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Can I Ever Fall In Love? I Am Confused by BaddieFreak(f): 9:38am On Dec 17, 2020 |
I was molested as a kid when I was six by a grown man 45-50 years. Before that incident, my father had left my mom when she was pregnant with me. So I grew up without a father. I only grew up with my step dad who also harrased me sexually and regularly beat my mom to stupor. I got disgusted by any male, regardless of their age, after that. When I was in secondary school, a boy had a crush on me and confessed, and I hated him for that. Anyone who confessed his love to me would disgust me. As I grew older and reached my teenage years, my friends would start talking about boys, and I would get left out since the topic wouldn’t interest me and I would walk out of the conversation. As time passed, my desire to be in a relationship grew, but I couldn’t find a stunning guy I’d like to be involved with. So I tried to start a relationship with men. I met this entrepreneur who made a decent living, had a 10/10 personality, is accepting, loving, responsible, initiative, young, rich, works out, has a six-pack, eats healthy food, travels but I couldn't feel any thing for him so I left. I met another guy like that. He was arrogant and proud and was used to women chasing after him. I liked his carefree personality but disliked his irresponsible ways. He was more like a typical hooligan, too immature and irresponsible. Even though I liked him, I decided that I wouldn’t date him since I thought being in a relationship would force me to be vulnerable and I wasn’t ready to be vulnerable with anyone, so I left him. I met one or two handsome guys who were extremely rude and arrogant, self-centered, and expect the world to revolve around them. I immediately dismissed them. I am surprised by women who fall in love with every single guy they meet all the time. Does anyone have a similar experience? How do you treat my case? 3 Likes |
Re: Can I Ever Fall In Love? I Am Confused by fati2001(m): 9:44am On Dec 17, 2020 |
BaddieFreak:so sorry, Pls take heart and remain powerful no matter what. 2 Likes |
Re: Can I Ever Fall In Love? I Am Confused by Kapilta(m): 9:44am On Dec 17, 2020 |
I need not know your story before i know you are one damaged m'f**ker. Your profile scream that. |
Re: Can I Ever Fall In Love? I Am Confused by BaddieFreak(f): 9:46am On Dec 17, 2020 |
fati2001:. Thanks dear 1 Like |
Re: Can I Ever Fall In Love? I Am Confused by BaddieFreak(f): 9:47am On Dec 17, 2020 |
Kapilta:Says someone who is looking for transactional sex 1 Like |
Re: Can I Ever Fall In Love? I Am Confused by fati2001(m): 9:49am On Dec 17, 2020 |
BaddieFreak: thank you for that. 2 Likes |
Re: Can I Ever Fall In Love? I Am Confused by DONFRANSKID(m): 9:49am On Dec 17, 2020 |
BaddieFreak:my candid advice is to become a LESBIAN simple as ABC 2 Likes |
Re: Can I Ever Fall In Love? I Am Confused by Kobicove(m): 9:50am On Dec 17, 2020 |
I suspected there was a background story somewhere |
Re: Can I Ever Fall In Love? I Am Confused by Kapilta(m): 9:52am On Dec 17, 2020 |
BaddieFreak:Just making it official, it's what y'all bn doing. That or not, you are one damaged being and love or family isn't recommended for peep like you. You'll only end up suffering them for no reason. 1 Like |
Re: Can I Ever Fall In Love? I Am Confused by Donspicey: 9:52am On Dec 17, 2020 |
See talk oooooooo....... You know wetin other guys don pass tru in d hands of ladies and dos claiming i love you i love you Your story is similar to mine bt i ve moved on....... Now u re looking for true love cos time no dey again but if i tell u say i love u now,u might start tinking am also a player........ U fit watsap me sha mk i help u out....... The psychological effect of wat u ve passed tru ain't funny nd u need deal wit it bfr its too late @Baddiefreaky..... 5 Likes |
Re: Can I Ever Fall In Love? I Am Confused by Womanizer(m): 9:56am On Dec 17, 2020 |
Another drama queen is on the loose. Casalindal and Manager there is a challenger to the throne 2 Likes |
Re: Can I Ever Fall In Love? I Am Confused by BaddieFreak(f): 9:57am On Dec 17, 2020 |
Kobicove: So? |
Re: Can I Ever Fall In Love? I Am Confused by BaddieFreak(f): 9:58am On Dec 17, 2020 |
Kapilta:You think so abi? |
Re: Can I Ever Fall In Love? I Am Confused by BaddieFreak(f): 9:58am On Dec 17, 2020 |
Donspicey: Exactly, I see every guys like a player. Strange abi? But that is the truth |
Re: Can I Ever Fall In Love? I Am Confused by SILENTandSMART2: 10:01am On Dec 17, 2020 |
Whala be like trailer on high speed wey no get break on a sloppy road If you're not attracted to man again, monkeys dey , chimpanzee deu zoo , dog wey get better gbola dey , You sha see say when those white nigga no find men attractive they marry goat or other things Goan fall in love with anything you like stop bringing eleribuu post , wetin you want us do ? Abeg look into my advice and have peace of mind 5 Likes |
Re: Can I Ever Fall In Love? I Am Confused by Donspicey: 10:03am On Dec 17, 2020 |
BaddieFreak: Not strange to me cos i ve also bn there....... It really took me time bfr i got over dat mentality... |
Re: Can I Ever Fall In Love? I Am Confused by Fvckhypocrite(f): 10:03am On Dec 17, 2020 |
I smell lie Modified @ baddiefreak abeg no vex 4 me jus do some calculation and found out the story is true. You maybe suprise how i take knw but the thing go shock u if i tell u too Just keep it up @ soulstalker hold that gyal well you will nt knw the value of what u have until u lose it Shalom! |
Re: Can I Ever Fall In Love? I Am Confused by LINTUNE(m): 10:04am On Dec 17, 2020 |
typical lesbian story, smh... |
Re: Can I Ever Fall In Love? I Am Confused by BaddieFreak(f): 10:05am On Dec 17, 2020 |
SILENTandSMART2: Go back to sleep |
Re: Can I Ever Fall In Love? I Am Confused by BaddieFreak(f): 10:06am On Dec 17, 2020 |
Donspicey:How did you get over it? |
Re: Can I Ever Fall In Love? I Am Confused by BaddieFreak(f): 10:07am On Dec 17, 2020 |
Fvckhypocrite:Pele Mr Smeller |
Re: Can I Ever Fall In Love? I Am Confused by Fvckhypocrite(f): 10:08am On Dec 17, 2020 |
SILENTandSMART2:soro soke my gee |
Re: Can I Ever Fall In Love? I Am Confused by Nobody: 10:08am On Dec 17, 2020 |
BaddieFreak:i have alot 2 say about this ur matter, but i won't talk cus am still nursing yesterdays injury |
Re: Can I Ever Fall In Love? I Am Confused by Nobody: 10:10am On Dec 17, 2020 |
BaddieFreak:there's always a second chance over and over again till u get it right. Think about it... |
Re: Can I Ever Fall In Love? I Am Confused by SILENTandSMART2: 10:11am On Dec 17, 2020 |
Re: Can I Ever Fall In Love? I Am Confused by Donspicey: 10:11am On Dec 17, 2020 |
SILENTandSMART2: Bro me sef no like dis bae bfr but after i read everytin i rmbrd my past nd jst SMH.... If u knw wetin she dey pass tru u go put hate aside nd put ursef in her shoes...... Tinx dey hapen fr dis life oooooo....... Now she is depressed nd needs help to kip moving bt instead of motivating advice na bashing she dey collect.... GFB if she commit suicide naw u sef go folo dey shout suicide is neva an option...... mk we change our mentality jareh...... #peace..... 3 Likes |
Re: Can I Ever Fall In Love? I Am Confused by SILENTandSMART2: 10:11am On Dec 17, 2020 |
Re: Can I Ever Fall In Love? I Am Confused by Donspicey: 10:14am On Dec 17, 2020 |
BaddieFreak:No be one day Job oooooo...... First tin first u go gv ur sef brk frm love matters.... |
Re: Can I Ever Fall In Love? I Am Confused by Fvckhypocrite(f): 10:14am On Dec 17, 2020 |
BaddieFreak:oni eko |
Re: Can I Ever Fall In Love? I Am Confused by SILENTandSMART2: 10:15am On Dec 17, 2020 |
Donspicey: Bro i jusss try to calm down sha But the truth is i don't take dat girl serious jare , if the story is true i will never say dat But nah there backyard you dey life ? Anyway all is sir |
Re: Can I Ever Fall In Love? I Am Confused by Fvckhypocrite(f): 10:16am On Dec 17, 2020 |
Kapilta:bt they is ntin on her profile na |
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