tooth4tooth:

It is not the right thing. I want to challenge all religious fanatics to quote to me the part of the Bible that traditional marriage is not recognized .

Humanoid01:

I know, but the father may have his reasons. Flouting his order may create an unnecessary issue if not adhered to. So it's better to be patient since the wedding is in just two months time.

Minjim:

You don't even speak like a believer.

Church wedding is not Biblical..

Do it only If you can afford it.

BusinessCity:






Conflicting ideologies. You're confusing yourself


Court wedding follows due protocols


Traditional wedding same dressing to eating to prayers then attires


But when it comes to Christian wedding, you say God was at the traditional wedding.


You'll only confuse valve elements like yourself.


Since God is everywhere, then every one should just pick a woman and proclaim her as wife without approaching any of the three institutions. Yeye


You picked the wrong person to debate with about scriptures. I tell you

garicrises:
I humbly beg to differ, our traditional African wedding is valid and recognize even b4 the law, while it is not objectionable to insist on a white wedding it should not be on the basis of invalidating the sanctity or legal standing of traditional marriages, in eggon land, Nasarawa State where I come from after performing some traditional marriage rites you are asked whether you are a taking your wife immediately along or subsequently after white wedding, meaning you can go consummate as you are fully married irrespective of church formalities, and yes Christian prayers are also offered there

BusinessCity:




You are the bigger fool


Marriage honourable to God and marriage without his honour and approval doesn't cancel the marriage. It's an individual Christian belief and practice


God read for schools. You're resuming soon


Full

focus7:


Go back and read what I pasted. Traditional and court wedding is enough. Once the parents pray for the couple God sanctions it, it's not until you take it to the pastor or imam.

Since you want Bible debate let's start by telling us where Jesus or any of his disciple conducted a church wedding in Bible.

marvin906:




So if I understand correctly my mom and dad that just did traditional marriage and currently have four children marriage is not approved by God.. Your a fool

marvin906:





Now I can bodly say your utterly stupid..
Drops mic

Humanoid01:

Oh you have no idea.

marvin906:





Now I can bodly say your utterly stupid..
So traditional marriage is without the honour of God so in God sight they aren't married..
I spit on your stupidity
As Christian am ashamed of someone like you..
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BusinessCity:
The father is the father until after the marriage.. That's in God's presence, He that giveth the blessing in the marriage. Not in front of some ancestors in a traditional system. If some traditional elders are honored by presenting the intending couples before them, should God not get even greater honour?


Smh atheists and liberalised would do anything to attack Christian faith




Why it's so hard for them to take in is atheists and liberalised want to attack any concept of God to anything goes.


The sheer hypocrisy is what I find appalling. If they hate Christian marriage, they should leave Christian ladies and families alone simple.


If you won't marry a Christian lady the Christian way, please marry your kinds. Go for the traditional woman and after the traditional rites or even before, you can have your way

Enugupikin:

He should relax for the two months, if he has waited this far why can't he wait more,
There is this joy of making love to your virgin wife on the wedding night

BadBradley:
this one na holier than the pope.

Which marriage ever took place in the church or synagogue from genesis to revelation.

No pastor has any right or power to pronounce a couple husband and wife.

They should respect the father not the church.

Africans, world's eternal slaves!

Swinger60:
Traditionally they are married. I agree with you. Church wedding is white man's culture. To me, the father inlaw is ignorant Sha.

Now talking about Bible, Do you know the Bible said the man can be denied of taking his wife by his father inlaw even after paying dowry?

I just feel the husband should just exercise patience Sha. the family I came from, the day you do your trad wedding, is the day you are going home with your husband. you will be in your husband's house and be planning church wedding.

Liposure:
Your guy caused it. Why agree on white wedding in the first place? When by tradition he is married with or without white wedding. He should just chill for those two months afterall he won't die.

Saao:
The father is helping the groom and the bride to have a clean marriage without sex. Let him hold body small

BusinessCity:




Here they come, even God calls come of his children illegitimate children. Do you know that if you're poorly fed spiritually it would reflect in your perspectives and decision

If I ask you know what church do you attend you'll mention that one along the express where God even said if He passes through out of the millions, are won't be able to find ten


Go fix your self in a church that will impact spiritual teaching and growth. When you have deep rooted knowledge you can then debate xtian issues and not that gathering like party you folks go to and call church.

BusinessCity:




Here they come, even God calls come of his children illegitimate children. Do you know that if you're poorly fed spiritually it would reflect in your perspectives and decision

If I ask you know what church do you attend you'll mention that one along the express where God even said if He passes through out of the millions, are won't be able to find ten


Go fix your self in a church that will impact spiritual teaching and growth. When you have deep rooted knowledge you can then debate xtian issues and not that gathering like party you folks go to and call church.

BusinessCity:



. I feel sorry for your generation. What a shame. Little kids. You will learn

BusinessCity:
The father is the father until after the marriage.. That's in God's presence, He that giveth the blessing in the marriage. Not in front of some ancestors in a traditional system. If some traditional elders are honored by presenting the intending couples before them, should God not get even greater honour?

Softboy001:
What are you guys even saying self. The marriage has already been done. Bride price has already been paid and as far as anyone is concern she is already his wife.

White wedding is only the traditional marriage of the white man.

Wetin dey do Africans self. Who do una like this?

BusinessCity:




That's why I said you should get back to your books and first graduate first. You can see evidently besides using Korean memes and haul insults you have absolutely nothing to offer in debates and discussions

marvin906:



So a fanatic like you have something to offer

Roadsidetaylaw:


Nd who told u she is a virgin?

[/quote][color=#006600][/color][quote author=BusinessCity post=98296919]The father is the father until after the marriage.. That's in God's presence, He that giveth the blessing in the marriage. Not in front of some ancestors in a traditional system. If some traditional elders are honored by presenting the intending couples before them, should God not get even greater honour?


Smh atheists and liberalised would do anything to attack Christian faith




Why it's so hard for them to take in is atheists and liberalised want to attack any concept of God to anything goes.


The sheer hypocrisy is what I find appalling. If they hate Christian marriage, they should leave Christian ladies and families alone simple.


If you won't marry a Christian lady the Christian way, please marry your kinds. Go for the traditional woman and after the traditional rites or even before, you can have your way

Deserea:
How did you know she's a virgin