Valenciabaddie: Pls Its clearly stated that I want "Matured" comments .... Not comments from bitter people ... If anyone is a gold digger then the guy is The gold digger because my parents are richer ...
Pls, give yourself a break from the relationship for now.
Take some time to cool off.
Ask yourself the following; 1. Why am I in this relationship? 2. Do I love this guy? 3. Why Did I love him? 4. Do we have a future together? 5. Where will this relationship lead us to? 6. Can I tolerate his fetishness? 7. If not, can he change? 8. If not, how do I exit? Etc.
You must be very precise and honest to yourself and don't let a second party decide for you because at last you'll be totally responsible for your decisions.
Good luck and be safe.
Please update, should in case things escalate because if his threats to you .
Its unfortunate that these are the so called Nigerian youths.
How can the elders hand over administration of this country to these retards called youths who don't even know their left from right neither do they know their limits.
How could any sensible youth abuse a former President in the person of GEJ for intimating a sitting president of his country about an international assignment given to him by the international community?
Jonathan is an epitome of humility and honestly I pray to have his level of humility, loyalty and tolerance.
Any man with such quantity will excel beyond human comprehension and even his perceived enemies will have no other option than to appreciate and honour him.
Jonathan, how I wish you could see my post, please mentor me, I want to be humble like you sir.
So pathetic, very pathetic and unfortunately pathetic for these evil breed of youths. The future of this country is not for people like this breed of youths.
LegendHero: Did anybody stop them from contesting the primaries in APC?
If they can defeat the Tinubu caucus in APC then they will have our support on the Election Day.
But no one is going to micro-zone anything to anybody, everybody got to campaign, build alliance, and win the primaries to emerge.
So instead of wasting your valuable time abusing Tinubu, start telling your folks from ANPP and APGA to start their own movement and underground campaign too.
Igbo presidency 2023 is none negotiable.
The earlier you realize that it has come to stay and align with the agenda the better for you.
Nigerian government and its people borrowing a terrible debt by treatment they give to the Ignos now, these debts must be paid someday, take it or leave it.
GMBuhari: If JonaDog comes back then he's an idiot and i know several idiots will still vote for him
after all the forfeitures by his wife , trillions in naira billions in USD and GEJ still has the guts to place his face on any banner , then he's as shameless as they get
However this presents an opportunity for the youths and we the idiotic youths are not seeing it , APC has not decided who to field , PDP does not even have a candidate yet , Youths come out strong , gather behind someone and hype him , there must be at least one decent person who still loves this country and will serve with dignity , Buhari did bambiala in 2014/15 i will happily do baara for any youth who we can trust and raise as much as i can
Youths are the future of Nigeria not these recycled brain dead idiots we call elders
Only Yoruba's hates Jonathan.
You're so pained that the north have abandoned thiefnibu your pay master.
Jonathan is better than your best.
You're free to relocate to sambisa where your fellow terrorists live.
It beggars belief that a cabal of cynical political manipulators from the North SAT somewhere in the NORTH and DECIDED that it will be EXPEDIENT for the North to make overtures to former President Goodluck Jonathan to SOUND him out on the possibility that he can be RECRUITED to come back to power in 2023 but on the CONDITION that that can only be possible if he decamps from his own known and identified party, the PDP, and joins the ruling APC and those artful manipulators BELIEVE that like an excited child in a candy shop, Jonathan will fall for this gambit and willingly go along with them.
The mere thought of it and the actual move to accomplish the plan, is not in any way a very good commentary on the perceived character, ability and disposition of Jonathan. Rather, it is a clear expression of the very low opinion they have of him. To put it more bluntly, it is an indictment of who they think Jonathan is. That, he is a plain, pliant, unprincipled and effete man, lacking in political sophistication whatsoever and who can, therefore, be tossed about like a reed in a tide.
If Jonathan does not think himself as fitting the above portraiture but as a man of principle, fairness and justice, upon hearing the rumour swirling about his possible draft by the North for 2023 on the platform of the North, for use by the North, to achieve some yet-to -be -disclosed Northern agenda, the mere thought of it should have caused him to wear sackcloth and ashes and parade the nooks, creeks and crannies of Otuoke and the streets and boulevard of some Nigerians towns and cities, lamenting, ‘’How do they see me? Who do they think I am? Do they think of me as a pliable, unprincipled, unfair and a useless man who lacks even elementary self-respect? Do they see me as an any-how man who is not concerned about his personal dignity or the dignity of the people he has come to represent and to symbolize their fears and aspirations?
Surely, there is thinking that informed the thought that Jonathan is the right man for the plan and that he be approached for 2023. Do they think that having tasted power for six years, he is so enamoured of it and has become so desperate to go back that ne can fall for any plan that derogates his sense of dignity and self-respect? What becomes of the popular near nationwide clamour for an Ibo presidency come2023? If Jonathan thinks much of himself and wants Nigerians to see him as a man of integrity, he would recruit his own wife, Mama Peace, to employ either a winged instrument and follow him in his parade and take up a lament, ‘There is God oh’’. This thing they want to do to the Ibos, there is God oh!’’
Let no one tell me that the idea is a mere rumour. We should wait for it before we seek to pass judgment. We must start to pass judgment right now in order to possibly nip it in the bud because the mere idea of it is not good at all. In our country Nigeria where everything and anything goes, a political rumour is as good as a confirmed plan, the idea is indeed harboured. What remains is the manifestation. Before Jonathan bites the bait, a town crier ought to warn him because any acceptance of it will be akin to committing suicide.
As this rumour started, I cast my mind back to the late Chief Obafemi Awolowo. The late Sardauna and his followers in the North knew how desperate Awo sought to be president for even one day because he knew that even if he was president for one day the mere speech outlining his plan for Nigeria will change Nigeria for good! In spite of this knowledge, no one in the North would have contemplated approaching Awo and selling him the idea of his decamping form his Action Group party or the Unity Party of Nigeria to run on the platform of the NPC or the NPN.
If anyone dared to approach Awo the man would have called a press conference to wonder aloud to the world the motive of the people who approached him if the people who met him with such a proposal were sane or mischief makers who want to court his trouble. The fact that people could approach Jonathan should therefore be a matter of how they perceive his person.
In case Jonathon is not aware, these parties that do not represent any ideology have nevertheless become more or less cultural expression property of the people. There are Northerners of President Buhari’s ilk or generation who believe that APC is a Northern thing and the South-South and South East who believe that thePDP is their own thing. If Jonathan therefore dares to ditch PDP and runs on APC platform this is what will happen: the South-South and south east will not vote for him. In fact, they will align with someonefrom the North, most probably Atiku, in order to pour sand into his garri. He will be seen as a monumental betrayer of the hope and aspirations of his base to become a willing stooge in the hands of others. The whole thing will sound the political death nail of Jonathan.
Whether Jonathan eventually wins or loses, his image would have taken such a severe battering that he will not be able to recognize himself in a mirror. His people in the South-South will be the first to disown him for acceding to his image being put to disrepute. I will be the first to do so because I will feel humiliated on his behalf if he does not feel so. The Ibos who will feel that he is being used as a convenient spoiler to their legitimate claim will treat him like a leper.
In fact, he will not be able to spell his surname after the election whether he wins or loses. For some of us humble and appreciative souls who are always thankful to God for what some consider small mercies, we wonder why someone like Jonathan will like to be used in a clear plan to scuttle the fair and right agitation by the Ibos that as one of the tripods upon which Nigeria stands, they deserve to have the presidency in 2023.
Dear President Jonathan, cynical power wielders and manipulators have realised that there are three things that men of all races on earth fall for if they are sufficiently tempted: power, sex and money. That is why those people are approaching you. I want to humbly tell you that they have settled for you not because they love you so much but because they love themselves and their interest which is always number one in their consideration of everything. Therefore, refuse to be tempted. Reject the offer. If God wants you to be president again, the initiative is not going to come from those people. It will come from somewhere else and you will discern it yourself.
Have you forgotten just so soon how these people and their agents were abusing you every day to such a level that you yourself once remarked that you were the most abused president on earth? They called you clueless, incompetent and unsuitable. What has changed now? Have you now become so ‘clueful’, competent and suitable?
Do not squander the enormous goodwill you earned for that singular, statesmanlike acceptance of your defeat in 2015. Anything else you do now is likely to cast you in the image of our usual type of politicians who live for power without any principles. The year 2023 is the year of the Ibos to accede to the presidency of their country. Your region has had its just share. Do not allow yourself to be used to spoil the chances of your brothers, the Ibos. You are too much to be used for the role of a spoiler. A brother who loves you has said it. Heed the counsel. https://leadership.ng/beware-president-jonathan-dont-bite-the-bait/?amp=1
Your opinion.
Jonathan has his life to live.
All these foolish imps that wants to live another persons life for him are irredeemable..
Jonathan is a man and should be left to decide for himself without all these blackmailers writing nonsensical write-ups.
Afamed: What has Christain area got to do with discussion here? Most of you, are naturally silly with the kind of religion sentiment you play in every forum
You appear sillier than the guy you quoted.
Why are you always angry whenever you see Jesus, Christ, Church or Christian on this platform?
The only way to make it happen is that an IGBO MAN FROM ONE OF THE FIVE IGBO STATES MUST BECOME THE PRESIDENT IF NIGERIA COME 2023 whether yarriba Muslim urchings or demons like it or not
Yamiriflathead: This is day dreaming.. As a bonafide Igbo man from Anambra state I don't want the presidency like this OSU here. Biafra or death Any Igbo man talking of restructuring or presidency is an okoro, hausa fulani slave
Kaduna1stson: What's next for them is to cry because we northerners are smarter than them, we cashed out on this news so fast.
With the president being so near, it was a perfectly timed swoop, the boys went on excursions in the forest in preparation of leaving school wham all these noise dies down.
School na scam, we will keep chopping Niger Delta oil money till them get sense
Where are the girls that were kidnapped under APC and Buhari gir several years now?
There is no worse enemy of Nigeria than people with leaking mouth like you.
Did you hear that the Terrorist Amotekun have been killing and terrorising law abiding citizens in your region?
Honbright: Men of Osun Security Network Agency also known as Amotekun Corps on Thursday tortured a 32-year-old Animal Care Giver for allegedly taking the pictures of their vehicles, Insight Media has reported.
According to information gathered by Newsmen, the victim, identified as Babafemi Fabusuyi, was arrested at a public function at Ring Road in Osogbo by the Corps and he was beaten by the men on the spot before he was taking to their office located at Jaleoyemi area of the state capital.
Narrating what happened, Babafemi, who is a graduate of the Nigeria Navy Secondary School, Abeokuta told newsmen that he is still critically ill as a result of several wounds he sustained during the torture that last for over four hours.
He said his crime was “snapping the Amotekun vans at the event”, calling on well meaning Nigerians to ensure that he doesn’t suffer in vain.
Babafemi said, “what happened was that after closing for work, I went to meet a friend at WOCDIF event center. On getting there, I saw some Amotekun Corps and I took the picture of their vehicles. Next I heard was that some security men approached me and asked me to identify himself, which I did.
“At the place, they beat me so bad, used electric shock on me. I was later told that they are taking me to police station, only to be taken to their office at Jaleyemi.”
Babafemi added that on getting Amotekun Office, they checked him and found animal drugs on him with identity cards of the Man O’War and that of his school.
“I was beaten by the with Sanda (a leather material) by both the men and their Field Commander, Amitolu. I was later dropped at Olaiya junction at about 10:30 in the night. During this time, my phone was seized by the corps and it’s still with them.
“I was immediately rushed to hospital and I’m still receiving treatment.”
When contacted the Amotekun Field Commander, Amitolu Shittu said the Babafemi was arrested for pick pocketing at the event. He also alleged him of taking the pictures of the corps sometimes ago and publish same on Twitter.
“This is how some hoodlums ganged up to bring police down and they made sure that they silent police. Criminals are taking advantage of the absence of police. You’re calling me in respect of who? A pocket-picker? Or what what? boy who was arrested for pick-pocketing. What exactly you you saying?”, Amitolu queried newsmen.
When asked why the Babafemi was taken to the office for torture instead of police station as demanded by law, the former human rights activist said, “he was not tortured. He was only running and they pursued him. And if he thinks he has anything, let me go to the law court. Press house is not the best for him. Whatever any of my officers did, I’m responsible. He only tried to escape justice. That’s the reason why.” He said.
When asked if he used Shanda on Babafemi, he queried “have you seen me with such before? I don’t use it”
History555: I have watched kanu and listened to him, though intelligent he fails to use his intelligence in a good way. The way he goes about spreading the news of esn makes me raises certain questions
The videos shows men sitting, marching on white sands, where exactly in the east do you have white sands on large mass of land.
Who is funding kanu because am damn sure most ipob menbers will not part with their money easily
Who is paying these men or is it free work
Let us remember massob uwazurike and how he started well b4 losing focus
My advice to kanu is simply use your intelligence to figure out how to achieve biafra. Secondly learn to keep things secret.
This esn should be working in secret not all these Video shows
Yoruba Amotekun is busy killing people on the streets, you should have been busy with that instead.
Amotekun is a terrorist group that must be banned soon.
Aconomist: I've been hearing a lot of talk about Nnamdi Kanu's Eastern Security Network, but where is the action? When will the combat start --- do they need help locating the enemy?
The game plan was to carry poster and do their political opposition and anti APC/FG propaganda, but God denied them that opportunity, the kids are back with their parents safe and sound without bloodshed or any loss of life.
Enemies of Nigeria failed again, God denied them the chance to do propaganda with the innocent children.
God is good.
To God be the glory.
But APC and Buhari bring back our girls have lasted since inception of APC.
AdaugoChisom: I and my friend was chatting concerning the ongoing Immigration recruitment and she mentioned that she have not signed her Gurantors form and she told me that she will be traveling to 042 so that her LGA Chairman can sign. When I suggested her state Liaison office in Abuja she was like and I was confused too.
Nairalanders please what are the services one can obtain at his or her state Liaison office in Abuja?
Though I don't know your level of education and exposure but since You called it local government identification letter and you want to collect it in Abuja doesn't look responsible.
Who will identify you in ABUJA?
Do you think the fgn are foolish to introduce that system?
Its only a thief that goes through the window, real indigenous people goes to their village to collect it.
Since Buhari called and treated Igbo's as 5%, his government has been an abysmal failure. There is no agency, ministry or parastatal under his government that has succeeded in anything.
They are so confused because the people he appointed more especially from Yoruba extraction are fantastic failures, sabotuers, incompetent, corrupt and very devisive ethnic bigots.
Imagine a government as confused as Buhari government, they can close the borders till the end of APC tyrannical rule. Who cares.
One thing is very obviously obvious in Nigeria. Any President that sideline the Igbos does not do well.
Check history.
Igbo's are usually a great catalyst to any government that recognises their importance.
Buhari and the North will commit suicide if they pick the next President by 2023 from the South West.
The North have seen for themselves the region that has the ability to move Nigeria forward in practicality and not in the media.
The truth is bitter but I advice every Nigerian to swallow this bitter pill.
Useless ESTABLISHMENT headed by foolish people. Imagine people even after 5-10 years of enrollment can not get their ID cards from such a wasted ESTABLISHMENT.
Buhari should change heads of such agencies not performing under his government.
Heartbrokengirl: I have always hated the idea of dating married people, but here I am...the ex-girlfriend of a married man.
It started sometime during the lockdown, I went somewhere to get groceries and ran into this man. Let’s call him Mr X. His smile and sense of humour was the attraction. He was putting on a nice senator material and when I stood for us to leave, he towered above me. I am a 6ft tall lady and ladies with my height can tell the happiness when you meet a taller man.
We started chatting regularly and we were in a competition to give ourselves treats. On our second date which I initiated, I asked his age and he replied 36, he asked mine and I told him. He expressed his doubts and I showed him my drivers license. Started asking many questions about my background and I answered all of them. I asked about him too, including his marital status.
I had just gotten out of a relationship, his father said he wouldn’t marry outside the Catholic church and he started drifting, I had to let him go. It was tough for me, but after months of keeping to myself, my friend encouraged me to go on dates and give another man a chance. I decided to give Mr X a chance.
It was beautiful. We were in a competition to please ourselves, take ourselves out and we both had a healthy sense of humour...chatting was fun!!! Everywhere we went, people stared. We were all over ourselves even in public and till date I wonder how he pulled that off.
One day his office had a party and he asked if I could come, I said yes. Got there and the guys were looking at me with lust, the ladies were looking at me with pity. He said the ladies were jealous of my looks and some of them have been crushing on him. If you see him and see me, you’ll understand why this explanation made little sense.
After the party that day, it was late to go back to my house and his house was farther, so we decided to book a hotel around. That night was our most intimate night. We kissed, he gave me leg massages, a head and said he is ready when I am ready. I was blown away. Could this be real?
I always noticed he would be lost in thoughts whenever we are together and blame it on work. Other times he will start feeling sick and I would have to close earlier to go give him food and drugs. This became a regular occurence until one day…
He had fallen sick as usual. I made him promise to take pain relievers and we should consider going to the hospital. He didn’t do this and I had to make out time within the week to go check on him. He said it is because he was missing me, how sweet!
He didn’t get better, it was obvious something was bothering him. I decided I will take him for lunch so we can talk about it, but he couldn’t wait. That night he said he has something to tell me, he kept apologizing but still couldn’t say it. He asked if he could send a voice note and I told him to go ahead.
At about 3mins into the voice note, I felt my world crumbling. He told me he was married and has been married for almost 10years with kids. His family was not in the country, that is why I never saw traces of them. He said he had been battling with the guilt and was scared to tell me because some other girl left when she found out and the last was with him for money. He knew I would leave and was scared, his best friend told him to give it time, another told him to ghost me but I have been good to him and his conscience won’t let him. Other friends said he should never mention it to me.
When my friend saw him, she told me he was going to hurt me. I asked her how and she said I was too innocent for him. She didn’t say further not to be termed hater, but since he made me happy again...she wished me well.
I kept replaying the audio while he kept asking me to say something. I wondered if he treated his wife the way he treated me. He was such a gentleman. Held my hands when I had to walk in heels, opened the car door for me, checked on me at work, gave me handmade customized gifts...he made them himself. He said his wife is bad and he wants divorce her, lolz. I told him they all say that. I told him how much he has hurt me, but I forgive him and appreciate him telling me when he did.
It has been almost 3months but the pain lingers. I know I will be fine…
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