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firstEVA:
I was past my bed time, no vex

Good morning.

Good afternoon, cutie!

How are you?

Ooooch! So sobering!
What a painful retreat from the once brave, self-acclaimed, tough talking prostitute.

Alas there goes yet another female gibberish.
You proved once again you are not even my intellectual match.
And when the heat is turned on, you couldn't stand cos you ain't built that tough.

Thank you for responding to my superior intellectual prodigy, as I boxed you into a tight corner, with your frailed back against the wall, and are forced to tell me you're a product of single parenthood.

Well, even a man in all his endowments can't raise a child up properly like both parents. You should have known this and save yourself from further onslaught from the negatives of a single parent child.

But I'll spare you that.
You failed in your miserable defence why men shouldn't dominate.

You were an easy lunch.

KanwuliaExtra:
We are not communicating.
You don't know me other than from what I write on NL.
I am glad your experiences are limited to the "most women" in your life you interact with and LOATH.
Most of them are from your family lineage I am sure. I hope you have/had a decent relationship with your mother and sisters o?
I am not one of these kinds of women you keep describing on this your thread, and can NEVER be. Amen.
Limit your sordid descriptions to such down-trodden women in your social hemisphere! Thanks!
I pray I never encounter such women who only see themselves as LATRINES for men! Tufiakwa!!!

Male DOMINANCE?
Why would any man want to dominate any female if he is not SICK in the mind?
Typical "dinachi" thread!
See you on your next "smelling toto" thread!

By the way. . . . I was raised by a single DAD! Not a single MOM!
The reason I will ALWAYS THINK AND ACT LIKE A MAN!
The only one with a SAD and ERRONEOUS mother would be you!
Life is full of CHOICES. Go and make yours and let WOMEN make theirs.
Oxytocin has no place in my life and I have no emotions to waste on USELESS PEOPLE. . . . Male or female!!!!
Take this SHTYE you are writing here and redirect it to those FEMALES abandoned by their fathers!
GLAD TO HAVE BEEB RAISED BY A MAN. . . . NOT A FEMALE!
I don't suffer from "toto hangovers"!

Life of regret?
In your DREAMS. . . or NIGHTMARE hon'!

Have a good day! Off to work!!!!
It is almost 5AM.
Find something meaningful to do with your life, than LAMENT about the sordid lives of YOUR female relatives on and off NL.

O da bo o!

KanwuliaExtra:
Sorry my dear!
Off today.
I gat all NIGHT.

Truth-bullets? From a DELUSIONIST living in a village cave?
Please, stop spreading IGNORANCE!!!!
Just trying to de-bunk your gender-baised rants!
Are you "dinachi"?

Like most woman I've come to interact with, you're full of denial and pretence.
I thought you're a brave, self-acclaimed prostitute?
You're emotionally vulnerable and you leave trails of your emotional vulnerability when you quoted my post where I said you'll always be a female.

What's so difficult for you to admit?

Sex takes place right in the inside of you. And condoms are lousy ineffective, short term pretence at playing safe.

Other forms of contraceptives have side effects on you, and not on him. Even condoms can be harmful to you and sometimes leave you sore.

Now be that brave woman once again and tell me how each sober and lonely night, you cry your eyes out in regrets as you recall the life you chose; all the various shades of men, some drunk and stale from sweat and cigarette as they drill their way down into your fountain, each leaving their traces and imprints in and on your body, and you felt used and devoured.

You looked at the money and you knew you made a poor bargain at the expense of your dignity and pride.
And you burry your head in one sorrowful regret.

Because of your travail, your type comes to hate the male dominance, and normally soil innocent minds of little children, esp young daughters to loath and resist male authority.

It takes a sad, erroneous mother to raise a recalcitrant, shameless feminist.

KanwuliaExtra:
You are a BUSSSSSSH MAN! And will always be!!!!

I like that reply. It's a testament that my truth-bullets hit their targets


I'll call it a wrap ladies. Mondays are busy days for me. And I've overstayed.

I'll be your guest during lunch hour later today.

KanwuliaExtra:
You never heard of CONDOMS?

If you had gone through page 1 of this thread you wouldn't ask me that.

And if you're as sexually tough as you claimed, you wouldn't ask me that either.

Everyone knows condom is not 100% safe. It bursts. And with time, sexual partners abandon it, even the renowned prostitutes.

KanwuliaExtra:
MEEEEE?
An object of a man's sexual fulfillment?
I be CHRISTOSHARIA woman with NO EMOTIONAL OR FINANCIAL CLINTORIS?

You are one reason I STOPPED phocking NIGERIAN MEN. . . Or BLACK MEN IN GENERAL.

Very BUSSSSSSSSH!!!!

Try to sound as tough as you like. It doesn't change your biological make up.

SEX TAKES PLACE INSIDE YOU WHERE YOU RE MOST VULNERABLE AND UNPROTECTED.

EVEN CONDOMS ARE NO QUARANTEE. AND EVERY OTHER FORM OF CONTRACEPTIVE HAS A SIDE EFFECT ON YOU NOT HIM.

You are FEMALE , and will always be!

armyofone:
Yes, because two can play that game. Why should only one person do the chopping, isn't it the same Orgasm huh? By the way, is the guy not the head of the house? Why should his punishment be lenient or his being allowed to walk away?

Ok I agree with you. Keep on playing the game while he play his. And in the next 15 to 20 years let's find out who's worse hit.

KanwuliaExtra:
Not money!
Independence. Freedom from primitive philosophers like YOU!

There's no proof of the superiority of your modern philosophy. The society is a proof that, you're one lost, derailed, confused, restless disatisfied angry and greed woman. Who have prioritised her matrimony over selfish gains. Now the children are on the streets exposed while you try to play toy-daddy

KanwuliaExtra:
How old are you?
Have you passed JAMB yet?

My dignity is in MY SOLE ability to FEED myself and my family, while I CHOOSE who to PHOCK, with or without a MAN in my life!

Put your tongue back in your teeth. There's no proof yet you did well in school. Otherwise, you would have come up with a dignified answer to describe what really is the worth of your dignity.

you're in the gradual process of trying to soften your stance.
I tought you were brave enough to admit prostitution is your dignity's worth.

You disappointed me and all the other "brave and emancipated women"

KanwuliaExtra:
Every MAN is some woman's P-IMP!
Every WOMAN is some man's prostitute!
In marriage YOU DO NOT GET PAID!
The only difference!
Which average woman?
Olajumoke the AGEGE BREAD SELLER IN NIGERIA?

Bring dem come America abeg!
Women LIVING in poverty DO NOT KNOW THEMSELVES!

Poverty can ONLY make a WOMAN depend on a man to GET A HAPPY HOME!

Hehehehe! To you money buys a woman happiness and fulfilment!

armyofone:
Mr. Postmann, learn to accept correction. You are so wrong. Gently say, I'm sorry I was wrong instead of drawing us back to 18th century.
You need one way ticket to a civilized society.

And I guess your definition of a civilized society is when females match their male counterparts in debauchery?

KanwuliaExtra:
You are SOOOOOO LOCAL, you think your planet is only inhabited by MEN?
Poor you! No wonder you are suffering on this thread.
A matrimonial home can never be beautiful with A STRAY dog INIT!

I am female. Thanks.
Married, with a beautiful home with a STRAY BYTCH!
I CHEAT when the prize is right!

I'm not so sure how to comment to a woman who just openly admits that her dignity is up for grabs.
So how much does your dignity worth?
2 million dollars?



PHEEEEEEWWWW! WAHALA dey.

KanwuliaExtra:
Well!
You never heard of OLIVIA POPE or J-LO!
Or me!

Oh boy! I GO PHOCK YOU FOR ONLY ONE HOUR, and push your azzzzze out my window when i finish o. Where you LAND BREAK NECK, nor be my consine! You berra not call or show up the next day! I will not be thinking about you. I have moved on.

All the ASHAWOS in this world PHOCK with emotion abi?

You must be referring to ALATIKAS and MGBEKES all over Nigeria for sure!

Ok now I understand better.
This thread is talking about the average woman. Not prostitutes. We know they do it for the material benefits all the time.

KanwuliaExtra:
A matrimonial home can never be beautiful with A STRAY dog INIT!

I am female. Thanks.
Married, with a beautiful home with a STRAY BYTCH!
I CHEAT when the prize is right!

Kudos for your bravery.

***moral meter crashes to a record low.
To you civilization and female emancipation means licence to female debauchery.

But when the prize is right and a child comes along, be also brave to tell your husband that the child you'd be carrying ain't his. And remember to tell your folks too.
But more importantly, don't you think it's a little debasing for you to have yourself as an object of another man's sexual fulfilment? Why not go for the "smarter" choice?: why havent you married your cheating partner?

Or he don't consider you anything more than a f***buddy?

Just a simple question.

KanwuliaExtra:
Who are the women UNFAITHFUL with?
Themselves?




Booooshyte ORIGINALEEEE!!!!
Toto get TOTOMETER?



Hiahn!!!!
This is 2016, not 1850!
Ask Nadia Buari and all the BABY MAMAS OF TUFACE AND FLAVOUR!!!

Please, stop your BUSHNESS!!!! It is embarrassing.

I thought you wanted to show me their beautiful matrimonial homes.
I know women like you are on the rise.
Little wonder your sobering examples. Your moral standard as a woman was actually metered by your comment.

**editted***
Oh, you're female!
So why haven't you taken the baby mama route?

You failed to meet my demands and yet some disatisfied woman said I should reply you. For the record sake, I will. Not that you're worthy. And I'll expurgate your handle if I could.

1)
If you had paid attention in your English classes, you would have understood the different types of introduction used when writing an essay and wouldn't bother with my style of writing. But I guess your lesbian pervertions were already taking little sprouts of roots back then and your little perverted, lustful eyes were on young innocent, little Ada while the lessons lasted.


2)

Again, you displayed your comprehension deficiency. What, is feminism so bad that it also affects basic comprehension too?

Since I said " ungodly freedom ", it automatically means there are "godly freedom" and no one was talking about enslavement of women.
But guess what? Your tactics of playing the victim by crying out where there is no oppression, is a well known tactics employed by women. Especially the deceitful, manipulative, 21st century replica of Eve - the originator of sin, usurpation, disobedience and damnation.
That reply of yours was to draw sympathy and a lot of fools fell for it.


3)
Again, you skipped your English classes in pursuit of a less dignified extracurricular activity (lesbianism )



4)

You should have taken an off-course lesson for debates before vying your way into my thread. We are not talking about cheating per se, but the consequences as it affects male and female.



5)

And here she goes again! "Cheating is cheating irrespective of gender ". Didn't you see that in the later paragraph in my post??

I AM TALKING ABOUT THE "CONSEQUENTIAL REPERCUSSIONS OF CHEATING" AND IT IS GENDER SENSITIVE!!!! What can't your lesbian compromised faculty grab? Or do men carry the shame of an unwanted pregnancy outside marriage?
Feminists are lousy, low intelligent fallout from human societal error!



6)

Are those your role models? I'll refrain from saying anything detrimental to them cos they never gave you permission to drag their names here in your shameless debate.
Call us hypocrites but we are very interested in our women's sexual history. It's one of the ways we are different from you.
woman is created FOR MAN!!! And not the other way round. Our bodies don't bear traces of our sexual past, but yours do. GOD made it that way, because HE is wise. Even your local juju in your village reacts when a married woman cheats.
The sum total of your life and reason for your being, is to help your ordained husband, a man, in whatever way he finds conducive. Failure to comply, then you'll suffer the fate of all ignoble recalcitrant women. You're the lesser vessel as long as this earthly sojourn lasts

7)
Must you reply Single mothers get married mostly to divorcees and widowers. Or much less desired suitors since their is a baby that diminishes her bridal value.
You're really a lousy defence for recalcitrant females!


Must families from unbroken home are very reluctant in allowing any of their children to marry into broken homes. And the daughters do have problems just like the sons.
For example, a father who is well known for wife battery and multiple marriages will have his ignoble act as a barrier to his son when he wants to get married from a respectable family. So it is with a daughter whose mother is known to have married several men or was promiscuous. You're one denial-loaded, blind feminist.


9)

Way fewer men than women get emotionally involved in extra-marital affairs. That's why men don't send their wives packing as easy as they cheat. And that's why they'd rather run 2 homes or keep a side chick. Except the side chick employs diabolical, fetish methods, she is more likely to remain a concubine than a wife to the cheating man. And that's a well known fact!

Men are more likely to sleep with a woman he just met than women sleeping with a guy they just met. While the woman is like, let's get to know each other better, most probably after some dates and hanging out, and several night romantic calls and chats. The man is already ready for sex if he finds the girl sexuality attractive. While the girl would be like, "I'm not that cheap"

11)

So you now know more than all the experts and world renowned researchers who have compelling proofs and evidence to show that while STDs affects both genders, it is worse on women?
Hehehehe! You elected yourself to defend women even in your intellectual bankruptcy. You reek of uncommon arrogance in your hopeless attempts to defile nature!



I've seen women who toll your line. Some are at most financially OK, but are lonely miserable wretches who live in a forlorn, desperate, shameful state. They cry themselves to sleep most nights. Most women of failed marriages run to their children's matrimonial homes and try to marry their sons or daughters, constituting the well known mother-inlaw-nuisance, plaguing several marriages. They are a destructive cycle! A generational curse!!!
Others are far more miserable frustrated worms, who paid the double price for trying to be what nature and GOD didn't call them to be.
They go to the grave as unfulfilled, angry, loathsome, restless packs of regrets.

The only path available to a woman's joy and fulfilment is HUMILITY and SUBMISSION !

lesbiangirl:
Don't know why this is related to the topic but okay



So the emancipation of a woman is ungodly abi...until they are counted as property the way the old testament used to do before everything can be alright with the world abi issorai



Uhmmm Why all this grammar ehn? Cudnt get the gist of this paragraph...hian! O ga o sofry on d ingrish biko!



U want to divulge into why a woman's cheating is worse off but yua tryna play safe by saying cheating is bad when you've automatically put dt men's cheating is better in the first line...okay!i just dey look u



Cheating has never and will never be gender sensitive. Coz d guys don't sleep with demselves neither do the ladies sleep with demselves unless dey r gay dou. Both genders have everything to lose. The woman may lose her home (not every cheating woman is chased out!mind u) and self respect while also being a failure to her children..the man might think he has nothing to lose when infact he has been losing since d onset of his randy ways; he'll lose d respect of his wife, d respect of children(just coz ur kids fear u doesn't mean dey respect u), he might not go far in his life unless he wants to cut corners (time and money spent on bettering his career or business is being wasted on women and his other illicit affairs-same goes for the woman)



And yet tonto dikeh,kim Kardashian, dabota, Caroline danjuma, Ini edo, and co. All got married...while some got divorced for reasons best known to dem but we can all admit dey weren't virgins but they got married. Any man dt is thinking abt a woman's body count is either a big tym hypocrite or a virgin or has mental problem. Coz it's really absurd dt u can have sex with numerous person before getting hitched but ur wifey can't have dsame. Please who made "men" d owner of "sex"



Single mothers also get married...u shud go out and interract more op!



Hehehehehehehe...unless it's in d village. Who still cares abt wht ur parents did with their private parts in d past. If kids frm broken homes can get married trust me dose daughters have no problem...op e b like say cupid never shoot hin arrow for ur yansh coz if he did...u won't be searching for a million reasons not to be with ur lady love but a billion reasons to stay with her.




That's where you are wrong again! Men get emotionally involved too. Everything boils down to why one is cheating. If you're looking to fill an emotional void. U will most definitely get involved with with ur side boo so abeg leave matter. There are women who don't get attached and dem no send d guy. E b like u never jam dem Jebel-likes!




Hehehehehe... i laugh! All dese STds mentioned guys also get it and while u say some Stds might affect a woman's fertility wht abt dose "abokoku" women dt stay with their randy-ass horseband in d hope dt he'll change his lifestyle once he sees dem fasting and praying and tryna break walls with their desperation filled prayers ehn mister...these men infect dem and dey might not be able to have more children, or wht abt women who remained virgins before being a Mrs and dey r still infertile ehn...



Abeg op kindly take several seats...all ur reasons r baseless and dey don't in any way justify dt a woman's cheating is worse. Don't be myopic! Don't cheat and expect a woman to be faithful to you. Don't give someone else food u can't even stomach yourself!

Cheating is a million shades of WRONG! It not only hinders one's potential greatness or progress, it also cuts one's life's span short. For a few minutes of pleasure you'll break ur home and ur children's heart. Noone has special vagina or dick, y'all are eventually gonna cum at d end of it all...then all to what purpose?ehn So u can brag abt how yua a man and u can't be tied to a woman for life or how yua a woman and u want to be equal with these low-iq dudes? I don't just quite get it?? Why can't u brag abt careers,business milestones,how u can change d world or ur country? Something tangible and substantial oda dan sex.

Women! why strife to be equal when you can be BETTER!

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lezz:
you give me too much credit. Read my first post on this thread. I love women!! Nothing compares to the beauty of a woman.

Oh, quit with the sarcasm, KING TROLL.

Why did you derail then? To please her?
Or a pay back for always messing up your threads?

I see, but don't you use my thread as a hunting ground.

Hey, king Troll, I don't care about your reputation here, but don't you dare twist the fact.

This thread isn't about who should carry more of the blame. IT IS ABOUT THE SIMPLE FACT THAT WOMEN HAVE MORE TO LOSE THAN MEN IN INFIDELITY AND SEXUAL RASCALITY. And the facts are clear and fact-proven even for bats to see.

Do you like lovaleenny?

lezz:
You're absolutely correct!!!

Sex and cheating are purely subjective in opinion and morality, and if any blame should be doled out, in my opinion, I think men should carry more of the responsibility.


It takes two to cheat and men are often the initiators.

'sides, sex has become so well-worn everyone knows the likely fallout.

lovaleenny:
Smh! I don't even know why i bothered do enjoy your angry-bitter filled life. Hopefully you'll find inner peace and joy in the end.

My life is quite the opposite of what you describe.

But I hate feminists.
They are satanically inspired and possessed.

I was seriously tempted to add up scriptural references to this post. But I had to leave it out.

Feminists are rebels.
As a woman you're either under a husband's authority or you're under the control of a demon who inspires you to be rebellious and resist authority.

No woman is under her own control.
Either she yields to her MAKER who puts her under the authority of her father (for the unmarried ) or under the authority of her husband.

Or she yields to a demon who possesses her and makes her rebellious.

Oh, contrary views are always respected. You blind hypocrite.
The guy you mentioned God&Gold held a contrary view. He was civilized and gentlemanly and I accorded him all the respect a civilized response deserve. But for you and the divergent and other feminists, I just served you with the dirty plates you brought to this thread.

Oh, feminist is a negative word.
This post is my effort with sound research. And I expected contrary views and I'm well poised to answer them.

But first, I need to rid this thread off comprehension deficient lesbians and angry emotional-wrecked feminists.

lovaleenny:
Using vocabs doesn't make u smart u hear! Am not suffering from intimidation but you are. Your defensiveness will build and build till u burst open one day. There's no standing in her place coz deres no place to begin with. You brought your post to an open forum so u shud be smart enuf to accomodate criticism and contrary views on it. And you talk about your views in a civil manner rather curl and hide behind unnecessary vocabs, and name tagging. So anyone dt has contrary view on ur post is now a feminist ehn. You make it sound like it's a bad thing. Atleast they are fighting for a cause but they again i don't expect you to understand since u feel the freedom women are enjoying is "ungodly". Am out!

lovaleenny:
First of all there's no such thing as "the divergent"...it aint a noun, it's meant to be used in adjective form mr. postman and quit the ego thing going on with "my reply this, my reply that". One can always spot the defensiveness going on with you. You don't have any reply you're only hiding behind your wrong use of diction rather than face the fact that your post reeks of chauvinism, double standards and irrational perspective towards cheating in genders am out!

I see you're suffering from my lexical intimidation. The Divergent is grammatically correct if only you are clever enough during your days of schooling. You should have known the article "the" qualifies that adjective to be used as a noun.

Now you've failed your bunch of recalcitrant feminists woefully.

The content of my post is too serious for you to ignore and start finding holes in my grammar.
Now you'll go to bed in shame.

There are ready made replies to give the Divergent and all other recalcitrant feminists who will be bold enough to stand in her place.

Have you come to stand in for her? I mean the Divergent.
If so, let me know.
There are enough replies to go round.

*modified:
Less I forgot, this post by its content generates different reactions from different kinds of women.

The humble
The recalcitrant feminist
And the potential adulteress/sexually rascal woman

By thier reactions/replies you know which category they belong.
Of which category are you, dear lovaleenny?.

lovaleenny:
You ended saying soo much without actually saying anything tangible . I read her reply towards your post and GodnGold's reply too and i quite agree with them. If u had any other contrary opinion just say it and you both should trash it out rather than dance and beat around the bush with huge vocabulary words that aren't called for. All these men (sorry boys) that are so full of themselves one would think you should have choked on it by now K9blunt was right: Grow up son!

firstEVA:
Going to bed postmann, good night.

Hmmmm! A little disappointed you're going off a little earlier.


Goodnight dearest one

firstEVA:
Postmann did you say dehumanised pose? Hahahahahahahahahaha , there is nothing I won't hear o, chaiiiiiiiiiii!!!!!

She s full of denial.

K9blunt:
Lolz , my dear your write up and comments , I know I am old enough to be your mother or auntie.

You need to grow up, up there son, no offence.

Ok, I know it's a faceless forum and talk is cheap.

But was it you in a dehumanised pose, flaunting your backside in your DP?
Then you must be a terrible mother.
No offence ma'am!

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firstEVA:
Things are already changing in Yourba land, their women are the most promiscuous in the nation, I have lived amongst them so I know. Married women have boyfriends and flaunt it, when the husband finds out, they fight, finish!!

Very true. But in that part of the country it is common sight to see men with 2nd wives with children. And when a man has degenerated to such extent, his wife is sexually nothing to him!

He more or less don't care. His sexual thirst is COMPLETELY being fed from another fountain.

firstEVA:
I said "Wicked!!" and the lady pounced on me

I saw it. She was bleeding profusely and expected a soft cotton wool from you. But alas! She was flabbergasted when you she found out you came with some salt for her wounds.

firstEVA:
relaxing on my bed, browsing with my phone.

Ok.
Where were we just before 6pm?

Ok, I remember now. I was talking about missing your eyes.

firstEVA:
Nicely articulated points, the woman has always been at a disadvantage on issues of infidelity, a woman who is interested in keeping her home/marriage must avoid it at all cost. But I see a gradual change in this orientation, even though the points listed are valid, they may no longer matter in the nearest future. Our men will begin to adjust to the change, those who refuse to adjust would be divorcees, baby daddies and unmarried men in their 50s.

Now here comes a sound woman, her steps and utterances ordered my wisdom and knowledge.
Worthy of an intellectual debate she is.

But let me chip in this: I see men adjusting quite in a contrary way to your expectations.
They'll keep having the under 18s as either wives or sex partners. Or worse, they no longer consider women marriage-worthy, and opt for contracts where women give them kids, and they live their life free from marriages.

It's happening already.

K9blunt:
These kinds of posts have made me believe that some Nigerian boys still need brain rehabilitation.



What a pity!

The post by its design and intent was created to help you upgrade from the errors in the "girl" in you.