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Truvel:
Dating Her Is Like Dating D Daughter Of A Native Doctor. U Know What Dat Means?

SO CORRECT

Dis kin churches self am sure If you marry her you will be forced to join the Brotherhood too



So think twice

RealSolution001:
Who has dated one before? Give me full gist. I'm talking about first hand experience.

Do nOt listen to the rumors.. I dated one when i was in Lagos.. They are just like every normal Nigerian girl out there

Is she Igbo?

OGA PLS KILL THAT IDEA ASAP FOR YOUR OWN GOOD

emkz:
There is nothing wrong in dating her. Let me share a story with you that totally changed my worldview about them.

We had a member who used to live in our house. He didn't eat meat. And when food is shared to him during Christmas, he'd reject the stew (principles). Once in a while, he used to host his church members and they used to sing and dance and eat. We used to stay away scared of ten, but they always seemed happy. He always had family members around living with him, and even trained an outsider who was rejected by his extended family. He trained another cousin of his. As kids, he always allowed us to come to his apartment to watch movies and would leave us there when he was going out. We knew where he kept his key incase someone came and needed a place to sleep.

Something happened and he started losing weight. There was rumour that he had HIV because he had a weakness for women. He spent sometime in the hospital until the hospital could not do anything for him again. He returned home emaciated and unable to care for himself. Everyone, including his family, abandoned him. His girlfriend whose siblings he catered for abandoned him. No one wanted to go near him, including those who he had helped. My younger sister was very angry when the people he had helped were no where to be found, and said she'd chase any family member that comes to his house to eat once he gets well. She was barely 12 when she said this.

Then his church stepped in. Everyday, different members would come to look after him and clean him, bathe him, cook for him and spend time with him. They later took him to the church. Our neighbours visited him there and narrated to us how much he was cared for. Parents did not prevent their children from going around him.

He died in the church under the care of his fellow church members, who became his family when he needed one. He was a dedicated member of the church and despite his weakness for women, he was a genuinely nice man. When I used to walk around without slippers, he gave me money to buy and told me not to tell my parents (my parents refused to buy me slippers after I had cut more than six pairs). He was not a rich man, but he was a nice man. I will never forget him.

Such people likely make heaven than others.

So forget about the Brotherhood of the Cross and Star (I still don't know anything about their belief system) and assess your partner on the basis of her persona. Then find out about the beliefs, convictions and doctrines of the Brotherhood of Cross and Star. Then you'd realize many of us criticize in ignorance.

Don't lose a beautiful thing for something as flimsy as religion. There is more I can share about another white garment church, but it is irrelevant to this discussion.

1ce Edited.

touching. i wish he didnt die

emkz:
There is nothing wrong in dating her. Let me share a story with you that totally changed my worldview about them.

We had a member who used to live in our house. He didn't eat meat. And when food is shared to him during Christmas, he'd reject the stew (principles). Once in a while, he used to host his church members and they used to sing and dance and eat. We used to stay away scared of ten, but they always seemed happy. He always had family members around living with him, and even trained an outsider who was rejected by his extended family. He trained another cousin of his. As kids, he always allowed us to come to his apartment to watch movies and would leave us there when he was going out. We knew where he kept his key incase someone came and needed a place to sleep.

Something happened and he started losing weight. There was rumour that he had HIV because he had a weakness for women. He spent sometime in the hospital until the hospital could not do anything for him again. He returned home emaciated and unable to care for himself. Everyone, including his family, abandoned him. His girlfriend whose siblings he catered for abandoned him. No one wanted to go near him, including those who he had helped. My younger sister was very angry when the people he had helped were no where to be found, and said she'd chase any family member that comes to his house to eat once he gets well. She was barely 12 when she said this.

Then his church stepped in. Everyday, different members would come to look after him and clean him, bathe him, cook for him and spend time with him. They later took him to the church. Our neighbours visited him there and narrated to us how much he was cared for. Parents did not prevent their children from going around him.

He died in the church under the care of his fellow church members, who became his family when he needed one. He was a dedicated member of the church and despite his weakness for women, he was a genuinely nice man. When I used to walk around without slippers, he gave me money to buy and told me not to tell my parents (my parents refused to buy me slippers after I had cut more than six pairs). He was not a rich man, but he was a nice man. I will never forget him.

Such people likely make heaven than others.

So forget about the Brotherhood of the Cross and Star (I still don't know anything about their belief system) and assess your partner on the basis of her persona. Then find out about the beliefs, convictions and doctrines of the Brotherhood of Cross and Star. Then you'd realize many of us criticize in ignorance.

Don't lose a beautiful thing for something as flimsy as religion. There is more I can share about another white garment church, but it is irrelevant to this discussion.

1ce Edited.

I don't understand this weakness for women, you won't call it what it is oh
Or is there anything like weakness for killing pple?

That Church have the Most collection of Beautiful Girls..... And they are Friendly

RealSolution001:
Please your advice is very important.

There's this girl I have been seeing on friendship level but presently there's urge to push it into relationship. From the look of things, I know she's already falling for me so the question whether she'll agree for me or not shouldn't even come in. However, I recently happened to know she's a member of brotherhood of the cross and star (the white garment and shoeless church) likewise her parents and other members of the family. Since I discovered this, I have been very sceptical about the whole thing.

Is it advisable to date such girl? What of in the event of breakup? Any physical or spiritual harm done to someone for being with such a person? Would I be coerced to convert to the beliefs (that is the last thing that will ever happen). Have you dated one before? How did it go?

rowland545:
Brozz is it not a church... I attend d church...and I can tell u ...its like other normal churches.

So if u love her go for her...don't let stereotype kill ur luck with a good woman.


That's my two cents

OOO IS NOT A CHURCH. DO YOU EVEN READ THE BIBLE?

Bro to be honest, nairalanders take everything for joke..if you cnt find answers here, ask people around you, ask married people ..thx

RealSolution001:
Please your advice is very important.

There's this girl I have been seeing on friendship level but presently there's urge to push it into relationship. From the look of things, I know she's already falling for me so the question whether she'll agree for me or not shouldn't even come in. However, I recently happened to know she's a member of brotherhood of the cross and star (the white garment and shoeless church) likewise her parents and other members of the family. Since I discovered this, I have been very sceptical about the whole thing.

Is it advisable to date such girl? What of in the event of breakup? Any physical or spiritual harm done to someone for being with such a person? Would I be coerced to convert to the beliefs (that is the last thing that will ever happen). Have you dated one before? How did it go?

I onced house a member of their church during nysc, woke up the next morning to hear some occult-sounding songs from his phone (that how I realised he was their member), I discharged him sharply. Can't deal with such

With my time on NL, I have observed questions like what the OP asked will later make him more confused than he initially was.

O da bo.

konji is no respecter of person, bro for the sake of your sanity please disconnect yourself from her or else be ready to dance to her spiritual husband's music when he comes knocking

Yeah I've dated 1 b4 and we broke up in August.. She will want u to join her church.. All these celestial girls... I'm happy I'm no longer with her anymore sha

Lol

RealSolution001:
Who has dated one before? Give me full gist. I'm talking about first hand experience.

I had....she is even my current ex.. I'll advise you to never date her because she won't change church kos of u

I think what matters is love been a member of a society is her parents personal choice at least they are opened about it.Provided they are not shielding innocent blood.

emkz:
There is nothing wrong in dating her. Let me share a story with you that totally changed my worldview about them.

We had a member who used to live in our house. He didn't eat meat. And when food is shared to him during Christmas, he'd reject the stew (principles). Once in a while, he used to host his church members and they used to sing and dance and eat. We used to stay away scared of ten, but they always seemed happy. He always had family members around living with him, and even trained an outsider who was rejected by his extended family. He trained another cousin of his. As kids, he always allowed us to come to his apartment to watch movies and would leave us there when he was going out. We knew where he kept his key incase someone came and needed a place to sleep.

Something happened and he started losing weight. There was rumour that he had HIV because he had a weakness for women. He spent sometime in the hospital until the hospital could not do anything for him again. He returned home emaciated and unable to care for himself. Everyone, including his family, abandoned him. His girlfriend whose siblings he catered for abandoned him. No one wanted to go near him, including those who he had helped. My younger sister was very angry when the people he had helped were no where to be found, and said she'd chase any family member that comes to his house to eat once he gets well. She was barely 12 when she said this.

Then his church stepped in. Everyday, different members would come to look after him and clean him, bathe him, cook for him and spend time with him. They later took him to the church. Our neighbours visited him there and narrated to us how much he was cared for. Parents did not prevent their children from going around him.

He died in the church under the care of his fellow church members, who became his family when he needed one. He was a dedicated member of the church and despite his weakness for women, he was a genuinely nice man. When I used to walk around without slippers, he gave me money to buy and told me not to tell my parents (my parents refused to buy me slippers after I had cut more than six pairs). He was not a rich man, but he was a nice man. I will never forget him.

Such people likely make heaven than others.

So forget about the Brotherhood of the Cross and Star (I still don't know anything about their belief system) and assess your partner on the basis of her persona. Then find out about the beliefs, convictions and doctrines of the Brotherhood of Cross and Star. Then you'd realize many of us criticize in ignorance.

Don't lose a beautiful thing for something as flimsy as religion. There is more I can share about another white garment church, but it is irrelevant to this discussion.

1ce Edited.

Yes they 'seem' nice. But when you get closer you ll know better.I speak from experience. PLS.DONT BE DECEIVED

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Samfloxin:
Olumba Olumba be that oooo. Spirituality matters in marriage oo. No go marry person wey go dey do incantation in the name of prayer,make evil spirits no full your house.

YOU REALLY KNOW OOO (OLUMBA OLUMBA OBU)

RealSolution001:
Help me to have people's opinions on this. Thanks.

The question should be if you REALLY love her.

If you do, then I don't think there is any problem(spiritually or whatever). I know a friend, who dated and married same type of girl. Now they attend RCCG.

She might just be into it due to parental influence. Cos it's rare to find modern day girls practicing such.

But then, if ur instincts advice you against it; you can back out.

Mywd:
He kind of had intimate relations with them obviously??

You are asking irrelevant questions

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RealSolution001:
Wow. Nice one. Thank you for sharing

Oga pls be careful. Learn o look beyond the 'niceness'. That's a trap I tell you. I know them

Nothing dey happen I don't see any wrong in dating white garment member[color=#006600][/color]

They are seemingly harmless and sexually attractive. Nice voice. Calm and very calculative

But..deadly. Except you can join her church later

They have deep marine spirit coated with bible teachings. They worship Rowland Obu as holy spirit

RealSolution001:
Please your advice is very important.

There's this girl I have been seeing on friendship level but presently there's urge to push it into relationship. From the look of things, I know she's already falling for me so the question whether she'll agree for me or not shouldn't even come in. However, I recently happened to know she's a member of brotherhood of the cross and star (the white garment and shoeless church) likewise her parents and other members of the family. Since I discovered this, I have been very sceptical about the whole thing.

Is it advisable to date such girl? What of in the event of breakup? Any physical or spiritual harm done to someone for being with such a person? Would I be coerced to convert to the beliefs (that is the last thing that will ever happen). Have you dated one before? How did it go?

Hehehehehe.....Small pikin dey worry u!
Who tell u say winch nor dey Redeem/winners?

Quality20:
D ones I know kind of like sex extremely, so I avoid talking with those girls cos they also talk in decently. I don't know if those olumba girls are taught to be sex freaks

yes you're right they can bang like mad

Blessedassuranc:
Yes they 'seem' nice. But when you get closer you ll know better.I speak from experience. PLS.DONT BE DECEIVED

oya share your experiences

Thattallgirl:
Spiritual level is important in every relationship but people like looking away. If u are comfortable if or when it goes south, you can ask her out.

I met one a few months ago but when I got to see the white on her, nobody told me to run. Really, I don't understand them or know how they operate.

PussyOdour:
BROTHERHOOD OF THE CROSS AND STAR, IS NOT AN EVIL CHURCH OR OCCULTIC ORGANIZATION AS MOST PEOPLE PAINT IT TO BE. FEAR BECAUSE YOU MAY END UP COMMITING SIN WITH HER, BECAUSE DATING THE GIRL, YOU MAY ENDUP HAVING PREMARITAL SEX WITH HER, DONT FEAR BECAUSE SHE'S A MEMBER OF BCS , BECAUSE THE CHURCH IS PURE AND HARMLESS

DID YOU SAY HARMLESS? OOO IS AN OCCULTIC ORGANIZATION... REAL ONE