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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Nogym(m): 10:56pm On Nov 13, 2020
If it a man u won't even stop to give him a lift at all.

so she's asking for your price in return of the help u offer her.
Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by jaszplus12(m): 10:57pm On Nov 13, 2020
Bros, I learned my lesson 30 years ago! Each morning I have to drop my mom at work and return home with the car. From wuse to garki. On my way along area 10 I often see a girl who's a student at wuse secondary School but I never thought of giving her a ride even though I pass her school before getting home.
One particular day I passed...then stopped. She ran to meet up. Ok... I'll drop you at school...no conversation o...as we approached I asked if she prefers to alight at first or second side of the school... guess what? She told me to take her wherever I wanted!!! Really Well...I took her driving round the city. And we struck a great friendship. Purely plutonic or so I thought... until the day she tried to kiss me. When I refused saying we were just friends she said nothing.
So, good boy me went later to take her home. She dropped a note in the car and said I should read it later. I did. Guess what? She berated me for trying to seduce her by driving her around and being "nice"!!!
I couldn't comprehend all of that!
Well....I never saw or spoke to her again til date...but that note is still with me....30 years on....
You never know with women!
Me? I don't offer lifts even when I know you unless you. They think all too different

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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Aarenasbaba(m): 10:57pm On Nov 13, 2020
She wanted to reciprocate the good gesture
Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by slimjohn2k5: 10:57pm On Nov 13, 2020
Have u stopped 4 a guy before?
Have you offered to be taking a man to work?
She is not out of line bro
Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by IJEYdiamond(f): 10:58pm On Nov 13, 2020
Nigerians dont believe that they are people that can help without ugly motives... well experience is the other of the day...

I have met... and bro keep on the good work

Though they are still some devils in human form... nothing goes for nothing if they dash you money accidentally they must look for a way to collect it in kind... Cowardly devils...!!

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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Taylordedon(m): 10:58pm On Nov 13, 2020
smartxyz:
Hello guys,

Please have you ever been asked "what do you want from me?" by a lady that you just wanted to help with no strings attached?

I was driving home yesterday after work and a lady (average looking) flagged me to stop and i decided to stop and gave her a lift. I asked her where she was going and she mentioned a bustop before mine and i said lucky you... We had a lil chat as i drove her and she seemed really fun, We got to her bustop and i offered to be taking her to work in the morning since she stays close to my place. Then suddenly her face changed and she asked the annoying question "Oga what do you want from me?".. at that point i was dumbfounded and sad at same time. But i had to quickly smile and said "nothing" then i drove off.

For me i find it sad, a lot of people are not used to good people doing good things without wanting anything in return.

How do you feel and react when asked that question?

Please share yours

Thunder fire you and your kind gesture

Woman rappa��
Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by SpartanKing: 10:59pm On Nov 13, 2020
smartxyz:
Hello guys,

Please have you ever been asked "what do you want from me?" by a lady that you just wanted to help with no strings attached?

I was driving home yesterday after work and a lady (average looking) flagged me to stop and i decided to stop and gave her a lift. I asked her where she was going and she mentioned a bustop before mine and i said lucky you... We had a lil chat as i drove her and she seemed really fun, We got to her bustop and i offered to be taking her to work in the morning since she stays close to my place. Then suddenly her face changed and she asked the annoying question "Oga what do you want from me?".. at that point i was dumbfounded and sad at same time. But i had to quickly smile and said "nothing" then i drove off.


For me i find it sad, a lot of people are not used to good people doing good things without wanting anything in return.

How do you feel and react when asked that question?

Please share yours
You're not truthful!
Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Jennyoral: 10:59pm On Nov 13, 2020
Obichukwuu:
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wetin women do yougrin
Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Nobody: 11:00pm On Nov 13, 2020
smartxyz:
Hello guys,

Please have you ever been asked "what do you want from me?" by a lady that you just wanted to help with no strings attached?

I was driving home yesterday after work and a lady (average looking) flagged me to stop and i decided to stop and gave her a lift. I asked her where she was going and she mentioned a bustop before mine and i said lucky you... We had a lil chat as i drove her and she seemed really fun, We got to her bustop and i offered to be taking her to work in the morning since she stays close to my place. Then suddenly her face changed and she asked the annoying question "Oga what do you want from me?".. at that point i was dumbfounded and sad at same time. But i had to quickly smile and said "nothing" then i drove off.

For me i find it sad, a lot of people are not used to good people doing good things without wanting anything in return.

How do you feel and react when asked that question?

Please share yours
Serves you right. Simp

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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by mrkings84(m): 11:00pm On Nov 13, 2020
Story u decided to come tell us for free and for fun yet u are still lying. Abi Dem dorce you to talk am?

How do u just meet someone for the very first time, and just gave her a lift, just before u drop her she is asking u what you want from her.....


Haba.... Bro I can't believe this your story until I hear her own version.

Oya, you asked for her contact which I believe she gave u, give it to me let me hear her own side of the story!!
Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Kondomatic(m): 11:01pm On Nov 13, 2020
pocohantas:


I don’t blame them though, there are not many altruistic people. So, people tend to misjudge such actions. Even guys will think you are desperate or trying to lure them into marriage when you are nice to them.

I wouldn’t ask that question, but I will most likely reject the offer. Not because I don’t trust his intentions, but because my partner may not trust it. Imagine one guy carrying your babe to work everyday. You call on her way back home and as she pick, na thick bass you hear for background laughing. She will na say “It is Kondo, he is taking me home”. Ahnahnnnn! Kondo the nice guy!
That offer is somehow even for a guy. You met someone just once and you're already offering her free daily ride, who you? Jesus?

Her question might not be right but she meant well too. E better make them talk am as e be instead of assuming like my friend did.




I am actually a nice guy grin

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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Minjim: 11:03pm On Nov 13, 2020
smartxyz:
If am cool with him just like the way i was cool chatting with the lady...Why not?? grin

How would you ever know?
Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Flokywaya(m): 11:03pm On Nov 13, 2020
Please who can track phone number some one just strip my boss



This is the number09038478482
100k for the person who can get him
Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by thegroomspa(m): 11:03pm On Nov 13, 2020
This story no add up, how can someone flag you requesting you give her a lift, and at the same time ask you what you want from her...I guess you stopped without she flagging you and in such case you want something...

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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by magicminister: 11:04pm On Nov 13, 2020
Coming From a woman, I think it’s a fair question don’t forget we live in a society where women are raped and murder everyday and people even blame the victims for being “slay queens” or for “jumping from one car to the other”. We’ve done a terrible job protecting our Nigerian women and that’s why I think it’s okay for everyone of them to be skeptical!

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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Nobody: 11:05pm On Nov 13, 2020
lefulefu:
exactly grin
this is the thread i was telling u about cheesy
tell me which man would have the time every rush hour in the morning be giving a lady lift as if he is an UBER driver if not a dude with too much time on his hand grin
LOLs. OP was too hasty and I'll admit that she too was hasty to conclude he wanted something in return for the free rides, but I can't blame her at all based on the context. She asked a legit question and the fact that she didn't jump at the every-morning-ride offer means she's a perceptive girl b/c she knows everything in life comes at a price. Any sensible person would wonder why a stranger would offer to be giving them free rides to work every morning. If OP wanted to be her friend, he should've told her thus, then depending on how the friendship proceeds or if there's one, he can suggest dropping her off every morning.

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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by imagrg(m): 11:07pm On Nov 13, 2020
Your kindness will not kill you.
But next time, mind your business except maybe you want to see how she looks like without her clothes on.
Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by 4gunners(m): 11:08pm On Nov 13, 2020
CoderX:


Anything you cannot do for a fellow man in need and you do for a woman is definitely fishy and she reacted appropriately.

Men rarely get help cos they're considered strong and therefore subjected to harshness. This is why I personally put men first cos I know how it feels as a man.
Thanks for this. I think once before giving a guy money, but for the female folks, I think trice. I always ask myself, am I not been used?
Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by tosinhtml: 11:10pm On Nov 13, 2020
DaddyRochie1642:
Oga tell us the truth, ... That your so called Innocent Offer you made to that woman, If it were your Fellow Man, would you have made such an Offer to him grin grin

No mind am, na e-diot him be a Pocohantas would say
Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Nobody: 11:11pm On Nov 13, 2020
smartxyz:
Hello guys,

Please have you ever been asked "what do you want from me?" by a lady that you just wanted to help with no strings attached?

I was driving home yesterday after work and a lady (average looking) flagged me to stop and i decided to stop and gave her a lift. I asked her where she was going and she mentioned a bustop before mine and i said lucky you... We had a lil chat as i drove her and she seemed really fun, We got to her bustop and i offered to be taking her to work in the morning since she stays close to my place. Then suddenly her face changed and she asked the annoying question "Oga what do you want from me?".. at that point i was dumbfounded and sad at same time. But i had to quickly smile and said "nothing" then i drove off.

For me i find it sad, a lot of people are not used to good people doing good things without wanting anything in return.

How do you feel and react when asked that question?

Please share yours

Lol I like this though, I mean pretending like you don't know exactly what's going on In this fvcked up nation. Well, I would like to welcome you to the most messed up mentally peoples nation.......

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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by mechanics(m): 11:12pm On Nov 13, 2020
Lolz, next time, go your way, help people you know not strangers, some of them might be funny.

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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Ghostmode2two(m): 11:12pm On Nov 13, 2020
smartxyz:
Hello guys,

Please have you ever been asked "what do you want from me?" by a lady that you just wanted to help with no strings attached?

I was driving home yesterday after work and a lady (average looking) flagged me to stop and i decided to stop and gave her a lift. I asked her where she was going and she mentioned a bustop before mine and i said lucky you... We had a lil chat as i drove her and she seemed really fun, We got to her bustop and i offered to be taking her to work in the morning since she stays close to my place. Then suddenly her face changed and she asked the annoying question "Oga what do you want from me?".. at that point i was dumbfounded and sad at same time. But i had to quickly smile and said "nothing" then i drove off.

For me i find it sad, a lot of people are not used to good people doing good things without wanting anything in return.

How do you feel and react when asked that question?

Please share yours
I am 100% sure that you will never offer to give a guy ride to his working place and back. Your offer seems a Greek gift and the lady was smart enough to decode your seemly too good to be true offer

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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Nmezor(f): 11:12pm On Nov 13, 2020
Hmmm, the babe even get mind to even flag him down
Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Gabbriell: 11:12pm On Nov 13, 2020
Those asking why OK no carry yellow guys never begin drive car.

e get some guys way u go mistakenly go carry for car... u no go get peace of mind till you reach him bus stop. Even some ladies too...Better shine your eyes
Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Yankee101: 11:12pm On Nov 13, 2020
Humanoid01:
Na so dawan take miss opportunity so o, but you can't really blame her. Well meaning people are difficult to find these days, especially considering the fact that you're a stranger to her. What I don't understand is why someone would flag down a complete stranger to take a ride, considering the dangerous times we live in.

You never live for place like Lagos b4.

You miss staff bus (if you have one), taxi pass your one week salary, the next RBT is not due for 30 more min and you be last for queue, buses don full cos na rush hour. And you must be in the office before 8am.
Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by jaxxy(m): 11:13pm On Nov 13, 2020
onyechez:

It is not so, only in Nigeria.
When people in Nigeria are using people for rituals, mining human skulls, etc she would be afraid and curious.


She already entered his car and got home safely so what rituals is she thinking now?? If that was the case she shud never have entered his car in the 1st place

The also leave same area so what’s the fuss about??

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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Minjim: 11:14pm On Nov 13, 2020
Kondomatic:
At least she was kind enough to ask you what you want.


In my own case, the lady told her friend that she knew what I want but I am not man enough to ask.
Lemme add this

Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by shamsin6300(m): 11:14pm On Nov 13, 2020
[quote author=LEKKITOLLGATE post=96013054]When will guys ever learn?

I like your quote, the one on your profile.
Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Emperor4tune(m): 11:15pm On Nov 13, 2020
smartxyz:
If am cool with him just like the way i was cool chatting with the lady...Why not?? grin
i spot this guy as a pussy ass nigga..why wont you be cool when pussy is involve..

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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Unrated900(m): 11:15pm On Nov 13, 2020
DaddyRochie1642:
Oga tell us the truth, ... That your so called Innocent Offer you made to that woman, If it were your Fellow Man, would you have made such an Offer to him grin grin



He can never offer such to his mail counter-part.

Anything she want from you na una sabiii

Even if na sniper she want na una sabiii


More-so the girl na run girl so she want to know if you are a customer or a toaster
Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by oshe11: 11:17pm On Nov 13, 2020
smartxyz:
Hello guys,

Please have you ever been asked "what do you want from me?" by a lady that you just wanted to help with no strings attached?

I was driving home yesterday after work and a lady (average looking) flagged me to stop and i decided to stop and gave her a lift. I asked her where she was going and she mentioned a bustop before mine and i said lucky you... We had a lil chat as i drove her and she seemed really fun, We got to her bustop and i offered to be taking her to work in the morning since she stays close to my place. Then suddenly her face changed and she asked the annoying question "Oga what do you want from me?".. at that point i was dumbfounded and sad at same time. But i had to quickly smile and said "nothing" then i drove off.

For me i find it sad, a lot of people are not used to good people doing good things without wanting anything in return.

How do you feel and react when asked that question?

Please share yours
If na Guy would You offer to do same?

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