₦airaland Forum

@ switch.
i have been trying all day to figure out what exactly you were trying to point out in the essay you just posted.
remember i did not say what he did was good, i only insisted that in times of troubles which everyone is prone to even you, your people is your last resort and if you chastise him with your left you bring him back with your right, but to be honest with you the way you in particular are taking this matter i am beginning to think that you have something personal with him
As i speak with you the young man has just hired a chauffeur (an English man)that carries him around WL. isn't this good riddance to bad rubbish?

@ meld rick
your comments to switch were harsh but come on you guys have a way of having fun and i like that.
But you know if everybody were to be Chelsea fans then football will be uninteresting

@ poster
Gerald pique is 6ft 3 and yaya toure is about that height too
henry is 6ft 2 and keita is also about that height.
so where on earth did you get that kind of information from?
check your records properly

the ans is Dimitar Berbatov 30.75 million pounds

what i fail to understand is why Nigerians will not stand behind they own when there is a little problem.
how i wish you know how much respect and admiration Mikel gets here in the US and you guy back in Nigeria(whether man utd fans or Chelsea fans) you spend your time and money casting aspersions on the young man.
I can give you a list of other internationals involved in some mess and you don't get to hear it.

@switch47,
Are you resident in England? (WL)
if yes then i can help you secure a job in CFC cause you will do well as a Chelsea critic cause that post has been vacant for a while and i mean every little word i have just spoken.

Please how much is kia rio because they look alike and i think its better.

My broda i wish you well but i will have to drift away from what every other persons have been saying.
you see those of us already abroad doing our masters are not finding it very funny.
let me give you details
before the global credit crunch there were jobs for graduate students (both studentship and assistantship placements) and from it you could make some savings at least, but now those jobs and even menial jobs are now restricted to only citizens. also the cost of renewal of visa for foreign students have increased with over 600%. this are all strategies to make sure that foreigners return to their home countries.
Back here in Nigeria, there are no jobs at all, those who have jobs are trying to secure it and those who don't have are seriously hoping to get one.
if you ask me i will advice you to defer your admission since you are under the auspices of your parents. get more experience in the work you have there in Nigeria for like a year and hopefully the economy would have stabilized a little before you travel for your masters. once again i wish you well in whatever decision you finally resort to. one love.

I feel that your 3year old relationship is too long to let go cause of such a trivial issue. you stated in your post that he has cheated on you before and you guys worked it out. i will suggest that you also work this out.
all those girls telling you to move on will run head over heels at your guy if he smiles at them, believe me.
so if you feel that the guy is yours then go get him.

gabrywyl:
Period or no period. We still fit do our pre-intimacy but no touch the toto area for sure.

What is that?

Very pathetic story i must confess and my sincere condolence as well, but saying that you will have nothing to do with other men might not just be the right solution to your problems.
i think what you should do like some other nairalanders have already said is to confront him with the issue, although he will deny it outright (believe me) so that he will also treat himself, get proper treatment and subsequently get tested in 2 0r 3 clinics to confirm that you are alright and then move on. you sound to me like a brave woman so keep it up and God's grace.

@ poster,
you are just 18 and way too immature for things like that, my advice to you is 1st of all write and pass JAMB and the likes, get into a serious university and study before you talk of women .
the fact fact that you get so scared to talk to them just makes your immaturity so obvious

i think she would be a lot better if she was a little taller,  am 6ft 2"  if you know what i mean

And who says Nigerians don't have access to guns?
Well if one needs a gun one can get it so long as it is registered with the Nigerian police and it is for a legit reason. i remember well in those days i was always applying for a renewal of license for my Dads double barrel

also i think the chances and policies for admission in the US will soon be reviewed in favour of the black esp now that there is a black as the American president, or what do you think.

@ poster,
so where do you want her to take you to? shrine?

earTHMama:
Are you gay?

certainly not. and i can prove that to you any day any time.
i stay in Virginia beach, can we hook up?

@ poster
yes i have, they don't come easy

gem87:
Am not quite sure why the ladies in the house are
keeping quiet, surely you don't agree with all that?
In my opinion, this is pure BULLSHIT!
pardon my language but the whole jealousy thing
then 'am i fat' and 'i'm the sexiest of them all'
where the hell did u get this from?
[/b]i disagree with just about everyone of them
You seem to forget that one's [b]personality
comes to bear on their self perception and esteem
I for one do not have a jealous streak in me!

i think you are saying the direct opposite. and why are you trying to buy other ladies to your side. for me i think your personality and self perception/esteem are two opposing figures

some issues are better not discussed.
@ poster, please look for something more constructive, i mean this with every sense of respect.

I think a picture of oshodi before and after the demolition would have helped those of us who do not stay around. however, judging by the stories i have heard about lagos and oshodi in particular, then Fashola is sure doing a good job, but he should also provide an alternative means for tha affected ones

amaikama:
this is a simple case! i really don't know why you all have to speak big! big!! story to twist someone's head. if a girl is forcing her self on a guy, he should take it as a national cake she is offering you. just keep on banging that her thing real hard and while you are it, tell her sweet words like i really don't love youoo! so make your head no swell.

do that for some time, the girl won't border you again for life.

go for HIV test and advice.
@ poster. STOP FLATTERING YOURSELF

@ poster, you are the latest fool in the new year. you want to give her VVF right?
if it was your sister that confinded in you that a guy of your age wants to sleep with her, what will you do?

i think the 1st step is to work on your grammar and then MOVE ON

common sense they say is not common,
since you could not control your dick while you were acting as fada xmas, face it (as you were buying her all you said you did, so you could not buy yourself a piece of condom?) small boy.

Most especially the prostitute who I had screwed without condoms.Some with their private stinking like rotten magotty cheese.
men God has given a 2nd chance, it will either make you or mar you.best of luck as you make that decision