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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by freeman5050: 10:22am On Jan 10, 2021
Sunkyapogee:

Not really about your spouse but your children.

You train your children the best way they should grow, when the grow they will not depart from it...most especially in a Godly way.
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by freeman5050: 10:27am On Jan 10, 2021
Sterope:
Why are you doing it secretly?

Did you inform her before you married her?


Baby girl good morning. How was your night.

Back to your question, I have to keep it secret for now because I wouldn't like to loose her; ...
(1) Because irrespective of her recent attitude I still value and sherish (Love) her.
(2) I don't need to put my Beloved and wonderful Son in a psychological trauma
(3) I hate divorce.
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Amanda4life: 10:29am On Jan 10, 2021
ITS OKAY.


IM A WOMAN, BUT I PREFER OPEN POLYGAMY AND NOT SECRET ONE.

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by freeman5050: 10:39am On Jan 10, 2021
Sterope:
Lol. You are high.


He might not be oh. Who knows

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Sterope(f): 10:40am On Jan 10, 2021
Lmao. Anything to make yourself feel good.

Your son would hate you for doing that to his mum. She would hate you too.



freeman5050:


Baby girl good morning. How was your night.

Back to your question, I have to keep it secret for now because I wouldn't like to loose her; ...
(1) Because irrespective of her recent attitude I still value and sherish (Love) her.
(2) I don't need to put my Beloved and wonderful Son in a psychological trauma
(3) I hate divorce.



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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by IMASTEX: 10:50am On Jan 10, 2021
Womanizer:
You have the right to marry more than one wife so long as you can take care of them smiley
Period. . .Simply follow your thoughts & desires.
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by ankaravillageng: 11:14am On Jan 10, 2021
amazing101x:
I'm in my early 30s, I'm a christian, i'm single , never married and never had kid. I would have loved to marry in my early or late 20s but after several years of chasing true love when my heart was still tender, i've come to realize that love is selfish. Ladies i loved back then don't usually love me and now that i'm financially stable, every ladies seems to love me but i no longer have a tender heart, please don't get me wrong, i'm not wicked, i'm a nice person and i respect women alot but i no longer believe in true love or soul mate.

Now that i've come of age to pick a life partner and get married. To think of spending the rest of my life with one woman is very confusing. But recently i've been thinking of marrying more than one woman , maybe atleast 2. I've talked to some ladies about it, some of them showed remorse and some gladly accepted it. I'm considering marrying educated ladies who won't think of harming each other with charm but would see each other as friends so we can build a family together. Each time i think of marrying more than one wife, i feel more convinced about marriage than thinking of marrying just one.

Please i need your advise.

....

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Dbarrzx: 11:18am On Jan 10, 2021
If there is half wife, I will advise u go for half. One is even a wahala and u wanna go for two? Don't create ur early death. Money can't solve women troubles it only reduce it.
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by ankaravillageng: 11:22am On Jan 10, 2021
Sterope:
Lmao. Anything to make yourself feel good.

Your son would hate you for doing that to his mum. She would hate you too.





True
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by freeman5050: 11:23am On Jan 10, 2021
Sterope:
Lmao. Anything to make yourself feel good.

Your son would hate you for doing that to his mum. She would hate you too.




His is my blood and I have 99% power to raise my son as a good father for him to have same subconsciously.
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Hassanmaye(m): 11:24am On Jan 10, 2021
doggedfighter:
You are not even talking like a man that can befriend two women comfortably not to talk of marrying them.

You think it's all about enjoying two pussies?

And have them fight for your attention?

Gerrrrrarahia grin
Wicked girl grin grin





Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by ankaravillageng: 11:24am On Jan 10, 2021
freeman5050:


Baby girl good morning. How was your night.

Back to your question, I have to keep it secret for now because I wouldn't like to loose her; ...
(1) Because irrespective of her recent attitude I still value and sherish (Love) her.
(2) I don't need to put my Beloved and wonderful Son in a psychological trauma
(3) I hate divorce.



...

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Sterope(f): 11:25am On Jan 10, 2021
cheesy cheesy cheesy
Goodluck with your life
freeman5050:


His is my blood and I have 99% power to raise my son as a good father for him to have same subconsciously.
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by freeman5050: 11:27am On Jan 10, 2021
ankaravillageng:



True

Big Lie. Is that a prophecy or a prediction? Go and play bet9ja
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by ankaravillageng: 11:27am On Jan 10, 2021
freeman5050:


His is my blood and I have 99% power to raise my son as a good father for him to have same subconsciously.

But you'll not be available most of the time as apart from your job you also have another family to show up for.

24hours is not as long as you think. Except you'll not be having kids with the other woman.
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by freeman5050: 11:34am On Jan 10, 2021
Sterope:
cheesy cheesy cheesy
Goodluck with your life

Thank you HaAnty !!
I wish you well in your life too.

Let me run go get something for my family

Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by freeman5050: 11:37am On Jan 10, 2021
ankaravillageng:


But you'll not be available most of the time as apart from your job you also have another family to show up for.

24hours is not as long as you think. Except you'll not be having kids with the other woman.

Haven't you heard about the FCMB saga. The Mrs Thomas Moyo or something they call her....are you not aware the husband married only her still what happened took place?
Nwanne.....It's all about how smart and your destiny regards to your endeavours..

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by romunu(m): 11:39am On Jan 10, 2021
Self advise is the best,advice yourself
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by ecomm(m): 11:40am On Jan 10, 2021
grin
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by freeman5050: 11:43am On Jan 10, 2021
ankaravillageng:


But one day both your son and wife would find out. Your son would now begin to think his whole life was a lie, he would have so many questions he would not even be able to ask so as not to disrespect his father, the kids you would have from the other family will not know their sibling and vise versa. A few years from when the truth comes out you might pass on as a result of old age and your kids would not even be able to relate as siblings. I'm not saying don't do it but if you are doing it don't sneak, do it proudly. Deceit in any form can be painful. Just imagine the wife you claim to love so much collapse to her death just from hearing the news.

Remember I said I will let her know when we get older..like from 50yrs and above.
In my village, a man of 68yrs and above just brought home his first son just last 2yrs ago which the second wives children was so excited and glad to meet him. His second wives first Son decided to take him to Europe due to he was not sharp financially.
Life is unpredictable. Do yours and leave the rest to God.

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Amanda4life: 11:47am On Jan 10, 2021
PLEASE DO IT OPENLY, DONT HIDE PLEASE.

SO U DONT REGRET LAS LAD
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Nobody: 11:53am On Jan 10, 2021
Ok
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Amanda4life: 11:54am On Jan 10, 2021
I HATE MEN WHO ARE VERY CUNN8NG AND SECRET IVE.


IF I FOUND U HIDE A WIFE SOMEWHERE I WILL COOK DELICOUS RAT POISON FOR U
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Goldenfinger5(m): 12:33pm On Jan 10, 2021
amazing101x:
I'm in my early 30s, I'm a christian, i'm single , never married and never had kid. I would have loved to marry in my early or late 20s but after several years of chasing true love when my heart was still tender, i've come to realize that love is selfish. Ladies i loved back then don't usually love me and now that i'm financially stable, every ladies seems to love me but i no longer have a tender heart, please don't get me wrong, i'm not wicked, i'm a nice person and i respect women alot but i no longer believe in true love or soul mate.

Now that i've come of age to pick a life partner and get married. To think of spending the rest of my life with one woman is very confusing. But recently i've been thinking of marrying more than one woman , maybe atleast 2. I've talked to some ladies about it, some of them showed remorse and some gladly accepted it. I'm considering marrying educated ladies who won't think of harming each other with charm but would see each other as friends so we can build a family together. Each time i think of marrying more than one wife, i feel more convinced about marriage than thinking of marrying just one.

Please i need your advise.




Nowadays the best advice anyone can give you is "Follow your heart" even when the heart is full of stupidity and foolishness. But you know what? People are tired of too much talk owing to the prevalent circumstances surrounding a lot of people. So my candid advice...Before you follow your heart, check if it has sense because your idea is stupid

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by harmony75: 12:57pm On Jan 10, 2021
I have seen person wey no like himself..you want to marry as a supplement yourself go be supplements to your wives Mtcheww how can you think evil for yourself anyways man make sure you buy your coffin and grave site after marrying the women. pity you!
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by iramure(m): 12:58pm On Jan 10, 2021
Dangrace01:


U people make us fear marriage oh.
No fear my brother, just look well before you decide to avoid wahala. Most ladies are best behaved before marriage, but immediately after hooking them, they become terror.

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Nobody: 1:03pm On Jan 10, 2021
amazing101x:
I'm in my early 30s, I'm a christian, i'm single , never married and never had kid. I would have loved to marry in my early or late 20s but after several years of chasing true love when my heart was still tender, i've come to realize that love is selfish. Ladies i loved back then don't usually love me and now that i'm financially stable, every ladies seems to love me but i no longer have a tender heart, please don't get me wrong, i'm not wicked, i'm a nice person and i respect women alot but i no longer believe in true love or soul mate.

Now that i've come of age to pick a life partner and get married. To think of spending the rest of my life with one woman is very confusing. But recently i've been thinking of marrying more than one woman , maybe atleast 2. I've talked to some ladies about it, some of them showed remorse and some gladly accepted it. I'm considering marrying educated ladies who won't think of harming each other with charm but would see each other as friends so we can build a family together. Each time i think of marrying more than one wife, i feel more convinced about marriage than thinking of marrying just one.

Please i need your advise.
Don't try it my brother. If you try it, it will end in premium tears. Some things are not just for for 21st century, military government is one of them. Polygamy is another.

How much do you have? Can you sponsor four children in ABUAB or Covenant University? Think more about it.

I understand your reason more than how you have explained it. Ladies now love your money but not you. It is painful. Don't let your affection be towards golddiggers but God, family, children and work
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Sunkyapogee(m): 1:09pm On Jan 10, 2021
freeman5050:


You train your children the best way they should grow, when the grow they will not depart from it...most especially in a Godly way.
Most times it works for a Muslim man. They marry many wives and have children that love each other..

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Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by bamite(m): 1:18pm On Jan 10, 2021
Ishilove:

I'm not 'afraid'. I'd rather remain anonymous

Some of us just want to know the face behind the moniker.
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by profbray(m): 1:31pm On Jan 10, 2021
It's ur choice y do u need an advice, make am ten wife's no case
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by na2016: 1:36pm On Jan 10, 2021
amazing101x:
I'm in my early 30s, I'm a christian, i'm single , never married and never had kid. I would have loved to marry in my early or late 20s but after several years of chasing true love when my heart was still tender, i've come to realize that love is selfish. Ladies i loved back then don't usually love me and now that i'm financially stable, every ladies seems to love me but i no longer have a tender heart, please don't get me wrong, i'm not wicked, i'm a nice person and i respect women alot but i no longer believe in true love or soul mate.

Now that i've come of age to pick a life partner and get married. To think of spending the rest of my life with one woman is very confusing. But recently i've been thinking of marrying more than one woman , maybe atleast 2. I've talked to some ladies about it, some of them showed remorse and some gladly accepted it. I'm considering marrying educated ladies who won't think of harming each other with charm but would see each other as friends so we can build a family together. Each time i think of marrying more than one wife, i feel more convinced about marriage than thinking of marrying just one.

Please i need your advise.

OP: Do what pleases you but let me point you to a major problem with marrying more than one wife as a Christian. The problem is, envy and deep hatred usually finds its way into such families either when you are around here or when you might have departed. This can ruin everything you left behind!!!
Re: I'm Considering Marrying More Than One Wife , Please I Need Your Advise by Theboss100(m): 1:40pm On Jan 10, 2021
Ishilove:

You haven't even married one and you're already thinking of polygamy? It is the ladies who will enter your trap with their eyes wide open that I pity.

What am I even saying sef? Na you I go pity las las. Don't try us o, we are deadly grin tongue
Poisonous sef. Fearing women will elongate the lifespan of we men gringringrin Una heartlessness no be here oo.

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