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firstEVA:
ok

how are you?

misspicy:
I'd rather not type lengthy words anymore,you have successfully put my thoughts in words.

Then and again, polygamous men and their wives should be held responsible for whatever way the children tends to turn out,bear in mind that not all villian,not even a vast majority are from broken homes, some children/adults are influenced by the environment as a whole

well said. But the post didnt say that children from broken homes constitute the vast majority of criminals in the society. Staggering number was my choice of word. which means a significant number. it doesnt indicate majority or even vast majority as some lame dummies and cheap "likes" hunters asserted. Dont also forget that there are other factors like single parenthood, which also implies children who were born outside wedlock and never had a father. and polygamy.

Fanirandele:
Actually he is right, that is a generalisation that you don't have statistics to back up. What evidence do you have that the[b] vast majority[/b] of those committing those crimes are from "broken homes". Who did the study and where? What parameters where used? This is nothing but a stereotype, it's like white people saying a vast percentage of blacks are lazy and other generalisations. Many parents are negligent to the children right under their nose of both parents, a single parent may be more perceptive sef. Most of the evil leaders we have in this country are not from broken homes. In fact it it's the ones from homes with 2 parents that have largely destroyed this Country.

Did you read my post and saw vast majority? Does staggering number mean vast majority where you obtained your education?

I know you, and I know your intention. I would have loved to tell you that various samples of data were collected from random police stations to back up this claim, but like I said, I know you. You're not worth it. You came late to my previous thread with a stupid facade of maturity, I left you there with some questions you haven't yet answered and you're here in your coward move trying to have a payback.
And nigeria has been ruled by various leaders with polygamous background. you unwittingly lend credence to my post.
Your personality stinks!!!

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firstEVA:

Hey dearest, pls let's talk when I get back my 8pm.

lezz:
Pervert? Since when has love for women become perversion?

Fuckfaced loonie! Did I sniff your girl's panties?

Women are my only malady.

And I don't want to be cured.

I pick them well: fine and intelligent.

Sorry sir. I go forget say na you be the troll-baba for nairaland.

lezz:
Fine!!!

It beats me how I've never brought myself to look at your DP since we've been here.

And I just did and I gave myself a nasty reality-slap why I haven't asked you out to tell you, you have the best legs in all of nairaland!!!

Rampagous pervert, you have raom thus far like a starved hunter looking for women!

lezz:
Life isn't a straight forward and regimental as you put it.

Polygamy hasn't done evil to our society, change of values and parental neglect are chiefly the factor.


The past generations were sired from polygamous settings and had more morality and sound values than we do today.

The new media today has changed our collective values as a people.


When I was a kid going to school, my notebook cover had the pictures of academicians, famous inventors and university buildings.

Today's kids have drogba, Messi, Ronaldo and celebrities all over their booknote.

Everyone wants to be an instant celebrity and the rave of the moment.


The girls all want to be instant celebs to be seen in TV in glamour and style.


The boys want to be instant celebs to fück all the girls they fancy!!!

Check out TV programmes ----- the local ones, it's all choking with gulder ultimate search, Nollywood talent hunt show and other like programmes that promise instant fame without values.


Every era has its distinctive feature,

We are of the era of money, püssy, and the crave for fame.

That's where our demonds hide .

I knew your randy tendencies would cast your support in favour of polygamy. Polygamy hasn't done evil in our society you say? That's like saying adultery hasn't done any evil to the society. Right from its earliest form, polygamy has affected the family in some negative ways.

As for societal change of value:

There are various factors that are responsible. For me, the chief of factors is Westernization. Indirectly or directly, Westernization has corrupted behavioural conducts, societal values and expectations by promoting Lewdness, widespread, easily-assessed pornography, star-struck syndrome, sexually explicit contents even for adolescents, indecent public show of affection, the glorification of fornication, celeberation of celebrity-whores as role models, etc. These are some of the products of Westernization and it has impacted the marriage institution negatively.

FirstEVA, where are you? Don't tell me you're sad and upset?

Thou queen among princesses, would you be kind enough as to arise from your imperial sojourn?
For many are we who miss you!

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LORDSAMURAI:
Hmmm nice one @postmannn, but sometimes a married man that decided to get married to another woman does not necessarily means he is after his ever flowing, non stop sexual desires. Sometimes the fault is from the wife, no man will make do with a wife that constitute a Jezeberial character. Anyways you are on point from head to toe, man is in command, our saviour JESUS did not select a woman amongs his apostles for a certain reasons, that is enough open fact to tutor us that men indeed were created with responsibilies. SO was adam when GOD created him, he gave him authority over everyliving creature in the garden but GOD only created a woman to help and feel the lonliness of Adam.

There are exceptions no doubt, hence I employed the use of the superlative adjective "more" indicating that there are lesser other factors.

"But my opinion on polygamy is simple: polygamy is simply more about satisfying an uncivilised sexual cravings than anything else. It is more of lust than any other thing."

deeptesting:
OP do yourself some good...I am tired of reading some nonsensical post filled with generalization... What statistics do you have to show that all armed robbers,street urchins are from broken homes? We have a very big problem in this part of the world... No doubt it is expected for children to grow up in homes with both parents but i beg to differ with you that every child that from a broken home turns out to be a nonentity.

The delinquent children from broken homes are reflections of their irresponsible parents.DON`T GENERALIZE This is also applicable to irresponsible parents who lives together and cannot adequately bring up their children. Not all marriages are sustainable,in most cases it is advisable to divorce and move on with your life..However,many divorced parents fail especially the men as they also divorce the children with their Mom. If both parents should live up to their responsibilities, put their differences aside and tender to the needs of the children (Moral,educational,spiritual,etc) after the divorce the children will surely grow up to be responsible adults irrespective of the home be it broken or intact.

People like you constitute the biggest test to civil debate! You're easily repugnant.

postmann:
About a staggering number of armed robbers are from broken homes or a product of single parenthood. And there is good statistics to support the claim that children from broken homes are more prone to engage in early sex, drugs, anger, frustration and join criminal gangs.
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How does the above submission translates to mean "all" to you?

I'll not dignify any further quote from you with any further response.

misspicy:
only securing a space to type my lengthy reply


am not a Lezz woman BTW,he is too randy for my spec

Since you have him in full quote, I'll leave the reply to him.

Lengthy reply? Ok.

misspicy:

There ain't no woman who hangs around the randy lezz, who'll have nothing to say, other than poking a sticky tongue. His women are naturally brainy. You aren't different, are you?

Has not the ONE GOD made you? You belong to HIM in body and spirit. And what does the ONE GOD seek? Godly offspring. So be on your guard and not be unfaithful to the wife of your youth.
(Mal 2:15)

No doubt, it takes two adults to produce a poorly trained child. Some children were born out of wedlock, others were born as a result of the fruit of matrimony but became victims of poorly managed spousal conflicts which disintegrated into divorce or separation.

The man is in charge of his home. He is a powerful king. A priest even in his utterances and declarations. He was anointed thus. His power is divine; irrevocably inherent. His words spoken over his family echoes far into the celestial realms where spirits attend to them.

Rebekah, with all her trickery and intelligence knew she has no powers to bless Jacob, her favourite son. Such powers belonged to Issac, her husband. Men, we are that powerful!

But there is no power without responsibility. There is no authority without accountability. If there is a crack in the wall of matrimony, chances are more likely that the man slipped up somewhere than the woman being the culprit. This is not to say man is always to blame for every marital problem, but men are more equipped and responsible to manage his household. Below is a quote from Brad Pitt :

"And I realised one thing; the woman is a reflection of her man"

He made this quote after his steadfast love, care and attention revived his wife, Mrs Pitt, form severe health and psychological crisis of which she had lost all hope. But she bounced back to recovery with so much radiance. But she was only a reflection of all the rays of love and devotion her husband directed towards her when she was helpless and vulnerable.

Consider this:

"I have singled him out so that he will direct his sons and their families to keep the way of the LORD by doing what is right and just." (Gen 18:19a)

There was good Sarah, but Abraham was given the responsibility of which he was to pass to his sons who were likewise entrusted with the responsibility of instructing their own households. GOD expected Abraham to teach Sarah and his sons to teach their own wives. As men, we are in charge.

A broken home is more prone to send forth poorly trained children of vices into the larger society. Children who are ill-equipped to respect and handle societal responsibilities, expectations and decorum.

About a staggering number of armed robbers are from broken homes or a product of single parenthood. And there is good statistics to support the claim that children from broken homes are more prone to engage in early sex, drugs, anger, frustration and join criminal gangs. The society gets to carry the burden of a couple's matrimonial irresponsibility or sexual rascality; these children are out there constituting security risks to everyone.

Unfortunately, the consequences of polygamy is similar to broken homes (I know most men wouldn't want to hear this). But my opinion on polygamy is simple: polygamy is simply more about satisfying an uncivilised sexual cravings than anything else. It is more of lust than any other thing. (Now I've earned your wrath )

It is the single biggest source of intra-family feuds. It brings emotional neglect both to children and their mothers. And jealousy, which is like a raging inferno is the outcome. A woman who feels emotionally disenfranchised by her husband is vulnerable to many dangers and temptations, and she's capable of anything.
A polygamous home is a divided home in pretence and a polygamist is more likely to watch his family disintegrate while he is yet alive.

The outcome of all this is a society full of adults who knew little or no love as children growing up. And they are less capable of giving what they have always lacked. It becomes a society with little or no empathy, of rampant wickedness.

If men rise up and take their place with mental, physical and emotionally integrity, every other thing, including women will fall into place. We're that powerful!

Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered"
(1 Peter 3:7)