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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Nobody: 6:46pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
southniyikaye: I'm glad you overcame. Please be more prayerful and very hopeful. "Suicidal Thought" is actually demonic bombardment of the mind. You oppose that negative spiritual atmosphere by immediately talking out, words of affirmation while renouncing every form of frustrations. At such a moment, call yourself by your most-cherished name and declare great things about your life and future in general even if you don't believe it. Endeavour to talk to someone with spiritual authority to pray for you. Also ensure you don't "carry" Nigeria's Problems or your personal issues on your head beyond what your mental health can handle. Finally, look out for people you can give courage and hope, telling them what you are experiencing and still standing strong. And if you have overcome some challenges already, keep sharing them ephasising our God was on your side. You would actually be the main beneficiary of that gesture. This statement just reminded me of how I couldn't believe I had a poor result (actually average) several years ago and was stupidly going to end my life so as not to show the result at home. God in His kindness, made another student (whom I'd never met nor spoken with before) to walk up to me and ask me why I was troubled. Unlike me, I revealed it to him. What he did drove that evil spirit of suicide off my head. He actually laughed so hard. Then he revealed to me that, on his part, he was actually asked to withdraw from the school because of his poor performance. It was an expensive school, and I wondered how he was that calm. He then preached and prayed for me. But he didn't even need to pray because my head had already become "correct" after discovering the reason he laughed so hard. I discovered that I was simply ungrateful (very stupid) to God and my parents. In fact, that incidence is one of the things that have made me to conclude that being a complete "ajebo" is a bad thing. One should be able to brace through life challenges, which could even be another man's breakthrough prayer. If you are reading this Bros, wherever you are in this world, thank you so much, and God bless and protect your entire lineage. I can't remember asking for your name. I just hope it wasn't an angel that appeared to me in student's uniform that day just to save me from that suicidal spirit. So, I thank God for you o. Meanwhile, who Suicide Epp? Please say NO to Suicide! It is never an option. God help us all. |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by mojid22000: 6:46pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
toobusy: Do you know what people on the other side are facing Stop ranting about the other side We ll all go there someday, so let's talk about the reality in front of us "this life" No matter what you say Suicide occurs daily, even among the rich So it's not about money all the time But the reality we all see, if one is dead, you are dead It's the books that are talking about the other side which seems not to exist cos no enough proof.... |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by mojid22000: 6:48pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
Those committing suicide are really bold Many of us really wanted to We lost courage... |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Alexgman1(m): 6:50pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
SweetCunt97:Mine is due to drug addiction. (medical drugs 4 asthma) |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by omojesu202(m): 6:57pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
NeoWanZaeed: if someone helps you and you want to help someone inside too, just quote me. 1 Like |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Bitchiamjay(m): 6:58pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
Been hearing about suicides but when it happens to someone you know’ it’s devastating. I’m still trying so hard to get over Renua’s death. Depression is evil! It takes the special grace of lord to overcome it. RIP Deji. |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by mekysmart123: 7:01pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by ramatintin(m): 7:03pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
So sad. |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by ottalo: 7:05pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
Suicide is not an option my brother there is nothing worst than insomnia I'm battling with insomnia since 2015 with constant depression. God has kept me 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by mozona(m): 7:10pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
he just took what was not his.... when time reach God go ask am... i cant even imagine committing suicide when i know if Jesus come now, na hell fire i dey go. so me still alive, is a sign that there is hope for me to repent before Jesus come again. so like this na double problem for who wey commit suicide |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by blazepascal(m): 7:12pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
just listen to this sing to stop any suicidal thought logic ft alessia , Khalid 18002 .... I swear u will change ur mind even devil will be powerless for that moment. |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by doggedfighter(f): 7:13pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
Kingjay007: Lies |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Babanah: 7:14pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
falopey: My friend, the logic for those who are depressed and later commit suicide is - The uncertainty of what to experience in death offers a far better prospect than what they are currently experiencing while alive. Very difficult to imagine the pain, such magnitude of pain does exist to lead someone to take their own life. 1 Like |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by doggedfighter(f): 7:18pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
omojesu202: This plan is very tight Haba |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by johhnnie(m): 7:19pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
Zeinymira: It is easier to console. Everyone has a breaking point. A point of no return. A point beyond the elastic limit . Sleep on great guy. I contemplated same lots of time. The noise sometimes, is just too much. |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by orgasticdance: 7:19pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by sisisioge: 7:20pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
It is well...please always fond someone to talk too or invest in a therapist. It is well. |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Canberra55: 7:21pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
Depression is a slow poison. It doesn't strike until it's finally convinced you that you alone got the KEYS ... if you're in depression mode , please #SoroSoke |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Ishilove: 7:21pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
Wow... 7years battling depression... |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Hassanmaye(m): 7:25pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
BadRadio:If only men will take this advice serious |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Hotbutt(f): 7:25pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
LongNipple: You are right. A simple text message can actually save a life. It is similar to a story I read last week on a blog of how just a text message saved a man's life. I had to go look for it to post here. Here below. https://giftchinemerem..com/2020/12/how-text-message-stopped-me-from_27.html?m=1 |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Nobody: 7:29pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
Zeinymira:Thanks. 1 Like |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by HandsomeD: 7:30pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
Suicide is not the best option. It only takes the courage mind to see the light at the end of the tunnel. |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Kayberg: 7:30pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
CoolJul: Well, thanks for showing concern, but no one cares about anyone in this world. Everyone have always been selfish and only love to say nice words about the dead. The dead guy's friends can't say they have no idea of what he had been going through, but nothing will be done as well until he went missing and later found dead. 3 Likes |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Farukshy: 7:30pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
After seeing this post and reading comments,i just laugh. Yes people pass through slot can imaging depressed for 7yr, and he has made an attempt 4times but the thought of his mummy. .i understand full. I have been depressed since 2011 till date am still passing through it, some times I develop chest pain bcoz of think, it drains me, but still people look at me a feels that am OK bcoz e no dry show for body, I keep trying to make thinks work but is like the more I try the more things get bad, but still I give my self hope,i thank God for making me strong,most suicider take there life not bcoz they are weak is just bcoz they have been to strong for so long RIP bro 3 Likes |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by izibili44: 7:30pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
Wrong move. Only if you know what most of us are passing through. Yet we act as if nothing is happening. Wrong move rest in peace |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by adespy(m): 7:31pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
To think this is also my note to a girl that just left me,I never believed in depression until 4th of this month till date,I never thought I'd be left alone in my love life cause I was faithful and kind but lack of money and education made her dump me for someone better and loaded... depression is real and knocks on people's door daily,we are only strong to fight it but for how long...reach out to people and check on them,you can save a life |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by psalmistkakah(m): 7:33pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
Depression hit me last year, I was not enjoying anything, nothing seems funny to me, music and movies zero. Evil thinking was all over my mind. My brain was giving me wrong me signal, then anxiety came, HBP follow and I cannot think felt like my brain will go blank.. if not for the fact that am married, when I think of my son and wife, I will hold on.. I open up to my wife, prayers.. then I started keeping of from alcohol, I wasn't a drunk, although I do 2-3 bottles for everyday for like six months, but now ones a week and just a bottle or two.. then I started getting myself HBP almost normal, anxiety reduces, and now I enjoy doing activities.. Depression use to come with a voice telling you to commit suicide.. very strong voice, you will feel like you a trap in this world.. Ur body will become a prison to you.. u will be looking for a way to excape.. Is a bad thing.. never pray it happen to anyone 3 Likes |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by winnerr(m): 7:35pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
I feel this guy on a whole different level. I feel you, my brother. I hope you find the peace you’re looking for. most of us are on the crossroads like these and I don’t even know what keeps us goin, but we keep going. I feel you, dele. I do. |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Hassanmaye(m): 7:36pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
byinks:How is that possible my friend you scared me |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Nobody: 7:39pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
Godpikin4real: Many of the people they reach out to don't care until it's too late. Some won't.pick his call. "It's him again. Oooooh this guy leave me" When they hear he is gone, "chai and this guy dey call yesterday night o. Why I no pick im call?" 2 Likes |
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Kayberg: 7:40pm On Jan 13, 2021 |
Farukshy: I understand this on a 100% scale. At times, when it gets the better part of me, I just resort to sitting on the floor behind the door. Some(I won't say of my relationship with them) who would see me would laugh, mock and say, "You have come here again." This is just how I know people are selfish. I'm not happy with what I'm going through but I know I've benin hanging on for too long. I just keep praying for GOD to heal my heart. I want that smart, agile, vibrant and intelligent me back again. I really missed my old self. 2 Likes |
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