Guy don't mind those comments it shows the level of illiteracy in Nigeria as we speak, as far as you didn't harm her or rape her you have no cause for alarm.
You have done your part as good person, I blame all these on the foundation this country called Nigeria was built, most of the people commenting here are local champions, in West Africa Nigerians are the worst set of people in terms of cooperation. I meet so many Nationals both west, central, east Africa they're very cooperative but most Nigerians wahala.

There's a neighborhood i lived there's this Ghanaian lady that's a core deeper life member, a Ghanaian male (married but wife is far from home). with a car rented an apartment in the neighborhood and decided to give her a lift the first time, after which they became friends and spoke to each other regularly without anything attached.
anytime he's out with his car and this girl needs a lift even to the market he does it freely until he left, the neighborhood he had no intimacy with her and he gave her countless lift, just as you described and she did not act that way.
The lesson is that
1. Nigeria does not have a central language which people can communicate and create good friendships or no friendship without any attachments to it.
2. The country isn't safe so everyone is a suspect.
3. Our morals and value system has decay no one regard each other as a people.
See how they're accusing someone they don't know.

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iamJ:

smartxyz:
Hello guys,

Please have you ever been asked "what do you want from me?" by a lady that you just wanted to help with no strings attached?

I was driving home yesterday after work and a lady (average looking) flagged me to stop and i decided to stop and gave her a lift. I asked her where she was going and she mentioned a bustop before mine and i said lucky you... We had a lil chat as i drove her and she seemed really fun, We got to her bustop and i offered to be taking her to work in the morning since she stays close to my place. Then suddenly her face changed and she asked the annoying question "Oga what do you want from me?".. at that point i was dumbfounded and sad at same time. But i had to quickly smile and said "nothing" then i drove off.

For me i find it sad, a lot of people are not used to good people doing good things without wanting anything in return.

How do you feel and react when asked that question?

Please share yours

say the truth. What did you really want from her?
Are you married?
Are you in a serious relationship?
How do you view premarital sex?? Like... Do you forbid and abhor it

[quote author=DaddyRochie1642 post=95925760]Oga tell us the truth, ... That your so called Innocent Offer you made to that woman, If it were your Fellow Man, would you have made such an Offer to him

Correct man... Abeg ask am

smartxyz:
Hello guys,

Please have you ever been asked "what do you want from me?" by a lady that you just wanted to help with no strings attached?

I was driving home yesterday after work and a lady (average looking) flagged me to stop and i decided to stop and gave her a lift. I asked her where she was going and she mentioned a bustop before mine and i said lucky you... We had a lil chat as i drove her and she seemed really fun, We got to her bustop and i offered to be taking her to work in the morning since she stays close to my place. Then suddenly her face changed and she asked the annoying question "Oga what do you want from me?".. at that point i was dumbfounded and sad at same time. But i had to quickly smile and said "nothing" then i drove off.

For me i find it sad, a lot of people are not used to good people doing good things without wanting anything in return.

How do you feel and react when asked that question?

Please share yours

The mindset of every lady is men want sex or Smtn from them. It’s so sad bt I don’t blame them cos there many men who think exactly like that 100% of the time.

So don’t blame her

smartxyz:
Hello guys,

Please have you ever been asked "what do you want from me?" by a lady that you just wanted to help with no strings attached?

I was driving home yesterday after work and a lady (average looking) flagged me to stop and i decided to stop and gave her a lift. I asked her where she was going and she mentioned a bustop before mine and i said lucky you... We had a lil chat as i drove her and she seemed really fun, We got to her bustop and i offered to be taking her to work in the morning since she stays close to my place. Then suddenly her face changed and she asked the annoying question "Oga what do you want from me?".. at that point i was dumbfounded and sad at same time. But i had to quickly smile and said "nothing" then i drove off.

For me i find it sad, a lot of people are not used to good people doing good things without wanting anything in return.

How do you feel and react when asked that question?

Please share yours

Why did you get offended if you didn’t have anything in mind? And why did you have to describe her as average looking? What does her look even have to do with the story other than you trying to convince yourself that she’s not attractive to you? If there’s one thing I’ve leabrt it’s that humans have more than one mind. Some are not even aware of the mind that makes decisions for them, they think they’re in control of how they feel and act. Lol puny humans

About the same thing happened to me today.. I was headed to Central business area in Abuja today,I saw a lady that looked familiar, I was looking at her and she was looking at me(she had put on little weight) suddenly I realised she used to be a receptionist at my daughters school, we chatted briefly and I realised she was going same direction as mine. While in the car we got talking and she said she had to quit working in the school for another Job as a marketer with one of the banks but that it wasn't what she expected. I really felt for her as she narrated what she was going through, my mind kept going back and forth as I thought of how to assist. Before she dropped I asked her for her number as my wife's place of work usually ask her for recommendations when there are vacancies. My thought was I would recommend her.
Aunty started acting funny when I asked for number,next thing I heard was Sir how is your wife doing,how is your daughter all because of number o.

if na guy would u have volunteered to be carrying him?

Mr. Simpson

smartxyz:
Hello guys,

Please have you ever been asked "what do you want from me?" by a lady that you just wanted to help with no strings attached?

I was driving home yesterday after work and a lady (average looking) flagged me to stop and i decided to stop and gave her a lift. I asked her where she was going and she mentioned a bustop before mine and i said lucky you... We had a lil chat as i drove her and she seemed really fun, We got to her bustop and i offered to be taking her to work in the morning since she stays close to my place. Then suddenly her face changed and she asked the annoying question "Oga what do you want from me?".. at that point i was dumbfounded and sad at same time. But i had to quickly smile and said "nothing" then i drove off.

For me i find it sad, a lot of people are not used to good people doing good things without wanting anything in return.

How do you feel and react when asked that question?

Please share yours

Shup up there... U want to see d colour of her pant ni joor Ole

Oluwaseun2020:
Man..even the bible talk about not trusting a man who wants to help a woman... alot of guys will gladly need and prayerfully accept that in your area if you really want to help.

help me with the passage of the Bible abeg

Shut up there... U want to see d colour of her pant ni joor Ole

blinking001:
I don't help women.

Lol

lefulefu:
as if they dont use women to hijack cars

I am more cautious with the women sef.

Please kindly raise your hand if you believe the lady ask our emergency Uber driver the right question.

2dice01:
Dude was probably feeling fly
Auntie just gave him that question
He can't/won't have an Answer

Lol... She shouldn't have responded that way sha.

But who flags down a stranger's car for lift? These ladies no dey fear?

jaxxy:



The mindset of every lady is men want sex or Smtn from them. It’s so sad bt I don’t blame them cos there many men who think exactly like that 100% of the time.

So don’t blame her

It is not so, only in Nigeria.
When people in Nigeria are using people for rituals, mining human skulls, etc she would be afraid and curious.

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga tell us the truth, ... That your so called Innocent Offer you made to that woman, If it were your Fellow Man, would you have made such an Offer to him

you just tolded him they truths, I thanking you for that

Ayo2004:
Op wan chop kpekus dey disguise...him come dey use Uber driver front
Radarada

smartxyz:
Hello guys,

Please have you ever been asked "what do you want from me?" by a lady that you just wanted to help with no strings attached?

I was driving home yesterday after work and a lady (average looking) flagged me to stop and i decided to stop and gave her a lift. I asked her where she was going and she mentioned a bustop before mine and i said lucky you... We had a lil chat as i drove her and she seemed really fun, We got to her bustop and i offered to be taking her to work in the morning since she stays close to my place. Then suddenly her face changed and she asked the annoying question "Oga what do you want from me?".. at that point i was dumbfounded and sad at same time. But i had to quickly smile and said "nothing" then i drove off.

For me i find it sad, a lot of people are not used to good people doing good things without wanting anything in return.

How do you feel and react when asked that question?

Please share yours

I think she just asked jokingly but you got offended because she misconstrued your kindness, anyways give her a chance. I stopped for a couple with two kids some years ago but was turned down, I guessed they are just being careful so I consoled myself.

U want to be taking her to work


Hahahaha....ur type is the problem we have nowadays

Woman wrapper.

Dont blame her ooo, it’s a tough world out there

That girl thinks you want to fvck her. She might have been fvcked that way before.

SmellySperm:
If na guyman like u dey beg for help u go zoom zoom zoom,now u wan turn Uber driver for kpekus

Simping is a disorder

Irony of life. When you're good, people complain, when you're bad, they still complain. Suit God and yourself and careless about what anyone think. That is the only road to happiness and fulfilment. "Kosogbon to le da, kosi iwa to le wu, koso na to legba to lefi taye lorun o". No matter the level of your goodness, people will still prosecute you. Suit yourself, life is short. Even Jesus, despite his goodness was nailed to the cross. The moment you allow what people say to affect your progress, is the beginning of your failure. Assuming without conceding that the guy even intends to use style to sualele the girl, she is an adult fit and sane to make her decision herself, polite declination would have been okay. That is how to know a mature and serious lady.

Burgerlomo:
Please kindly raise your hand if you believe the lady ask our emergency Uber driver the right question.

don't minding the clown, they lady is smarterer than himself, she knows what he will wanted at the end, smartly lady

smartxyz:

1.) I was driving home yesterday after work and a lady (average looking) flagged me to stop

2.) we had a lil chat as i drove her

3.) And she seemed really fun We got to her bustop

4.) And i offered to be taking her to work in the morning since she stays close to my place.

Young man have you now seen why foolishness is very close to you.You began all that busy body with a total stranger claiming to be a good samaritan & when she noticed some signal from your hotsport & ask you a simple question "WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM ME" then you began trembling seeking for councellors & advicers,may be you think our young girls are smilling these days anymore.pay a visit to the husband market and see how scanty & desparate women wish they could have one for themselves.what do you want from me is a reverse of bros i for like make we play together..try and get sense next time,these girls are too shy sometimes they apply boi-boi skills using an indirect statement

Starzo:

help me with the passage of the Bible abeg

Proverbs 30:18-19 New International Version (NIV)
“There are three things that are too amazing for me, four that I do not understand: the way of an eagle in the sky, the way of a snake on a rock, the way of a ship on the high seas, and the way of a man with a young woman.
*always suspicious*