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MY FAVOURITE ONE:

In your radiance your light
Sweeps through the plain
The shadows dance in fright
In a crazy giggly spin
As they melt away
Like ice on a sunny day.

There you stood in your regalia of loyalty
Looking over me like a sentry over a city
A fearless warrior
FirstEva my companion of valour
The Sun I ever knew
Few exist women like you

You defied the rain
In your endless stream of ray
Drenched in fatigue and pain
You never called it a day
FirstEva my companion of valour
Your loyalty, a soldier's armour

And the ground caved
The burrow's endless deep
The shackles of incarceration unyeild
And I surrender to her grip

There your light was devoured
In the blackness of cruelty
Your beams were beaten to a flurry
I heard you roared
The darkness echoed your hue
And I realised I miss you.

firstEVA:


Sleep tight dear.

That was an 11:56pm comeback from you. And I didn't get to hear you come through the door.
You probably decided to be noiseless as you slipped in that msg.
good morning!

Church?

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I remember I wrote something about you on the 4th day of my incarceration.
There was no way to send it earlier.

Hey, you're probably off to bed. My reply was a little late.
The sleep call is getting more and more irresistible, and yet e-hanging out with you is gravitational. Caught up in a quagmire! What do I do?
Maybe, I'll close my eyes and keep my ears open. I'll definitely hear you when you come through the door.
In a sleep-dazed look, I'll smile at you and ask "where have you been, dear favourite one?"

Goodnight! @ firstEVA, We definitely chat up tomorrow.

firstEVA:
what's your chief interest?

..."there is a special one for most people".

firstEVA:
exactly, for example loving someone else's husband or boyfriend or fiancee

Well its part of it. But where my chief interest was heading is quite strange and controversial.
I believe sometimes, there is a special one for most people. not for all people probably.

firstEVA:
I want the nitty gritty.

I consider you very wise and intelligent, that's why I need your view.

hehehehe! sincerely, I am being overrated by you.

But I know human love is conditional and most times it is selfish and self seeking.
We can have different understanding of love.

The truth is, without having GOD's love in us, we cant even love our significant other like we should.

Love is tried in the furnace of fire (patience). Understanding and self sacrifice are its cornerstones.

And what if we love the wrong person?

firstEVA:
let's do it the way you want it.

My view is love is all that matters in a relationship.

You're spot on! At least from the little I know. Love is truly all that matters, but then when we break love down to its true definition, then we get the true meaning. It's not just that simple.

firstEVA:
let's do it the way you want it.

My view is love is all that matters in a relationship.

You're spit on! At least from the little I know. Love it's truly all that matters, but then when we break love down to its true definition, then we get the true meaning. It's not just that simple.

firstEVA:
you are right, you didn't forget, that's so cool

I wasn't so sure but I knew it has s title like that.

You want it as a new thread or what we can discuss on this thread?

firstEVA:
It's ok dear.


I am still interested in your opinion on the subject I want you to create a thread on.

"If love is enough" or something like that. I can't be so sure again.
Remind me please!

[quote author=firstEVA post=43310661][/quote]Hehehehe! I'm sorry about that! But the truth always have a way of escape, and when it does, I can't be held accountable. I just told you that you're one priceless darling. That's the truth. As for the blushing...Hehehehe, maybe it wasnt intended.

A school teacher loses his fear factor before a young class of teenagers, a council of elders in a remote countryside is being sacked by a discontented band of unruly youth.

A young daughter defiles her mother's domestic orders, and a young son slams the door shut as he disappears into the night in a clenched fist, holding desperately to a wrapped pack of marijuana.

Welcome to the age of rebellion and cultural decay, where taboos and moral values are being buried alive by the monstrous wave of ungodly freedom --a new religion with many devout followers --perverting the inhibitions and moral code that once held the human society to sound discipline.

The 21st century woman -- of whom this article is centred on -- isn't left out in this destructive tide, sweeping all of humanity to a hopeless uncertainty.
Drunk in her ungodly freedom and cheered on and applauded by a global audience. "What is good for the goose is good for the gander ", she retorted in a daring arrogance. It's a man's world just as much as it is hers!

Or, is it?
Is she built that tough? Does nature, nurture, or the unknown phenomenal disposition of cosmic ordination equipped her to ride in the bravery and foolishness of men with minimum casualties as with her male counterparts?
Or does she get carried off in a wave of her head-strong recalcitrancy and hard-crash on a merciless pebbled shore, greeted by the sad reality of life?

Let's see why a woman is worse off than a man in infidelity and sexual rascality.
But first, let me point out; cheating is cheating irrespective of gender. It's an act of cowardice, betrayal and disloyalty. It is pure wickedness. A cheat is not worthy of trust and commitment.
And this is certainly not a call or support for male sexual rascality or promiscuity. Real men don't cheat!

But then, there are consequential repercussions to cheating, and it is gender sensitive. Call it a world of hypocrisy or double-standardness , but women have a lot to lose than their male counterparts when it comes to infidelity and sexual rascality.

REASONS ARE:

MEN'S PERCEPTION : When it comes to which woman makes it to the altar, men can be picky! They consider many qualities and a lady's sexual history is of a paramount interest. Like a car, he's interested in the body and engine. How long it's been driven and by how many drivers is a serious part of the bargain.
Her chastity is one of his biggest bragging right! Simply put: he wants someone with a decent sexual past.
Once married, if his wife should engage In an adulterous affair, he most likely will consider her as damaged goods.


SOCIETAL STANDARD : The fruits of sexual rascality or promiscuity can manifest in the shame of an unwanted pregnancy. Men don't get to carry that shame.
For some women an unwanted pregnancy could mean an end/suspension in education or carrier. Or worse, abortion murder.
Single unmarried baby mamas are seen as second grade most times by the society. And a woman viewed by society as promiscuous has a hard time getting married.

If she's married and caught, or even rumoured to have committed adultery, the stamp of shame is forever!
Her daughters may have a lifetime struggle, trying to prove that the apple sometimes falls far from the tree.


EMOTIONAL INVOLVEMENT : This is where the male-female divide gets even wider. A man's primary motive for sexual unfaithfulness is sex! He most times leaves his emotions behind. Like a ruthless Kalahari lion, he takes his victim down with no mercy. Until he hits goal, his conscience is numb! He walks away when he's done.

But for women who cheat, they involve their emotions in their affairs. Unlike her male counterpart, she's just not looking for sex, she's looking to fill an emotional void.
She's dangerous!!! And self-destructive! She misjudges her male lover, thinking they are on the same page. She can do almost anything for him. Putting him above her children and miserable husband. She can murder, hypnotise or wreck her husband for her loverboy's sake.

But alas! He is just probably in for the sexual thrills. His emotions are somewhere else. Perhaps with a younger, unmarried girl.
The adulteress will be burnt badly as she slowly comes to terms with reality.


SEXUAL DISEASES (STDs):

Sex for women is like an interavanious injection. It goes straight to the blood stream.
A squirt of hot fluid (_semen) jetting its way into her very core!
Bacteria and viral infections can penetrate the thin lining of the vagina more easily than a penis. This puts her at a higher risk than her lover boy.
For women, common STDs like chlamydia and gonorrhoea have disappearing symptoms or no symptoms. Genital lesions caused by herps or syphilis can occur inside the vagina and go unnoticed. While the infections remain inside causing havoc and destroying reproductive organs.

While men are unlikely to have to experience long-term complication from STDs, hidden infections in women can cause serious health complications and infertility.
Women can also infect their babies with STDs during pregnancy and child birth which can result in stillbirth, blindness, deafness, brain damage and low birth weight.

And what about the the mother of all and most common STD, the cervical cancer? Men are natural, silent carrier of this human papilloma virus (HPV) which is the leading cause of cervical cancer in women.

So just before that ignoble rhetoric of "what's good for the goose is also good for the gander" brohaha, as a woman, you may want to consider the pitfalls.

firstEVA:
Hahahaha
You were very comfortable dishing it out, from what I saw, that was just a little from what you are truly capable of


Yea, I havn't been very active, I just come around to read news and leave. Your absence made it a bit boring for me here

I thought you would create another account.

Hehehehe! Maybe I was. But i'm not still sure. I had an all night that very day. And those dark agents where sent to derail me. The unrestrained me is very much capable of more.

Lez, gave me the idea of creating another account, but I just didn't buy it.

Saying my absence made it a little boring for you makes you one candid, priceless darling!

firstEVA:
It's ok to do it every once in a while, some people need to be put in their places.
It was pure xtacy


Welcome back dear

I can understand that. Maybe once in a while, just maybe. But even then it wouldn't have been planned or premeditated.

But they did ask for it. Part of me was very cool with it, but the other part wasn't so sure.



You've been a little less active this past week.

Let's take it one after the other.

#1) confidence is a personality trait. It has very little to do with height, colour, etc. Most short people I have met are very outspoken.

#2) Spot on. Just about anything can fit with a tall person.

#3) False again. This has nothing to do with height. Rather, I notice short people are very vocal in public.

#4) Most tall men, I mean TALL men prefere short women. I like it when a women raises up her gaze to look me in the eye as i look back toweringly to meet her gaze in a masculine affection. I also like it when I lower my neck a little as we kiss, and i pull her gently ever closer with a hand tightly around her waist. She's so portable, like you rightly pointed out

Oh, I forgot, she's very easy to carry around, from sofa, to kitchen, to bedroom to the dinning

#5)
That too is height independent. But most tall men like a petit woman. One he can easily wraps himself around.
And she gets really cuddled up in a complete warm embrace as she gets all loved up by his hulky frame. She feels everything!

#6)
You must be really joking!

#7) I'll give you that. But pls remember the average woman is about 5 feet tall. So you still gonna need him getting things pulled down.

#8. You are right on that!

#9. Hehehehehe! I know too many tall jazebels!


#10 That's a misconceived arrogance you need to purge yourself of.

Jadekitana:
I just saw a thread with mostly short girls trying to give themselves hope! Well it's allowed, but take heart, tall girls rule anytime any day, anywhere. But we know how y'all feel so i'm just gonna be soft here guys don't get deceived here are some advantages of dating tall girls

1) Tall ladies exude confidence: have u ever been to a dinner or evening party,wedding or occasions and a tall elegant lady walks in? It's like magic. All attention is fixed on her, especially the type who cat walks like me! Men we no send anybody. You see ushers rushing to look for a comfortable position for us to sit,now that's priceless unlike the short babes who hardly get noticed even with the 11inches heels.

2) Every dress fits them: from gowns, to jumpsuits to jeans to leggings, every single thing fits. Imagine a tall lady with Sharon stones kinda hot legs on mini skirt? Guys you would release mere thinking of what's under her skirts.

3) Tall ladies never feel inferior: you see them always ready to talk in functions, events and what have you! They have nothing to loose. They possess that self confidence anywhere.

4) You don't need to bend to kiss us: we are bad like that. Luckily if u tall as well we make a perfect couple, if u short we bend to kiss u, you cant put your hands around our shoulders to intimidate us, it's actually very romantic when we put our hands around your shoulder and plant a peck on your cheeks! Short girls ndo, u girls can never do that.

5) We are good on bed: forget the portability of short ladies, tall girls with long legs are ready to hang that leg anywhere! Our legs can comfortably go round your waist. Angle 69 is awesome and easy and above all tall girls have really deep cunts,they can take any size of dick very well without feeling any pain duuuh to dem short girls.

6) We give our men self confidence: you don't need to start looking for us in the crowd when we go out, we don't need heels. Have u ever seen a short guy walking with his tall babe? The look on his face is priceless. You see that self confidence he has, the look of "even though i'm short my babe is proud of me" and for a tall guy you need to see the way they both oppress the crowd, damn my head is swelling.

7) You don't need a stool in your house: we can reach anything without help, we are that good. We fix bulbs, clean the shelf, we don't need to call u 247 to help us out with things around the house, we are that gifted.

We compliment your genes: it's hard to see a tall woman give birth to a dwarf kid. Even if her hubby is short, her kids come out average. So if u a short guy and u dating a short babe, have a rethink! You sure don't want a pygmy for a kid.

9) tall girls are hardly hot tempered: what's there to be angry about? I mean we have it all, guys always wanna associate with us so why have high BP on trivial issues? We laugh a lot and allow things slide.

10) If u ain't dating a tall lady, you need to step up your game

OP. Your wife is a meddler. And so are her family members. Your point of her being the last child and so should take a backseat doesn't hold much ground, as being the eldest doesn't give her the right to interfere in any of her siblings' marriage.

You should call her to order and remind her as far as her sister's marriage is concerned, she and her family are outsiders.

It should be her sister's discretion to park out if she wants and not for any of them to enforce.

Let her know what goes around comes around and she wouldn't like someone else, even your own siblings to break her home when they feel she's at fault in a misunderstanding.

DarkTroll:
I wasn't trolling, fool. That was just a jab.

Ok.

DarkTroll:
You're asking too much from Nairaland's bemedalled sapheaded dunce!!!

King Troll, deliver your punches with mercy.

It is do-able.

ssoftappless:
anyways im done here, postmann thanks for the advice, aproko dollyjoy i c u, i bet ure smilling by now on how im slaying them anyways my other thread just hit front page, dollyjoy let us go and attend to mentions. sia!! im out

Thanks bro. Anytime.

ssoftappless:
hehehehe thanks bro, i never knew but it brings out the excitement in them, and it quickly makes her reach orgasm, though i had ice in my mouth when i did it, and that makes the air 4rm my mouth cold and dats wat makes her go wild.

Ok bro. Just for next time sake. Please be careful.

You can do better if you try to act like your detractors don't exist.

LORDSAMURAI:
Guys what are your craziest unthinkable sexual experience, the things that you do with the opposite spouse sexually that normally feels crazy? "well my craziest sexual experience was when i was giving a lady in school head, i seperated the vaginal with my hand and tongue and i use my mouth to blow breeze in the vaginal just like blowing air into a baloon(though she shouted in excitement) and inside the vaginal was open like a flower then she reached orgasm immediately, the orgasm was so much that it was coming out like a shower and i put my face on the entrance of the vaginal, using her orgasm to watch my face. "lol she called me a sex freak. "lol so guys whats yours?

Howdy LORDSAMURAI, long time! I was trailing The Darktroll when I stumbled into your thread. And I had to emboldened a part of your post which gave me a great concern and worry.

Man, the act of flowing air into a woman's V-Jay is extremely dangerous. It kills!
A light research will point out why. Please don't do that again.

I'll give the OP one thing: Her humble and appealing approach to the issue of men infidelity.

Unlike most women nowadays who have lost all feminine grace and have become bad tempered nags.

OP, you left some vital truths and realities in the anatomy of cheating. It takes two to cheat. There must be a willingness of both gender.
Women cheat just as bad, if not even worse. Especially on the emotional level, which many are beginning to consider worse than physical cheating.

Men may not bother very much to hide their infidelity, but a woman will go the extra length to hide hers.

I believe if your article shed light on how women should be responsible, submissive, attractive and disciplined to their husbands, it will reduce the rate of men infidelity.

But no matter the sermon, if a woman doesn't play her part, she makes it easier for her man to cheat.

firstEVA:
Postmann

Peeping through the bars of incarceration ,

miss u dear

Yes o. The jailer's bond came off at last and I'm free.
missed you like a lonely, sunless cloud.

firstEVA:
Postmann you are something else, youu really kicked asss right there, your metaphors are so fresh and on point. I couldn't get to read it all because before I got there most of the posts had been hidden. You are bad arsse, so sexyy.

That was a moment of blood rush. Much to my regret but I had to take 'em both down. I hope I don't get to do it again though.

,

OP @ 35 you ought to be well experienced in dating relationship. From your submission it appears you still lack the maturity required to cultivate a one.

first you have a fake age on your I'D, probably you're used to telling many suitors your diplomatic age. Age is considered very important, though you came out with the truth yourself, he probably didn't expect such from you.

You sound desperate. And my guess is you displayed your desperation before him already. Men don't really appreciate that.

Offer him your apology, then play the tough girl.If it doesn't work, take a walk.

firstEVA:
I understand.

What's the essence of the date if I may ask?

It could have gone anywhere. Anywhere fate would have bid us. But then, you got engaged and saw did I.