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blueAgent:
effects of Feminism

firstEVA:
I am there right now, lez drew my attention to it. I suspect that child, darkened baboon

firstEVA:
in my house. Sorry I have been offline for sometime

firstEVA:
were you banned in a session?

AVRecruit:
house maids na dem dey hot pass :-)

Anyway, the later a woman marries the higer the probability a man will pursue young babes outside at least for a while to make up for the deficiency

The younger a woman marries, the more satisfied the husband will be with the carnal lusts of their youth and if a good man, wont look outside even when the babe gets older.

with feminism came boyfriends. boyfriends are not jn the best interest of women. all women should be encouraged to get married before going to university or shortly afterwards. just because its not happening today does not mean its not the right thing.

Why isnt feminism truly saying wat im saying? See it doesnt have womens best interests at heart.

itzhanie001:
Being a stay home mom doesn't mean you will nurture your children well. I have an uncle who married a lazy woman, lazy being that she doesn't care for work at all. She can't even wash her own undies talk more take care of children well, a married woman with with female children will openly display pornographic videos. The highest no of teenage pregnancy cases I aee around me have housewives as the mothers. And we have lots of mothers at the apex of their careers nurturing and taking good care of their homes and children and equally producing brilliant children. My mum and grandma being great examples.


It's hypocrisy when we all know what you want is for a woman to be like a rag to a man, one he can decided to do whatever he wish to. Makes me remember a man that asked his wife (a principal in one of the federal Colleges in Nig) to quit her job unknown to her he was planning to marry another wife, thank God she saw pass his selfishness, he wld have rendered her dependent on him so he can toss her however he likes..Now she has her own school, big one and is doing well. I'av seen men who ask their wives not to work supposedly to take care of children make those wives suffer and even the children. They want her at their mercies of their selfish tendencies. Even if a woman sits home all day, a man with no self control will still cheat, they'll just bring pregnancy come meet her for house.

If you don't want career women, good. There.are lots of women out there.who don't mind being housewives.

AVRecruit:
You forgot to mention: why work to pay for day care when you can give BETTER care yourself?

Feminism is already affecting women. In my workplace guys are afraid of talking to women for fear of harassment charges. Less office collaboration.

Women also pay for feminism through cheating. Your man is sleeping with a hot young girl with standing breasts as you no gree marry go dey do phd. Again women could do phds they should marry on time and have the support of their husbands for such courses.

Finally females pay through loneliness.

daxlasaint:
With or without feminism there would still be bad mothers out there.... i know hoisewives who children eat out all day and are ill cared for... i know career women who balance their homes beautifully.... am not advocating for men hating, competitive feminism... thats what most guys against this thread dont seem to get.... even the slave owners of infamous memory felt their slavery of the blavk man was divinely ordained and just....

daxlasaint:
That why not settle the issue once and for all? Why not give these women the same opportunities and preferences cos if they are bound to fail then they will and the matter will be settled once and for all... aparently pushing gender equality would be win win for men... so....

daxlasaint:
So in essence you telling me its not possible for ( using this as an example) a woman to be smarter or more intelligent or more successful in a chosen field than her male counterpart if given the same opportunities and preferences?

daxlasaint:
One thing we tend to forget is that: the fact that women's contribution to creativity and invention are not recorded far back in history does not necessarily mean they didnt invent nothing or contribute nothing... recorded history has never been entirely trust worthy #justsaying

daxlasaint:
You are wrong... the proportion of western women who got an appreciable education before the 20th century is so miniscule as to be nonexistent.... women have always being cast into lesser roles in society and that dampening of their creative potentials does not mean it doesnt or didnt excist.... this is the point am trying to make, everyone regardless of gender deserves equal opportunities to excel, that for me is true feminism or as i prefer to see it.... humanism...

Btw my parents are divorced and not for the reasons you are probably speculating in your head... could you pls do me a favour and leave my parents marriage or lack of it out of this discussion.

sheilak:
Bwahahaha

Nah, I create other monikers to continue with my onslaught

Daretodiffer is for being good

The other monikers are for

sheilak:
You want me to admire you

I am sorry I don't. In fact, I will enjoy putting an end to your misery




How many times I have had to tell you that YOU ARE SLOW? I knew what you were onto. Ask daxlasaint, he knew that too

daretodiffer:
You are not smart. Don't ever think you are

Divorce (if) could have been as a result of many things other than whatever you are thinking

OneManLegion:
I finally deem it fit to comment on this thread. In order to maintain a modicum of civility, I'll ensure I do not resort to vituperatives(hard as it is) and address the points you raised.

1. Before anything, I should tell you that you need to learn to make your points with maximum politeness and restraint. The unprovoked use of controversial words in a write-up makes the writer look incipient and insipient. By the way, Jesus, whom you seem to be a huge fan of, was almost as vocal against using insulting words on a person as he was against vendetta of any form(repaying evil with evil). What this means is that you're "sinning" in the process of speaking out against a "sin".

2. There's nothing wrong with women demanding equal pay at their workplace and there's everything wrong with a place of work where the salary and emoluments accruable to workers are subject to gender loculations. Your point that men do not on maternity leave is feeble. Maternity leave is necessary and just because it is only natural for a woman to get a couple of months off in order to recuperate from the rigours of childbirth as well as to bond with the new-born. Suggesting that in order for women to be placed on the same pedestal with men, salary-wise, they'd have to jettison maternity leave is callous and inequitable.

3. Your diatribe against Lesbian women was also very unnecessary and a deviation from the argument you were propounding. I don't see how homosexuality is concerned with or affected by a topic that centres on feminism; it seems you only wanted to remind us of your hatred for LGBTs; but you seem to forget that in order to sally forth credible arguments, one has to be as detached and objective - a trait, if your posts are anything to go by, you sorely lack.

4. Learn to differentiate Religion from an intellectual discourse. You're making contributions on contemporary issues and you're supporting your points with bible quotations?
Are you aware that Nigeria is a secular state?
Are you aware that morality and religion are not intertwined?

Women, as a matter of fact, have the right to earn as much as their male counterparts as long as their job descriptions entail the same thing or responsibilities.

Cc: Postmann

daretodiffer:
You are a FVCKING LIAR

Did it extend to University?

My former university enrolled the first female student in UK/Wales.

daxlasaint:
true not so many women as compared to men have won acclaim in the world of imnovation, invention and and science.... but even in this your are helping me make my point.... women historically speaking, have never been given equal footing anf opportunities to aim so high... marie currie was an anormally for her time...

MzNelly:
Lmao... I have a fan

Whatever trash you said up there doesn't change anything I've said.
We stay superior..
suck my balls

MzNelly:
See all these pained males foaming at their mouths...
Why are you all so scared?
You all know how resourceful we could be if placed on the same pedestal as y'all, that's why

Just wait on it...

Feminism is here to stay
Whether y'all like it or not

DemiGoddess:
Smh for some confused female posters in this thread.I've always been against feminism even as a female,while the whites argue that feminism is all about gender equality(this is a hoax) and my delusioned african females agree I've always laughed at them.Believe you me,feminism goes beyond that,I see power hungry jezebels wanting to disrupt nature,I see abused females and man haters who want to bully both men and women(who dont conform to feminism).Dont let them confuse you with their gender equality hoax,they know it goes beyond that.When I say feminism is satanic,you might not comprehend.Cc postmann

daxlasaint:
Women may not have the physical strength of men but they can be and are usually smarter...

daxlasaint:
Feminism means different things for different people... For me it means aspiring for the chance to attain equal opportunities for both sexes... The removal of societal restraints that consign certain dreams and aspirations to a certain gender or sex... Unfortunately feminism , in the eyes of many of the malefolk has become synonymous with non-submission of women to their men... This thought process while understandable is totally wrong.

The going philosophy seems to be that if as a guy you support feminism then you are a sissy, a woman wrapper or an ass kisser.... Only a weak and insecure man requires total submission from his woman to make him feel like he's in charge. Feminism is the only reason many of us guys on Nairaland can proudly brag bout our 'literate' mothers, our 'successful' mothers, aunts, sisters, etc etc

Most guys tell you they can't date or marry an uneducated and unenlightened girl without reasoning far ahead enough to realise that the only reason these educated women are available is because of the 'loathed' feminist movement.

My family is a perfect case study... My dad though being British, still holds strongly to our African traditional values but there was never a time while i was growing up that my mom wasnt working full time... Never a time when my mom couldnt speak her mind and didnt have an equal say in what went down in our home, and guess what? It never eroded her respect for my dad or vice versa... Even my step mom is richer than my dad and more business oriented too, it never caused an issue that i know of, my father has never demanded submission from his wife/ wives and this is someone who like i stated earlier is a full proper traditional African man...

Women may not have the physical strength of men but they can be and are usually smarter... Feminism doesnt literally translate to a woman being able to do all things men can do but it means a woman should be allowed to aspire to the goals men have traditionally reserved for themselves, the right to decide what they want to become or the goals they want to pursue without first considering whether its allowed women by societal norms...

In a way i think the problem of feminism is actually its name... Its only human to strive for the equality of both sexes... Feminism should probably be called humanism because equality of the sexes should be a universal human aspiration not just a fight by the female half of the population

Feminism doesn't mean anti submission just has submission doesnt mean a woman having to grovel and bow after her man and his ego.... Submission is a product of mutual respect and only weak men should be afraid of a woman who speaks her mind on issues concerning their relationship and basic existential issues...

I can only say in closing, there was a time when all men were not considered equal.... And there were people who fought to keep the status quo, they lost. Same way those who fight to keep the status quo on gender inequality would one day be consigned to history books as bitter losers in a cause whose outcome may be delayed but never changed....

firstEVA:

firstEVA:
haha,

I beg to differ

firstEVA:
I won't be happy if you pour it

firstEVA:
to get the coke crested with postmann