Young Man! Premarital sex is sin. Have you forgotten? Please find something better to do with your time. WHAT A BOMBSHELL!!!!

Truvel:
He Won't If He Truly Loves Her. Not All Guys Are Like Dat.

STORY STORY......

AFTER USE, NAH THAT TIME HE GO SEE THE REAL VIRGIN THAT'S BETTER THAN HER...



START GIVING EXCUSES..

# SHE HAS STRECH MARKS

# HER PUSSI IS NOT TIGHT

# SHE IS AFTER MY MONEY

# SHE IS ACTING WEIRD, IS SHE DOING THIS AND THAT BLAH BLAH BLAH

# I DON'T LIKE HER BODY SHAPE..


# SHE LACK MANNERS

# DON'T LIKE BECAUSE SHE IS FAT (VICE VERSA)


# BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH




..NO BE TODAY THOSE THINGS DY HAPPEN.

chocboi78:
u take ur bath 2geda in the bathroom, but don't Bleep, Chai
Na Hypocrisy go kill Nigerians

Not every guys are like you. If you cant respect your spouse decision, then you are not qualified to be her hearthrob.

luminouz:
I have said my own bro. Figure the rest our yourself

Isorit.

The fear of God is the beginning of wisdom. Op, you dey crase. You better eat the fruth of your labour now. Don't say I didn't warn you.

Donmoscojaja:
am getting tired of seeing stuff like this on nairaland


Modified: this story self....18 years and 21 years old and you plan to surprise her with cash?? bros odika iche anyi bu umuaka

Imagine the kind of topic making front page nairaland has gone to the dust...


When u post important thing it will not yield, but this juvenile matters makes Fp.

You better act fast cos when you left another guy will do it for you

DIVINEEVIDENCE:
OP you're just a tiny little simp.

But understand that these emotions rushing through you right now could be anything else, but never love.

Assuming you end up impregnating her, your eyes will clear and you'll realise you've been living in fool's paradise all along.

I'm older than you are, old enough to get married but currently has no time for ladies.
Marriage is the last thing on my mind while career and wealth building takes centre stage.

Zero heartbreaks, zero exes and a clear-minded focus for life and career.

I've amassed knowledge from those who have gone the whole length, the Ubunjas, Rollo Tomassis, Mystery and so on.
And guys get to meet me for advice on marriage issues and relationships.

If you see women for what they are bro, you'll never waste your time on foolish emotions until you truly want to settle down.

It's unfortunate that you'll most likely learn your lessons through a hard and painful experience.
At 21 all that's occupying your mind is kissing and smooching and marrying a girl you 'love'.

Bro wake up from that dream, dust your life and plan for your future.

I'm sure you still depend on your peeps but you're already thinking of sponsoring a girl.
Major simping.

If you want to marry a virgin, find a virgin who's been through the uni and NYSC.
Anything other than this brur, you're on your own.

I'm an undergraduate and I've seen too much of uni hoeing.

Dem girls ain't loyal to nobody.

Whatever you think you got -- comeliness, nice physique, cash, intelligence bla bla bla, she'll find peeps in the uni who're way better than you are.

My dream girl is currently in the uni but I don't wanna have no business with her until she's out.

Whatever is yours has a way of coming back to you.
If you find yourself worrying too much over someone, then it's obvious they have a value way higher than yours.
One of these days they're gonna dump your desperate ass (because you just can't get to control the panic) and you'll end up reaching for sniper or a well tied noose...

My advice: take a break from this lady and face your future.
If she's the one for you your paths will cross again tomorrow.
If she ain't then you're better off without the emotional baggage.

Fine words butter no parsnips.
Las las you'll do what you wish to do.

But understand that there are some men who have no time for women, no matter what they look like.

It's up to you to be like such or otherwise.

You try..but easier said than done..

Uzomacharles:
I will advice you to leave her if you really want to marry her....

What is yours is yours...

Who can't stay doesn't worth staying...


If you open the gate then comot, everybody go wan enter when u no dey...

the motive of what is yours is yours has ruined a lot of life nothing is yours except u work for it
that aside I will advice the op to take his mind off the girl she will defiantly get rid of the hymen during jabm class or maybe 100level self
except u r both going to be in the same institution forget about future plans for now girls are not worth it

grim33:
Don’t worry... sharper guys go help you do the deed. Advice fire.

LWKMD

Adebami895:
Nairalanders!!! I Need Your Advice Please

Good day, my fellow nairalanders. permit me for the blunders, this is just the way I can put it.

I have this pretty and honest girl am currently dating, she is 18 while am 21. We have been dating for 8 months now. My parents knows her and her family knows me as well except her dad. She is really into me and I love her dearly too. I have been in relationships but this current relationship seem to be different because I have never been in love to this extent. Despite the richer and well to do guys disturbing her for relationships she still stick to me.

Although I never make her lack anything even when she never requested for it. she loves me so much that she can’t do without texting and calling me daily, sometimes she even tells me to send a selfie of my self so that she can see my face. This girl is just one of a kind and God knows I truly love her and I will love to marry her if things continue this way. She runs a small business online and am even planing to surprise her with some cash next year to make the business grow. I love it when a lady is hustling.

The problem am having right now is that she is a Virgin, We normally engage in pre-intimacy, although am not satisfied with that, but since I truly love her I just have to wait till she is ready. So recently she finally told me that she is ready to get disvirgined. We have already make a date for that and I have already make plans on booking a 5 star hotel room to make it special and memorable.

I started having second taught this morning that I should not disvirgin her yet because I will be leaving for school next year to further my education while she will start processing admission to gain entry into tertiary institution of her choice, with this reason I felt if I got her disvirgined she might meet some bad peers that will make her engage in some sort of negativity and definitely she might become a hoe or she might be craving for sex while am not with her, but i felt if she is still is still a Virgin she will have my fear in her heart and be for me only.

Should I disvirgin her? or still let her be a Virgin. Am confused, I just don’t want to loose everything. I don’t want to later end up a looser in the relationship. Please nairalanders I really need your advice!! Bashing is welcome as well.

Nawa o
This guy is contemplating fornication.
Righteousness89 come and see something.

fati2001:



STORY STORY......

AFTER USE, NAH THAT TIME HE GO SEE THE REAL VIRGIN THAT'S BETTER THAN HER...



START GIVING EXCUSES..

# SHE HAS STRECH MARKS

# HER PUSSI IS NOT TIGHT

# SHE IS AFTER MY MONEY

# SHE IS ACTING WEIRD, IS SHE DOING THIS AND THAT BLAH BLAH BLAH

# I DON'T LIKE HER BODY SHAPE..


# SHE LACK MANNERS

# DON'T LIKE BECAUSE SHE IS FAT (VICE VERSA)


# BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH




..NO BE TODAY THOSE THINGS DY HAPPEN.

Fati2001, Cool Down Ee. Not All Guys Are Dsame. 4rm His Post D Guy Truly Love D Girl. Dis Is Not A Corner, Corner Love. Both Parents Are Aware.

UCHIHAmask:

u be correct man,check ma comment 4 up� ,d only tin wey uno suppose add na dat "pregnancy wey u talk

I Added D Pregnancy To Keep Guys Away & To Make Her Concentrate On Only Him. As U Know Girls Mind Are Hardly Stable When D Guys Is Not Around. D Pregnancy Would Even Unite Both Families. He Shouldn't Be Scared, His Parents & Her Parents Will Support Dem When D Baby Comes.

fati2001:



HI, GOOD MORNING



THAT'S NOT TROLLING......


WHY COMPLAINING, YOU GUY'S TROLL AND BASH FEMALES HERE OFTEN... .. I'M JUST RETURNING THE FAVOR....



BACK TO THE MATTER!


HE SAID GIRLS ARE EXPOSED TO EARLY SEX AND YET CAN YOU SEE THE ADVSE HE POSTED?...




HUMANS SHOULD STOP THIS HYPOCRISY !!!!

Good morning, too.
Bashing girls?
Not every guy here bashes females.
About his advice: that is his opinion.

What's all this on nairaland. Nawa o..

johnhood:

Good morning, too.
Bashing girls?
Not every guy here bashes females.
About his advice: that is his opinion.

OPINIONLESS OPINION.







BY THE WAY DID I MENTIONED YOUR NAME IN THE TROLL?

Truvel:
Fati2001, Cool Down Ee. Not All Guys Are Dsame. 4rm His Post D Guy Truly Love D Girl. Dis Is Not A Corner, Corner Love. Both Parents Are Aware.

WAIT STILL MARRIAGE... THAT'S THE BEST OPTION.

Adebami895:
Nairalanders!!! I Need Your Advice Please

Should I disvirgin her? or still let her be a Virgin. Am confused, I just don’t want to loose everything. I don’t want to later end up a looser in the relationship. Please nairalanders I really need your advice!! Bashing is welcome as well.

No go focus on your future. Nonsense post.

Virginity is a thing of personal choice and not some bargaining chips for some ordinary boyfriend, all this disvirgin her yen yen yen is rubbish, the girl in question is not keeping herself for the fear of God but for some randy 21yr old who is Still contemplating and indecisive about life's decision. Advise her to keep herself just for the fear of God and not for you.Leave her alone.I have had uncountable experiences but for the fear of God I'm still standing strong.Some ladies ehn

The chances that the both of you are going to end up together is very very slim, especially when I read the part where you said she's not even in tertiary institution yet

As for the virginity stuff, weather you deflower her or not, it doesn't change anything. Either way, it could still end in premium tears

Stop fornicating

Guy, to avoid telling another touching story, do the do, if you fail to do it now, forget it. Another guy will do it by chance or mistake and this your girl will dump you.

Donmoscojaja:
am getting tired of seeing stuff like this on nairaland


Modified: this story self....18 years and 21 years old and you plan to surprise her with cash?? [b]bros odika iche anyi bu umuak[/b]a

I really appreciate you for this step. To get advice. He that asks questions will not be left in darkness.

I advice you don't do that. What you plan to do is only to be done in marriage.
Why would you do that? You both ain't married legally in any way. Fear God and He'll anoint thy head.

What you are talking about from my perspective is lust and not love.
If truely you love her, you'll wait till when you both are weded.

What you plan to do has no other name than fornication.

It's what you have you can give. Have you really made christ the lord and saviour over your life? Love God and you'll see that God's plan for you is better and greater.

Please, don't do it. I strongly plead with you.

God bless you greatly and lead you aright.

If you disvirgin her... She will surely meet more promising and loving guys asking her out... And some would even prove to be more understanding , God-fearing(not wanting sexual affairs but building the trust) and responsible than you.. and then she will have to choose a more responsible guy than you.. because a woman wants that from her man... In this sense you have lost her totally..


And if you don't disvirgin her and continues to keep the communication with her, then she will hold on for you, also knowing that you are more responsible than the many others ...
And you will become her only man.. this will also help her to concentrate on her studies while you concentrate on yours too, as the relationship side is settled..

With that you both can plan on getting married after graduation....

Hope you don't make the mistake

whether you deflowered her or not, if she doesn't have what's called emotional loyalty for you, she go still hoe


if you don't have interest in marrying her please let her go but if you want to marry her, no need waiting as she can surely find you to your sch or you visit

fati2001:



if he Don use the girl finish.. he will throw her away...

B4 u say Jack! As I dey read the story, I dey vex. I laugh who no know human being.

Ademoore07:
You are the funny dude here. You think all ladies are the same. I met a young virgin lady in 2013 precisely at unical while i was observing my postgraduate studies there. She will be observing her final exams once ASUU strike had been called off. Though, i proposed to her 3 years ago. She's currently 26 and still a virgin. She gave me one strict condition that no sex until we both married. She mean her word.

How do you know she's a virgin?

Adebami895:


We are too young for that. Tanx for your advice anyway

Ur girl is already desperate, she will give it to another guy if u are not ready to receive it. Better com and collect oh b4 u live in regrets..... Once she enter school lasan u don loose b dat

fati2001:



STORY STORY......

AFTER USE, NAH THAT TIME HE GO SEE THE REAL VIRGIN THAT'S BETTER THAN HER...



START GIVING EXCUSES..

# SHE HAS STRECH MARKS

# HER PUSSI IS NOT TIGHT

# SHE IS AFTER MY MONEY

# SHE IS ACTING WEIRD, IS SHE DOING THIS AND THAT BLAH BLAH BLAH

# I DON'T LIKE HER BODY SHAPE..


# SHE LACK MANNERS

# DON'T LIKE BECAUSE SHE IS FAT (VICE VERSA)


# BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH




..NO BE TODAY THOSE THINGS DY HAPPEN.

God Bless you. As the guy dey now, if the girl tell am make he slap him full family, he will...because? "He's in love!"
Later he'll be the first person to insult ladies here on Nairaland when women matter comes up. He should just tell us he has never "disvirgined" a woman before and wants to know what it feels like. To brag to His friends probably...
OP, if I'm lying let's say her parents give you till Easter next year to marry the girl, can you? Talk is cheap!

Gospel Advice: You both too young for this. Don’t do it.

Street Advice: No be only you be bad guy.

Spiritual Advice: it could destroy your life

Financial Advise: why five star hotel? You have $300 to waste for room?

Personal advise: She wouldn’t disrespect you if you didn’t, but you’ll regret it some way.

21 and 18 juvenile delinquency