₦airaland Forum

N3TRAL:
David Mark was from the North Central.
He's Nigeria's longest serving Senate president. After that Bukola Saraki still from the North Central did 4 years.
The North Central cannot do it again.


What happens to the South South? Despite Igbo affinity, we gave Jagaban 25% in almost all the states.

Do you know the implication of an 80% for Obi in the South South like the South East? It would have been 11 States landslide.

How do you discredit how much work the likes of Wike, Akpabio and Oshiomole put in to preach Muslim Muslim Ticket to natives of an area with 98% Christians without mosques?

It's unfair.

Una yourbas no dey rate us 😡

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Very annoying thread for most of us.

The chairman lost Nasarawa State his State to Labour Party in that same North Central.

Labour party won Plateau State in that same North Central despite producing the campaign chairman, an incumbent Governor.

Benue State was so close that it could have gone anywhere. It's technically a draw between LP and APC just like Lagos. The win margin of APC has no meaning.

If we count Abuja-FCT based on its geography and boundary, APC did not even see 25% there.

North Central voted along religious lines. Kwara is technically Yoruba and Kogi to an extent with Muslim population. Niger State has a massive Muslim population too.

The only christians in Nigeria that didn't give a damn about the Muslim Muslim Ticket apart from the South West were South South christians.


Also consider the fact that APC was the dominant party in the North Central before the elections. KWARA, Kogi, Niger, Nasarawa and Plateau states had APC Governors.

South South delivered beyond imagination for a region with only one APC governor who defected. The South South will have at least 2 APC governors on the 29th of May (Delta State and Cross River State). The region is going APC and you must reward the people.

All these your writeup all come down to if the South South acclaimed votes were actually a reflection of the actual ballot count.

I'm from Delta state and I know what happened. And with what's on ground, I prefer a total INEC overhaul than scrambling for political position based on spoils of hardened criminals cum politicians.

BigBrother9ja:
Lol
Wey rey
Is sense paining you or you live on another planet?

Wailing loser

Get ready to bow to Atiku as your new president and overlord, you disposable piece of human filth.

BigBrother9ja:


Beautiful!

Ben Ayade has been a very useless fool

I'm happy he lost, just like Pitobì is losing big

I feel very sorry for the Obidiotṣ

In your dreams.

He can only be president in cuba or Mexican drug cartel.

Okealaaye:
Truer words were never spoken! In any case, their Ezes and Ndichies may have neglected to tell them about the events of 1966 to 1970. Worse for them now is that Nigeria has just acquired Tocarno jets and Apache XDU Assault helicopters. Their pilots do not look anyone in the face before setting the hot bombs on villages and cities. I heard that the Air Force is being restrained from using them in Practical Operations, east of the Great River at the moment. Try our gallant pilots and feel the heat of flaming fires.

Get prepared to bow to Atiku as your next president.

Nolevel666:
Mass extermination is what will cure your worthlessness on this earth along with people like you

That's epic.

WackyJ1:
I see.

You're one of those.

Like I asked him.

Is it "My Wife" that will appear on the Marriage certificate, the school certificate, the court documents?

I did not call the girl's name in a disrespectful way.

It doesn't matter what appears in her certificate. It's obviously not your darn business what does.

What every self respecting man would do is abide by what a man wishes as proper for his wife to be addressed.

It is simple enough.

omooba969:
What do you mean by "different outcomes with sexual exposure for both genders" or what were you expecting? Obviously there would be a different outcome, for example, the woman gets pregnant while the man doesn't. I have already furnished you with a probable similar outcomes as a result of a promiscuous life style in both genders by way of catching STI/HIV.

If you knew all along that there are different outcomes for both genders when engaged in promiscuity, then you wouldn't have bothered with the bigbrodanaija fellow who clearly inferred thus; "promiscuity is bad for both genders but that there's still a difference with both genders". And there would have been no need of me quipping in. But you tried to shut him up hence our back and forth. And who said the difference is limited to pregnancy? Elementary biology tells us females are more prone to STDs than their male counterparts. Only a woke mind would ever dream of making a pretence of comparison in this subject.

omooba969:
You're only stating the obvious and yet to address why we should excuse 'the man' from complicity in terms of sexual promiscuity.

I won't be cowed by cheap blackmail. No-one, not the bigbronaija fella nor myself ever gave a pass to male promiscuity. My first sentence to you was "...promiscuity is bad for both genders...". Honesty is a priceless virtue.

omooba969:
My verdict is that both genders suffer the consequences, obviously in different ways but this is another subject matter.

Un-woke-edly put, the female gender generally suffers more consequences for promiscuity from a biological and social standpoint.

Being un-woked means saying it as it is.

omooba969:
I now know that you're not well informed. The fact that there is woman & man is just simply how the story of creation goes, therefore a man wouldn't have ovaries and fallopian tube. Both anatomies are different.

As per your first paragraph suggesting that animals of the same gender don't wipe one another - well YouTube is your friend.

Your first paragraph was a wild shot with no target in sight and no purpose in mind. You actually said nada! That both genders have different anatomical structures put paid to the fact that there're definitely different outcomes with sexual exposure for both genders. I'm at a loss here who's actually ill-informed.

And for your YouTube pointer as a reference for homosexuality among animals, I'll prefer a local clip taken from your phone right in your own backyard. Thanks.

omooba969:
Does the body of a gay play host to every sexual intercourse as well?

Does his body undergo various reactions and interactions with the very core of his being?

I'm driving at a point actually.

It is wokesm to bring an unnatural act -- one even abhorred by beasts with lower intelligence -- into this context.

But to play along, I'll tell you the male specie has no fertility chamber-- no fallopian tube or ovaries to biologically wait for and chemically analyse and receive a semen.

omooba969:
I understand your sentiment but it's fine.

No sentiments here just pure naked facts laced with good science. The female body is a complex biological machine with a fertility chamber where the male "chemical" undergoes various reactions and interactions with the very core of her being. Simply put; her body plays host to every sexual intercourse and the resultant byproducts.

Wokesm and facts are distant strangers.

omooba969:
I knew it, you're twisted because you have a warped orientation. How do you even try to excuse the man in terms of sexual promiscuity?

Nigga, you need a new brain.

While walking through your exchanges of vitroils, I must interject to say your bigbronaija adversary is right on promiscuity being bad for both genders but that there's still a difference with both genders.

How can any reasonable mind not see that, except a woke one!

lhordspy:
These days everyone feels like they are something worthy of an opinion. Like they truly have a voice. Celebrities that are worthl*ss just as their opinion.

France and UK battling inflation. Egg is scarce in UK, shortage of baby-food in US, Argentina inflation rate is nearing 100% , Estonia, Germany scrambling due to shortage of gas. Columbia, Venezuela, Ecuador are fighting pre-covid survival due to high cost of living. Libya is in turmoil, Ukrainians don't even have a country to call theirs.

Yet our Bunch of irrelevant political tools disguising as yeyebrities are using the country's situation to invoke cheap attention.

But they are never at fault. People like the OP that gives credence and attach importance to what clowns like this failed comedian Mr macaroni or forgotten musicians like Psquare brothers says, is the culprit here. People who lacks basic knowledge on how to run even the commonest POS business will always want to chase-clout by criticising those running one of the biggest country in Africa.

Nonsense and ingredient.
Nigeria will overcome this and all you haters will be put to shame.

Most of the countries in your list are facing their challenges unavoidably. Unfortunately ours is as a result of corruption, ineptitude, nepotism, tribalism and incompetence. There's no excuse for Nigeria and its woes.

Allowing your wife to join any paramilitary comes at a big cost. This you ought to know.

ibechris:
See if u like fine,if u like no fine...If I like your business sense and discipline as a woman,every other thing na rubbish.

Because I can wash,I can help u to cook,I wash your clothes as my wife...I bath my children regularly,who says is a woman's job?

I don't just write this here to curry favour from the ladies,but that is just me at home. I wash dishes at home times without number,even my nanny sometimes gets scared about her jobs.

Men should stop setting standards because if u push a lady to pretend along and u eventually marries her,u are a gonner,then u will see what u never bargained for in the marriage.

This would have been absolutely none of my business but since you made it a public statement and thereby advocate it as a standard for your readers to imbibe, I'm obliged to make my point.

Now, to the emboldened as highlighted; you need to let your wife have the dick dangling purposelessly in-between your thighs since you picked her for her business sense and she probably picked you for your domestic sense.

What a Wuss!

UyaiIncomparabl:
Lol..

Oga, face the topic and stop capping with your vocabularies here. Like I care. LMAO.

I already did!

postmann:
It's not worth the while sifting through the load of pink-lettered, hormonal drippings laced in the crap you called your opinion. If you're not satisfied with your gender by birth, reassign yourself and get a dìck and come into a man's world let's see how you measure up.

UyaiIncomparabl:
I saw this topic on Facebook and it makes me question myself asking what "Nigerian men want". It irks me so bad.

Women have been debased to NOTHING that a chore has become a yardstick in choosing a wife. I keep asking myself if God did not make a mistake to have given the headship to them from the beginning.

And now, I'll reiterate this here. I also don't care about the reactions it brings. It's not my business how you feel but I must say this to men- DO NOT SET UNNECESSARY STANDARDS THAT YOU WON'T MEET. Read that again. Would he have washed the girl's father's or mother's clothes if turns were switched? NO. Many men here won't either. It degrades them after all. ONLY women should cower and wash g-pee tanks because they want to marry. Marriage only favours the women after all. It's the women who do these things I blame. You don't rate yourselves.

If you try this with me, I'll FAIL your test woefully. It is the audacity to make this a post for me. They make marriage seem so unpalatable and dramatic.

Manners should tell you that you do not sweep when a guest is around. It is ABSOLUTELY rude and that shows that you do not even respect me enough to have kept your abode neat before my arrival. And that to me, is a RED FLAG!

It also tells me that "I am not welcome in your abode". I am immensely glad that the girl in the story dodged a bullet. Good riddance.

Signed; Bitterleaf Feminist.

Where does one begin to address your folly? Is this a sincere submission or just a gateway to draw attention to yourself? Your bare-chested DP seems persuasive of the later. And then, "you want to eat your cake and have your pancakes back." Your profile provides a brief but conclusive psychoanalytical evidence of your temperamental makeup.

It's not worth the while sifting through the load of pink-lettered, hormonal drippings laced in the crap you called your opinion. If you're not satisfied with your gender by birth, reassign yourself and get a dìck and come into a man's world let's see how you measure up.

You thought if GOD made a mistake.... the sheer arrogance of an earthen vessel who can't even manage her monthly crimson inconvenience....

Raspberries:
Bad advice... Africans are damaged thanks to this mentality...

You mustn't suffer to be responsible... Compare yourselves to your mates in the West...

Your independence was borne out of a need to survive... Your father messed you up... Cause his father treated him bad, he did the same to you? And you think that's normal?

Children should grow in a home with supportive parents who help them transition into adulthood... Not abandon them...

And the op mustn't reconcile with his father... If someone doesn't love you enough, then you let them go...

A father who watches his children suffer is irresponsible... There's no excuse or reason for his selfish actions...

There's nothiing particularly African about deadbeats. The West has a huge share of irresponsible parents, and can encourage independence from children even as young as 18, who are legally permitted to leave their parents' houses at that age.

While we hold no brief for irresponsible parents, having one gives one an opportunity to strive for independence, to work hard and make a means of livelihood early enough. There people holding their own financially who either had no parents or sponsors but looked beyond those challenges and used it as a fulcrum to aspire.

Drop the hate, (same for the OP) and focus on yourself. You owe your parents honour, no matter what. Soon enough you'd find out.

OP, you sure have a point. She's like the 3rd person ever present in a marriage supposedly for two.

Such frequent daily calls can not go on without sensitive/private aspects of your marriage creeping into their conversation. Just not possible.

However, there is hardly an amicable way you can bring this up without hurting your wife's feelings or sounding paranoid. But make no mistake, you have a solid point.

Advice: be patient, and wait a while. Your wife will either carelessly or willfully divulge sensitive/private info that's supposed to be just between the two of you to her mum. And you'd get to find out one way or another. You can then state your case of her mum always been a nose length away from your home and private affairs.

Mide70:
Please I need your opinion on this issue.
Though before I got married I discovered my mother inlaw calls all her daughters both married and unmarried everyday(only 3 ladies no boys) and they fear her to the bone. at times every morning and night just to talk to them but I believe when they get married they need privacy and respect but this is not the case for my mother-in-law and I detest such act
Mind you I'm not against call or trying to break the bond but I believe this is marriage. I'm looking for a way to stop all that . I'm I wrong or right to take that step ?

Doubleoh7:
The Economic and Financial Crimes Commission is threatening a jail term of 15 years for landlords that give their properties in rent to yahoo boys. In a message from their official twitter handle, inviting the public to their next EFCC Connect, an open forum where they discuss with the members of the public, the message reads;

Okay now! What a juicy topic! E go sweet wella! Landlord way yahoo-boy dey stay for him house, my people, na 15 years imprisonment for the landlord o! E don set!
See the details of the public forum below, for landlords that will want to attend. Let's see how they intend to prosecute this and send landlords to jail for 15 years.

https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=pfbid0seWDmmErKXYGqZYJxNtuC69ybeUHu2rwAdhKXn68ysgFmDonBz2jXXx8pYotsvGTl&id=100064596373289

First off, EFCC has no powers to sentence anyone. They can prosecute but it is the court that decides and what length of sentence.

The EFCC is nothing but a crude, unintelligent, corrupt, power drunk and abusive morons whose powers need to be further curtailed.

toujurs:
as in ehn just people who have no experience would just come here to drop comment like they are mad, just imagine what that idiot is typing.

He doesn't even know if he would be able to feed himself in the future not to talk of feeding a family. Some people just feel that any man that finds it difficult to feed his family is lazy, forgetting that circumstances occurs. Circumstances a common man can do nothing about, but just needs the support of his family and close friends to bounce back.

People with no experience you say. A lot of giant presumptive strides from a fool with a pre-conceived notion of failure, inadequacy and MASCULINE LIABILITY.

With a pentium 2 graded wavelength encoded in that hard mass of stone you mistook for brain, you definitely missed the part where I said should he ever run into difficulties, he should look to other source of help outside his wife? That's clearly an admission that life can be bumpy. So, why so threatened as to rain expletives?

Let me guess, just like a woman (though you have two malfunctioning, testosterone-deficient sacs filled with pus tucked in-between your rather flabby thighs) you'd look beyond other feminine qualities of a woman, and cast your dirty, bulbous eyes straight into her purse, trying to figure her financial worth before considering a future with her, won't you? Dirty closeted male leech. You're the evidence of Man-cession. I know you'd speedily advocate for the eradication of bride price. You like free pussies and freebies don't you, bloody Ponce?

But you're the idiot, an effeminate doofus who hasn't earned the right to be called a man; a lazy oaf who'd shamelessly ask his fiancée to meet him half way around the bride price crescent.

You should bear your mother's name and let your father's quest for a true heir begin.

ebuka10box:
80 characters ohhh.....outside and married( had to cut words for d title to fit in)

There are other ways to concise or shorten your header than employing an outright sub-colloquial/unintelligent spellings. I wonder how much lower the bar would drop for standard spelling of words especially In a public space where all types of people and disciplines can access. It's a real pity.

Mariangeles:
Well, thank god it's an animal then.

Noted!

ibechris:
Your opinion.

Wait until u get married...no be mouth � na time and situation dey determine how far. Just pray make Nigeria no happen to u.

Wait? Why should I? Are there no males you know or at least from within your extended family who provide these basic needs for their families?

Your opinion, though defeatist in nature.

cococandy:
Tell me more since you know my finances so well.

Pray tell, which bridge or incomplete building do you think I’ll move into if I end up being the one to provide solely for my family.

I mean according to your logic, I’ll sooner be homeless than pay for my family’s upkeep. No?

The probables are your creation and yours to feed. Hardly interested.

It's past midnight here and I'm late for the sheets already.

Happy dinner and please keep that charming smile going each time you welcome hubby home from work while helping him with the briefcase and undo his tie . A rare darling of a wife you.

Bye.

Kobojunkie:


Be like say that "Head of family" crown na do or die e be so.

It's called knowing your basic responsibility and ensuring you don't fail.

cococandy:
Very unrealistic.

The things misogyny will make y’all say

Most probably it's dinner time for you and I trust your culinary skill makes your dining table one of the most favourite spots in your home. They probably tap their fingers on the table in an excited anticipation while waiting for you to turn up with the HOME MADE goodies from YOUR kitchen.

Hubby provides while you make the home. You wouldn't switch roles for anything, social media feminist rants regardless.

Ebus12:
Dear diary, Congratulations from all walks of life has been pouring in for Mercy Chinwo, since yesterday, when she announced the engagement to her man..
I too, congratulated on her instagram handle, but I will be a very conscienceless liar, if I tell you, I am truly happy.
Not like, I'm a witch.
Not like I hate good things.
But as a very big fan, watching another of my favorite female artiste taken away, by the cold hands of marriage, gave me cold shivers.
Adekunle Gold did this thing to me, when he filled Simi's head with love, coveted what was meant for the general public, into his house.
Since then, we stopped having the best of Simi..
Simi started singing to impress and garned streams from the Kosoko family, not her fans anymore.

This is exactly what this one with large beards and big chest is almost about to execute now..

No wonder! the Mercy that was releasing songs every two weeks, has gone 6 months without a single one.
And here was I, thinking she was preparing an album, not knowing that "Man of large beards" has taken a large part of mercy's heart.
Not knowing, that "Man of huge chest" is the hugest reason why she lost concentration.

The bible texts that used to fill her hearts with inspirations, has now been replaced with texts and whatsapp messages from this guy.
The berets she used to wear, are all probably under the 5th cushion in her parlour.

This man has made her lose concentration.
See the way she was even hugging him, as if he is the chief corner stone.
My God! My God!!

Dear diary, I will only congratulate her fully, when she releases another album so powerful as the "SATISFIED" album, but for now make she manage the little "congrats" I tell am for instagram.

Your anxiety would have been deemed healthy if your weren't a man. Respect her choice regardless of your desires for her new albums. And none of the ladies your mentioned were destined to forever remain public property.

She has served and given some of her best years singing to her CREATOR (not to you) and she believes the next stage of her life is building a family with that young, handsome bloke. She should get your FULL support and understanding.