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@sheilak

So what's the trouble with you?
You couldn't leave your demons behind in Africa or what?

I thought feminism won the war where you are?
What what's behind your frustration?

You lack a man to call your own!!!

sheilak:
You want me to admire you

I am sorry I don't. In fact, I will enjoy putting an end to your misery




How many times I have had to tell you that YOU ARE SLOW? I knew what you were onto. Ask daxlasaint, he knew that too

You're as fake as it can get!

As numerous as your monikers so numerous are your failed attempts at being a good girl.

Avoided you like plague each time you crawl into my space, but you can't help quoting me.

daretodiffer:
You are not smart. Don't ever think you are

Divorce (if) could have been as a result of many things other than whatever you are thinking

The antispam bot delayed my reply :


It should have been perfect exhibition of wisdom on your part to have allowed the OP answer the QUESTION.
I never said divorce now, did I?

Na you talk divorce ooo

By the way, you shouldn't have made your admiration for me public.

OneManLegion:
I finally deem it fit to comment on this thread. In order to maintain a modicum of civility, I'll ensure I do not resort to vituperatives(hard as it is) and address the points you raised.

1. Before anything, I should tell you that you need to learn to make your points with maximum politeness and restraint. The unprovoked use of controversial words in a write-up makes the writer look incipient and insipient. By the way, Jesus, whom you seem to be a huge fan of, was almost as vocal against using insulting words on a person as he was against vendetta of any form(repaying evil with evil). What this means is that you're "sinning" in the process of speaking out against a "sin".

2. There's nothing wrong with women demanding equal pay at their workplace and there's everything wrong with a place of work where the salary and emoluments accruable to workers are subject to gender loculations. Your point that men do not on maternity leave is feeble. Maternity leave is necessary and just because it is only natural for a woman to get a couple of months off in order to recuperate from the rigours of childbirth as well as to bond with the new-born. Suggesting that in order for women to be placed on the same pedestal with men, salary-wise, they'd have to jettison maternity leave is callous and inequitable.

3. Your diatribe against Lesbian women was also very unnecessary and a deviation from the argument you were propounding. I don't see how homosexuality is concerned with or affected by a topic that centres on feminism; it seems you only wanted to remind us of your hatred for LGBTs; but you seem to forget that in order to sally forth credible arguments, one has to be as detached and objective - a trait, if your posts are anything to go by, you sorely lack.

4. Learn to differentiate Religion from an intellectual discourse. You're making contributions on contemporary issues and you're supporting your points with bible quotations?
Are you aware that Nigeria is a secular state?
Are you aware that morality and religion are not intertwined?

Women, as a matter of fact, have the right to earn as much as their male counterparts as long as their job descriptions entail the same thing or responsibilities.

Cc: Postmann

Some of your points are valid. Esp on the character of J.E.SU.S. But sometimes you call a dog by its name. JE.S.U.S did that.


Though It is strange your comment is only coming now after your being here plenty of times over many days.

I reckon this handle is an alternate. I would like to know your major or original handle and why the veil with this one. I can't shake off the feeling that MOST alternates are creepy and phoney.

A genuine alternate should freely and readily link his past moniker to the new one.

While I wait for your real moniker, I'll like to tell you that Nigeria is indeed a secular state but there is freedom of expression and religion.

And yes, when I knew no better, I separated intellectual discourse from religion, but not anymore.

I reckon the bible fits in perfectly for almost every purpose. It is way ahead of human intelligence and it answers all question beyond reasonable reproach.

The belief of man that religion should be separated from intellectual discourse is as a result of man's pride and godlessness. And that's exactly what is wrong with the world. Man tries to use education to replace religion. It didn't work and it never will.

Do you know far back in the old days, it was highly religious men that knew how to write and has deep knowledge about life, science and GOD?

But when satan hijacked education, he tried to separate education from GOD. This has not always been the case from the onset.

So yes, while I always retain caution in making religious attributes to intellectual discourse, it will never be stopped altogether. It was all done on purpose.

To your point on equal pay; I wonder how many times I'm going to say this!!!

I'm not going to tell you where I work but, when you study our pay slip, you discover that you're been paid on hourly basis, even down to the bonus and entitlement. And it's not a government establishment. And that's global practice, even in America!

If a woman takes a maternity leave, who does her work, all the months she'll be away?
If it is a staff within, will he or she be paid for the extra work and overtime spent? Yes he or she should.
From what purse? Should the company pay extra or from what ought to be the bonus of the woman who's on maternity leave?

Now for private, profit oriented firms, they know the cost ratio of male/female worker. They know that at certain period of time, a female worker will be off duty, whether for maternal reason or whatever is immaterial. What's important is there is job to be done and it's affecting profit.

So some private firms in the West don't pay men and women the same. It is pure logic, sentiments aside.

Hi, favourite one. Where you I get fast help from this antispam trash bot?
@firstEVA

daretodiffer:
You are a FVCKING LIAR

Did it extend to University?

My former university enrolled the first female student in UK/Wales.

Common sense would have told you that in the medieval age there was no university. Inventions then were mainly pure natural instincts and creativity which you women lack.

The University of Karueein was founded in 859 AD in Fez, Morocco. The University of Bologna, Italy, was founded in 1088 and is the oldest one in Europe.


Now do the math: How many inventions have been made before these times when there was no university? And what was holding your women folks from walking toe to toe with their men folks in innovation.


Now you're a Muslim woman, but I'll point you to the bible.

When the children of Israel left Egypt and were in the wilderness they needed to build something, the ark of covenant :

Read this:
Then the Lord spoke to Moses, saying: "See, I have called by name Bezalel the son of Uri, the son of Hur, of the tribe of Judah. And I have filled him with the Spirit of God, in wisdom, in understanding, in knowledge, and in all manner of workmanship, to design artistic works, to work in gold, in silver, in bronze, in cutting jewels for setting, in carving wood, and to work in all manner of workmanship. And I, indeed I, have appointed with him Aholiab the son of Ahisamach...
(Exodus 31:1-6a)

From the primitive age, man made spears, axes, bows, arrows, hammers, and other kind of instruments to ease the burden of his curse, which is to plough the earth. Later he ploughed harder and discovered minerals and gold.

Adam was given the earth to tender even before Eve was created.

So GOD normally gives man more wisdom to create and invent to make HIS world easier and safer for him.
It is only after his invention that you girls are invited to join the party.

And you wonder why even the best stylists are men,
The best cooks are men
Even Kim Kay's wedding dress was designed by a man!
Feminism has no footing on rationality. It is just greed
Women trying to reap where they never sowed.

Education and wisdom are two different things.

Feminism is foolishness. Satanic in orientation.
Man and woman aren't equal and will never me.



You like going out of your way looking for my trouble, I have no courtesy for rude women. You may want to watch it. This would be my last pretence at civility with you.

daxlasaint:
true not so many women as compared to men have won acclaim in the world of imnovation, invention and and science.... but even in this your are helping me make my point.... women historically speaking, have never been given equal footing anf opportunities to aim so high... marie currie was an anormally for her time...

...and the OP lied!
Women of the Western world have always gone to school.
Women like Cornelly Metella, Carserra the younger, St Hilda of Whitby etc have been well educated in the medieval age. And some even taught in girls schools.

But they never came anything close to their male counterparts in inventory, creativity, wisdom and intelligence.

Your Marie Currie was a brilliant woman no doubt. But she's not an inventor.
Even the instruments she used was invented by the Pierre brothers.

There was Wilhelm Roentgen in 1895,
Henri Becquerel in 1896. These are the real inventors hence....

"she shared the prize with Pierre Curie and Henri Becquerel, the original discover of radioactivity"

I put it to you that over 95% of all inventions belong to men. Many are illiterates who never went to school.

Now I asked you an initial question? About your mom and your dad. Is she still married to him?

MzNelly:
Lmao... I have a fan

Whatever trash you said up there doesn't change anything I've said.
We stay superior..
suck my balls

BALLS!

Now lady (demigoddess) and gentlemen!
Didn't I say feminists are lesbians?

Mentally and spiritually compromised?

That's some transgender _shit!!!

MzNelly:
See all these pained males foaming at their mouths...
Why are you all so scared?
You all know how resourceful we could be if placed on the same pedestal as y'all, that's why

Just wait on it...

Feminism is here to stay
Whether y'all like it or not

You climb on
I see no chains bounding your feet ma'am

OP, please stop avoiding my questions!
Don't be a bad host now!
Bring your attention to my table
I'm your guest too.
Please fill my champagne glass.

DemiGoddess:
Smh for some confused female posters in this thread.I've always been against feminism even as a female,while the whites argue that feminism is all about gender equality(this is a hoax) and my delusioned african females agree I've always laughed at them.Believe you me,feminism goes beyond that,I see power hungry jezebels wanting to disrupt nature,I see abused females and man haters who want to bully both men and women(who dont conform to feminism).Dont let them confuse you with their gender equality hoax,they know it goes beyond that.When I say feminism is satanic,you might not comprehend.Cc postmann

It doesn't get any clearer when the truth comes right off the mouth of a true, pure woman.

The one made for love and respect
Designed to be cherished as a nurturer
The one the mentally and spiritually compromised jezebels look at and grin with envy.

Feminists are lesbian in disguise.
Men haters on the loose
Greedy Eves on rampage

And their destination is obvious:

Unfulfilment, selfloath, premature wrinkles and eternal damnation.

And for y'all silly feminist-wannabe. The game is up before it even began.

Gender equality is only a joke for tea time gathering.

daxlasaint:
Women may not have the physical strength of men but they can be and are usually smarter...

Nothing gets weirder than the above statement from a man.

Mr OP, please I call you to come and back up your claim of the above quote.

And please while on it, refrain from giving me some silly scientific analysis and study.

Give me practical examples of what women have invented from the beginning of time.

Today is your day on centre stage!

daxlasaint:
Feminism means different things for different people... For me it means aspiring for the chance to attain equal opportunities for both sexes... The removal of societal restraints that consign certain dreams and aspirations to a certain gender or sex... Unfortunately feminism , in the eyes of many of the malefolk has become synonymous with non-submission of women to their men... This thought process while understandable is totally wrong.

The going philosophy seems to be that if as a guy you support feminism then you are a sissy, a woman wrapper or an ass kisser.... Only a weak and insecure man requires total submission from his woman to make him feel like he's in charge. Feminism is the only reason many of us guys on Nairaland can proudly brag bout our 'literate' mothers, our 'successful' mothers, aunts, sisters, etc etc

Most guys tell you they can't date or marry an uneducated and unenlightened girl without reasoning far ahead enough to realise that the only reason these educated women are available is because of the 'loathed' feminist movement.

My family is a perfect case study... My dad though being British, still holds strongly to our African traditional values but there was never a time while i was growing up that my mom wasnt working full time... Never a time when my mom couldnt speak her mind and didnt have an equal say in what went down in our home, and guess what? It never eroded her respect for my dad or vice versa... Even my step mom is richer than my dad and more business oriented too, it never caused an issue that i know of, my father has never demanded submission from his wife/ wives and this is someone who like i stated earlier is a full proper traditional African man...

Women may not have the physical strength of men but they can be and are usually smarter... Feminism doesnt literally translate to a woman being able to do all things men can do but it means a woman should be allowed to aspire to the goals men have traditionally reserved for themselves, the right to decide what they want to become or the goals they want to pursue without first considering whether its allowed women by societal norms...

In a way i think the problem of feminism is actually its name... Its only human to strive for the equality of both sexes... Feminism should probably be called humanism because equality of the sexes should be a universal human aspiration not just a fight by the female half of the population

Feminism doesn't mean anti submission just has submission doesnt mean a woman having to grovel and bow after her man and his ego.... Submission is a product of mutual respect and only weak men should be afraid of a woman who speaks her mind on issues concerning their relationship and basic existential issues...

I can only say in closing, there was a time when all men were not considered equal.... And there were people who fought to keep the status quo, they lost. Same way those who fight to keep the status quo on gender inequality would one day be consigned to history books as bitter losers in a cause whose outcome may be delayed but never changed....

I see you're probably brought up in the West, and your dad is a good and tolerant man.

There're many self-inflicted damages from your submission but the stress of the day is slowing my assault.

But, I want to ask you: what happened between your dad and your mom. You mentioned a step mom so I reckoned they aren't together.

Truthfully tell me, pls.

firstEVA:

Be careful when you squint those eyes. There seem to be temporal darkness this side of the planet whenever you do.

firstEVA:
haha,

I beg to differ

Ok since its all done to appreciate your kind gesture, then I would drink it if that's what you'd appreciate more. And I'll be happy for it.

firstEVA:
I won't be happy if you pour it

But pouring it on the ground in gratitude holds far more significance than drinking it.

firstEVA:
to get the coke crested with postmann

If you did, I wouldn't drink it. Like David, I'll pour it on the ground as an offering of gratitude.

firstEVA:


Give me 48 hrs, my time starts now.

Hehehehehehehehehe!
To do what?

firstEVA:
nothing much, just chilling, drinking coke, you mind to join?

Hehehe! If you can get the one stamp with my name, I'll be your guest.

RadicallyBlunt:
If u're a christian and ur wife is muslim. Put all ur children with baba ifa in ifa school let them do traditional religion. Shikena!

ONE NIGERIA!

Well, except one or both are hypocrites they can never mix well in peace and harmony. A serious christian has a lot of red lines against islam and vice versa.

firstEVA:
good morning

Hey beautiful, good to have you this morning!

What's cooking?

firstEVA:
buahahahaha

Hey beautiful! Good morning.

MrCork:
....bro u stand a berrrra shance of findin Wifey material in Mars than on Nairaland....can u imagine marrryin people like thise from Nairaland: Kashybaby, firstEVA, Onstelly, Rifiner, Halfricanadian', Mrs Chima,FlawlessRebirth2..and so on....FOGERRRRRIT!!!(no oofeinse)

I thought I banished you to the cave where you belong?

You're here like a lovesick sociopath, looking for a way to release your sexual tension .

You are too uncivilised for civilized courtship.
You drool heavily from the mouth
You smell of old saliva and stale sweat.

You can't pass as a literate 21st century male
Your savage, oncouth demeanour puts you closer to chimps than humans.

I'll advice you bleat like a goat or chant like a Chimp if you want to attract your kind.

MrCork:
....bro u stand a berrrra shance of findin Wifey material in Mars than on Nairaland....can u imagine marrryin people like thise from Nairaland: Kashybaby, firstEVA, Onstelly, Rifiner, Halfricanadian', Mrs Chima,FlawlessRebirth2..and so on....FOGERRRRRIT!!!(no oofeinse)

I thought I banished you to the cave where you belong?

Now you're on a sociopathic rampage, looking for love in a most uncivilised manner.

Have you yet squirted on the tree to easy your sexual tension? Lovesick crackpot.

Akfakorede:
so what is the solution to uncivilised sexual cravings and lust.

i just want to know thanks.

There is a thread on lust that I've been on and it's at its concluding phase. But that'll be for the religious section.

To your question : I'm afraid man's discipline is not enough sometimes to contain lust. Some people go into adultery with the knowledge that it is wrong but they can't help themselves all the same.

It's more of spiritual soundness than physical determination. There's something in man that is bigger than man and more powerful than man. Each man has it. It manifest itself in different ways in different people. It is called weakness.

It can come in the form of anger, lust, insincerity, stealing, you name it. To each man his own weakness. And except you're spiritual, and sincerely and seriously so, your weakness will overcome you.

Akfakorede:
@ postmann
what do you think about this??

i really like your threads...o make sesnse..

It's cool. It puts the activities of the upper chamber of the national assembly at the figure tips. But I have a passive interest in Nigeria politics. The current crop of politicians are not worth it. Just my opinion.


I'm sincerely grateful for your commendation.


****modified ****

Now I get your drift. The link you sent me led me to a twitter handLe of the NS.

My comment will be brief:

I love my northern brothers for one thing : Westernization i.e satanization will never prevail in Nigeria. My northern are brothers immovable rock. Left for southerners, we are open and porous to whatever garbage satan cooks for humanity through the West.

EQUAL RIGHTS IN MARRIAGE TELL ME ABOUT THE DEVIL, AND I'LL TELL YOU THE WHYTEMAN IS HIS CHIEF OF SERVANTS.

MrCork:
...u juss wastin yor on employ useless time on firstEVA...you aint goono phuck her..truss me!!

That should be my worry, not yours.

So what's up? Have you squirted on the tree yet?

MrCork:
....dont make me call my Kashyba.by to SLAP THAT YOR BURUNDI FACE....i owe you moiney?....I BEG.. LEAVE ME JOR!!

Which kashybab.y, the one that signed the files that certified you officially as a sociopath?

.

MrCork:

[size=18pt] ....YOUR THREAD FINALLY DERAILED THANKS TO YOU.......am out!!![/size]

...As in to your cave. Don't forget to brandish your phone before your fellow Chimpanzees. It's the only reason they crowned you king of the jungle.