Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 3,152,962 members, 7,817,825 topics. Date: Saturday, 04 May 2024 at 08:34 PM

I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish - Romance (9) - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish (89544 Views)

I Think My Girlfriend Is Fetish / Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish: Dear Valenciabaddie I'm Not A Ritualist / When Your Boyfriend Is Giving You Tough Competition(pics) (2) (3) (4)

(1) (2) (3) ... (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (11) (12) (Reply) (Go Down)

Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by deltateam: 4:30am On Dec 23, 2020
Valenciabaddie:


Pls Its clearly stated that I want "Matured" comments .... Not comments from bitter people ... If anyone is a gold digger then the guy is The gold digger because my parents are richer ...


Yet he had the audacity to come to your house and slap you?

You are being incoherent.

1 Like 1 Share

Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by deltateam: 4:31am On Dec 23, 2020
Valenciabaddie:


I'm not but I do spend some weekends.

Modified.
Pls he saw this post on front page, came to my house and was harassing my sister I came out and he gave me a slap,saying he will do something bad If i don't delete this post,. he's on Nairaland too. I tried to delete the post or at least modify it but I can't .. help me tag a mod to help me delete this post .. pls .. and if anything bad happens to me @ Lovethaa is responsible

Cc Seun
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by brightalo1010: 4:33am On Dec 23, 2020
Brandonx:
Madam op there's nothing fetish about burning candle and all that, prayers are usually potent at midnight
I burn candles, I pray with salt, palm oil and other stuffs I'm not a ritualist.
did the lady said the guy is a ritualist? By your own explanation don't you know you're fetish? Don't you know difference between fetish and ritualist? Why are you confusing yourself?

1 Like

Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by benji93: 4:37am On Dec 23, 2020
Too spiritual? What does that even mean? And using candles? So? Is he diabolical? You obviously have your own religious believes. Simple. Leave him for someone of like mind. You look more like someone quite clueless. Someone who wants to drag the name of CCC like others have been. Most CCC members are beyond this fetish argument. If you cannot deal with it go away.
Edit: That guy must be very stupid to come and slap you in your house. Simple, go your separate ways. You don't believe in the same things.
Valenciabaddie:
Hi Guys ..
I need serious matured advice . I have been dating this guy for about a year now ,
When I met him he was jobless but living comfortable due to his parents wealth ,.
I'm 25 and he's 3 years older than me , my problem is that he's too spiritual , he always have bad dreams and because of this he is always going to a celestial church and this makes him bring fetish things home like candles and substances in white container ..

I go to a Pentecostal church but I still continue the relationship and also follow him to his church sometimes.. but lately he brought this black soap home which smells bad and to make matters worse he always wake up at a specific time at night .To have the bath ..

M feeling uncomfortable with him and im beginning to lose interest in him due to these because I don't believe in all this fetish things .What do u guys think ? I'm I overreacting?
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Dcoy: 4:41am On Dec 23, 2020
Omihanifa:
When he's not around try and search the whole house and snap anything unusual that you see then take it to the elders ( your parents or church) to advice you more
Please don't follow this advice before you see wetin go kill you.. just japa now when you can,
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by benji93: 4:42am On Dec 23, 2020
What is wrong with you bro? Most of these people have already taken a stance on what kind of religious lives they want to lead. What's fetish, what's idolatory, what's not and all that. You could quote the entire bible and they will still say it's fetish or Jesus never did a spiritual bath. You should no better.
Jbleenk:


Op, there absolutely nothing wrong in doing spiritual bath. If u are very spiritual (not religious), u will understand this practice transcends religious domination, race culture etc.

Read in a post on nl how a site where JESUS did spiritual baths was discovered.

There are loads of bible verses that talked about spiritual bath. Eg Leviticus 14: 8-9.

With that being said, as regard ur man’s ritualistic bath, I personally see absolutely nothing wrong with it.

However if you are concerned or suspicious about his way of life - you have a good reason to be cause kids nowadays do anything to make money - discuss it with him and if your guts is not entirely okay with his explanations, I’d suggest you do the needful. Remember they say “Guts don’t lie.” Be instinctive before making a decision on this. At the end of the day, no mater what people say, the call is yours to make.
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by ipobarethieves: 4:45am On Dec 23, 2020
humilitypays:
Any Pastor or acclaimed man of God that asks you to bring soap, or any object for prayer or request for you to bring water from the sea or ocean or to accompany them to waterside or anywhere for special prayer is a babalawo, God Almighty known as Jehovah have no hand in it.


You can talk to God directly from anywhere.


If you need urgent answer from God for any issue you are passing through, all you need to do is to purify your body and mind by abstaining from anything sex, masturbation, porn, kissing, touching, sex chat, etc and focus on God....use 14 days to purify your mind and soul to focus solely on God, and then do some fasting and then tell God your problem after singing some praises.


Do this alone in a quiet secluded area. Try it and see if God won't answer you immediately.


Stop going from Church to Church looking for miracle. God hears you wherever you are. I am a living witness to the wonders of God
kip deceiving urself.U think the good book is a story book? Obedience is better than sacrifice.There are examples of pipu dat do what a prophet told them to do and God answered them.His way us not Ur way.Jesus open the blind eyes with what?.Even Mary told some people (Whatever he tell u to do, DO IT),. Syrian commander obeyed, and was cleanse.Ask Ur mum if dem Neva bath u with leaf mixture sad grin
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by benji93: 4:46am On Dec 23, 2020
onyechez:

Smile wetin? There's this pretty girl in my class during secondary school, those days. she was about to do A level to japa from Nigeria, I had a conversation with her before I got admission into the university, she told me anytime she told any guy about her white garment church she attend, they flee, I was afraid too the moment I heard she goes to this white garment churches because I have seen some of the things they do live on the area I live in, neighbors on that street complain about their activities and how some women go there to do evil things and men too, the owner sold the land to be used for filling station.
Be wise, the owner refused to use that land again. What will a church claiming it is serving jehovah be killing goat, children, ducks, dogs collect the blood and put in a white basin with red candles all over and incense.
You better be wise oh.
You need sense. Very simple.
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by ipobarethieves: 4:55am On Dec 23, 2020
Valenciabaddie:


I'm not but I do spend some weekends.

Modified.
Pls he saw this post on front page, came to my house and was harassing my sister I came out and he gave me a slap,saying he will do something bad If i don't delete this post,. he's on Nairaland too. I tried to delete the post or at least modify it but I can't .. help me tag a mod to help me delete this post .. pls .. and if anything bad happens to me @ Lovethaa is responsible

Cc Seun
see Ur lifestyle sad. Nothing will happen to u.Why slander Ur partner
Online.What is Ur bizness if he bath/eat at 2 00 AM.Since u aren't on the same page,why NOT FREE him angry!? Nah by FORCE to date
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Thecassanova: 4:58am On Dec 23, 2020
Valenciabaddie:


I'm not but I do spend some weekends.

Modified.
Pls he saw this post on front page, came to my house and was harassing my sister I came out and he gave me a slap,saying he will do something bad If i don't delete this post,. he's on Nairaland too. I tried to delete the post or at least modify it but I can't .. help me tag a mod to help me delete this post .. pls .. and if anything bad happens to me @ Lovethaa is responsible

Cc Seun
Wahala wear jump suit
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by samx4real(m): 4:59am On Dec 23, 2020
He is in Nairaland...



Let him come and defend himself... If he continue beating around d bush without any meaningful explanation to the rubbish he has doing.


Dump his sorry ass.
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Sammy07: 5:12am On Dec 23, 2020
Valenciabaddie:


I'm not but I do spend some weekends.

Modified.
Pls he saw this post on front page, came to my house and was harassing my sister I came out and he gave me a slap,saying he will do something bad If i don't delete this post,. he's on Nairaland too. I tried to delete the post or at least modify it but I can't .. help me tag a mod to help me delete this post .. pls .. and if anything bad happens to me @ Lovethaa is responsible

Cc Seun


Dear lovethaa, I search for your username and discovered that you're a registered member.
Pls, try to be matrue and don't harm the poor girl.
You're a man, why will you do bad things to her?


lovethaa, try mentioning me in an empty thread on nairaland

3 Likes 1 Share

Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by sammytee042(m): 5:16am On Dec 23, 2020
What does girls actually want. He gave u his time, money and peace and you are looking for his trouble. Have u for once told him you are not comfortable with what he is doing, have u approached his parents and seek advice from them? U came to nairaland to make some noises. Just tell us you have another man looking at you already. If you are not comfortable with him again leave him alone before you make him to do something worse. We are tired of hearing murder cases
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Beefit: 5:17am On Dec 23, 2020
Fetish?
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by tiswell(m): 5:18am On Dec 23, 2020
Valenciabaddie:
Hi Guys ..
I need serious matured advice . I have been dating this guy for about a year now ,
When I met him he was jobless but living comfortable due to his parents wealth ,.
I'm 25 and he's 3 years older than me , my problem is that he's too spiritual , he always have bad dreams and because of this he is always going to a celestial church and this makes him bring fetish things home like candles and substances in white container ..

I go to a Pentecostal church but I still continue the relationship and also follow him to his church sometimes.. but lately he brought this black soap home which smells bad and to make matters worse he always wake up at a specific time at night .To have the bath ..

M feeling uncomfortable with him and im beginning to lose interest in him due to these because I don't believe in all this fetish things .What do u guys think ? I'm I overreacting?
You are engaging in sexual immorality, stay with your parents and stop seeing the rich kid. It seem like one chasing shadows, pray, let God direct your beloved missing better half your way. Following him to his church sometimes, even when you aren't so comfortable with it, is an act of desperation which does not usually end well. Do not think you can change him as that will be your biggest undoing.
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Srallens(m): 5:24am On Dec 23, 2020
ipobarethieves:
see Ur lifestyle sad. Nothing will happen to u.Why slander Ur partner
Online.What is Ur bizness if he bath/eat at 2 00 AM.Since u aren't on the same page,why NOT FREE him angry!? Nah by FORCE to date
.

It obviously shows you're in the same league with the person she lamented about. Know God, The I Am That I Am and know peace. Your trust in ritualism and being fetish will lead you no where. Get Christ and you will get everything good in your life
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by peacettw: 5:26am On Dec 23, 2020
Valenciabaddie:


I'm not but I do spend some weekends.

Modified.
Pls he saw this post on front page, came to my house and was harassing my sister I came out and he gave me a slap,saying he will do something bad If i don't delete this post,. he's on Nairaland too. I tried to delete the post or at least modify it but I can't .. help me tag a mod to help me delete this post .. pls .. and if anything bad happens to me @ Lovethaa is responsible

Cc Seun

I am sorry but this right here is very funny. On a serious note though, apologize to him and consider your relationship to him gone.

You don't need to mods to delete your posts. Just click on modify, delete everything and put just a full stop. Better still, click on the report icon and note a rule you have broken, and it automatically deletes the post. Again apologize to him and show him that you have deleted but unfortunately can't delete the thread. Best of luck

1 Like

Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by lkillbrokehoes: 5:31am On Dec 23, 2020
Jennycoolz:
[s]Fetish naah I can't date a guy that's fetish no matter how much I love him He might use you one day[/s]
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Wittyglam(f): 5:37am On Dec 23, 2020
This is just a relationship, the door is always wide open for you to walk away. Leave the guy.

Check out my YouTube channel guys.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tpDNQP0UWd4
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Kingrefreshed: 5:43am On Dec 23, 2020
Valenciabaddie:


Pls Its clearly stated that I want "Matured" comments .... Not comments from bitter people ... If anyone is a gold digger then the guy is The gold digger because my parents are richer ...

Imagine the guy himself reading all these you're saying. When you clearly know he's also here.

I have been to celestial church several times and I was given a black soap too.

And it's not for Yahoo or Money Rituals!!!!!!!!!!


People have problems and you even mentioned that he always have Nightmares and that's enough to drag him down there.


Stop posting your personal life and relationship here looking for advice from people who are worse.


Go for counseling!!!!
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Vikalinda(m): 5:43am On Dec 23, 2020
Hmm
Na wao
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by bobo65(m): 5:44am On Dec 23, 2020
Valenciabaddie:


I'm not but I do spend some weekends.

Modified.
Pls he saw this post on front page, came to my house and was harassing my sister I came out and he gave me a slap,saying he will do something bad If i don't delete this post,. he's on Nairaland too. I tried to delete the post or at least modify it but I can't .. help me tag a mod to help me delete this post .. pls .. and if anything bad happens to me @ Lovethaa is responsible

Cc Seun

See this gal o
Is dating by force?
How can a 28 year old guy be treating you like this and una never marry.
You will be very silly to finally marry this guy
Abi dem jazz u?
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Petyprincess(f): 5:52am On Dec 23, 2020
Valenciabaddie:


I'm not but I do spend some weekends.

Modified.
Pls he saw this post on front page, came to my house and was harassing my sister I came out and he gave me a slap,saying he will do something bad If i don't delete this post,. he's on Nairaland too. I tried to delete the post or at least modify it but I can't .. help me tag a mod to help me delete this post .. pls .. and if anything bad happens to me @ Lovethaa is responsible

Cc Seun
This moniker you accusing claimed to be married

1 Like

Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by gbogboija: 5:58am On Dec 23, 2020
1. I wonder why someone will claim to be a pentecostal and still go to white garment church.
2. I wonder why someone will have eyes but cannot see.
3. I wonder why many ladies have turned themselves to toilet roll by sleeping in the house of a man they are not married to.

From your story, you are just a pentecostal but a wolf in the midst of sheep. People like you always have your destiny waste way, and thereafter you will begin to blame the devil for your misfortune. You cannot go to your pastor for advice in order to evade the truth, but you can come on Nairaland to display your foolishness. I pity your parents, because by the time you will harvest from your wayward lifestyle, they will be the one running around. Accept Jesus as your Lord and savior, you will not, but you pretend to be a child of God. For how long will you continue to deceive yourself? You're running after yahoo plus boy, and you are telling us is father is rich. O girl, you are a thief and a big fool. We know your type, don't come here to tell us that your father is richer than his father because of that face me and slap you building that your father inherited from his mother or father.

1 Like

Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Hathor5(f): 6:01am On Dec 23, 2020
Petyprincess:

This moniker you accusing claimed to be married

shocked
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by chatinent: 6:03am On Dec 23, 2020
Aren't you with a fetish brain for living with sb you aren't married to?
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Fovic4: 6:06am On Dec 23, 2020
Discuss it with him. Then take a decision
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Petyprincess(f): 6:09am On Dec 23, 2020
Hathor5:


shocked
Now you understand why one should not believe stories we read on here? grin grin
Too many lies just for likes SMH.

3 Likes 1 Share

Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Hathor5(f): 6:12am On Dec 23, 2020
Petyprincess:

Now you understand why one should not believe stories we read on here? grin grin
Too many lies just for likes SMH.

I have this in the back of my mind but I play along for the fun of it. It's just an online forum, we will all log off eventually and face reality. wink

1 Like

Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Memyselfu2009(m): 6:12am On Dec 23, 2020
RUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUN FOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOR YOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOUR LIFEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE (RUN4YOURLIFE)
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by HeavenCSO: 6:21am On Dec 23, 2020
Valenciabaddie:
Hi Guys ..
I need serious matured advice . I have been dating this guy for about a year now ,
When I met him he was jobless but living comfortable due to his parents wealth ,.
I'm 25 and he's 3 years older than me , my problem is that he's too spiritual , he always have bad dreams and because of this he is always going to a celestial church and this makes him bring fetish things home like candles and substances in white container ..

I go to a Pentecostal church but I still continue the relationship and also follow him to his church sometimes.. but lately he brought this black soap home which smells bad and to make matters worse he always wake up at a specific time at night .To have the bath ..

M feeling uncomfortable with him and im beginning to lose interest in him due to these because I don't believe in all this fetish things .What do u guys think ? I'm I overreacting?
I would say you should be extremely careful and more prayerful. sometimes, we tend to lose a lot of opportunities and fundamental issues due to imprisonment we imprisoned ourselves.
Now, tell me why and how on earth a guy who claims to love you will still be threatening your life and still confess his love for you. Remember, stupidity is the lover of Ignorance, don’t be so in love that you can’t tell when it’s raining MA..
Be wise and learn how to take and stand of your decision taken. Most especially, be very prayerful, your prayers can stop him from having bad dreams and he'll stop the fetish prayers. young people like you carries the fire.
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by omoadeleye(m): 6:23am On Dec 23, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


Does dudu osun smell bad?
Do you routinely wake up at midnight just to bathe with that particular black soap?



He was using it for protection.

(1) (2) (3) ... (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (11) (12) (Reply)

Slay Queen Spotted Selling Fish In A Market. Causes Stir Online (Photos) / Curvy Lady Under Fire For Dancing "Soapy" (Photos) / Ladies How Do You Feel When You Notice Guys Doing This To You(photos)

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 62
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.