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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by cooooooks(m): 2:55pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
Some men want that. Some women who want that will meet a man who wants that and they could go on to lead a nice life. If the love is true, even if the man goes down financially, the woman will usually become extremely resourceful. Plus in some climes, it is cheaper for the lower earner to provide child care than both working but 40%+ of their income goes to child care. WeRblessed: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by elonize(m): 3:03pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
WeRblessed:my dear,I told my mum dat I won't marry a liability, if she no get work she go get handwork. My mum just say who tell u say na by dat 1,sm fit get handwork n nor still contribute to d family. My eyes cm dey shine.last last,I resigned to leaving it in God's hands 3 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 3:06pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess: Weytin Musa no go see for gate |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 3:21pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
Bobxin:Amen |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 3:26pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
400billionman: 1 Like
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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by emmanuelpopson(m): 3:29pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
Wow.. I saw this thread on the day it was Posted but did not know it will be a hot debate for real.. I agreed with the Op 1000%..the ladies of today are leaches and they know how to prey on men.. The other day, I jus believe that marriages are the women's only accomplishments nowadays. And its jus like they had won a lottery. The men who doesn't understand that the society had women as the major contender for marriage hadn't seen anything. Nigerian men shd be wise, understand the game at play and leave any lady that is ALL AFTER THEIR MONEY.. The end result of all marriages now is kids abi.. But the ladies show affection to thier kids afterwards and leave the men to thier fate.. That is what happens afterwards.. We can't dig this holes till its elastic limit. Just do the one u can and move on 2 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 3:30pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
bjprodint:Awww. You're a strong woman. 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by elonize(m): 3:31pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
denjjy:don't b dejected..nobi ur fault, mehn I don even analyze am.in my own case,it won't b possible but 1tin is for sure,I don start another way,which I believe say I fit dey use am see light.try Google n find out how u fit hammer with cryto currencies gather d money, try osusu,u fit use am do forex...reason in dis line...n pray to God o 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 3:31pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
cooooooks:Hi handsome |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 3:33pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
Edge1:Quote where I specifically wrote "all". I refuse to exchange words with a child on this forum. |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 3:48pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
zeusdgrt: Mumu, this one has changed from men dying before their time to Shiloh. Nairaland and trashy men. You think it’s everyone that’s broke and single like you. Shioor 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Tunde835(m): 3:48pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
Chii59:So wat about fathers that take care of the children and family from d beginning to the university level |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by cooooooks(m): 3:51pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Gerrard59(m): 3:52pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
JoeEeL: Someone has said the main reason after 17 pages. Everything boils down to the economy. Economic growth of max. 3% in a country where the population growth exceeds 4% and her main revenue earner has its price decline, what else do you expect? In the future, a well to do young man will have lots of ladies to himself. Wonderful! 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by FahBuLous: 3:55pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
nenyewrites:Mtcheeew... Fool... |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 3:59pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
humilitypays: Some of the things you wrote are correct, like women not allowing money to circulate. But I’m telling you, if vagina wasn’t as free as it is today, men will do everything to get it, and that includes getting a sustaining job or business. 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by angelfallz(m): 4:01pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
Kranediggy: I seriously doubt this. 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by angelfallz(m): 4:05pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess: Honestly eh the reasons the OP gave are flimsy. If you as a man can't take of your wife you are not ready(financially) for marriage. https://theeagleonline.com.ng/men-who-rely-on-their-wives-money-hardly-progress-reno-omokri/ |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by j3r3myk3n(m): 4:06pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
This is insanely deep! |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 4:09pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
cooooooks:As handsome as the person who wrote them. |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by humilitypays(m): 4:14pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
nenyewrites:are you telling me that you don't see how young men struggle to make money to the extent some go to babalawos for charm to make money in business and even to get promotions and contracts In fact, guys of today are more desperate to make money more than men of the past. Do you know my father used to pity me at a point in the past, watching how his smart, intelligent, brainy, hardworking son was struggling doing everything on earth to become a man, he said during their time things were not as difficult as it is today. They had opportunity to study on scholarship abroad. Getting scholarship to study abroad was very easy he said...getting married was stress free, you don't need much he said. There were jobs for able bodied and qualified young men then. If you put in little effort you achieve a lot. To join the army was easy, but today even as our army has become a suicide mission, many young men are struggling to join but cannot join all because they don't have top army officers to endorse them. Life has become harder and more difficult for young men today than before. It is the economy hardship that's making most young men not to marry early today not because of free sex. Do you think men marry because of sex Sex is one of the least reasons men marry. Nigeria men marry mostly to have an heir and to bear children. Another reason is to have a homekeeper to keep their home organised and homely for them when they return from daily stress. Not because of sex. If it is for sex, my sister I can promise you, majority of men won't marry at all. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by virginprincess(f): 4:15pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
angelfallz:Pls can i ask you a question? |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by cooooooks(m): 4:19pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 4:20pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
humilitypays: Hmmm... you made sense. But at bolded, is this not why there are babymamas everywhere? Same reason why men are saying there’s no point getting married. What if women closed their legs and they don’t get any heir until they are ready to wife her? |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by angelfallz(m): 4:21pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess: sure go ahead |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by cooooooks(m): 4:21pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
Marriage is a partnership. It is not about making money or having money. It is a situation where 2 people come together and POOL their resources, efforts, thinking, mentalities for the rest of their lives (potentially). angelfallz: |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by humilitypays(m): 4:22pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
Gerrard59:This is what I have been telling them and nobody want to agree. The major reason Nigerian guys marry late is lack of money resulting from bad economy of Nigeria. Many single guys are unemployed, underemployed and earning peanuts, how can they desire to get married with such miserable condition Guys of our time have woken up, nobody except some careless ones want to bring an innocent child into this world without financial preparation to cater for the child. And the ladies that have good job aren't helping the situation as they refuse to marry the struggling young men and team up with them to build a healthy home, all the ladies both the rich, the middle class, the broke and the wretched want a ready made guy with all the good things of life, which is why successful young men have too many girlfriends and fiancees to themselves today 3 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Tonyspecial(m): 4:22pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
CHoccolaTE:u ended up saying nothing, what are the heaven and earth things? |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by cooooooks(m): 4:23pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
Chii59 said the same thing on the first page. I personally know people who are getting married even if they are not making 120,000 a month together. Women who marry and give birth are looking for, and finding, work. Go to any school now and you will see a long list of application letters by women, single and married, with or without children. Gerrard59: 2 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by angelfallz(m): 4:25pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
cooooooks: Well that is the way you see marriage which is fine. That is why i have always advocated that men should go after women that have the same views about marriage as they have. I see marriage differently. I have talked about this many times and i am not going to talk about it right now. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by humilitypays(m): 4:26pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
nenyewrites:You are talking about very few insignificant number of Nigerian men; the few successful men who can afford to have a babymama I am talking about majority. The number 1 reason majority of Nigerian men marry late is lack of money resulting from bad Nigerian economy as a result of years of foolish governance by old corrupt fools who have looted away the future of Nigeria. Nigeria need a revolution that will shock the world. A revolution that will lead to a nationwide attack on all past and present political office holders. That is the only way to put Nigeria on track and put fear in the hearts of next generation leaders and politicians to lead well |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by cooooooks(m): 4:26pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
MAdness full ground. If he did not marry after 9 years, what new excuse is he looking for? Also, this is not a Nigerian problem alone. This is also an issue in other countries. However, most of these countries enforce marriage laws on couples of 1-year plus or with children. bjprodint: 1 Like |
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