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Re: She Said I'm Too Gentle For Her by Toks2008(m): 9:49am On Dec 26, 2020
SimpDetector:


Simp spotted.

Apologizing to a girl is simp behavior. Under no circumstance should you apologize to a girl. It sounds like bad advice but it works. Rather than apologize, you tease her. Or just deny her allegation with boldness and make her doubt her sanity. This makes her emotions go hay wire and as long as you are constantly stiring that pot of a girls emotions, she gets hooked to you more.

Contrary to what women say, they actually do not want your apology. It makes them look more in control and whenever a girl feels she is in control, she begins to lose attraction for you.


STOP ranting and understand the word simp.

What you wrote up there has nada to do with being a Simp but a true definition of an arrogant cocky guy.

When a lady says you offend her tell her you are sorry and mean it then switch back to being an Alpha male.

You cross the line when you act the way 9ice did the other day coming out on social media to appeal to people to beg his lady for him... That is what being a Simp is.

Respecting a lady does not make you a Simp.

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Re: She Said I'm Too Gentle For Her by DeOTR: 9:49am On Dec 26, 2020
I don't think there's anyone as gentle and timid as I am.
Yet, even my Exes would want to come back if I give them the chance.
There must be something you're doing wrong, not your gentleness.
Just break up with her, or simply find someone else and let her know.

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Re: She Said I'm Too Gentle For Her by generationz(f): 9:49am On Dec 26, 2020
Salex007:
pls, can someone tell me how to be a tough guy? Although she was not the first female to tell me so.
You are lucky she's telling you. It's the sad state of things in the world. People are generally biased against gentle men and tough women. But life is a little bit much easier for tough women who know how to cast their nets and are generally lucky. Case in point, Omarosa, Former Aide to Donald Trump.

Usually, I feel sorry for guys like you because it's not your fault you are born that way. A tough personality is something you are born with 60% of the time and depends on the environment you grew up in. If you had parents who shamed you for always insisting on having your way calling you a disrespectful child, that can make you very passive in the real world.

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Re: She Said I'm Too Gentle For Her by DrewMX(m): 9:50am On Dec 26, 2020
Then take charge my brother, be the driver of the relationship not the passenger.
Re: She Said I'm Too Gentle For Her by Nobody: 9:51am On Dec 26, 2020
Sacrifice your gentleness at your own detriment angry

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Re: She Said I'm Too Gentle For Her by Nobody: 9:53am On Dec 26, 2020
generationz:

You are lucky she's telling you. It's the sad state of things in the world. People are generally biased against gentle men and tough women. But life is a little bit much easier for tough women who know how to cast their nets and are generally lucky. Case in point, Omarosa, Former Aide to Donald Trump.

Usually, I feel sorry for guys like you because it's not your fault you are born that way. A tough personality is something you are born with 60% of the time and depends on the environment you grew up in. If you had parents who shamed you for always insisting on having your way calling you a disrespectful child, that can make you very passive in the real world.

Mehn Omarosa is vicious , I hope not to end up with someone like that surprisingly she might be nice to her husband.
Re: She Said I'm Too Gentle For Her by Femeto: 9:56am On Dec 26, 2020
Be you. Don't be someone else. Girls always want the perfect guy.
Re: She Said I'm Too Gentle For Her by Nobody: 9:56am On Dec 26, 2020
Salex007:
pls, can someone tell me how to be a tough guy? Although she was not the first female to tell me so.
What She Meant Is Dat U Are Not A Bad Guy.
Re: She Said I'm Too Gentle For Her by phazotron(m): 9:57am On Dec 26, 2020
Salex007:
pls, can someone tell me how to be a tough guy? Although she was not the first female to tell me so.


If you like go kill yourself because of hole.
Re: She Said I'm Too Gentle For Her by generationz(f): 9:58am On Dec 26, 2020
pcguru1:


Mehn Omarosa is vicious , I hope not to end up with someone like that surprisingly she might be nice to her husband.

She has been married twice and dated a popular muscular actor, Micheal Clarke Duncan.

Truth is she's a sweet person. She's only Fiery when you come for her or attack her. She will bite you. I watched her on the daily show with Trevor Noah and even though he was a little scared when she walked in, he handled her very well. Trevor is skilled in Handling fiery women, making them laugh, see the stupidity in the arguments but still like him.
Re: She Said I'm Too Gentle For Her by Rapsodee(m): 10:04am On Dec 26, 2020
Cyberterror:
She wants you to give her doggy style.
What's it about doggy style to girls? undecided

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Re: She Said I'm Too Gentle For Her by aytuns(m): 10:09am On Dec 26, 2020
Salex007:
pls, can someone tell me how to be a tough guy? Although she was not the first female to tell me so.

Don't be a yes man.. Learn to say No to her.. Learn to have your opinion on issues, and not be afraid to vehemently disagree with her. On issues of opinion, where two of you have diverging views but both are correct, make sure you stand your ground as the man and insist it gets done your way.

You are the man, act like one.. Lead.. And don't be afraid of her leaving you, rather, she will come to respect you. JUST LEAD

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Re: She Said I'm Too Gentle For Her by golddeejay(m): 10:09am On Dec 26, 2020
Salex007:
pls, can someone tell me how to be a tough guy? Although she was not the first female to tell me so.
I think she said that because you seem to have low esteem and give her much attention that she deserves. Acting tough because a girl said some shiii makes you a p*$$y.
Re: She Said I'm Too Gentle For Her by aytuns(m): 10:13am On Dec 26, 2020
SimpDetector:


Simp spotted.

Apologizing to a girl is simp behavior. Under no circumstance should you apologize to a girl. It sounds like bad advice but it works. Rather than apologize, you tease her. Or just deny her allegation with boldness and make her doubt her sanity. This makes her emotions go hay wire and as long as you are constantly stiring that pot of a girls emotions, she gets hooked to you more.

Contrary to what women say, they actually do not want your apology. It makes them look more in control and whenever a girl feels she is in control, she begins to lose attraction for you.



That's not true... WHEN YOU ARE CLEARLY WRONG, Saying "I was wrong, I'm sorry" as a man isn't 'simping'... It's being responsible. That's how many men have alienated their wives and children just because of their stupid pride.. Wahala that simple apology would resolve, they refuse to kill that pride
Re: She Said I'm Too Gentle For Her by blackgeneral(m): 10:19am On Dec 26, 2020
Salex007:
pls, can someone tell me how to be a tough guy? Although she was not the first female to tell me so.
Na she get problem no be you.

Don't bother looking inwards. Take her for
deliverance.
Re: She Said I'm Too Gentle For Her by Rapsodee(m): 10:19am On Dec 26, 2020
Cutehector:
cheesy Very true.
Shey girls like it niii
Re: She Said I'm Too Gentle For Her by chatinent: 10:21am On Dec 26, 2020
Lol.


This really made me laugh.


She's been comparing you to sb lately
Re: She Said I'm Too Gentle For Her by Oketwin(m): 10:23am On Dec 26, 2020
[=Nazgul post=97433208]
Do you agreed to whatever she wants with little or no objection?

Does she find it very easy to manipulate you into doing her bidding regardless of what it costs you?

Do you apologize like a hopeless romantic over irrelevant issues between you two?

Do you find it very difficult to raise your voice at her and scold her for an action you know she's clearly wrong?

You do beg her every now and then for her love and affection?

Are you weak, and can't stand up for her publicly?

Do people manipulate you anyhow and you can't speak up?

Does she enjoy sex with you or do you just engage in it because you're lovers?

Have you ever borrowed money to give to her and you later told her about it?

Do you complain about loosing her a lot?

Does she consider you mature enough to share secrets with happens in her family?

If one or more of these questions is positive, then she's right.[/quote]also ar u mummy's boy, do u act idiotic arnd her, nor kill ursef 4 virgina pipu ooh.
Re: She Said I'm Too Gentle For Her by NiceMen: 10:27am On Dec 26, 2020
nnadychuks:
Oga experience... Just imagine what women are turning concrete black men into... wtf??
It just made me remember my time in 200l where I was walking with my ex along our school road: I was confronted by one of these cultists boys and said I should stay clear off that babe, that she’s their capons babe. See, on a regular day if I had intentions of marrying her I wouldn’t even go ahead still. These “vagina people” will always give you a reason to die for them and the moment you back off they tag you weak...

Don’t ever conclude you’re weak especially if it’s coming from a woman. Never! They don’t choose the kind of man they want to be with. You’re the man, you decide the kind of family you want to groom.
But if you just want to fvck, then I have no advise for you

Lol. I don't understand your post. Are u for or against?
Re: She Said I'm Too Gentle For Her by Cutehector(m): 10:28am On Dec 26, 2020
Rapsodee:
Shey girls like it niii
very much.
Re: She Said I'm Too Gentle For Her by Rapsodee(m): 10:34am On Dec 26, 2020
Cutehector:
very much.
Chaii...noted. cheesy
Re: She Said I'm Too Gentle For Her by Jephson67: 10:40am On Dec 26, 2020
Nazgul:

Do you agreed to whatever she wants with little or no objection?

Does she find it very easy to manipulate you into doing her bidding regardless of what it costs you?

Do you apologize like a hopeless romantic over irrelevant issues between you two?

Do you find it very difficult to raise your voice at her and scold her for an action you know she's clearly wrong?

You do beg her every now and then for her love and affection?

Are you weak, and can't stand up for her publicly?

Do people manipulate you anyhow and you can't speak up?

Does she enjoy sex with you or do you just engage in it because you're lovers?

Have you ever borrowed money to give to her and you later told her about it?

Do you complain about loosing her a lot?

Does she consider you mature enough to share secrets with happens in her family?

If one or more of these questions is positive, then she's right.
Do you apologize like a hopeless romantic over irrelevant issues between you two? i personally do this. it is only a stupid girl that wll see a guy like this as weak
Re: She Said I'm Too Gentle For Her by guyman13(m): 10:41am On Dec 26, 2020
Beat the hell out of the Bea grin[color=#990000][/color]
Re: She Said I'm Too Gentle For Her by Nobody: 10:41am On Dec 26, 2020
Go and enroll in the Army. She'll beg you to go back to being gentle again.

I also like my man a bit tough but not soldier kinda tough. cool
Re: She Said I'm Too Gentle For Her by blazepascal(m): 10:43am On Dec 26, 2020
nice guys don't win. bring out the tough side in you . even if you are weak ,try faking to be tough .
Re: She Said I'm Too Gentle For Her by MoneyTrees(m): 10:49am On Dec 26, 2020
So topics like this still make it to fp?
grin grin cheesy That’s why I say confidently, very few real niggars around here cos em pvssy ass niggar people be refusing to smoke atleast 2 Jumbo sized Mali kush for rapid restoration of em brain
embarassed lipsrsealed I am terribly shocked angry

Salex007:
pls, can someone tell me how to be a tough guy? Although she was not the first female to tell me so.
Re: She Said I'm Too Gentle For Her by LikeAking: 10:50am On Dec 26, 2020
Jst keep her as ur Bleep buddy.
Re: She Said I'm Too Gentle For Her by Pegi23(f): 10:57am On Dec 26, 2020
Salex007:
pls, can someone tell me how to be a tough guy? Although she was not the first female to tell me so.
..pls don't change rather let her go. I love them gentle
Re: She Said I'm Too Gentle For Her by joyousever(f): 10:58am On Dec 26, 2020
If I'm told how I offended the person and truly I did, why won't I take the responsibility of apologizing.? What's the big deal?
Toks2008:


I hope you are also able to apologize not only when you are wrong but when someone tells you he or she is offended by you even if you have no clue.
Re: She Said I'm Too Gentle For Her by deavicky(m): 10:59am On Dec 26, 2020
Salex007:
pls, can someone tell me how to be a tough guy? Although she was not the first female to tell me so.
smoke like 2 wraps of Egbo everyday. And anytime she ask u for something don't give to her, deliberately annoy her
, book appointment with her and to show up, in fact constantly be inconsistent.

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