin grin

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Rugaria: 8:33am On Nov 07, 2020
Kranediggy:
Bitter Truth: Main Reason Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays.

Its simply because, majority of ladies are broke & depend on their future spouse, to continue from where their parents stopped in breeding them. There's no way only the man's income will be enough to run the family. Women should be earning too, in marriages to balance the financial weight, you should be able to earn even before marriage...

I strongly believe that if women save up for marriage as men do, then couples can easily marry for love & all these few years contract-marriages will end. The most annoying part of this is that most ladies think men need just a housekeeper, cook or a nanny; but they really need a partner who should be a real woman; which is a true helper of her man, that's what woman means.

Common! the two people became one under marriage, there's nothing like the woman's money & there's also nothing like the man's; both are meant to share everything together. Many ladies love a man's material things not him nowadays, that's why marriages hardly start or last today...

Nothing to add... The entitlement mentality is toooooo suffocating.. men are dying young trying to do everything!

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by OyinO: 8:33am On Nov 07, 2020
edoairways:

It still happens till date, nothing has significantly change

Yeah, you're right. But that's for people like you still existing in dreamland of endemic daydreaming existence. Enjoy!

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by ecclize: 8:34am On Nov 07, 2020
Liposure:
I blame the traditional upbringing of the female child where the man is seen as breadwinner and provider while the woman is seen as caregiver. We need to change that mentality and start reorientating these girls

best comment of the year

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by DenreleDave(m): 8:34am On Nov 07, 2020
dominique:
There's hardly a family I know where the wife doesn't cover a considerable amount of family expenses, so I don't know where all this crying and groaning is coming from. So in addition to taking care of kids and unending house chores, there's now pressure on the Nigerian wives to provide for the family. What exactly is the usefulness of the Nigerian husband in the 21st century? If only (working class) women know the type of favour they're doing this men in getting married to them, they won't be so desperate for marriage.

Lies.. All what u r saying na lies upon lies.

We know

You know

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Pasiuba: 8:34am On Nov 07, 2020
There is big problem.only few sane girls are available sorry to say this

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Elsueno: 8:35am On Nov 07, 2020
I really don't mind, if she like work, if she no like, make her no work. But she must not get over weight after marriage woh, we shall have a special gym for house.

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by simeko(m): 8:35am On Nov 07, 2020
virginprincess:
I said what i said because you guys are taking it like it a must that women must part of the family responsibility, it not suppose to be a must but choice, a woman money is not suppose to be shared.

madam its a most for a woman to contribute to the family one way or the other, i dont blame your reasoning. our African culture placed a woman as complete house wife, married for just sex and to gave birth. so if u still there the line, good for u. but sad for u, world done change

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by denjjy(m): 8:35am On Nov 07, 2020
Nigeria is not just a country where a youth would think the next step to take is to lead a lady to the alter. if you must settle down as a youth in this country, you need to be financially and materially bouyant. I usually gets dejected anytime I think about been single at my age, but what will I do, I can't kill myself na. I've been deserted twice by ladies who I promised marraige but couldn't wait any longer because of the delay. Graduated since 2016 and still living in my parent's house, recieves #15000 monthly from a private firm, tell me; considering the hyper inflation in our country today and the bizarre cost of living, can #15000 cater for a family for a month? absolutely no. I know we are in this messful country together, let's hope 9ja go better one day

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Dearlord(m): 8:36am On Nov 07, 2020
We men are the cause of what is happening in our today's world.
We value pussy more than intellectual proportion.

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Funkyswagzz(m): 8:37am On Nov 07, 2020
virginprincess:
Zini you better respect yourself, don't let me insult you this night.

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Funkyswagzz(m): 8:38am On Nov 07, 2020
virginprincess:
Zini you better respect yourself, don't let me insult you this night.

U don insult everybody here not only ziini

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by lightangel65i(m): 8:38am On Nov 07, 2020
[b]
obowunmi:
[b]Actually its the reverse. Most men are poor, unemployed and very BROKE.

Therefore, very insecure.


The problem we have in this country is, we are poor, so most men are not rich, the women are also poor and are lazy to work for money so they go and leach off a rich man, hence they hate poor or stingy men. In the US where standard of living is high both husband and wife takes care of the family needs finicially, the problem we have in nigerian countries is the women are too lazy, men are working hard to become rich why women fulfilling their only destiny become sex tooled money leeches.
The women who obviously lack sense would look at this and say are they not rich men who provide solely for the family while having full housewives, well go and marry the rich men since your bigotry tells you they make up 90% of men, even the rich guys won't look at low budget oloshos that we have in Nigeria. Most rich guys nowadays marry rich or working women, thats what i will do i can never marry a broke olosho.
Ladies stop being lazy and just go and work, what your parents told you that men provide while women are for breeding are wrong, if you decide to keep being a bigot, shiloh 2021- forever is still available for you and you won't even end up with average men.

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by OyinO: 8:39am On Nov 07, 2020
virginprincess:
All this broke men creating nonsense tread self undecided, haven't you people see real men that get married then ask their wives to sit at home, that is becoming full time housewives, those men do they have two heads? are they not the one taking the whole responsiblity? mtcheeeeew.

Haven't you seen real women who stand by their man to support him in every aspect of marital home economics? How many men have the capacity to do what you're talking about, and how many ladies want to get married? Nonsense an ingredient.

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Mutemenot(m): 8:39am On Nov 07, 2020
cheesy Marry an Igbo woman, you won't regret it... she's money oriented and would do all possible to fetch money for you.. Get her any biz from sratch, she ll grow it wella.

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by phorget(m): 8:40am On Nov 07, 2020
virginprincess:
All this broke men creating nonsense tread self undecided, haven't you people see real men that get married then ask their wives to sit at home, that is becoming full time housewives, those men do they have two heads? are they not the one taking the whole responsiblity? mtcheeeeew.


How about real women getting their ass up to help support and build their home?
Just keep waiting for the man that will ask you to become a full house wife o.

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by OyinO: 8:41am On Nov 07, 2020
lightangel65i:
[b]

[/B]The problem we have in this country is, we are poor, so most men are not rich, the women are also poor and are lazy to work for money so they go and leach off a rich man, hence they hate poor or stingy men. In the US where standard of living is high both husband and wife takes care of the family needs finicially, the problem we have in nigerian countries is the women are too lazy, men are working hard to become rich why women fulfilling their only destiny become sex tooled money leeches.
The women who obviously lack sense would look at this and say are they not rich men who provide solely for the family while having full housewives, well go and marry the rich men since your bigotry tells you they make up 90% of men, even the rich guys won't look at low budget oloshos that we have in Nigeria. Most rich guys nowadays marry rich or working women, thats what i will do i can never marry a broke olosho.
Ladies stop being lazy and just go and work, what your parents told you that men provide while women are for breeding are wrong, if you decide to keep being a bigot, shiloh 2021- forever is still available for you and you won't even end up with average men.
[/b]

Gbam! Gbamsky!!! Gbagbosky!!! 100% on point.

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by monex(m): 8:41am On Nov 07, 2020
CHoccolaTE:
Men these days are the ones who are liabilities in marriage, very lazy and entitled golddiggers.

You want a woman that will be breadwinner and share the bills but you cannot share cooking and cleaning house and taking care of children equally. No, you still expect women to be in charge of the household even while she is stressing herself to provide money.

Marrying men of these days has no benefit whatsoever, it's just losses after losses, fvcking liabilities.

Indeed men these days are liabilities in marriage. I would advise you to stay single and not get married

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 8:41am On Nov 07, 2020
virginprincess:
All this broke men creating nonsense tread self undecided, haven't you people see real men that get married then ask their wives to sit at home, that is becoming full time housewives, those men do they have two heads? are they not the one taking the whole responsiblity? mtcheeeeew.
I'm not trying to be critical of you ,princess, but on a more serious note ,I would deeply appreciate if you could take out few more seconds to think through some of your submissions on some threads in nairaland.

Maybe you're just having fun and nothing serious, nne, that's probably the only tangible deductions I could make out from most of your posts that justifies it resonating level of reasoning.

Good morning.

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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Oharina(m): 8:41am On Nov 07, 2020
virginprincess:
I said what i said because you guys are taking it like it a must that women must part of the family responsibility, it not suppose to be a must but choice, a woman money is not suppose to be shared.
Tufiaaa
Oluwa please let these type of bad energies stay far from me, and let a good energy locate me or i locate her, so i pray, Amun ra!
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by cryptotech: 8:41am On Nov 07, 2020
virginprincess:
I said what i said because you guys are taking it like it a must that women must part of the family responsibility, it not suppose to be a must but choice, a woman money is not suppose to be shared.

you are a fool, by the time you get to 40, u will know things have changed, and their is need for women to be responsible...

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