Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,151,277 members, 7,811,818 topics. Date: Sunday, 28 April 2024 at 08:19 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband (57836 Views)
A Sample Of Bride Price In UGEP, Yakurr LGA Of Cross River State (Pictures) / Man Tries To Eject Wife From Her Own House For Rejecting To Live With Co-Wife / Man Did This On Finding Out He's Not The Biological Father Of His Daughter (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) ... (15) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Enugupikin: 11:15am On Jan 22, 2021 |
cletz991:If she's a virgin |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by marvin906(m): 11:15am On Jan 22, 2021 |
Swinger60: I know.. Dude has been changing goal post that's what's annoying me |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Akasammyoka: 11:16am On Jan 22, 2021 |
Is he a muslim or pagan, why not finish the religious rite before taking her home, you don't fear GOD ni |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Swinger60(f): 11:16am On Jan 22, 2021 |
rottennaija:yea, you are right. All this arguments sef. I think couple should be more concerned on how to hold the marriage together till forever it doesn't matter whether one weds in church, traditionally or even in court. those weddings doesn't bind couple together, what binds couple together are their determination and resolve to stay forever together. 1 Like |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by BusinessCity: 11:16am On Jan 22, 2021 |
DeRay98: Na so In your traditional sense of marriage who is the Kolanut and alcoholic beverages offered to? Who offers the rites prayer and whom is prayed to? You'll be alright |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Brotherbaby(m): 11:16am On Jan 22, 2021 |
Once bride price is settled, she's married to the man and no one can stop the man |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by DeRay98(m): 11:16am On Jan 22, 2021 |
HonLord: ABSOLUTELY! "Church wedding" in name of God's presence is false teaching and narratives. 1 Like |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by fashrola(m): 11:16am On Jan 22, 2021 |
Softboy001: I just tire....... |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by BusinessCity: 11:16am On Jan 22, 2021 |
Akasammyoka: Tell them o. Loud am |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by marvin906(m): 11:17am On Jan 22, 2021 |
1 Like |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Mayeldah(m): 11:17am On Jan 22, 2021 |
Since they planned to do Church marriage, the groom should relax, two months is nothing. If they had not planned church marriage in addition to the traditional marrige already concluded, the father had no right to hold back his daughter. The Church isn't against traditional marriage, if that's all you want to do, then have your trad on a saturday and the following morning on sunday have your pastor/priest pay for the couple during church service that's all. We like to complicate things for ourselves here in Africa. |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by favour32(m): 11:17am On Jan 22, 2021 |
DeRay98:100% correct! Many are ignorant. God help them to have orientation that they are not inferior to the white man. Traditional wedding is the main deal. 1 Like |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by BusinessCity: 11:18am On Jan 22, 2021 |
Brotherbaby: In that case after Joseph betrothed Mary, she should have stated with him from that very moment. 1 Like |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Bryan88(m): 11:18am On Jan 22, 2021 |
mezico96:GBAM!!! |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by BusinessCity: 11:18am On Jan 22, 2021 |
Minjim: Lmao Now you're confused completely. Sorry o Please allow me recommend you change your church to one that has mentors and pastors that will teach you aright. That one you're attending has led to your being poorly fed spiritually. Sorry for your condition |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by jaxxy(m): 11:18am On Jan 22, 2021 |
mezico96: Yes very right. Infact over right. U want to eat food wey never done abi? U don’t eat food that is still on the fire. Wait!!! |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Swinger60(f): 11:19am On Jan 22, 2021 |
marvin906:Your parents did only trad wedding and stayed together till now. That's all that matters. There are couples who did church wedding and within one month, marriage collapsed. I do tell my husband that what is binding us together is not even the church wedding certificate or even the bride price he paid. It is our determination to stay and hold on to each other till forever. |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Somzee(f): 11:20am On Jan 22, 2021 |
I thought traditional wedding is the most important of them? Once a father has given out his daughter in marriage and blessed the couple, marriage has started. This brings me to my question is white wedding compulsory? |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by rajiedreez: 11:20am On Jan 22, 2021 |
BusinessCity:the people seated at the traditional wedding are demons abi devils incarnate? When did church wedding started in history? The father could collect dowry which is a sign consent and marriage as far as any law is concerned. No dey deceive yourself, they are married already and have right to each other 1 Like |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Minjim: 11:21am On Jan 22, 2021 |
BusinessCity: You irredeemable. Your pastor has completely brainwashed you. 1 Like |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Steveagro: 11:21am On Jan 22, 2021 |
If your friend doesn't believe in church marriage then he should have only organized the traditional marriage and taken his bride but since he agreed to church marriage let him wait it's that simple |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by BusinessCity: 11:21am On Jan 22, 2021 |
rajiedreez: . They should have gone to the church instead na Let me ask you, can Islamic rites be done in a church? Afterall we all serve the same God You'll be alright. |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by BusinessCity: 11:22am On Jan 22, 2021 |
Minjim: . Smiles. You will look back to my last counsel. Continue going to your ayeye and say it's church you're attending. When the time comes, you'll remember someone told you what you were attending was just a social gathering not a church Spiritually malnourished believers. Tueh |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by marvin906(m): 11:23am On Jan 22, 2021 |
BusinessCity: Are you OK when did betrothed mean marriage or you don't know English again |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by simplesearch: 11:23am On Jan 22, 2021 |
dancewith: I believe the young man can't claim to be ignorant of what's at stake, so why the surprise or unnecessary noise? Biblically no church should join two people in a holy wedlock who are already living together prior or where the wife is already pregnant. So the man is doing them a favor by not letting one night enjoyment spoil their day of glory. There is no wedding ceremony that's as glorious as that of the church, the young man will thank God somebody helped him to tame his hormone after the d-day. 1 Like |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Seyzcham91(m): 11:24am On Jan 22, 2021 |
for your mind! how you take know say the bride never dey carry her pussy go give the groom wey before the parent even got involved at all Saao: |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by King44(m): 11:24am On Jan 22, 2021 |
Saao:Who tell you say dem never they knack from time.... May we have to explain to her father cos I don't understand. |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by slimshady1000: 11:25am On Jan 22, 2021 |
My dear you can only take a man out of slavery but you can't take slavery out of a man!!! Softboy001: |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Minjim: 11:25am On Jan 22, 2021 |
BusinessCity: No wahala! Your insulting comments really shows the type. of believer you are 1 Like |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by Hugoboi(m): 11:26am On Jan 22, 2021 |
What the father in law is doing is illegal and unlawful. Nigerian law DOES NOT recognize any such thing as "church wedding". The only recognized marriages under the law in Nigeria are the Customary marriage (otherwise known as traditional marriage) and Statutory marriage (other wise known as the registry marriage or marriage under the Marriage Act) Church wedding is regarded as mere marriage "celebration" and has no legal backing in law or fact. |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by King44(m): 11:26am On Jan 22, 2021 |
Enugupikin:Joy and wahala mixed together.... Ha!!! |
Re: Father Of Bride Refuses To Let His Daughter Live With Her Husband by tegaofficial10(m): 11:26am On Jan 22, 2021 |
Softboy001: I tire oooo, even the Christian faith states clearly, that once the bride price is paid and accepted by the girls family, then she becomes his wife, there was no white wedding in the bible, they both can just simply go to their pastor to bless the union. African man and colonisation... now i see why the westerners think us inferior... SMH |
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) ... (15) (Reply)
Meeting Your In-law For Marriage: 6 Questions To Expect As A Guy / Lady Finds Out Her Sister Is Her Mother (Video) / Married Zimbabwean Woman Caught Cheating With 7 Men (Photos)
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 53 |