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LORDSAMURAI:
Hmmm nice one @postmannn, but sometimes a married man that decided to get married to another woman does not necessarily means he is after his ever flowing, non stop sexual desires. Sometimes the fault is from the wife, no man will make do with a wife that constitute a Jezeberial character. Anyways you are on point from head to toe, man is in command, our saviour JESUS did not select a woman amongs his apostles for a certain reasons, that is enough open fact to tutor us that men indeed were created with responsibilies. SO was adam when GOD created him, he gave him authority over everyliving creature in the garden but GOD only created a woman to help and feel the lonliness of Adam.

There are exceptions no doubt, hence I employed the use of the superlative adjective "more" indicating that there are lesser other factors.

"But my opinion on polygamy is simple: polygamy is simply more about satisfying an uncivilised sexual cravings than anything else. It is more of lust than any other thing."

deeptesting:
OP do yourself some good...I am tired of reading some nonsensical post filled with generalization... What statistics do you have to show that all armed robbers,street urchins are from broken homes? We have a very big problem in this part of the world... No doubt it is expected for children to grow up in homes with both parents but i beg to differ with you that every child that from a broken home turns out to be a nonentity.

The delinquent children from broken homes are reflections of their irresponsible parents.DON`T GENERALIZE This is also applicable to irresponsible parents who lives together and cannot adequately bring up their children. Not all marriages are sustainable,in most cases it is advisable to divorce and move on with your life..However,many divorced parents fail especially the men as they also divorce the children with their Mom. If both parents should live up to their responsibilities, put their differences aside and tender to the needs of the children (Moral,educational,spiritual,etc) after the divorce the children will surely grow up to be responsible adults irrespective of the home be it broken or intact.

People like you constitute the biggest test to civil debate! You're easily repugnant.

postmann:
About a staggering number of armed robbers are from broken homes or a product of single parenthood. And there is good statistics to support the claim that children from broken homes are more prone to engage in early sex, drugs, anger, frustration and join criminal gangs.
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How does the above submission translates to mean "all" to you?

I'll not dignify any further quote from you with any further response.

misspicy:
only securing a space to type my lengthy reply


am not a Lezz woman BTW,he is too randy for my spec

Since you have him in full quote, I'll leave the reply to him.

Lengthy reply? Ok.

misspicy:

There ain't no woman who hangs around the randy lezz, who'll have nothing to say, other than poking a sticky tongue. His women are naturally brainy. You aren't different, are you?

Has not the ONE GOD made you? You belong to HIM in body and spirit. And what does the ONE GOD seek? Godly offspring. So be on your guard and not be unfaithful to the wife of your youth.
(Mal 2:15)

No doubt, it takes two adults to produce a poorly trained child. Some children were born out of wedlock, others were born as a result of the fruit of matrimony but became victims of poorly managed spousal conflicts which disintegrated into divorce or separation.

The man is in charge of his home. He is a powerful king. A priest even in his utterances and declarations. He was anointed thus. His power is divine; irrevocably inherent. His words spoken over his family echoes far into the celestial realms where spirits attend to them.

Rebekah, with all her trickery and intelligence knew she has no powers to bless Jacob, her favourite son. Such powers belonged to Issac, her husband. Men, we are that powerful!

But there is no power without responsibility. There is no authority without accountability. If there is a crack in the wall of matrimony, chances are more likely that the man slipped up somewhere than the woman being the culprit. This is not to say man is always to blame for every marital problem, but men are more equipped and responsible to manage his household. Below is a quote from Brad Pitt :

"And I realised one thing; the woman is a reflection of her man"

He made this quote after his steadfast love, care and attention revived his wife, Mrs Pitt, form severe health and psychological crisis of which she had lost all hope. But she bounced back to recovery with so much radiance. But she was only a reflection of all the rays of love and devotion her husband directed towards her when she was helpless and vulnerable.

Consider this:

"I have singled him out so that he will direct his sons and their families to keep the way of the LORD by doing what is right and just." (Gen 18:19a)

There was good Sarah, but Abraham was given the responsibility of which he was to pass to his sons who were likewise entrusted with the responsibility of instructing their own households. GOD expected Abraham to teach Sarah and his sons to teach their own wives. As men, we are in charge.

A broken home is more prone to send forth poorly trained children of vices into the larger society. Children who are ill-equipped to respect and handle societal responsibilities, expectations and decorum.

About a staggering number of armed robbers are from broken homes or a product of single parenthood. And there is good statistics to support the claim that children from broken homes are more prone to engage in early sex, drugs, anger, frustration and join criminal gangs. The society gets to carry the burden of a couple's matrimonial irresponsibility or sexual rascality; these children are out there constituting security risks to everyone.

Unfortunately, the consequences of polygamy is similar to broken homes (I know most men wouldn't want to hear this). But my opinion on polygamy is simple: polygamy is simply more about satisfying an uncivilised sexual cravings than anything else. It is more of lust than any other thing. (Now I've earned your wrath )

It is the single biggest source of intra-family feuds. It brings emotional neglect both to children and their mothers. And jealousy, which is like a raging inferno is the outcome. A woman who feels emotionally disenfranchised by her husband is vulnerable to many dangers and temptations, and she's capable of anything.
A polygamous home is a divided home in pretence and a polygamist is more likely to watch his family disintegrate while he is yet alive.

The outcome of all this is a society full of adults who knew little or no love as children growing up. And they are less capable of giving what they have always lacked. It becomes a society with little or no empathy, of rampant wickedness.

If men rise up and take their place with mental, physical and emotionally integrity, every other thing, including women will fall into place. We're that powerful!

Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered"
(1 Peter 3:7)

firstEVA:
thanks. going to bed now

I've sent it.

You have a wonderful night.

firstEVA:
I will soon enough.

I'll sent a W msg

firstEVA:
hahahaha, I like late night dates, when everyone else is asleep.

Hahahaha!

That's when the guards are down.

But pick a day and time. It's your call.

firstEVA:
we may have to reschedule, my bad phone made it an impossibility.

Why not set the day and time for once, eh?

firstEVA:
lmao

How are you? The weather is very cool at my end.

I'm fine. It threatened to rain here but didn't. It's about normal temperature here.

I didn't forget about our date which was missed.