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Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by Nobody: 12:38am On Nov 21, 2020 |
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Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by Heryormilekan(m): 12:44am On Nov 21, 2020 |
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Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by Heryormilekan(m): 12:45am On Nov 21, 2020 |
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Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by Nobody: 12:47am On Nov 21, 2020 |
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Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by Nobody: 12:51am On Nov 21, 2020 |
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Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by Heryormilekan(m): 12:52am On Nov 21, 2020 |
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Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by bigbossila: 1:00am On Nov 21, 2020 |
well, our case is almost identical but the only differences is that, I already married to her before they start showing there real skin colour to me....my monthly salary is 80k (level 10) plus this yearly office traveling that I used to involve myself each year by force so to pleased her, sometime I can get 250,000 or 500,000...and she is the one that always benefit more than 70% out of our earnings, but her parent will pretend as if they don't see my effort, always complaining of me not greeting them or something like that. and I forgot to tell you that she is not doing anything which is common within my side (north),and she is from a poor family, semi literate, no skills but she is a great cook anyway and beautiful. so my advice to you is that try and marry the girl if possible then later u can ignored them. this is Nigeria my brother, there sense of humor is totally different from the outside .world 1 Like |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by Map1(m): 2:00am On Nov 21, 2020 |
Afikoo:it's just a pity we men don't realise what we have until it lost, now if you ask me I will tell you 80k monthly salary is not that bad,my question for you is that at 32 why rushing into marriage,if you must married at 32 must you marry a jobless woman,must the parent of the girl been the one to tell you when to call them? Don't tell me you love her or you can't do without her o because the moment you can't provide for her she will do without you.80 percent of Nigerian married women of to day are into extra marital affairs with okada men,Maruwa riders and meat sellers for favour,my advice for you is if you must marry at 32 marry someone who has a job and ready to settle down now with you not someone who will be controlled by her family and too young to take decision on her own.i repeat don't marry a jobless woman. 5 Likes |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by Map1(m): 2:08am On Nov 21, 2020 |
Escabado:most of our men can't see beyond their nose, reason we have high rate of sudden death of men this days, for how long our men will continue marrying jobless woman? And they will be the one spending 80percent of the salary . 1 Like |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by showafrica(m): 2:39am On Nov 21, 2020 |
Afikoo: But the topic was discussed few weeks ago on how to become somebody from nobody. Most people suggested yahoo business others say leave the country if you dont know anybody that knows somebody. Truth, Buhari govt is not helping matters and it might get worst from the look of things. Suspend marriage bro, 80k no go reach anywhere, start aiming 300k a month, or save and leave the country simple. Alternatively, look for banker and marry, use her get loan and multiplly ur income. However, i dont support depending on woman for anything.. Go hustle, security work is lazy man work. Use ur extra time enter online and and learn something. 2 Likes |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by bigbossila: 3:04am On Nov 21, 2020 |
wallahi my brother you are absolutely right ..this experience na panful one. I dey experience the same thing and now we already got 2 kids. |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by Front0lane: 4:33am On Nov 21, 2020 |
You have a problem n seem focused on only one way to fix the problem. A 80K paying job with with just BSc is a OK whatever you like or do you best option is to suspend your marriage plans indefinitely till you get a beta paying job or get a beta source of income. The problem is marrying with an income that can not sustain the marriage. You might want to ignore that fact but that is your only problem. How to increase / improve your income is not the problem. Hopefully, as someone wise enough to have started working 7 years ago you also have the intelligence to understand you were doing fine with less pay until the story of a jobless partner came up n I said this cos am married to a wife who do not work but that is because I have enough n more for the 2 of us glory to God. I remember telling the girl who was eager to marry me some 5 years back that I wasn't ready to marry next year or even next 2 years and am talking about a girl comfortable enough to buy herself a tokunbo Corolla for Uber while she drives a Lexus jeep. A word they say is enough 4 the wise. Afikoo: |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by Nobody: 4:41am On Nov 21, 2020 |
bigbossila:Life is a experience sha, Just find a good job, or learn a new skills, it will be helpful a lot, 80k is nothing in Nigeria now, Daily expenses and many other mouth to feed is alarmy, for the aspect of your inlaw or mother complaining just try to find excuse for them, will they send you card for you to call them, I don't think so, do they know how you live your life, I don't think so, so just take it easy. Marriage is like party come and eat and go, after the marriage nobody will call you, so just find a way to make the marriage ceremony affordable for yourself, and save a lot for after because there is more expenses coming, get a good job that pay .... there are many listed in nairaland.. already.. Good luck.. |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by PeachtreeReside(f): 4:41am On Nov 21, 2020 |
Afikoo: Is she a graduate? This your condition is not because of village people or because you are lazy . Our leaders are the cause of it. Think digital. Write a history related book. |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by Front0lane: 4:53am On Nov 21, 2020 |
You think it is but it's not. I was once faced with your dilemma but relate freely with girls that appear reasonable n modest in your hood online or offline. Do it needlessly n ceaselessly among the lot you will find a geniune worthy to be your queen, you can then brush her up to your taste. Don't go n marry olosho on Tinder or NL that seem like ready made barbie dolls but the more freely u associate the easier it is to differentiate them. Like making money you need to devote your time n resource to find a good girl worthy of marriage now n that does not guarantee a happy ending but man can only try but with God on your side, good reasoning, careful n detailed observation your effort should be crowned with enduring success in marriage. LikeAking: |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by Juliearth(f): 5:00am On Nov 21, 2020 |
Afikoo: Are you sure you want to marry into this vindictive family? The best time to find true love is when you are unemployed or underemployed. Please let this family be and seek for true love that is void of financial bias. You should channel your energy into learning new skills and adding value to your life and not being with a family that would make you feel less of a man. All the best! |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by Juliearth(f): 5:02am On Nov 21, 2020 |
pretydiva: You are right dear. However, her mother and brother's disposition to things is a problem for me. They are fair weather in-laws and unless he becomes and stays successful, he would keep having issues with them. |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by Juliearth(f): 5:03am On Nov 21, 2020 |
thesicilian: You do not believe in humble begunnings? |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by Damaski: 5:06am On Nov 21, 2020 |
FanOfMyself:please I need your contact. |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by Nobody: 5:06am On Nov 21, 2020 |
FanOfMyself:am interested 2 |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by Damaski: 5:08am On Nov 21, 2020 |
Afikoo:08056003865 |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by Bestinstinct(m): 5:12am On Nov 21, 2020 |
yomi007k:The OP probably don’t know how deep this simple advice is. 2 Likes |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by Coolcalmcollect(m): 5:20am On Nov 21, 2020 |
Afikoo:why do you wanna marry from a broke family bro? your 80k salary is pretty decent, it's the girl that doesn't have a job but learning a skill or whatever you call it I'm worried about. from the family's reaction it's obvious they are poor, that's why they are worried about you been the only one working. why do you wanna marry a jobless girl I ask again....my friend break up with the broke ass and look for a working class girl that earns atleast same 80k as u and settle down well. don't come and suffer o 1 Like |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by EM123: 5:27am On Nov 21, 2020 |
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Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by Front0lane: 5:29am On Nov 21, 2020 |
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Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by Bolinjoe: 5:48am On Nov 21, 2020 |
Bro,.. You're good to go! Dont get worked up because of what her family is saying. It all depends on her, there are people who earn less, get married, and they also do well. So pls, don't feel less of a man because of this. Well-done, in as much you're also on track to a better life. Keep it up! So, talk with her, it all balls down to both of you, and if she's not wanting to pull through with you, then pls just let her go! I've known so many eye and mighty men, so boxed up, rich and all of a sudden after 2 years of marriage... All gone! So, 80k monthly is a good starting point.[color=#000099][/color] |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by omoyeni37: 6:06am On Nov 21, 2020 |
ibechris:Hello sir, please help a sister, God bless you sir...... |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by ibechris(m): 6:11am On Nov 21, 2020 |
Lawsaite: With my experience in banking together with my wife,we do micro and macro lending to sure businesses and contract. |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by Maobichek: 6:18am On Nov 21, 2020 |
yomi007k: Some ladies are wonderful, a friend of mine is receiving 70k and the wife earns over 200k but she won't make noise nor dictate things, she allows my friend to lead and they are Just fine. Many ladies are quietly doing wonders but won't talk in the public, thank you. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by Nobody: 6:35am On Nov 21, 2020 |
FanOfMyself: Interested in this please |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by debicy(m): 6:35am On Nov 21, 2020 |
Your experience is similar to mine just that my wife works too. I've been earning 89k for over 5years and my wife earns btw 35 and 50k every month and we are both graduates. The truth is we cut our coats far below our sizes. Outsiders life doesn't influence us but we admire them though. The truth is, she has been very supportive and understanding. We live happily with our 3 years old boy. My point is you need a woman who understands what it takes to be in marriage. Even when there is surplus and scarcity. Sit her down and you guys should draw out plans. Don't force her at all if she refuses. Just move on 1 Like |
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