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Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by deltateam: 7:20pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
donbachi: A fiance is different from boyfriend. How much is a loaf of bread or even a bottle of Eva wine that he couldn't afford and he wants to marry? Anything that someone is not doing right before marriage, don't expect him to change after marriage. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Trogge: 7:20pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
GayPontiff:. Boss this a disgrace, most money be relationship or marriage. Like the other person you quote, am not sure they have money. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by joshrare(m): 7:20pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Mariangeles: My dear, Please let's set the flags ablaze and allow everyone live freely without entitlement. What if he's cash strap and just needed to keep to his word?....... But las las that guy nor try ooooo, he could have just leave mumsi with urgent 2k 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by jacoik(m): 7:20pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey:his opinion count. because he told you the plain truth? you wouldn't have brought it to public place if you don't need bitter truth 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Mariangeles(f): 7:21pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Kriss216: No Kriss, out of courtesy. But isn't it awkward? Would you do it? Be honest... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Nobody: 7:21pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Mariangeles: Some one you’re just trying to build a relationship with? If I’m the mother I’d really feel insulted if he offered me money. There’s more to life than taking and expecting things always from people. Why can’t she be the giver? 9 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Lashist(m): 7:21pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Mariangeles:Bros you too lie. There is no place in igbo tribe where not bringing gifts is shameful. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by KosiGee(m): 7:21pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Mariangeles: It’s best to marry a white woman. If you visit your potential mother in law with gifts when it’s not her birthday, Christmas or wedding anniversary, you’ll look so awkward. Our culture is drowning in corruption and bribery. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Candycrushy(f): 7:22pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
TransAtlanticEx:Oh pleaseee I haven't laughed out loud in a while.. Why do Nigerians like this statement of I can feed you or richer than you only online sha Talk is cheap anyway Aunty shishi you no get, just cover your face Rubbish 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Ola5TP: 7:22pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey:aunty nawa for u and ur moma oo. What a dramatical expression! Jeez 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by moneyissweet(m): 7:22pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Your boyfriend is brainless and useless. He messed up the only opportunity he would have used to cement his relationship with your mother. Pls dump his stingy and shameless ass. Don't let any modafoka tell you otherwise here. Trayceey: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Samcent: 7:22pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey:My dear, I would have loved to ask how old you are? No offence intended. Notwithstanding, you have some work to do. One of them is breaking free from this 'mum's hold' you just talked about. Another is apologizing to your fiance. I wish you best of luck! 9 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Trogge: 7:22pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
deltateam:So buying gifts for the mom each time he visits is the right thing to do abi 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by NiRfreak(m): 7:22pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
I think I learn a big lesson here.....I will also not go to my inlaw with anything for the first time....if they offer me food or drink...I will decline it....the highest I will accept is maybe water.. . Then I will watch their reaction. In this case it's obvious the mother in law is stupid...even if she was to complain about it, it Should be on a light mood and not on a serious tone to warrant my babe to argue hard with me. Complaining on a light mood means they give the guy a benefit of doubt that he will be a good inlaw in future. . But serious protestation shows they are Ebina, hungry and miserable which is redflag for the guy, cos most greedy mother-in-law are usually the down fall of many marriages if the wife is not wise. 19 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by prophetfire: 7:22pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey:. You and your mom aren't mature yet. The guy had done nothing wrong. Typical poverty and hunger mentality. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Nobody: 7:23pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Miarose:and you are a mad man. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by BREYZ: 7:23pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey: Hello madam, what your mom did was wrong and you should be using your head as an adult. She offered him a drink what's wrong with that? At least for the fact that he came to see her is good enough, stop acting and sounding naive pls. Stop using your hand to destroy your relationship 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Kriss216: 7:23pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Mariangeles:Since it’s not obligatory, why’s the mum and the girl furious? 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by YorubaPrince: 7:23pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
[quote author=Trayceey post=97858008][/quote] Again... it shows your degree of foolishness and madness. I can't even comprehend the level of ur mum's if you can be this dumb. Broke dis, broke dat yet, you and ur hungry mum dey expect bread and milk from an innocent guy seeking love. Na Thunder go strike you and ur mama, I swear! 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Lekan239(m): 7:23pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey:though I don't support you and your mum reaction, but I still believed in never visit your an elder empty handed. Even if they are your family members |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by West2019(m): 7:23pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey:very shameless home you came from , what is buying something let ur mum marry u then 6 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Lashist(m): 7:24pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle:Yes...some leeches were saying he should have brought 250# bread for his gf mum...so na the 250# bread dey vex mum and daughter 10 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by hstar: 7:24pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Ah |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Offpoint1: 7:24pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Mariangeles:Which verse in the Bible or Quran? 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by SURElee(f): 7:24pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Things should be handled with maturity. Whatever your mum doesn't get from your man today, she can get more in future and with love from him. Since your mum showed displeasure, I expected you to buy something and present it on his behalf and later tell him about it rather than call to confront him. Now, what if this young had paid so much bills for the month and was flat broke? As a fiancée, has he been communicating about his finances with you? My dear, wisdom is profitable to direct, the marriage never start and gifts want to ruin it? Handle things with wisdom dear. Peace! 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Nobody: 7:24pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
West2019:you must be broke. so many nairaland boys are broke and this is why they're so pained on this issue. You won't blame them though. This country is messed up 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by dapadawee: 7:24pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey:You carry your family matter come nairaland. But the truth be told he shouldn't have visited empty handed. some culture. if u don't bring anything for your host don't expect anything as a guest. Meaning don't expect anything from them including their daughter. On the other hand your parents should know things are no longer the same. And my own advise is that your fiance should visit again with whatsoever he observed was missing in that house. Even if na fridge or cotton 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by BusinessCity: 7:24pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Graxie: The mom isn't greedy. You will be a mother one day. Even if it's corn 50 Naira, olden days we offered kola 5 Naira. It doesn't satisfy hunger or craving. It's respect and homage simple. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by lawalmovichhhh: 7:25pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
this lady naa oloriburuku somebody ooo.....person wey need advice still dey counter the advice #bastard 7 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Omezif(m): 7:25pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Both of you are wrong but he's initiator. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by bunnae(f): 7:25pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
This is embarrassing to read. Sup with your mom? If she was displeased about that, she should have kept it to herself. And you just had to call your fiance to tell him that. Sends a wrong message. 6 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Commotfornigeri: 7:25pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
deltateam: They were communicating (arguing) until she dropped the call. So, she has to make the first move because she ended the means they could have used for resolution. cc: Trayceey take note. 1 Like |
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